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British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by TheExecutioner: 10:50am On Dec 08, 2019
Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Lonelypacifist6: 12:02pm On Dec 08, 2019
Shouldn't this be in the religion section? or is it romance? or a bit of both Religimance grin Anyways if you aren't going to marry a lady just tell her not to expect it from the start of your relationship tell her it's just for fvcks, I'm currently in one of such arrangement right now and the said lady is beside on the same chair watching Afro music Station grin
Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by ncpat(m): 12:03pm On Dec 08, 2019
Hmmmm
Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by meobizy(f): 12:14pm On Dec 08, 2019
Ah, another woman forming victim at the end of a relationship. They can never accept rejection, a misfortune they dole onto men on the daily. She’ll go on her hands and knees begging the guy to accept her back in two months, highest a full year.

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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Tedpgrass: 1:00pm On Dec 08, 2019
meobizy:
Ah, another woman forming victim at the end of a relationship. They can never accept rejection, a misfortune they dole onto men on the daily. She’ll go on her hands and knees begging the guy to accept her back in two months, highest a full year.

I disagree

As much as some of our sistas have relationship "issues"....

That's different to deceit!!

Based on this narrative, apologies to the gentleman in question.... It would appear this was a sugar-coated FWB scenario!!


It baffles me in this day and age why men feel the need to play this game.. Not with all the available chicks out in town
Is it the thrill of the chase or sth
The thrill is not worth it... Not with the courts interested in the juicy details of when we "off" the pants!!



He's lucky she's not found a legal loophole to use on him.


Let's give an example....

A man was successfully prosecuted for obtaining sex by deceit..
A relationship via chance meeting on SM had started. At the onset, he mentioned having a vasectomy and by default no need for protection... I think what about STDs?
This claim of a vasectomy was refuted by the lady who claimed she needed to have a termination following a pregnancy sired by him.
There was no evidence on her part she wasn't sleeping with other men or that the fetus shared his DNA

To me this should not have gone to court as I wondered what law had been broken with proof


It did, she won and he got served with a sentence

So men, we better be careful!!



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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by drips8(m): 1:07pm On Dec 08, 2019
Most Asians are racists so I'm not surprised.

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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by LordKO(m): 1:11pm On Dec 08, 2019
Most Pakistani, Bangladeshi and Indian Muslim men that's their normal parole. You need to see how they wreck most advanced American women's life, except non-Caucasians, with their hypocritical disingenuousness.

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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by meobizy(f): 1:14pm On Dec 08, 2019
Tedpgrass:


I disagree

As much as some of our sistas have relationship "issues"....

That's different to deceit!!

Based on this narrative, apologies to the gentleman in question.... It would appear this was a sugar-coated FWB scenario!!


It baffles me in this day and age why men feel the need to play this game.. Not with all the available chicks out in town
Is it the thrill of the chase or sth
The thrill is not worth it... Not with the courts interested in the juicy details of when we "off" the pants!!



He's lucky she's not found a legal loophole to use on him.


Let's give an example....

A man was successfully prosecuted for obtaining sex by deceit..
A relationship via chance meeting on SM had started. At the onset, he mentioned having a vasectomy and by default no need for protection... I think what about STDs?
This claim of a vasectomy was refuted by the lady who claimed she needed to have a termination following a pregnancy sired by him.
There was no evidence on her part she wasn't sleeping with other men or that the fetus shared his DNA

To me this should not have gone to court as I wondered what law had been broken with proof


It did, she won and he got served with a sentence

So men, we better be careful!!



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She can’t accept the guy breaking up with her first. I’ve seen it happen many times in life.
Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Biglittlelois(f): 1:30pm On Dec 08, 2019
meobizy:
Ah, another woman forming victim at the end of a relationship. They can never accept rejection, a misfortune they dole onto men on the daily. She’ll go on her hands and knees begging the guy to accept her back in two months, highest a full year.


It is good to read, it is very good to read, it is highly very necessary for you to read comprehensively.

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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Tedpgrass: 1:40pm On Dec 08, 2019
meobizy:

She can’t accept the guy breaking up with her first. I’ve seen it happen many times in life.

