luminouz:

Then u best be a beta male!!

Is it such a bad thing? They are awesome.Outside the fact that M is not good in the sack,he is the best man ever.

Ghostgambler:

I think I need sm1 like Mrsthang's

Careful what you wish for.

Sometimes,it takes the right person to make us what we think we are not.

If you open your mind up to a lot of possibilities and refuse to be defined by what society says males must be,you will be in for a real treat if you find the right partner.

Cheers!

mrsthang:


Is it such a bad thing? They are awesome.Outside the fact that M is not good in the sack,he is the best man ever.

Lol..mrsthang of laive!
How u doing

It depends on what u mean by ur definition of beta male....I'm not amused by a woman 'commanding' me to get between her legs to suck her off(i fuvking dont need to be told..amma svck her so hard,she goan die like 7 times) or yelling at me to do this or that cuz she is in control!!!! I'm not opposed to a woman taking charge during sex(at least I can conserve my strength,the night is still young ) but being in control all the time sounds weird and being commanded or made to feel like I'm the woman irks me....I'm the man FFS!!!

But here is the conundrum... Ion look like an Alpha Male physically, I have soft baby boy looks(even with my beards) and soft golden-ringed brown eyes that melt the ladies' hearts,so I look like I wanna please u all the time. Its all a lie o....those eyes can turn harder than a diamond in a blink and my countenance when angry has been described by my mom as a tiger's!! I dont ever kowtow or act like a pussy to please anyone....So I'm an alpha,who looks like a Beta....

N Women like that....cuz I'm an interesting mix,a hybrid of possibilities... Mysterious and dangerous at once!!!

Finally,it boils down to who u want... There are alphas that are as good as M!!! Dont u think

luminouz:
Mrsthang...mrsthang...mrsthang..
I hadda mention u here cuz I couldn't comment in your diary....I must confess your story was one of the most intoxicating for me this year...the physical and internal struggles,the constant itch eating away at you,the mental strength needed to keep a veil of innocence to the world and M show u are a strong woman.

Isn't it an irony of life that u can't always get what u want?? U have a good job others don't have,cute kids,a loving husband and a good life but the sex life is not up to par?? Yet I don't have all these things u possess and women run from me cuz according to them,I'm a sex monster. Or else how do u explain going on 5-8 rounds overnight (10pm - 5am) almost everyday,with quickies in the afternoon?? Got to a point,one of the girls ran away from me...screaming 'my pūssy is peppering me ooo'. I was embarrassed... I look soft as liquid soap but I'm highly sexed and now I fear I may never meet a woman to satusfy me sexually.. I always seem to burn with this sexual energy especially if I love or Care about the girl.

I realised in life that we can't have it all...n reading ur stories made me see that! The temptations to let go and just turn badass might seem overwhelming but I'm glad u never gave in to that...but I won't lie to you when I say this...u love M but sexually ur superior to him...as a man ages,his libido only weakens slightly while a woman's goes south drastically,for M to tell u he is waning means he really is and years from now,unless u try sex boosters or enhancers, he may just be touching u once or twice a week...that's when the real test begins..because ur libido keeps climbing while his keeps reducing..there is an imbalance. I hope u retain the strength and ur love for ur family is enough to help u go against ur demons when the come and trust me,they will!!!

Once again,life ain't fair....imagine if i was M in ur life,either one or both of us will have landed in the hospital or the kids would be using us as term paper topics,lol.u would have been the happiest woman in the world but who knows maybe I would be a lazy mudafucker who is good for sex alone or be bad in some other aspects...truth is no one has it all, and thats our failure as humans. Ur a very lively and naughty woman from ur stories, so full of sexual energy, witty and 100 shades of grey.. Ur M is a laid back man who considers most of that a bore,he always shoots straight. But we love who we love right N men would always be coming for you but the good news is most of them being Alpha (which u don't like) might scoff at the idea of u being in control so at least u can safely reject some but the Beta males are the problem..I'm not as old as you but i have seen a lot of married women who despite loving their husbands have affairs becuz they have itches that just won't go away especially when men they like come along...Humans are a bunch of wants and needs and promises and hopes and dreams and it feels so cool to let go once in a while...n that's now ur battle n war..

