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Re: I Hit My Wife by thorpido(m): 10:46pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Op,try to make peace with your wife.Let your people know about this so some elders can follow you to your wife's place for reconciliation. You didn't do well by coming back so late as a married man and most likely you didn't even call her on phone. She provoked you by the continual shouting but next time,enter another room and lock yourself in(if during the day,walk out).There will still be more of this so you better learn to manage it. 13 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by crackhaus: 10:49pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:That's your problem ladybug, not mine. I certainly make no effort whatsoever in trying to avoid being annoying to you. 10 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:50pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
And as usual, no one is saying we should hear her side of the story, especially the males here, we don't even know if it was multiple slaps cos ordinary slap can't make one bleed, except it's a thunder reseting one sha, still, we don't know her story, so let's not judge yet, unlike men dem already judging the wife, if Op was the wife, we all know how most male comments here will be. 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nickisindigo(m): 10:53pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
OP YOUR WIFE IS STILL A MUMMY'S GIRL 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:56pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
crackhaus: You can stop with the name tags, it doesn't suit the situation here..... 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by LadySarah: 10:58pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
We need to hear the woman's side ![]() ![]() 20 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by danilmo: 11:06pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: a gentle tap to ur lip hitting ur teeth can burst blood . Moreover her brother self no get shame, at least the mother should go first. she for kuku tell her father to join.. hian. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:07pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
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Re: I Hit My Wife by MedicH: 11:20pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Hitting her was wrong. On no account should you raise your hands on the woman it could grow to become your worst nightmare. What if she falls and have head injuries and worse. If i were you seeing she wont calm down i will ignore her or leave the house. Continue begging sha 13 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 11:25pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:You didn't answer my question? What was she hoping to achieve when she was shouting and following him up and down and refusing to accept his apology? 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:27pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Dupalmer: I would only answer your question when you answer mine cos that will determine how I answer yours, How will you feel and react when your wife comes home from a birthday party at 2am in the morning? 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by crackhaus: 11:29pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:Okay pum-pum 5 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 11:33pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:She can't. I payed her bride price she didn't pay mine. Southerners are lucky to have Christianity dominating thus the ladies have Christian husband's. Would she react the same way if she was married to a Muslim especially northern moslem. 3 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:33pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
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Re: I Hit My Wife by tyup(m): 11:39pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Ekene161829: don't call her back or do anything.....and watch her come back you think she'll be happy to stay at her mum's place for long? of coz she will think what will people say? if you go begging you'll just make matters worse and trust me you'll never be respected by her nor her family members. write this down 13 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:40pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Dupalmer: Okay so it's a diick and bride price comparison now, how convenient, you just had to bring in Christianity and Muslims to prove what? That you're going in circles and haven't even attempted to answer my questions, what if your wife comes home late? Answer me logically like a man and tell me you won't beat the living soul out of her with a bleeding body, if I won't tell you how much of a high-ended liar you are. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Liposure: 11:41pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
If dis is d first time u are hitting ur wife.then, your wife went 2 far by leavin so soon despite ur apologies. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 11:47pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:If she comes back at 2am believe me I won't hit her. I've never done that but I can't guarantee my continuation with her. It's men that choose whom to marry not the other way round. Women have a right to choice but it's limited. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by tyup(m): 11:49pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
