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Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Bigcowhorn: 3:18am On Dec 16, 2019 |
[s] OgaBuhari:[/s] |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by OgaBuhari: 3:28am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Bigcowhorn:for the fact that u have the time to check his profile and stalk his comments shows the state of your joblessness. whether He's an atheist, agnostic or pagan, what is that to me? even pagans and atheist now are so full of morals and ethics than these Christians nowadays who only go to church on Sundays but are more wicked than the devil himself. the truth is that this your asslicking won't get u the pussy you are looking for. You better change this pattern and start behaving like a real man. As per your joblessness I'd have like to assist u by employing you cos there are various vacancies over here but you lack the least qualification since you're an uneducated fellow so my advice is for u to go back to school and complete your secondary school education. by the way I hacked into Midnighter's email account and saw the numerous pms u sent her and she's been ignoring them without replying. You're a shameless broke ass. 1 Like |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Tunagee(m): 3:35am On Dec 16, 2019 |
YourTitties: Point of correction, Bible never supports divorce cos of abuse. Read your scriptures well and stop misleading people cos you are a Sunday Sunday celebrity christian 1 Like |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by OgaBuhari: 3:40am On Dec 16, 2019 |
[s] Swissheart:[/s] shut the fucck up you bastard hoe. I'm not surprised cos birds of feathers flock together. You haven't heard from the man's story, probably the hoe OP is a fuccking gold digger and things are now going tough after she has drained him off an now she wants to leave. I blame that man for marrying a slay queen in the first place. The OP lady needs to be tracked and the kids should be retrieved from her cos in the eyes of the law she is a kidnapper. bastard wh0re how I wish her husband can see this. 1 Like |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by OgaBuhari: 3:46am On Dec 16, 2019 |
YourTitties: Tunagee u see this person was making sense till the latter part of his/her comment where he said the bible supports it. the so called Christians we have this days are a big disgrace to Christianity that's why the athiest and Muslims and AntiChristian have been insulting and abusing Christians cos these self acclaimed Christians have not search the scriptures or lack comprehension to understand the bible. imagine this ignoramus I'm quoting saying the bible supports divorce so many dumb fellows! 1 Like |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Tunagee(m): 3:47am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Kalixx: She no dey husband house that's the reason. E dey pain am. She want other ladies who are in their husbands house to leave and join her miserable life. 2 Likes |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by CsRockefeller(m): 4:10am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Marriage has been described as the union of two strange fellows. If you understand this statement, then things that you see in marriage may not come as a surprise. "It is not good for man to be alone, I will make him a help mate" If he doesn't feel he's alone (financially, emotionally and the likes) then you shouldn't be in that marriage. Only when a man feels lonely that he would appreciate a woman's presence in his life. Then if he feels he's alone, the quality of help you bring now matters. Please, see a counselor. Goodluck. |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Bigcowhorn: 4:18am On Dec 16, 2019 |
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Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Bigcowhorn: 4:19am On Dec 16, 2019 |
[s][quote author=OgaBuhari post=84945641 shut the fucck up you bastard hoe. I'm not surprised cos birds of feathers flock together. You haven't heard from the man's story, probably the hoe OP is a fuccking gold digger and things are now going tough after she has drained him off an now she wants to leave. I blame that man for marrying a slay queen in the first place. The OP lady needs to be tracked and the kids should be retrieved from her cos in the eyes of the law she is a kidnapper. bastard wh0re how I wish her husband can see this.[/quote][/s] He-Olosho |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Motirayo2018(f): 4:25am On Dec 16, 2019 |
eni4real: Their father clearly said They are females so he did not need them It been 4 years |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Bigcowhorn: 4:28am On Dec 16, 2019 |
[s] OgaBuhari:[/s] He-Olosho |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Motirayo2018(f): 4:31am On Dec 16, 2019 |
XklusivGistBlog: It not about worldly goods Marriage bring out real identity |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Bigcowhorn: 4:35am On Dec 16, 2019 |
OgaBuhari: For your information. If I do nothing but chase after you for 4 weeks straight I still make $$$. Ever hear of Jobs that make profit on 'auto-pilot'? I'm not your normal guy. In that way you enjoy football matches and movies so also do i enjoy watching people, what they do and how they act. I really am enjoying myself with you Only if you understood. Lol. Useless Ode dance for me
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Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Nobody: 4:43am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Tunagee: Bad boy. How una dey take know person life wey una never even meet for real life? |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by 24biznes(f): 4:59am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Triniti:stop talking like u don't know What a man can do while he is Angry and Antagonizing |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Triniti(m): 5:41am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Tunagee:Lol, you ladies need to put your emotions in check and give real life pragmatic advice. You want a married woman to run away from home with her kids, without her husbands consent? You think the man will fold his hands and watch her do that? Don’t you know that with a good lawyer, the man can put her behind bars for a long time, if she tries that? You that knows how marriage works supporting her ideas makes me smh. She should end the whole thing legally and stop being miserable 1 Like |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Triniti(m): 5:50am On Dec 16, 2019 |
