nedekid:

HA.

It's true.

I understand where u are coming from.

That's why I'm always reluctant accepting money favours from guys I know I won't date or marry.

If doling out money to me, means u want sex or marriage, and probably I don't find the guy attractive, no chemistry whatsoever. Then it's no use.
Keep your money.

I had an accident with my leg, last year. It was not healing after series of drugs and injections. A guy on my neighbourhood wanted to help me by bringing his own doctor to check my leg and he was ready to pay for everything, with continuous dressing of the wounds but on one condition. He's in love and wants to marry me.

But to me, I see him as a friend, I have no feelings at all for this guy. And I know he's a kind guy but unfortunately I don't see myself waking up everyday seeing his face first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Even when. He wanted to hug me, I felt repulsed. And he notice. Then he said look Vicky, I know I'm not a dashing handsome man and I know I'm not the ugliest man on earth, neither will I be the only man with an ugly face. But please I sincerely love you, lemme help you with this leg.

I was holding back my laugh, as I winced in pains. I sighed and I replied : I cannot marry you. I'm sorry. If you want to help me with this leg, fine but don't expect marriage. He sighed and said he will still help.
His doctor checked my leg and prescribed some expensive drugs to take and dressing thrice a week until it heals. I calculated everything, the money was much. The next day I sent his nurse away And told him not to worry. Cause he's already calling me his wife. Which I don't want to even imagine, how much more to hear it from his lips.

Thank God I have my own money but it wasn't enough at that time , So my dearest Funmi came to my rescue, out of the blues to see me and footed most of the bills, without asking me for sex or marriage or anything. She's a female like me and she's no lesbian. But she paid for everything , even though she's a corper and a nairalander

So that's life. We can't have sex with all our helpers in life!

mechanics:
That's right.

If you wait then you are He-goat in Oshiomoles voice

aminu114:
its your fault mr man u paid her mothers hospital bill u fed her u paid her house rent nd u still didnt ask for sex who told u because u are a wood plank that she too is? she has a desire nd u dnt or u go around fkng girls

The painful thing is that he's even a keke rider. A struggling guy.
na wah ooo

CSTR2:

You are a nitwit.
Did I tell you the ladies were not impregnated by their husband to be?

Nitwit.

Be innovative. 'Nitwit' is kind of stale on NL.

You did state that if the supposed husband doesn't, another man would. Who now is a nitwit? Idiot! Talking from both ends of his mouth. What now made your mum different from the Nigerian women you just talked about?

mechanics:
lolz, is a good one.

How's it a good one? Please explain

midnighter:

She's does not even know how comes am using the name, some people won't mind their business at all.

kingkakaone:

How's it a good one?
Please explain

Go back to the post and read it again.

GrabHisBalls:
Be innovative. 'Nitwit' is kind of stale on NL.

You did state that if the supposed husband doesn't, another man would. Who now is a nitwit? Idiot! Talking from both ends of his mouth.

So sex equates to pregnancy?

And yet Nigeria has one of the highest contraceptive and condom consumption rates in the world.

Nitwit.

mechanics:
She's reasoning like an engineer.

yea... scientist, physicist, engineer

It's very possible that the monies you paid for rent and hospital bill were all monies used to maintain the other guy.
I advice you just keep your cool and walk, you will not die, na sense you just receive.
Most good guys fell for this one way or the other.
Simple

mechanics:
She's does not even know how comes am using the name, some people won't mind their business at all.

Hahaha dont mind them!

Anyway whats wrong with being a mechanic? Those people are making serious dough while the "certified" people are getting embarrassed every day so nothing spoil

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

Dump her asap!

The prime beneficiary of no sex before marriage should be you and that is after the wedding. She has ruined it.

Aye Acamara o.

Whoever propounded this 'no sex till marriage hoarse' did humanity no good ohhh

midnighter:


Hahaha dont mind them!

Anyway whats wrong with being a mechanic? Those people are making serious dough while the "certified" people are getting embarrassed every day so nothing spoil

Don't mind her, she thinks people are not making it being a mechanic, infact they are even making it more than some of the so called white collar jobs.

MedicH:


yea... scientist, physicist, engineer

Yes o, your head dey there.

Foolish man.
You do things for women as charity not to get anything in return.
Separate love and charity, some men won't listen. Help only when you can afford it and not to keep a relationship else you will get only heartbreak in return.

midnighter:


Lol yes oo...white collar has turned to NO collar...this country sha smh

It's well o, God dey.

mechanics:
It's well o, God dey.

Forever and always!

Sorry to say....women a times don't look at who has nothing and will give all he has.....no no no...

They need a guy is who will always give them without complaining .....

So that you did this and that doesn't concern them, she will even complain that you can't provide simple phone for her.. That will make your rues to clear

As for the sex issue,.. I can only agree if she is a pure tested virgin ....but I can't extend the relationship to last 4 months without marrying her....

If she is not a virgin and tells you so.....lols forget it you have a partner in the race ....and you have a role to play for her.....

Fear women pls or die trying

midnighter:


Forever and always!

Yes sister.

Bro,
You are now a real man.
You are now a mature guy.
I am sure this will not repeat itself again.
Welcome to the real world.

Wai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

Why do people have no sex relationships when they still intend to have sex with others?

Is it not better to have the sex with the intended partner or truly abstain till the wedding night?

I don't get the logic anyways.

Enyimbamercedes:
Na so dem give me one name for school

Abelejayan

Abeg Yoruba people should epp me add the intonation Marks

The person that will catch the fish, remove the scales, remove the insides, prepare the fish but e no dey chop the fish na wetin?

Abelejayan

Abéléjayán.

Re-mi-mi-re-mi.

mugu don pay.Ashawo chop the food.how can u be so foolish to believed such nonsense from a slut.even the latest Ashawo for town who you don't no anything about her fit catch u mugu if u don't shine ur eyes an tell u no sex till marriage.oboy shine ur eyes u were busy paying her bills why one guy man they Bleep the hell out of the wet wide pussy to red.u were busy saying yes ma.I don't take that bullshit from women.one girl don tell me DAT rubbish before I told her if u say no sex till marriage that means no money till marriage.if I wan give u money I give u from my mind not u go tell me or bill me.she later relax for me.I Bleep the living daylight out of the pussy 24 hrs .give her wat she want.so that is it no long thing. some women na confuse being.who quote me should hug transformer.

mechanics:
Yes sister.

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

.

my question is, whose idea is it to avoid sex before marriage if it was yours, she obviously can't do without it, if it was hers', Bros no get babe

Any lady preaching to you "No Sex before marriage" is a very big coward. 99% of them receive diicks codely.......



Don't be deceive!

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

Are we supposed to feel sorry for you? This story makes you seem like a mugu. I advise you to delete it and never mention it in public again.

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

My brother, that's life. Just leave her alone and allow her enjoy her suffering. This can only be achieved if you have done your best. Check out.