So as we enter 2019, i wish u good fortune in the wars to come...u will surely need it

One love!!!

No study shows female libido increases with age.

Mrsthang

Finelinks:


No study shows female libido increases with age.

Mrsthang

I think it was a typo,lol

luminouz:

Lol..mrsthang of laive!
How u doing

It depends on what u mean by ur definition of beta male....I'm not amused by a woman 'commanding' me to get between her legs to suck her off(i fuvking dont need to be told..amma svck her so hard,she goan die like 7 times) or yelling at me to do this or that cuz she is in control!!!! I'm not opposed to a woman taking charge during sex(at least I can conserve my strength,the night is still young ) but being in control all the time sounds weird and being commanded or made to feel like I'm the woman irks me....I'm the man FFS!!!

But here is the conundrum... Ion look like an Alpha Male physically, I have soft baby boy looks(even with my beards) and soft golden-ringed brown eyes that melt the ladies' hearts,so I look like I wanna please u all the time. Its all a lie o....those eyes can turn harder than a diamond in a blink and my countenance when angry has been described by my mom as a tiger's!! I dont ever kowtow or act like a pussy to please anyone....So I'm an alpha,who looks like a Beta....

N Women like that....cuz I'm an interesting mix,a hybrid of possibilities... Mysterious and dangerous at once!!!

Finally,it boils down to who u want... There are alphas that are as good as M!!! Dont u think

When a woman is on control,doesn't mean she's barking orders like a dog.

I'm sure there are nice alpha males and there are lots of females who would appreciate them and find them interesting.

To be honest,I think life is in phases and the journey to self discovery could lead us to things we haven't imagined.

Humans are too complex...

In all,being happy is the goal or at least some form of contentment.

mrsthang:


When a woman is on control,doesn't mean she's barking orders like a dog.

I'm sure there are nice alpha males and there are lots of females who would appreciate them and find them interesting.

To be honest,I think life is in phases and the journey to self discovery could lead us to things we haven't imagined.

Humans are too complex...

In all,being happy is the goal or at least some form of contentment.

I agree with you

Seems u got ursef an admirer (that guy up there wishing he had a girl like u)

luminouz:



I agree with you

Seems u got ursef an admirer (that guy up there wishing he had a girl like u)

Lol,stop looking for trouble abeg.
I will hunt my meat when and if i choose to

mrsthang:


Lol,stop looking for trouble abeg.
I will hunt my meat when and if i choose to

Lmaoooo
YES MA!!!

mrsthang:


Lol,stop looking for trouble abeg.
I will hunt my meat when and if i choose to

This comment right here !!!

luminouz:

Lmaoooo
YES MA!!!

Very funny.

mrsthang:


Very funny.

Nice update Mrsthang!!!
Reorienting the sexual energy into career advancement makes sense!!

N to ur last question:

Hello mrsthang, tell me how to make a gazillion dollars!!!!

luminouz:

Nice update Mrsthang!!!
Reorienting the sexual energy into career advancement makes sense!!

N to ur last question:

Hello mrsthang, tell me how to make a gazillion dollars!!!!

Hello Luminouz,

Lol,let's see how that goes.Im pretty sure I'll be back ranting soon.

For the gazillion dollars,I wish I know the answer to that one.

If I did ehhhh,M would stop working immediately.

He deserves a life of luxury and being pampered

mrsthang:


Hello Luminouz,

Lol,let's see how that goes.Im pretty sure I'll be back ranting soon.

For the gazillion dollars,I wish I know the answer to that one.

If I did ehhhh,M would stop working immediately.

He deserves a life of luxury and being pampered

Lmaooo@ranting soon.... Let's keep our fingers crossed o...

Lol@M...yes he does...so do I!!! But I won't sell pants or do yahoo yahoo to get it!!!! Clean,legit hustle all the way!!

Happy Valentine to u n ur family!!!

luminouz:


Lmaooo@ranting soon.... Let's keep our fingers crossed o...

Lol@M...yes he does...so do I!!! But I won't sell pants or do yahoo yahoo to get it!!!! Clean,legit hustle all the way!!

Happy Valentine to u n ur family!!!