24biznes:What can a man do while angry and antagonizing? Kill her? From her post, she never mentioned the husband physically assaulting her. She wants to run away just to spite her husband, if she goes ahead and run away like y’all encourage her, it won’t take more than 3 days for the husband to locate her and have arrested. 1 Like |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by hustla(m): 6:09am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Triniti: She needs to run away first. This kind of husband can kill her lowkey .. But me thinks it will make more sense to call a family meeting and discuss a divorce openly with her family present.. That way, he can hear the news first hand and won't be able to harm her .. But then we haven't heard the man's side of the story too. Looks like he has low self esteem and is frustrated cos I dunno how you'll envy your wife |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by samguru(m): 6:14am On Dec 16, 2019 |
TheArchangel: Hmmmmm |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by cerpvad(m): 6:22am On Dec 16, 2019 |
This is on point. But it applies to both genders. Kalixx: 1 Like |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by cerpvad(m): 6:25am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Feminist spotted Jewessgratitude: 1 Like |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by zizzley(m): 6:44am On Dec 16, 2019 |
2special: I don't think anything should warrant a man to behave in such manners ceaselessly to be honest |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by mapet: 6:54am On Dec 16, 2019 |
2special: In fact her narrative leaves a lot of missing pieces, that I doubt this is just a case of abuse alone. All I read here a bits and pieces, disjointed stories and many at times as if you both have been in unnecessary competition with each other. This write up also smacks attempts at self justification for an intended illegality. You cannot run away with the kids and stay incommunicado. He will get a judgment against you, you will be found within a week and you will loose the custody of your children. If you're no more interested, just say so, file for divorce and get it properly 2 Likes |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by TheRedpillguy: 7:22am On Dec 16, 2019 |
benjijosh:True, very True as long as the husband is entitleded to his money, space too, Lol you can leave in a differnt room if you want. Less see how that works out wen you are 45 and the man is 45. The more I litsen to this people the more I feel like never sacrificing anything to a woman and leave my life for myself. 1 Like |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by TheRedpillguy: 7:29am On Dec 16, 2019 |
healthserve:Lol this Feminist utopia land. Were nobody tells anybody what to do. This is paradise. Women can't tell me what to do and I can't tell woman what to do. Its glorious that takes the wait of caring about alot of people of my shoulders. Turn the world to my playground. 1 Like |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by cerpvad(m): 7:42am On Dec 16, 2019 |
If he begs in the morning and say the worst things to you in the evening, then that's a big red flag that he's not going to change. What I sense from all the stories is power struggle between the two of you and this suggests that the two of you didn't marry for love, rather for some other socia class and socio economic exigencies that brought you together. It's been my advice for people to marry for love within their social class. That is when there will be equal power sharing. When you marry above your social class, the person that from the upper class has much power and control over everything. Be it the man or the woman. Get out of the marriage. But since you did court marriage, it might take you two or three years to get out because court divorce has some rules that prolong divorce proceedings. But while the case lasts, ensure that you stay safe. Best of luck. Kindheartedd: |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Onyi22(f): 7:53am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Tunagee:Sharrrap there, r u qualified to live with a woman? |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Raymeg7(m): 8:15am On Dec 16, 2019 |
DoubleEngine007:I really thank u for this wise comment, God knows what he did to the man, this is her side of story , we have not heard from the man, maybe she is right, but is good to judge from the both side, not only from one side, I know we have demons in human , but still want to believe that ur doing the right thing, if surely what ur saying is true, I support u to leave and have a peaceful life, but from what ur saying u went to a private uni, that means ur family is OK, so how can he , if |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by DoubleEngine007: 8:35am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Raymeg7:The man must have his own side too.. There was one thread in this section or family section some time ago.. The woman told of us how she and the husband built a house together with the proceed from the business idea she brought. And when they started having issues, d husband wanted her to leave d hux ,but she refused. So d husband ran away from the house leaving her and the kids. We start curse the innocent man o. Someone who knew the husband very well saw the thread, and informed the husband.. The man had to register on this forum to tell us his side of d story. And when the man told us his side of the story,we discovered the woman was at fault.. I can't conclude if actually the man is a beast or not now,until i hear from both side.. Cuz most times ,na women dey cause the problem,but they will want people to pity them ,so that say things that will justify them,covering their own side when bad. Have a nice day bro... 1 Like |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Nobody: 8:52am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Motirayo2018:sick father.. Female children that are more caring |
Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by biggy26: 9:33am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Kindheartedd:Kind hearted, I salute your courage and believe nothing should change the person you're, as your moniker states. I have loads of things to say but I will say a few. *Never choose the way of revenge no matter how hard or badly you want to. God always gives wisdom on how to deal while He handles the vengeance. *Don't follow the route that will make you become more paranoid instead of the peace you desire. Like some said, he can use the court against you and it will again hurt you even more, cos he can say you kidnapped kids and he was traumatized.... *I also can't remember you saying he beat you, but more of verbal abuse which is bad enough. So I advise that if you have to file for a divorce do it probably in another location but not in hiding, and where you can be protected. *I also believe you need counseling as you have mentioned that abuse started even before you met him, so psychologically you need some balance. *Please, don't talk bad about your husband to your kids. He is their dad and will always be. So rather than speak evil to them about him, don't say anything. Finally, not all men are bad; you just happened to meet the wrong one. Forgive yourself, forgive him, forgive everyone that has ever hurt you. But on this matter if we can talk it will really be great! Remain steadfast in your faith. Much love! |
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