Yeah I get that.
That's obviously led to her rant but the guy go don talk am from day 1 say... Nuffin nuffin ooo!!
Moreso for that kontri wey any small tin.. Police don enter!
U see where she call police for am, dey claim sexual abuse amongst other tins!!!

That's why black bois are seen as more rugged.

How many gals dey come talk dis ish wit black bros.. Very few.. As efryone know the scope as e dey go..
If e dey 2 much, make efryone sign contract and NDA!! angry cool

The girl go know say... U take it or leave it, nuffin spoil!!
1 waka go, 100 enter.. grin grin


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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Biglittlelois(f): 1:40pm On Dec 08, 2019
Tedpgrass:


I disagree

As much as some of our sistas have relationship "issues"....

That's different to deceit!!

Based on this narrative, apologies to the gentleman in question.... It would appear this was a sugar-coated FWB scenario!!


It baffles me in this day and age why men feel the need to play this game.. Not with all the available chicks out in town
Is it the thrill of the chase or sth
The thrill is not worth it... Not with the courts interested in the juicy details of when we "off" the pants!!



He's lucky she's not found a legal loophole to use on him.


Let's give an example....

A man was successfully prosecuted for obtaining sex by deceit..
A relationship via chance meeting on SM had started. At the onset, he mentioned having a vasectomy and by default no need for protection... I think what about STDs?
This claim of a vasectomy was refuted by the lady who claimed she needed to have a termination following a pregnancy sired by him.
There was no evidence on her part she wasn't sleeping with other men or that the fetus shared his DNA

To me this should not have gone to court as I wondered what law had been broken with proof


It did, she won and he got served with a sentence

So men, we better be careful!!



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Why shouldn't the woman have won, he claimed he did a vasectomy because he wanted to go in raw, but he lied, she got pregnant, isn't that sex by deceit? why did he lie in the first place? why didn't he just say what he wants and see if she's good with it? Are you saying the woman doesn't know who made her pregnant, then would go through all the process of court for no reason? You guys should always analyse things on a neutral perspective, it is not a difficult thing to do.

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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by meobizy(f): 1:47pm On Dec 08, 2019
Biglittlelois:



It is good to read, it is very good to read, it is highly very necessary for you to read comprehensively.
She can’t accept the guy breaking up with her first. I’ve seen it happen many times in life.
Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Tedpgrass: 1:49pm On Dec 08, 2019
LordKO:
Most Pakistani, Bangladeshi and Indian Muslim men that's their normal parole. You need to see how they wreck most advanced American women's life, except non-Caucasians, with their hypocritical disingenuousness.

People need to step up...

I find it quite interesting that a well educated, highly achieving person, mostly women, will wear their hearts on sleeves and not protect themselves...

Who does that? In this day and age??

Get your team of lawyers, accountants, lifestyle gurus or whatever you have to get that extra measure of protection.....and not be falsely reassured by the "female privilege".


You are of a certain means, worked your ish off to be a (very) high networth individual.......
Not largesse of previous husbands or drippings of daddy......

and then walk into a relationship without a pre-nup, post-nup and all-the-stages nup.... You're a sitting target!!!



Anyway, wetin I know..
Make I waka!



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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Biglittlelois(f): 1:51pm On Dec 08, 2019
meobizy:

She can’t accept the guy breaking up with her first. I’ve seen it happen many times in life.


If you didn't read where she was racially abused and violence, causing her PTSD, then you have a problem.

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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Biglittlelois(f): 1:54pm On Dec 08, 2019
Tedpgrass:


People need to step up...

I find it quite interesting that a well educated, highly achieving person, mostly women, will wear their hearts on sleeves and not protect themselves...

Who does that? In this day and age??

Get your team of lawyers, accountants, lifestyle gurus or whatever you have to get that extra measure of protection.....and not be falsely reassured by the "female privilege".


You are of a certain means, worked your ish off to be a (very) high networth individual.......
Not largesse of previous husbands or drippings of daddy......

and walk into a relationship without a pre-nup, post-nup and all-the-stages nup.... You're a sitting target!!!



