Hello guys, a guy av been seeing for a year told me that he was to give the relationship he has with another lady he met before me.
This was a guy that it took me so long to accept, he is still telling me that he still wants me but was asking me what do we so about the situation which I have no answer to. He still communicates with me, trying to be close and all that but I don't believe he wants me.
Am devastated right now, I need loving advise pls .
I found it hard to love this said guy in the first place because of the relationship he haa with the first lady.

Ok

No law mandates u to be in one

Rachael30:
Hello guys, a guy av been seeing for a year told me that he was to give the relationship he has with another lady he met before me.
This was a guy that it took me so long to accept, he is still telling me that he still wants me but was asking me what do we so about the situation which I have no answer to. He still communicates with me, trying to be close and all that but I don't believe he wants me.
Am devastated right now, I need loving advise pls .
I found it hard to love this said guy in the first place because of the relationship he haa with the first lady.

Aunti Aunti pls walk away.

Shey you gave him your heart cheaply ni, then walk away. Better guys will come for you.

The guy wants to double rvcck two babes. So he is now asking you jamb questions.... He is useless. Have some self dignity and leave, don't stay o even if the sex has been good.


Aunty next time have some class to ask critical questions before opening your heart and legs. Relationship is not for fun but for marriage. Biko

Which type of English is this.

Since June you registered, you are still his side chick.
You need to be sacrificed to Ogun

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Ladylite:


Aunti Aunti pls walk away.

Shey you gave him your heart cheaply ni, then walk away. Better guys will come for you.

The guy wants to double rvcck two babes. So he is now asking you jamb questions.... He is useless. Have some self dignity and leave, don't stay o even if the sex has been good.


Aunty next time have some class to ask critical questions before opening your heart and legs. Relationship is not for fun but for marriage. Biko

I will try to stop replying his messages.
About giving my heart cheap, it took me a year to accept this guy so i guess my emotions got in the way and accepted him. Will cut him off gradually

chieyine:
Since June you registered, you are still his side chick.
You need to be sacrificed to Ogun

Around that June I told him am walking away, he begged me but like I said my emotions got in the way but not anymore.

stop wasting time with people who dont give a damn about you...

luvyaself95:
Which type of English is this.

Thank you. I wonder how other people read and understood before dropping comments.

Aunty Rachael,aren't you supposed to be married by now?

I remember your story.

So that guy finally played a fast one on you.

Anyway, next time don’t fall for a guy who is still having “issues” with another babe. He must clear his all pending issues before you walk into his love life. Am I communicating?

Sorry. The desperation to get a new guy who would just be decent and kind and not necessarily handsome but just okay; that desperation will come upon you. You must resist it. Keep calm and enjoy December. We resume in January. Sorry dear.

Also, don’t join them and do detty December. Na your body go hear am o.

All I need in this life of sin is me and my girlfriend

luvyaself95:
Which type of English is this.

Me sef no understand.....!

J111333:
Thank you. I wonder how other people read and understood before dropping comments.

am not abusing here just saying what i felt na.

Rachael30:
Hello guys, a guy av been seeing for a year told me that he was to give the relationship he has with another lady he met before me.
This was a guy that it took me so long to accept, he is still telling me that he still wants me but was asking me what do we so about the situation which I have no answer to. He still communicates with me, trying to be close and all that but I don't believe he wants me.
Am devastated right now, I need loving advise pls .
I found it hard to love this said guy in the first place because of the relationship he haa with the first lady.

I guess no one else has been persistent like him, which make u convinced he is interested in you.
A player can be very nice till he shoots his shot.
Just feel free but no fall hand give am sex o.

Rachael30:
Hello guys, a guy av been seeing for a year told me that he was to give the relationship he has with another lady he met before me.
This was a guy that it took me so long to accept, he is still telling me that he still wants me but was asking me what do we so about the situation which I have no answer to. He still communicates with me, trying to be close and all that but I don't believe he wants me.
Am devastated right now, I need loving advise pls .
I found it hard to love this said guy in the first place because of the relationship he haa with the first lady.