Yes,legit all the way.
Happy belated valentine to you and yours.

mrsthang:


Yes,legit all the way.
Happy belated valentine to you and yours.

Thanks..
Saw ur last post....
Dem legs ain't bad at all!!!!

luminouz:

Thanks..
Saw ur last post....
Dem legs ain't bad at all!!!!

Lol,cheers!
I hope you have a good week ahead.

mrsthang:



Lol,cheers!
I hope you have a good week ahead.

U too ma'am



Lol...ur last sexscapade had me lmaoooo.....u could have easily injured ursef u know
I think u cried because of two things: u felt it could affect M if he finds out and ur not satisfied (not reaching climax).....
I've heard some girls behave that way too after seeing alert,lol. I dont feel same... But I dont like seeing my account balance dwindling either...so its good for my heartbeat!!!

Mr Z is coming on Strong, dont u think?
Or are u........??

luminouz:


U too ma'am



Lol...ur last sexscapade had me lmaoooo.....u could have easily injured ursef u know
I think u cried because of two things: u felt it could affect M if he finds out and ur not satisfied (not reaching climax).....
I've heard some girls behave that way too after seeing alert,lol. I dont feel same... But I dont like seeing my account balance dwindling either...so its good for my heartbeat!!!

Mr Z is coming on Strong, dont u think?
Or are u........??

Lol,I've refused to examine some of my actions this year, I just want to live..if I cry fine,if I don't cry fine.

Yes ooo payday dries tears ..I never used to like money but since the end of last year,I realised how wonderful it can be and I've resolved to find it and spend it.Life is too short abeg.. Once it's clean legit cash,I will swim in it if I have a chance.

Mr Z ..he's not worse than the ones before him. i'm making excuses for him because I genuinely think he's a great guy and I also feel this is a phase that will pass. He will get tired,all I need to do is stay neutral and wait it out.

If I manage this,I'll have a friend who will always have my back at work.This is more valuable to me than a romp which may or may not even be worth my precious time.

Have a good day today.

mrsthang:


Lol,I've refused to examine some of my actions this year, I just want to live..if I cry fine,if I don't cry fine.

Yes ooo payday dries tears ..I never used to like money but since the end of last year,I realised how wonderful it can be and I've resolved to find it and spend it.Life is too short abeg.. Once it's clean legit cash,I will swim in it if I have a chance.

Mr Z ..he's not worse than the ones before him. i'm making excuses for him because I genuinely think he's a great guy and I also feel this is a phase that will pass. He will get tired,all I need to do is stay neutral and wait it out.

If I manage this,I'll have a friend who will always have my back at work.This is more valuable to me than a romp which may or may not even be worth my precious time.

Have a good day today.

Very nice analysis!!!
Have a good day too

luminouz:
Mrsthang...mrsthang...mrsthang..

Isn't it an irony of life that u can't always get what u want?? U have a good job others don't have,cute kids,a loving husband and a good life but the sex life is not up to par?? Yet I don't have all these things u possess and women run from me cuz according to them,I'm a sex monster. Or else how do u explain going on 5-8 rounds overnight (10pm - 5am) almost everyday,with quickies in the afternoon?? Got to a point,one of the girls ran away from me...screaming 'my pūssy is peppering me ooo'. I was embarrassed... I look soft as liquid soap but I'm highly sexed and now I fear I may never meet a woman to satusfy me sexually.. I always seem to burn with this sexual energy especially if I love or Care about the girl.

One love!!!

But bro, how come you have this kind of sexual strength and energy, is it talent or a skill.

Ains:

But bro, how come you have this kind of sexual strength and energy, is it talent or a skill.

Maybe talent...cuz the energy wasn't learned. I just have it,so long I like the babe....
But if I dont like the girl,if she fine pass agbani darego,I won't even be aroused!!

luminouz:


Maybe talent...cuz the energy wasn't learned. I just have it,so long I like the babe....
But if I dont like the girl,if she fine pass agbani darego,I won't even be aroused!!

I hail bro..

Ains:

I hail bro..

Na me hail u pass baba

@mrsthang...
How ya doing
Ur post today had me guffawing...where did u get em wild imaginations from?? Especially on the if M dies part(God forbid) and ur sexual choices afterwards,from Older men to younger men and paying a guy to fvck while u watch and do ur thing!! if you put some will into it,u could be a great writer!!

