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Help Us Know You Better by Nobody: 6:17pm On Dec 07, 2019
Hello Guys, Welcome to my edition of 'Help us know you better' . Here would be a platform for guys to express their likes, needs, wants and what they seek for in a woman. It has been observed that over the years Men particularly Nigerian men have developed a form of grudge towards their women.There have been lot of complaints, rants and evolutions against their women and this forum is a solid evidence as it serves as an outlet for guys to pour out their minds.

Now, here would be an avenue for women/ladies to know where the shoe hurts and make amends to establish a loving and solid relationship. Guys tell us what you want us to know. smiley

To make this easy, it could come in form of question and answer, share experiences, write stories and so on.


Mynd44 smiley
Uncle Lefulefu grin
iamgrey5
Mrbrownjay
Funministicqueen
Pocohantas
Biglittlelois
Duggedised
theButterfly
Dandeeboss

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Heroclitus(m): 6:21pm On Dec 07, 2019
To be precise, what, what and what do they(guys) have to talk about
Re: Help Us Know You Better by Nobody: 6:24pm On Dec 07, 2019
Heroclitus:
To be precise, what, what and what do they(guys) have to talk about
Anything! you may start by helping us understand what you go through as a guy. smiley
Re: Help Us Know You Better by lilmax(m): 6:32pm On Dec 07, 2019
Ariza:
Hello Guys, Welcome to my edition of 'Help us know you better' . Here would be a platform for guys to express their likes, needs, wants and what they seek for in a woman. It has been observed that over the years Men particularly Nigerian men have developed a form of grudge towards their women.There have been lot of complaints, rants and evolutions against their women and this forum is a solid evidence as it serves as an outlet for guys to pour out their minds.

Now, here would be an avenue for women/ladies to know where the shoe hurts and make amends to establish a loving and solid relationship. Guys tell us what you want us to know. smiley

To make this easy, it could come in form of question and answer, share experiences, write stories and so on.


The audacity undecided

See wetin nairaland guys dey cause?

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by pocohantas(f): 6:34pm On Dec 07, 2019
They should keep ranting. As long as my guy hasn't joined, I am fine. tongue

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Nobody: 6:34pm On Dec 07, 2019
lilmax:
The audacity undecided

See wetin nairaland guys dey cause?
Keep it clean , serene and sane please.

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Preshy561(f): 6:35pm On Dec 07, 2019
pocohantas:
They should keep ranting. As long as my guy hasn't joined, I am fine grin
My dear, wetin concern agbero with over load.
grin

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Preshy561(f): 6:40pm On Dec 07, 2019
Ariza, I believe you are doing this out of boredom, if not, the opinion of these guys shoukdnt bother you cos it's a very different scenario in the real world. Btw, hope you are good?

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Iamgrey5(m): 6:51pm On Dec 07, 2019
We are just as unique as women are

We don't all want exactly the same thing in a woman.

I don't think you actually can adapt to what every other guy wants

However, like Uncle Seun told someone earlier this week; Find out what the guy you fancy really want and try adapt to his wants.

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by pocohantas(f): 6:57pm On Dec 07, 2019
Preshy561:

My dear, wetin concern agbero with over load.
grin

Nnem, lekwanum okoro o grin

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Nobody: 7:01pm On Dec 07, 2019
what i want? shocked shocked okay...
1:ukwu
2:know how to twerk the ukwu like like mercy or cardi b
3:sabi cook
4.sabi gbo gbo in za oza room cool
just these little tinzs and i will marry u cheesy cheesy and make u ma queen grin grin

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Preshy561(f): 7:02pm On Dec 07, 2019
pocohantas:


Nnem, lekwanum okoro o grin
Lol. Odiegwu nwanne. grin

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Nobody: 7:45pm On Dec 07, 2019
Preshy561:

My dear, wetin concern agbero with over load.
grin
pocohantas:
They should keep ranting. As long as my guy hasn't joined, I am fine. tongue
Relationship needs continuous efforts to build , who knows this thread may open your minds to where you are defaulting which your men may not want to tell you out of fear of losing or upsetting you, something that fades of immediately the knot is tied. Have you ever asked, 'baby is there something you would have loved me to do that I'm not doing? If No, please do and you will be shocked.

