U can come here and jugde me as u want. I can't look down on my fellow woman predicament. Because I came from TTC thread as well, I contributed and I received alot from dat very forum. I equally know what we women are passing through everyday.


D lady in question is AS while her husband is AS too and she also complain about his sperm not been in good shape. Which I sald dat is a big problem dat she is d only person dat can advise herself. I know very well dat As and As is something serious.

Which everyone was against me and wat I said. I apologise mayb because of wrong chioce of words. I have apologise over and and over even though things are better left unsaid. if their is way I can retrieve those comments I can still do dat.


I now made up my mind that I will not comments on TTC thread again.


But for someone to come here and remind me of my mistake is wat I cannot take

Bluefin:


This is the original question you should have asked before you began to throw curses and abuses at me in your language(which doesn’t move me because I don’t understand it)

But I’m done with this topic and will continue to watch the comments that you type on this forum to ensure that you do hurt anyone like you did yesterday to the lady on the TTC thread. Please I have work and will not be addressing this subject any longer.

@Ma'am Bluefin, please let forget what happened @TTC forum.

Mummy4life1:
@Ma'am tyhgfrdeswscbhf: You've given your advise and I don't think telling pregnant women stupid is okay. Please, we need to be praying for the Ma'am and baby based on the prayer points shared not attacking each other.

Please Ma'am we need to love each other

I know I must have done something or say something wrong but she coming here to attack me, remind me and monitor me got me really angry

tyhgfrdeswscbhf:


I know I must have done something wrong but she coming to attack me and monitor got me angry because.

@Ma'am tyhgfrdeswscbhf, I was surprised when she said your advise was not okay @TTC forum because your advises help me a lot. I even called you if you still remember, you advised me on something's.

Please Ma'am we should learn how to control our anger because using abusive words is not good.

Abeg e don do oh! Who are the trouble makers liking these posts?

chiefboomite204:


mama, what is HMO?... I asked about neonatal here I was told the baby is very small at 26 weeks to survive... my prayer now is for the water not to burst but was told that the membrane is bulging

I have seen babies at that age survive in Lily hospital. When stable please go to Iily hospital Benin or Warri. ..

It shall end in praise

We bless God ohhh.

Thank you mama.

BTW, are you my teamie�‍♀️�‍♀️�‍♀️

zaynie:



Before I stone you this slippers, first let me give you a warm and squishy hug!
Congratulations!!!!!!!!
Wow!
Isn't God wonderful?!

Itissettled3:
We bless God ohhh.

Thank you mama.

BTW, are you my teamie�‍♀️�‍♀️�‍♀️

Lmao....ds ur question go gv Zaynie nightmares o

thanks

jazzyjazz:
BIRTH STORY

BEAR WITH ME IT IS ACTUALLY A LONG BS

Baby was born on the 16th of November 2019 weighing 2.6kg.
Birth story dropped

Boot has been hung and the key has been thrown into the Pacific Ocean!!!

Wishing the remaining preggy mamas a safe delivery

A big congratulations to you sis.

chiefboomite204:



Thanks Ma.... I heard about Lily and faith mediplex but we don't have the means... I am still hopeful here and praying as well for the bulging membrane not to rupture for now... thou I am on bed rest here and they were giving options of two to three weeks .... I don't know if my body can stay till then... And when I told them, my last menstrual cycle June 3rd ,they told me I should be 27 weeks 1 day today.... I just need prayer now and things to do to help myself for now so as for this water not to burst cos I was made to understand that cervical cerclage cannot be done again...

Ma'am, I've a strong believe that your body will take the treatment and the water will not burst. A lot of Ma'am experience contraction during the nine month wait and all the experiences turn to BS today. Please take enough water and my entire family still prayed for you today

chiefboomite204:



Thanks Ma.... I heard about Lily and faith mediplex but we don't have the means... I am still hopeful here and praying as well for the bulging membrane not to rupture for now... thou I am on bed rest here and they were giving options of two to three weeks .... I don't know if my body can stay till then... And when I told them, my last menstrual cycle June 3rd ,they told me I should be 27 weeks 1 day today.... I just need prayer now and things to do to help myself for now so as for this water not to burst cos I was made to understand that cervical cerclage cannot be done again...

Have you started the water therapy?
https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/how-to-increase-amniotic-fluid
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/12698777/

chiefboomite204:



Thanks Ma.... I heard about Lily and faith mediplex but we don't have the means... I am still hopeful here and praying as well for the bulging membrane not to rupture for now... thou I am on bed rest here and they were giving options of two to three weeks .... I don't know if my body can stay till then... And when I told them, my last menstrual cycle June 3rd ,they told me I should be 27 weeks 1 day today.... I just need prayer now and things to do to help myself for now so as for this water not to burst cos I was made to understand that cervical cerclage cannot be done again...

