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Re: I Hit My Wife by dfrost: 9:55am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ekene161829: When you are married, stay married. A baby of 7 month-old and you left madam at home? Well done. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by belcom10(m): 9:55am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Some people will just be selfish about ones emotions, put yourself in her shoe. You came back late, which is wrong. She yelled at you because she was not happy at your actions. Instead of you to pet her and pleaded. you choose to ignore her thinking that's the solution. Later you slap her to calm her down. Bro you are weak. Ekene161829: 7 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 9:56am On Dec 16, 2019 |
A woman has hee mouth and a man has his fists. Let there be equal rights. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by mokt(m): 9:56am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Na wa for some ladies with chicken brain oo, I hate involving Family or Friends when im having issues with my woman sha. As a matter if fact, no one should even interfere in Husband n wife ish. its annoying . People suppose dey interfere during straffing too na |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Amumaigwe: 9:56am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ekene161829: You have appologosed to her, yet she chose to bring her family into the matter. What they want to achieve by taking her and your child away is to play on your psychology and box you in a corner with a possible undertaking never to touch her again inspite of her own wrong in the whole saga which they have not even addressed. I am certain that if you were still irate and uncompromising when they arrived your house (even forming it would still have been effectual), they would have opted to settle the matter between you guys. My advise: Please ignore your in-laws while you privately reach out to your wife for resolution. Should she remain adamant, get ready for the long haul or settle with living under the control and meddlesomeness of your in-laws in the event you accept their expected emasculating terms. If you wait long enough, when your wife's mother/siblings will remind her how she couldn't even manage her own home during usual mother-daughter/siblings spat, she will come back to her senses. The fact that your father in-law was not in their company tells me that she calls the shot in her own home. Or is he late?Man up and whether this storm and win. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nnemuka(f): 9:56am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Some of you are not ready for this thing called marriage common sense is not truly common ooo You slapped her after coming home by 2am? What is a responsible man doing outside by that time if not picking street h0es and sleeping with them Her brother should have given you a broken nose for hitting her in the first place. Marrying her doesn't give you the right to do whatever you like, she is someone's child given to you and not a punching bag. Go and continue begging 6 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by DenreleDave(m): 9:56am On Dec 16, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Why are you talking like This? Why will a house wife enter by 2 am when she is not mad.. The man doesn't keep late night, he just did... Man na hustler so anytin can happen.. No be to feed family be priority. If he stay for house truout, na una go dey nag nag nag... Don't be too quick to chose side, u r matured na He did wrong, he apologized.. The mumu wife quickly called her family, is this how mothers of then behaved End time wives oshi |
Re: I Hit My Wife by thatigboman: 9:56am On Dec 16, 2019 |
xendra:that's what we are talking about. U wount open door for a man to enter his house. If na me and u, I will send u to ur papa house the next morning. Forever |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Princerichi0(m): 9:56am On Dec 16, 2019 |
RisenPhoenix:Best advice so far 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by skyhighweb(m): 9:56am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ekene161829:no let d useless mother marry her |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Ximenez(m): 9:56am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Finnese001:She must have come from a family of abuse and constant violence, that's judging from her comment. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Angelstudios: 9:57am On Dec 16, 2019 |
anything could have taken you out till night so people complaining about coming late is out of it. You can have an unavoidable situation that can make you not come home till next day but my question is did you manage to pass the message to her (call her ahead) when you discovered you won't be at home early? if you don't that was the first error but if you did that should have calmed her down before getting home.... now if you have explained before getting home and she came nagging then she has a problem.. but because your marriage is young please keep apologizing because I know if you people have been married for a longer period you will understand yourselves... in marriage you keep learning daily but the third party thing is a NO for me.. you people should be able to settle the issues without involving anybody except if you have be doing that often |
Re: I Hit My Wife by luminouz(m): 9:57am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ladycewhy:Dopamine rush from slapping a woman? ![]() Jesus Christ! Where in hell do you girls get this bullcrap from? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dodo5: You started very well but you ended very badly. She is off market bla bla, don't go beg her bla bla. You folks attach too much importance to marriage that you often think all women must be in a marriage. Look up, those excuse are already getting old. It is obvious that the animal of a OP merely told his side of the story not the entire picture. The OP cannot in all honesty say that that is the first time of hitting his wife. He also cannot say that that is the first time he is coming home late at night drunk to a stupor. But because of ya'll male-supremacist and female-subjugation tendencies, you are quick to come to the defence of your fellow woman-beating animalistic he-goat, you let reasoning be cloud your sense of judgement and start making the same old men-better-than-women rhetorics. Disgusting. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 16, 2019 |