Anyway, wetin I know..
Make I waka!



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Are we talking about this thread in particular or you just like to gloat about women generally?

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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Tedpgrass: 1:54pm On Dec 08, 2019
Biglittlelois:



Why shouldn't the woman have won, he claimed he did a vasectomy because he wanted to go in raw, but he lied, she got pregnant, isn't that sex by deceit? why did he lie in the first place? why didn't he just say what he wants and see if she's good with it? Are you saying the woman doesn't know who made her pregnant, then would go through all the process of court for no reason? You guys should always analyse things on a neutral perspective, it is not a difficult thing to do.

Madam..
I'm not arguing as to the position of the law regarding deceit..

I'm simply asking for the evidence linking her 6week pregnancy to him..

That was the clincher in the case for me..
The chap's lawyer was either a waste of space or a mole, imho!!
The fine details of this case are not available to me, so I will make careful assumptions.


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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Biglittlelois(f): 1:57pm On Dec 08, 2019
Tedpgrass:


Madam..
I'm not arguing as to the position of the law regarding deceit..

I'm simply asking for the evidence linking her 6week pregnancy to him..

That was the clincher in the case for me..
The chap's lawyer was either a waste of space or a mole, imho!!
The fine details of this case are not available to me, so I will make careful assumptions.


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Exactly, the fine details of the case is not available to you, but you still assumed that she shouldn't have won, don't you think the judge who ruled in favour of her would have been convinced without a reasonable doubt that the man was deceitful?

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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Suprnova: 1:58pm On Dec 08, 2019
It is a very widely held belief that Asians are very culturally closed. Also islam as practiced is very intolerant. It is sad that women do not research cultures before they commit their hearts to men

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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Tedpgrass: 2:03pm On Dec 08, 2019
Biglittlelois:



Are we talking about this thread in particular or you just like to gloat about women generally?


This is Not gloating..
I'll say this to both men and women.

Most high networth men, by reason of association or their management team involvement, know to walk around with pre-nups, NDAs constantly.. Its like a pen or phone of sorts

It would appear that women in similar situations often fighting to remain relevant in that corporate boardroom, forget those attributes in matters that relate to the heart.

It could be a society, religious or culture default malfunction..

Examples abound... You often hear about submissive wives blah blah. But submission isn't stupidity.
As a woman you just need to draw the line effectively, clearly and without any disingenuity.




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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Allen102: 2:04pm On Dec 08, 2019
Crap. She's just pained the Pakistan dude reject her black ass.

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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Tedpgrass: 2:05pm On Dec 08, 2019
Biglittlelois:



Exactly, the fine details of the case is not available to you, but you still assumed that she shouldn't have won, don't you think the judge who ruled in favour of her would have been convinced without a reasonable doubt that the man was deceitful?

If his legal defense was non-existent which shone through via the article... She would have won without a sweat!!


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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by meobizy(f): 2:28pm On Dec 08, 2019
Biglittlelois:



If you didn't read where she was racially abused and violence, causing her PTSD, then you have a problem.
Yet she continued with the relationship. She is only angry he broke up first.
Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by Gudiza(m): 3:23pm On Dec 08, 2019
someone who doesn't know herself. He obviously took her for a slave.
What happens to people who refuse to appreciate themselves.
How can that be shocking behaviour coming from muslims?
Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by TheExecutioner: 4:02pm On Dec 08, 2019
Meobizy is a MOOSLIM just like the guy in the story. They actually take pride in doing this sort of thing.
Anyone who has read islamic scriptures knows that women who are unbelievers are expected to be treated as garbage by MOOSLIM men.

Biglittlelois:



If you didn't read where she was racially abused and violence, causing her PTSD, then you have a problem.

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Re: British/nigerian Woman Dumped By Pakistani Asks This Question by meobizy(f): 4:09pm On Dec 08, 2019
TheExecutioner:
Meobizy is a MOOSLIM just like the guy in the story. They actually take pride in doing this sort of thing.
Anyone who has read islamic scriptures knows that women who are unbelievers are expected to be treated as garbage by MOOSLIM men.

Okay. At first I thought MOOSLIM was another user ID.

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