Mama you are almost there. Few days to 28 weeks, I believe you will make it. Please make sure you are given iv for infection. I have read alot of stories of people whose baby stayed after bulging membranes ( check incompetent cervix suport group pregnancy related on facebook) . Make sure you legs are raised up. I am praying for you. I believe you will be okay.

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Mothers, this is a long read but I need your advise. I'm 35 weeks gone and still confused about a birth plan. I had my first via emergency vs because when my water came it was meconium stained, He also changed from cephalic to transverse. Had to eventually insist on being sectioned because the Dr started inducing me and my water which was meconium stained broke over 12hrs. When he came out, he had cord round the neck, waist and lower limbs. I was grateful I took the decision. He still needed Oxygen briefly and we were also delayed in the hospital because sepsis was queried. Post CS recovery was fast for me. I was up and about 2days post op and if I didn't tell you on my naming you wouldn't know....... Here's the thing. Baby 2 will be here 2.5years post OP. I am a good candidate for a VBAC. My stomach is weird already. I mean I got giant stretch marks from my first and a bikini cs scar. Should I just go for elective this time or try VBAC. What if I tear in the Vagina? Will sex feel the same?I need to resume work on time cos my company products that has been out of stock will be back. I don't necessarily have to leave my house to work but once or twice a week will do. I've been really sold on elective before now but I know cs is a major surgery. I will not feel incompetent as a mother if I do it because the award is having a healthy child. I'm so confused!!! We have people birth vaginally without complications too. What if I'm one of them? If you were me, what will you do? I need to make up my mind before Monday.

chiefboomite204:



Thanks mama, you have given me another hope... I am checking it right away

It's a private group so some questions will be asked before you are accepted. Let me know if you can't answer some of the questions. The group is really encouraging. You can ask questions and other women will tell you how theirs was managed.

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chiefboomite204:




I am actually scare of taking water now... cos of the peeling in other for the water not to burst... honestly mama's I am very happy for everyone been with me at this stage...

May God protect you and your baby. We shall hear only the testimony of your success by His Grace. Remain positive dear.

Modified -I don tire to talk
May we all carry to term in Jesus name.

Moaba:
Mothers, this is a long read but I need your advise. I need to make up my mind before Monday.

I swear if I were you, I would just do elective cs jeje. VBAC sounds great but remember it could still go either ways. If you choose to have VD, tears/episiotomy are fairly common and you will heal up nicely with sitz baths( I never did this for two of my kids). Personally sex became better after my first baby and I had a tear oh.

But for peace of mind, I would strongly advice you do cs. Book a date and have your baby. In all trust your body and pls make arrangements for a help or nanny cos this mum of 2 lifestyle is something else.

G

Moaba:
Mothers, this is a long read but I need your advise. . Baby 2 will be here 2.5years post OP. I am a good candidate for a VBAC. Should I just go for elective this time or try VBAC. What if I tear in the Vagina? Will sex feel the same?We have people birth vaginally without complications too. What if I'm one of them? If you were me, what will you do? I need to make up my mind before Monday.

Take a deep breath mama....

You do not have to feed your fears.
Let’s say you try VBAC and get a tear, there’s nothing to fear cos you get stitched (I trust your doc is good in this regard and doesn’t do a shabby job). I have friends who said sex (and ultimately the Big O) felt better after having their babies vaginally while some said it hurt like it was their first time.

No two pregnancies or deliveries are the same. You may have an easier delivery experience this time if you eventually decide to try VBAC...(no need to think sideways)

For CS, you need to check your support system, will on hands be on deck for you? The first time, it was just you but this time, you’re healing, nursing a newborn and handling a toddler. If you’ll have help and won’t have anything delaying your recovery, you can give this a shot.

I have friends who had their first babies through elective CS and never tried VBAC

Ultimately, the decision rests on you. Do whatever feels right to you or you feel you can handle. Assuage your fears and everything will turn out just fine

Healthy mama and baby is the goal.

I should have just read your reply and concurred instead of the epistle I wrote up there

rvpbae:


I swear if I were you, I would just do elective cs jeje. VBAC sounds great but remember it could still go either ways. If you choose to have VD, tears/episiotomy are fairly common and you will heal up nicely with sitz baths( I never did this for two of my kids). Personally sex became better after my first baby and I had a tear oh.

But for peace of mind, I would strongly advice you do cs. Book a date and have your baby. In all trust your body and pls make arrangements for a help or nanny cos this mum of 2 lifestyle is something else.