GraGra247: ur comment is devoid of any iota of senses....really ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:54pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Dupalmer: At least you are truthful enough to tell me this, but what will be your immediate reaction the moment she steps into the house at that time? I dey like wen people say reality abeg, no human will say he/she won't react aggressively, with shouts and all, Ahn Ahn, let's be truthful to ourselves nah, and if your partner doesn't react that way, means she's cheating steady, or you're emotionally dead to her, and if you're emotionally dead to her, dude, you need to run for your life. 8 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 12:03am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:You don't know me. I don't subscribe to violence. I don't believe in using violence to solve issues even if she doesn't come home for days. I have a way of making weird decisions that could make her beg me to hit her and let the problem go. I could dump her coldly and quietly then marry her relative or very close friend and rub the marriage in her face. Violence? Nope. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:08am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer: Violence- immediate revenge Marry her relative or close friend-long term revenge Same thing, different scenarios, but okay. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 12:17am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:What would you have me do? Hit her? 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by benjijosh(m): 12:19am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ekene161829: Lets start with the fact that she made an issue out of it(You returning home 2AM). That means you have a wife that cares about you. Consider yourself a lucky man. Also, we cant ignore the pesturing part of your wife but this is quite justifiable. Nevertheless, as a man you should never hit a woman unless it is a friendly one. Your wife calling on her relatives to her rescue even though you claim this is the first time there would be a case of you hitting her is also justifiable. Although, a more deeply minded person would have chose to keep a third party out of her family affairs but still, we can not blame her as she felt hurt and needed someone to confide in. Should you contact her? Yes, you should. She is still your wife and you need her in your life. If she does not want to talk to you, try get in touch with her father and explain things to him. He will calm her and in no time everything will be fine. After which, give your woman one hell of a treat. ![]() 15 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:22am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer: Hell no, the normal reaction should be shouts and insults, which the Op's wife did, that has been my point from the onset, he over reacted by hitting her instead of walking away. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 12:26am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:Shouts wont solve the problem as evidenced in the OP's story. He walked away she didn't respect that but chose to be stupid. It earned her a slap putting the jeopardy. Dialog would have been better 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Saintmary(f): 1:00am On Dec 16, 2019 |
kulobyno: This is meant for the OP See woman beater in training. So, since you have apologized, and she is adamant, you will kuku build for yourself a broken home. You better go and restore your home and prevent further stories that touch. Or you think Nairalanders will live in your marriage with you. However you make your bed, you, your wife and your baby will lie in it. 5 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by DaHrNn0001: 1:02am On Dec 16, 2019 |
I think the problem is not really your wife but her mother who could support her leaving her husband's house with a 7 months old baby... So pathetic... Going for your wife is perfect and normal thing to do cus you messed up hitting her which makes you human anyways... But be careful of such mother-in-law. 3 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by maya007: 1:05am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Naija women too much film dey kill us.... D way she acted it's like she's been looking for an excuse leave ur house oòoo Pls go n meet her and ask her what she wants... U went to have have fun and came back pumped enough my dear no matter neva NEVA hit a woman pls no matter what. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Ekene161829: 1:11am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Thank you for you advise. I never done anything like it before and I taught I could never do such a thing thing to her and I regret everything. Normally we argue like any other couples, she will be screaming and get really heated , I will leave the house for some hours and comes back later , and I keep myself under control. I know that if I don’t , she won’t stop either and things will get nasty. But on that night it didn’t go down that way , I was trying to keep controlled and explain to her the reason why I came late was 2 of my friends were drunk to the point where they couldn’t walk . I have to drive them home. She just wouldn’t stop yelling and throwing hands at me , I was so tired to leave the house again that was why I left our room to go to the living room. She kept on going and I yelled at her to ship up and leave me alone as she was laying into me, she screamed back that she wouldn’t that made me angry and I hit her.the pain of knowing I did that especially when it wasn’t my intentions is killing me and I want to show her that it was a mistake and I had no reason or thought behind hitting her 6 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 1:25am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Saintmary:She started building the broken home by being unreasonably adamant to apologies and even involving her people what nonsense. She invited trouble and she got it coming. Some women knowing that their man is not a violent person often take advantage of that and push him to the wall. Everyone has a limit to patience and tolerance. Forget the many seeming chivalrous women wrapper all over Nairaland sugarcoating their stand whereas it's not coming from a sincere heart. Most guys would break at such heights of provocation. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by kodix(m): 1:34am On Dec 16, 2019 |
My dear don't allow unnecessary ego through people opinion of be a man to spoil your marriage,there no even better person out there,and she will also live her life to the fullest even though you're not with her anymore and is believed that once attempted it will continue,all you have to do is to keep begging and set a proof that it will not happen again. 11 Likes |
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