Lol,so u now run from M when he initiates Seems u love doing the chasing,the thrill and feel get ur juices flowing, seeing a man in that position kinda cools ur ardour...its strange u know,cuz men are the ones wired by culture from birth to chase women. If you had been a guy, u would be a sex god or something lol, u have so many traits I can relate with... If I didn't know better,I would have said its a man under that moniker of urs. I hope M stops it soon so u can get back to the status quo ... I suspect if he continues,u might lose interest in sex sef and he will feel veeeerryyyy weird..Believe me when I tell u this,I think he is starting to improve on the sex thing, Hell,dude might even be feeling some upsurge of testoterones right now and he is feeling like his early 20's again. But the irony of life is this,the more you chase,the more the other party withdraws. Remember how mundane u think guys who disturb u incessantly with calls or text or mails or shiit ARE?? ME TOO!(from girls I mean). The thrill ain't there no more. Fvcked, if you ask me.

That Vibrator is still alive?? I was hoping it would have exploded or something... First time I'm seeing one dou. Noisy little snitch if you get my drift. Nice manicured nails.
Lastly,the song u dropped is 'just there' for me...have u tried Tank's album(SEX,LOVE AND PAIN). its got cool tracks...

N.B...Seems peeps are starting to consider ur plea for zero post likes...You mentioned caramelo...u in the country recently

luminouz:
@mrsthang...

Lol,so u now run from M when he initiates Seems u love doing the chasing,the thrill and feel get ur juices flowing, seeing a man in that position kinda cools ur ardour...its strange u know,cuz men are the ones wired by culture from birth to chase women. If you had been a guy, u would be a sex god or something lol, u have so many traits I can relate with... If I didn't know better,I would have said its a man under that moniker of urs. I hope M stops it soon so u can get back to the status quo ... I suspect if he continues,u might lose interest in sex sef and he will feel veeeerryyyy weird..Believe me when I tell u this,I think he is starting to improve on the sex thing, Hell,dude might even be feeling some upsurge of testoterones right now and he is feeling like his early 20's again. But the irony of life is this,the more you chase,the more the other party withdraws. Remember how mundane u think guys who disturb u incessantly with calls or text or mails or shiit ARE?? ME TOO!(from girls I mean). The thrill ain't there no more. Fvcked, if you ask me.

That Vibrator is still alive?? I was hoping it would have exploded or something... First time I'm seeing one dou. Noisy little snitch if you get my drift. Nice manicured nails.
Lastly,the song u dropped is 'just there' for me...have u tried Tank's album(SEX,LOVE AND PAIN). its got cool tracks...

N.B...Seems peeps are starting to consider ur plea for zero post likes...You mentioned caramelo...u in the country recently

Lol,I am good.I hope you are fine too.

M and I talk about death quite a bit as it's important to know each others wishes and also plan for the children and their future just incase. He knows my thoughts on remarrying and my reasons so no shockers here.

Me run from M?? Where did I write that one? Only way I can run is if I'm extremely unwell or the se x has made me unconscious or so weak I cannot move (we all know that ain't happening )

I don't know about any testosterone surge o, nothing at all this week.

It's Z that was chasing and it started to grate on my nerves as he was just so full on despite all the rebuffing.

I think chasing should be tailored to individual.Some like it hot,some prefer a slow and steady burn.

It's more of a turn on when I'm in charge of the naarative shaa or at least partake in the chase,keeps things exciting..no real issue if the man does the leg work , as long as it's in a way that appeals to me and it's not a permanent thing.I shaa know at some point,I'll take over.

Shaa,im not in the game as per married fella so it's always a blank look like I don't know what's up.


It is interesting to read that you've considered that I'm a man.
Perhaps it's because you feel that naturally a woman isn't wired the way I am? There are lots of women this way,they probably don't talk about it.

Remember nature also dictates that we are all to be born with body parts in a particular order and yet you have people born without limbs,conjoined twins , haemaphrodites etc

Human behaviour is too complex to be boxed into black and white.