Perhaps, ,you have it all covered. Mind sharing ideas with other women as to what you do do that makes you irresistible, indispensable and spectacular. wink

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Nobody: 7:48pm On Dec 07, 2019
Preshy561:
Ariza, I believe you are doing this out of boredom, if not, the opinion of these guys shoukdnt bother you cos it's a very different scenario in the real world. Btw, hope you are good?
Maybe, maybe not. grin

I'm good, you?
Re: Help Us Know You Better by Nobody: 7:52pm On Dec 07, 2019
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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Preshy561(f): 7:55pm On Dec 07, 2019
Ariza:
Relationship needs continuous efforts to build , who knows this thread may open your minds to where you are defaulting which your men may not want to tell you out of fear of losing or upsetting you, something that fades of immediately the knot is tied. Have you ever asked, 'baby is there something you would have loved me to do that I'm not doing? If No, please do and you will be shocked.

Perhaps, ,you have it all covered. Mind sharing ideas with other women as to what you do do that makes you irresistible, indispensable and spectacular. wink
Nice one. I will ask him tonight. grin

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Preshy561(f): 7:56pm On Dec 07, 2019
Ariza:
Maybe, maybe not. grin

I'm good, you?
Lol. I see.
I'm gooder. grin
Re: Help Us Know You Better by Nobody: 8:10pm On Dec 07, 2019
I just want to love and be loved back. Not to be lied to. I get tired easily when you keep going on and on about same thing... it’s frustrating and energy draining.

You must get sense too lol. My sense never even reach me so I no fit share with another

Just be real, that’s major

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:19pm On Dec 07, 2019
I hold no grudges against most Nigerian ladies, I actually envision a relationship where partners do things together, call and text each other often, play like kids, hold intellectual conversations and arguments, help each other out, sit down and discuss (sort things out) when things go wrong.. A near-perfect relationship I must say devoid of cheats and wannabe feminists cheesycheesy

I dunno if you are interested in physical traits I want in a lady cheesycheesycheesy

Cc. Ariza

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by pocohantas(f): 9:07pm On Dec 07, 2019
Ariza:

Perhaps, ,you have it all covered. Mind sharing ideas with other women as to what you do do that makes you irresistible, indispensable and spectacular. wink

1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals cheesy
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill... grin

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Nobody: 10:13pm On Dec 07, 2019
pocohantas:


1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals cheesy
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill... grin

This is fantastic, I hope other ladies learn from you. smiley

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by pocohantas(f): 10:15pm On Dec 07, 2019
Ariza:
This is fantastic, I hope other ladies learn from you. smiley

Yea, I hope the guys learn from him too. He has sense.

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by CaptainMitch: 11:37pm On Dec 07, 2019
I like this I go share this with my next girl

pocohantas:


1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals cheesy
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill... grin

Re: Help Us Know You Better by StrikeBack(m): 11:41pm On Dec 07, 2019
You keep creating useless upon useless threads.

Do you have a working brain??

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by mumumugu(m): 12:00am On Dec 08, 2019
pocohantas:


1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals cheesy
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill... grin



research by me shows that you give him trouble when you feel neglected and you love make up sex...
Re: Help Us Know You Better by noCAP(m): 12:15am On Dec 08, 2019
pocohantas:


1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals cheesy
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill... grin

wow, you have an amazing personality. unlike some girls that their own is just to be demanding money and be expecting the guy to do all the lovey dovey stuff. I see why he hasn't joined them yet grin

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by khiaa(f): 1:20am On Dec 08, 2019
pocohantas:


1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals cheesy
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill... grin


Why number 4, intentionally making your partner miserable is not a good trait? Life and relationships are difficult enough without the need to purposely bring in strife. Be a good woman to your man by being honest and real with him, ie (leave the fakeness out *trouble*). He will appreciate you so much more.

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Randy100: 6:44am On Dec 08, 2019
pocohantas:


1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals cheesy
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill... grin

Super story.

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Dreiwizzy: 6:48am On Dec 08, 2019
Keep forming online, reality is real

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Nobody: 8:31am On Dec 08, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
I hold no grudges against most Nigerian ladies, I actually envision a relationship where partners do things together, call and text each other often, play like kids, hold intellectual conversations and arguments, help each other out, sit down and discuss (sort things out) when things go wrong.. A near-perfect relationship I must say devoid of cheats and wannabe feminists cheesycheesy

I dunno if you are interested in physical traits I want in a lady cheesycheesycheesy

Cc. Ariz a
I understand you, and I agree with your desire, that should be the basis of a relationship. And I hope your dream come true someday.

physical traits? what else if not boobs and bum? I maybe wrong though. cheesy
Re: Help Us Know You Better by Lonelypacifist6: 8:38am On Dec 08, 2019
Randy100:
Super story.
When a lady says they do 100 just know it's 25 the rest is over hyping.

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Re: Help Us Know You Better by Designerdollars: 8:44am On Dec 08, 2019
he will join them soon ijn tongue
pocohantas:
They should keep ranting. As long as my guy hasn't joined, I am fine. tongue

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