I guess no one else has been persistent like him, which make u convinced he is interested in you.
A player can be very nice till he shoots his shot.
Just feel free but no fall hand give am sex o.
Then try to go out, you will meet other better single guys. Mingle my dear and make your choice.

Ladylite:


Aunti Aunti pls walk away.

Shey you gave him your heart cheaply ni, then walk away. Better guys will come for you.

The guy wants to double rvcck two babes. So he is now asking you jamb questions.... He is useless. Have some self dignity and leave, don't stay o even if the sex has been good.


Aunty next time have some class to ask critical questions before opening your heart and legs. Relationship is not for fun but for marriage. Biko

he's useless yen yen yen, mumu boy, you are just assslicking this babe just to appear saint and perfect in front of her

Do u know how many men a lady can play,she calls one boo,big head,he can disturb for Africa,bestie etc, while she's getting favours in cash and kind from them,so what's wrong with a local man trying to secure two poosie as well, make Burundian thunder straf ur bald head dia


U say better man will come for her,tell me are u a better man ur self,I know u will say yes

Rachael30:
Hello guys, a guy av been seeing for a year told me that he was to give the relationship he has with another lady he met before me.
This was a guy that it took me so long to accept, he is still telling me that he still wants me but was asking me what do we so about the situation which I have no answer to. He still communicates with me, trying to be close and all that but I don't believe he wants me.
Am devastated right now, I need loving advise pls .
I found it hard to love this said guy in the first place because of the relationship he haa with the first lady.

Are you desperate for a relationship cos age is not on your side or no alternative.

Relax and let the right man finds you

femi4:
Are you desperate for a relationship cos age is not on your side or no alternative.

Relax and let the right man finds you

No am not deperate cos it took time to fall for him. He was saying that he hopes he doesn't regret his actions but I gave no reply to that because I know he definitely regret his actions.
At a point I felt like revenging because I happened to get the other lady's number but I just let it go

Why not try relationgoat

I read d first 25 comments on ur previous post!!! U we're warned not to take this step or fall in love with someone who imhas someone else!! D deed has been done... Nd all u av to do is heed to d previous advise!!! If he's still confused about who to choose, let him go!! He neva loved u in d first place. By d way waiting for a year doesn't make him love u; someone delayed my love fr her fr close to a year without any response... Wen she finally came bak at d pretense of "u don't even ask of me" - at dat point I love her no more. I just accepted d offer so she won't feel bad! D rlshp neva workd.

Khd95:
he's useless yen yen yen, mumu boy, you are just assslicking this babe just to appear saint and perfect in front of her

Do u know how many men a lady can play,she calls one boo,big head,he can disturb for Africa,bestie etc, while she's getting favours in cash and kind from them,so what's wrong with a local man trying to secure two poosie as well, make Burundian thunder straf ur bald head dia


U say better man will come for her,tell me are u a better man ur self,I know u will say yes

Unku did I tell you am a man. Pls get a life if you can't help her.

Rachael30:

No am not deperate cos it took time to fall for him. He was saying that he hopes he doesn't regret his actions but I gave no reply to that because I know he definitely regret his actions.
At a point I felt like revenging because I happened to get the other lady's number but I just let it go

He doesnt know what he wants. He's playing with your emotions

femi4:
He doesnt know what he wants. He's playing with your emotions

Yes

Firstly, you really need to calm down on how you are taking the whole thing on yourself else you will just keep doing yourself more damage than you can imagine, learn to use your feelings and emotions towards the right course cz am surprised u are putting yourself through all this stress for a guy who you are aware keeps you more like a side chick. You deserve better than that......Also, make sure you ain't putting yourself under any pressure whatsoever of getting into a relationship......

Rachael30:

Yes

Hello
Why don’t you provide some more content, context and background to the whole issue? That way you give more insight to the issue and get some relatability (if it applies) and more whole responses.
For example I assume you are 30 years, how old are the others in the picture for instance? The 30 might explain your state of mind? Are you in the country or outside of it, are you employed, what is the cause of the pressure and break? etc.
I believe the replies would be more robust if you provided more info.