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Re: I Hit My Wife by Finnese001: 9:49am On Dec 16, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Your comments sha, you never disappoints anyway ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by etrange: 9:49am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Afamed: Separation is 100 times better than domestic violence. Asides its life threatening nature, children raised in homes where domestic violence is the order of the day are far more likely to constitute nuisance to society. 3 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by holusormi(m): 9:49am On Dec 16, 2019 |
speed99: Yeah she’s still single and and extremely foolish single girl at that - ignore her Abeg |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Ladycewhy(f): 9:49am On Dec 16, 2019 |
I am more concerned about the aftermath of this altercation ,you see the op has drawn blood, the pattern with abusers is it progresses. I am sure the op had a dopamine rush when he hit her and it has imprinted on his psychology ,the next time they have an argument he will likely see physical assault as the quickest solution. The op is now like a vampire who just had his first taste of blood and will keep looking for more. If i were your wife i will take legal actions to protect myself from further assault before i return to live under the same roof with you. 11 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Emmanuel226(m): 9:50am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer:true talk |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Incandescent(m): 9:50am On Dec 16, 2019 |
freecocoahubby: Says a frustrated serial divorcé |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 9:50am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Your wife knows you will beg and write this in nairaland for nation wide begging hence her actions. She either doesn't love you or she is standing by for the begging and undertakings to complete. Keep begging but if it happens to me, i will move on as if nothing happened and she will have to apologies to gain entrance to the home again. 4 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Gudlite: 9:50am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer: So you are encouraging him to go for second,third,fourth wife?Perfect man or woman can only be found in the grave It takes two for a marriage to work and it takes two for a marriage to crash, Brother a simple call or text to your wife that you will stay late should have save you and her all these quarrel.This apology would have been the first thing when you came in late.She was mad because she loves you,She is not right be bringing in her Mum and Brother, Both of you caused the problem. My advice is this, Give her a little time to calm down.If you have a good family friend that is married,tell the person to help you talk to her and apologize on your behalf. Or send her text or Chat to apologize, but first allow her to calm down so she can listen to you. 5 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by tiptoe1: 9:50am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Op isn't telling us the full story, there has been something going on before what happened. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Acidosis(m): 9:50am On Dec 16, 2019 |
You married into a wrong family. A sensible mother in law would call to speak with you about the ill treatment before jumping into your house. This is one of the many senseless things women do when they have no man in their lives. You won't see Father in Laws running upandan to settle issues without objectivity. Mind you, you never see wife o! Right now, you've lost all forms of respect from your wife and in-laws. Not justifying your actions but two wrongs never make a right. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by oshaosha2014(m): 9:51am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Thank you jare. How can you push a person to the extent of them hitting you. It shows you to be a very wicked person yourself. She must have it at the back of her mind that if things get awry as a result of her pushing him, he’ll still be the one to blame, hence the continuous bickering. freecocoahubby: |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Unrated900(m): 9:51am On Dec 16, 2019 |
OP don’t call her for now since you have begged her severally and she went ahead bringing her family member It means she doesn’t respect you.. Your wife might have Been looking for means to leave the house may be you aren’t up to the task Let her go and marry her family member Marriage should be you your wife and kids If you aren’t stable as a man don’t get married Or else your wife will be side chick to well to do men 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Sukueponmalu: 9:51am On Dec 16, 2019 |
nairalanduseles:Stfu I don’t hit women . I hit “anyone” that verbally assault me! Go to hell! 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Emmanuel226(m): 9:52am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Omo I don't know wat to say oh,but my advice is for u to consult a well experienced,marital life teacher and ask for advice. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 9:52am On Dec 16, 2019 |
daddytime:Exactly my thought. If I were him, they will beg to bring her back. I won't say more because there are some people here who feed on trolling. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Leebeedo(m): 9:53am On Dec 16, 2019 |
For me, any man that hits his wife just to merely prove a point is a useless man. More so, no responsible man will return home after a stupid outing by 2am. Grow up man, grow up! 7 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Yonce(f): 9:53am On Dec 16, 2019 |
danilmo: That third party was her mother. A woman who carried her daughter for 9 months and took care of her for 26 years. Op went to her mother to ask for her hand in marriage, the woman handed her daughter over to him and barely two years later he hit her to the extent that she bled all because she demanded to know his whereabouts. No mother wants to see her baby treated less than a princess, she's justified for taking her daughter away from a toxic, hostile environment. ![]() 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by SlayWise(m): 9:53am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer:Seconded. Bro if you apologize too, she and your mother in law go manipulate for life because they got your weakness. Call her at least once though 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by GeneralShepherd(m): 9:53am On Dec 16, 2019 |
daddytime: Their is no justification for hitting your partner on both sides for no reason 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Ximenez(m): 9:54am On Dec 16, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:People are condemning the first violence and you are still saying the wife's brother should have hit him back, even going as far as calling him weak cos he didn't do that? What kind of household do you come from? So he should hit him and both men should start another bout of fight, how quickly would that resolve the issue? If you are already above 18, i pity your future home. 5 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Sukueponmalu: 9:54am On Dec 16, 2019 |
daddytime:God bless you. I swear, I go dy process marry another wife already, if any useless in law or wife try this nonsense with me. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Emmanuel226(m): 9:54am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Chai,dis is D exact definition of dilemma.
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Re: I Hit My Wife by obimag(m): 9:54am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Once you are staying very late you would have call her and get her emotional consent. it would have settled the whole issue. Third party breaks home and have to be avoided. I will advice you to arrange a meeting with some elders or your priest and her family members with strong committment from both of you and take your wife back. There is no ego trip here. Your are the head of the family and must be man enough to settle this issue. 3 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 9:54am On Dec 16, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:wife brother slapping may lead to a big fight and the end of the marriage. not everyone is that stupid 5 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by lorhema(f): 9:54am On Dec 16, 2019 |
InvertedHammer: Thank you, sir. 5 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Unrated900(m): 9:54am On Dec 16, 2019 |
tiptoe1: My brother even if something must Have been happening the lady should be reasonably enough Leaving the house to your family member does sounds right My brother if my wife leaves the house on a mere issues to her family Boss that’s the end Once again don’t get married if you aren’t up to the task. Be financially stable a bit before getting married Because 80% of marriage issue is caused financially nothing else 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by GeneralShepherd(m): 9:54am On Dec 16, 2019 |
xendra: Their is no justification for violence in a relationship. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by shadeyinka(m): 9:55am On Dec 16, 2019 |
kulobyno:Your 1 and 2 is mature! The rest aren't! Physical abuse ALWAYS start with a single Slap/hit/push and the cycle never end. Physical abuse must never be hidden. It must be exposed with all vigour. This first episode shouldn't lead to divorce but I think the wife is on track showing the seriousness of the consequence of such actions. Should the wife also have provoked the husband by verbal assaults!? NO! 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by bogdaddy(m): 9:55am On Dec 16, 2019 |
One slap Pere she don call family Meeting untop your head her mama Dey spoil am sha she sef fit no Dey husband house so wetin you expect from a useless mother in-law Ekene161829: |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Fash20: 9:55am On Dec 16, 2019 |
I might have done the same if I were in your shoes... I'm not saying you did the right thing but I hate it when women nag especially when they don't know when to stop... #SayNoToDomesticViolence 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Opexzy: 9:55am On Dec 16, 2019 |
loveliveshere: This is very funny ![]() ![]() |
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