Sis, do whatever gives you peace of mind. Some of us had ECS the first time around and have decided to go ELCS this route, some of us have decided to try VBAC. There is NO wrong choice. Your peace of mind and preference is what is important. Whatever you decide, pray through it and you'll be fine. What you'll get from this thread is personal opinions and to be honest with you that is very subjective. Either has no negative health implications as such so choose what works for you (health, career, body etc). All the best

Moaba:
Mothers, this is a long read but I need your advise. I'm 35 weeks gone and still confused about a birth plan. I had my first via emergency vs because when my water came it was meconium stained, He also changed from cephalic to transverse. Had to eventually insist on being sectioned because the Dr started inducing me and my water which was meconium stained broke over 12hrs. When he came out, he had cord round the neck, waist and lower limbs. I was grateful I took the decision. He still needed Oxygen briefly and we were also delayed in the hospital because sepsis was queried. Post CS recovery was fast for me. I was up and about 2days post op and if I didn't tell you on my naming you wouldn't know....... Here's the thing. Baby 2 will be here 2.5years post OP. I am a good candidate for a VBAC. My stomach is weird already. I mean I got giant stretch marks from my first and a bikini cs scar. Should I just go for elective this time or try VBAC. What if I tear in the Vagina? Will sex feel the same?I need to resume work on time cos my company products that has been out of stock will be back. I don't necessarily have to leave my house to work but once or twice a week will do. I've been really sold on elective before now but I know cs is a major surgery. I will not feel incompetent as a mother if I do it because the award is having a healthy child. I'm so confused!!! We have people birth vaginally without complications too. What if I'm one of them? If you were me, what will you do? I need to make up my mind before Monday.

Yes she is

Itissettled3:
We bless God ohhh.

Thank you mama.

BTW, are you my teamie�‍♀️�‍♀️�‍♀️

Thanks for your response mama.

rvpbae:


I swear if I were you, I would just do elective cs jeje. VBAC sounds great but remember it could still go either ways. If you choose to have VD, tears/episiotomy are fairly common and you will heal up nicely with sitz baths( I never did this for two of my kids). Personally sex became better after my first baby and I had a tear oh.

But for peace of mind, I would strongly advice you do cs. Book a date and have your baby. In all trust your body and pls make arrangements for a help or nanny cos this mum of 2 lifestyle is something else.

Thank you mama. I do have a big support system around me. My MIL is an amazing woman but as you've said I do not need to feed my fears.

Chimzy09:


Take a deep breath mama....

You do not have to feed your fears.
Let’s say you try VBAC and get a tear, there’s nothing to fear cos you get stitched (I trust your doc is good in this regard and doesn’t do a shabby job). I have friends who said sex (and ultimately the Big O) felt better after having their babies vaginally while some said it hurt like it was their first time.

No two pregnancies or deliveries are the same. You may have an easier delivery experience this time if you eventually decide to try VBAC...(no need to think sideways)

For CS, you need to check your support system, will on hands be on deck for you? The first time, it was just you but this time, you’re healing, nursing a newborn and handling a toddler. If you’ll have help and won’t have anything delaying your recovery, you can give this a shot.

Personally, I’m worried about my repeat CS cos we are both orphans, hubby has no sister and my siblings will be super busy about the time I’ll be due so no omugwo . I’ll also have a toddler to deal with and I do not have a live in help nor do I want one...hubby is hands on and I’ll likely get someone who will come in daily to clean. My worry is not about recovery, my worry is having to explain to my todd that I can’t carry her or pick her up or bend to give her kisses or allow her climb and jump my body as she wishes or even suddenly hug me aggressively or give me a kiss. Even if I was a good candidate for a VBAC, I wouldn’t go for it for so many reasons; mostly medical, psychological and emotional.

I have friends who had their first babies through elective CS and never tried VBAC

Ultimately, the decision rests on you. Do whatever feels right to you or you feel you can handle. Assuage your fears and everything will turn out just fine

Healthy mama and baby is the goal.

Thing is none of the decisions is giving me peace of mind yet. I'm trying to come out of the confusion. One week I'm team Elective then I see stories of those who did well in their first and not in their 2nd. the next I'm team VBAC, then I also read stressful VBAC stories. I'm just really trying to make up my mind.

hunniesuzie:
Sis, do whatever gives you peace of mind. Some of us had ECS the first time around and have decided to go ELCS this route, some of us have decided to try VBAC. There is NO wrong choice. Your peace of mind and preference is what is important. Whatever you decide, pray through it and you'll be fine. What you'll get from this thread is personal opinions and to be honest with you that is very subjective. Either has no negative health implications as such so choose what works for you (health, career, body etc). All the best

Pray, ask God for direction and wisdom to pick what is best and will play out best for you. Once you do that commit your decision into God's hands and make positive confessions.

Moaba:
Thing is none of the decisions is giving me peace of mind yet. I'm trying to come out of the confusion. One week I'm team Elective then I see stories of those who did well in their first and not in their 2nd. the next I'm team VBAC, then I also read stressful VBAC stories. I'm just really trying to make up my mind.

Good day mamas in the house. Please is bitter leaf soup safe during pregnancy. I'm in my early second trimester and a FTM. Before preggy, when I take biter leaf soup, it used to rumble my stomach. That's why I'm asking this question. I'm really craving for it, please don't ignore. Thank you.