xendra:sleeping outside once may lead to sleeping outside many times. since that is the first time of coming home that late, a good wife should just open the door, ignore him and maybe discuss the problem when she is less angry |
Re: I Hit My Wife by SlayWise(m): 9:57am On Dec 16, 2019 |
xendra:For inside the house wey dem build put you abi |
Re: I Hit My Wife by DenreleDave(m): 9:57am On Dec 16, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Mumu comment, so if the wife brother slap him, the elder brother will marry her Abi... U r a bad woman n adviser |
Re: I Hit My Wife by nairalanduseles: 9:58am On Dec 16, 2019 |
chinchonglee: You are immature |
Re: I Hit My Wife by luminouz(m): 9:58am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Acidosis: You have a point. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by dfrost: 9:59am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Emmanuel226: So you supported that comment? And I ask, how long will the circle continue? Maybe until the umpteenth wife? |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Graxie(f): 9:59am On Dec 16, 2019 |
OgaBuhari:Double standard from useless nairand men, Op most people supporting you are from broken home, damaged individuals who wants to see your child suffer like them. Anyway, ask your wife to come here and share her own part of the story. The tory never finish. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by nairalanduseles: 9:59am On Dec 16, 2019 |
niaralandtopuser: A good man should learn to respect a woman if you cannot slap your mother then do not slap any woman......I have no mercy for bullshit 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Victorblaze14(m): 9:59am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ekene161829:. My brother you are at wrong here, when you knew you ain't coming back early, did you call her to inform her or you did not think she will be worried about you. We make mistake some times when you are married we men tend to forget about the feeling and opinion of our partners which is very saddening.. please brother she is a human and she has feeling, please consider her when next making a decisions 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Giftexx: 9:59am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Have you concluded all marriage rites? If yes, let ur family elders handle it |
Re: I Hit My Wife by aorseer: 10:00am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Two questions for the OP (1) Have you been keeping late nights before the said day? (2) Were you having extra marital affairs? |
Re: I Hit My Wife by lorhema(f): 10:00am On Dec 16, 2019 |
OlujobaSamuel: Very true. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Wife by omotoyossi(m): 10:00am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Shes immature. Leave her,she will come back |
Re: I Hit My Wife by teepain: 10:01am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Honestly with the kind of contributions I'm reading here, the legislators would do well to prescribe more stringent penalties for battery and assault. The op battered the wife and some folks here are seeing that as something that is normal! In saner climes charges would be pressed against him, not because the wife wants a separation, but just to teach him never to settle issues with his fists. If you wanna be a boxer or sumo wrestler, there are platforms that will financially reward you for fighting. Only weak men lay their hands on women. If op sees his mate now, he wouldn't want to fight because "he no go like to collect" 6 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by luminouz(m): 10:01am On Dec 16, 2019 |
You make nice points. He should have informed her he would be late. obimag: |
Re: I Hit My Wife by shaw2(m): 10:01am On Dec 16, 2019 |
The way some of are following this is surprising especially ladies. My own is that the duration of every marriage depends on the wife. My advice to my fellow men, while your dating a girl and she has this habit of nagging over sml issues like when she call and may be u were busy and couldn't pick later nag about that after much explanation, going into your personal stuffs like checking who calls and texted you, etc my brother run for ur life. As for you dude u kinda made mistake. Your a family man with a 7 months old daughter staying out up to 2am is very wrong. As for ur wife she really lack understanding which is very very bad for a wife. Over this little family issue she can just wave by and warn you not to repeat it that she is involving her own family. Secondly you don't have good mother in law. A good mother in law would never involve her self the way she did unless you have that habit of staying out and coming back to beat her if not she shouldn't have come over to ur house and take your wife and child. Maybe it's a way God is even telling you quit the marriage. Finally No matter what the case may be never you hit ur wife. They might be annoying sometimes but try and avoid them blc u will eventually regret ur actions. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by nairalanduseles: 10:02am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Sukueponmalu: You see yourself you can not live in a civilized society...you will be in jail.........you have mental issues and you have to be psycho analyzed before you are allowed to live with people in the society...... I dont know how Nigeria operates but if you hit anyone were I am ....you will go to jail ......you are a shame and you are proud to say u hit people 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by biggiedol: 10:02am On Dec 16, 2019 |
So many children replying here,I came back late and I apologized, you keep on shouting and wailing, I'll go back.. I remembered coming back late one night and my wife was just talking talking, after begging her, I removed my bet say oya madam take and flog me, because I came back late. Nonsense.. Abeg at times you just need to easy off the stress and doing so. You need dey with friends 2 Likes |
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