Lots of men are brought up to feel they should be in charge,lots of women brought up to feel they need to be submissive.

Some men are naturally mellow but stay in charge not because they want to but because they are expected to.

Some women pretend to be submissive because its what is expected

If we were in a world that let people just be who they are without mockery,we would all be in for a huge shock,lol.

Eg M has been conditioned already since birth to believe he has to be in charge but he naturally isn't wired this way

Sometimes,the societal expectations kick in and he wants to play the lead role.I understand that and I'm happy to sit back for a bit till he's back to factory setting.

There has never been any ambiguity about my behavioural leanings at all.

For someone in my type of situation,you will find a lot of compromise and middle ground but still,most of the time,things will tilt to how I want them.

If M didn't marry me,I'm sure he would have married someone with similar traits.I would have married a man with his traits as well.

It's cool if people find their own spec and stick to it and then let other people be without undermining their choices.


Few people are still liking my posts.I think they do it just because I dont want them to,not because they like or agree with what I've written.

My vi brator is alive and well o,haha..Noisy bugger but very effective.Im glad to have it,good stress reliever. People praying for it to explode are wicked �

The songs I put up are just a reflection of my headspace at that moment ..I will check out Tank again,thank you.

I was in Nigeria not too long. Yes,I went to Caramelo,not my kind of ambience but they had nice fish. M was very uncomfortable,too many hot chicks / prossies,it was interesting to watch him..I will probably visit there again to feed my eyes.

Hopefully,I don't get bundled away.

** I may be a man o!** Maybe my diary is all made up?

Cheers!

@mrsthang...
Nice replies there!!

I'm good jare,thanks..just naija hustle noni

I personally think its a case of opposites attract in many relationships... Personally I'm just too stubborn/opinionated to allow a woman to take charge. But I love a strong woman,adore them even. But a woman as stubborn as I'm will end up turning the house to Smackdown or Wrestlemania. . A good example of a strong woman is my mum. Her strength and will moulded us into better men. Dad is a bit laid back and soft. So u and M fitted perfectly.



On u being a man?? Guess I said that cuz I totally relate with the things you always say,they are things I would have said myself. Underneath that skin of yours are some serious testosterones o... . Some women are naturally like that, i think its more to do with intelligence and DNA rather than cultural upbringing but is it me or the ones I have seen don't even look feminine,too much glint and flint in their countenances. ?? So i usually see them and think oh-oh..this one is hard core
That Z guy Hmmmm...seems that guy just won't take gentle rebuffs or rebuttals but I guess if push comes to shove,u can always use pepper spray

Nothing this week?? u can put on a sexy lingerie and dance ZANKU for him when the kids are asleep,should boil up his testoterones .

I laughed at the caramelo scenario and M. U can't blame the man,fine girls are plenty for naija ooo, you will see some and wonder where they got their clean skins from...as in naija sun no dey ever touch them? .. Sha be careful with the men,dem no dey send wedding rings o and they can be so blatantly promiscuous.

Your post likers? I think they can't help themselves. Nairaland has conditioned a lot of people here to be 'likes' conscious. Lotta peeps post rubbish and say BS(especially when dissing or abusing someone) just to have some likes and soon enough you will observe the poster derailing deeper into intellectual murk and dirt...no sense again

Till I read your next post...try TANK and thank me later..

Adios amigo!!!

So mrsthang is back!!!

You just upped and left like that, thought you ain't coming back.


Nice update.

That vibrator stuff looks weird to me but then,what do I know?

luminouz:
So mrsthang is back!!!

You just upped and left like that, thought you ain't coming back.


Nice update.

That vibrator stuff looks weird to me but then,what do I know?

i like your story and i will be happy if you allow me to post it on my site and fb group.

waphub:

i like your story and i will be happy if you allow me to post it on my site and fb group.

Which story oooo?

If you're talking about the alien: galaxy at war story? I have almost finished the novel on it o... The NL version you want to post is unfinished.

Bro, are you not updating here again?? if yes, can you post the link to the novel when you are done or what's the plan ?

luminouz:

Which story oooo?

If you're talking about the alien: galaxy at war story? I have almost finished the novel on it o... The NL version you want to post is unfinished.

ok.can i post it