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Re: I Hit My Wife by roybanjo100(m): 10:10am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Thats the problem some of you guys faced when you marry a girl that has head without a brain, they push you to the extreme expecting you not to react forgetting u are also human, and then hold u responsible,...Keep begging but expect more frustration from her and im sure u will still hit her again |
Re: I Hit My Wife by martowskin1(m): 10:10am On Dec 16, 2019 |
maryjames9: The guy u quoted used "if" is a conditional statement |
Re: I Hit My Wife by eguarojeona: 10:10am On Dec 16, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:2 wrongs don't make a right.On one hand you called husband immature.On the other you say bro in law should slap husband.Reg flag. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by nairalanduseles: 10:11am On Dec 16, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Any man who has no self control should not be married 4 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 10:11am On Dec 16, 2019 |
mokt: You would rather preferred that the man knock out his wife everytime until her demise before families get involved. Let me ask you. Do you have a sister? Is that the way your Dad beats up your mother? 3 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 10:11am On Dec 16, 2019 |
fatymore: will you also as a wife write an undertaken never to nag all the time, cos most women don't knw hw irritiating those nags are to a man's ear ... it like mosquitoes singing to ones ears ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Hit My Wife by nairalanduseles: 10:11am On Dec 16, 2019 |
eguarojeona: If na me he go collect pass slap |
Re: I Hit My Wife by lahizak: 10:11am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ekene161829:OP. Dont listen to all dis advice u seeing up and down. I sincerely believe that is not the whole story. U knw d entire truth. However, if the truth is wat u claimed here, and ur marriage has sincerely been a hapi one b4 dis saga, den i most say hitting ur wife no matter the circumstances is terribly wrong which according to ur post u regreted doing. Secondly, as a married man, u should av called ur wife informing her of ur outing and d fact u will be coming home very very late. Dont let dis unmarried people advicing u up and down confuse u, married people sometimes come home by 3am or the next day, however communication is paramont. Trust is important. Ur wife was absolutely wrong 4 shouting and nagging at u but as a husband u also married her weakness, i dont tink dis is d 1st time u will see her shout and nag and dis is definitely not the last time u will see her do dat and if u decide to get angry everytime she do dat, u will end up killing somebody child. The deed has been done so here is my advice. Early one morning, go and meet her people, apologise, promise never to do that again. After you have gotten ur wife home and safe. Talk to her one on one, apologize for coming late and inform her dat if anytin like dat ever cum up u will communicate and ask for her permission b4 going. And last but not the least, correct her, bringing her parent and packing out is not the answer to every problem. Threatening to pack out weneva u guys have problem will only weak and eventually end d marriage. Gudluck 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by kulobyno: 10:12am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Olajumoke11:She's the one with Ego problem. She was adamant to apologies and OP's effort to avoid her until she earned a slap then she went to sleep. What was she hoping to achieve when she was shouting and following him up and down. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by luminouz(m): 10:12am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Sweetie,I have seen it all. Why call myself alien if I dont know how the human mind works. Unless the OP is a serial woman beater before or a sadistic narcissist, no sane man would feel any rush from slapping his own wife and mother of his child. Anyone can get angry and react violently, that's human nature. What is sick is to enjoy the violent act(in your case,the dopamine rush). |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Mutemenot(m): 10:12am On Dec 16, 2019 |
dfrost: Sure. Two wrong does not make right. Taking their daughter is worse then the offense the young man committed.. d young man apologized, from his writing here it's obvious how remorseful he has bn. So he should let the mom n bro to marry their daughter 4 d time being |
Re: I Hit My Wife by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:12am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Bastarrrdd......goddamned son of a ''G''. Ranchhoddas: |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Sukueponmalu: 10:12am On Dec 16, 2019 |
nairalanduseles:Say all the bullshit you want. It’s none of my business. If you like say I sound like a foetus. Stop going around assaulting people verbally. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by sgtponzihater1(m): 10:12am On Dec 16, 2019 |
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Re: I Hit My Wife by Sandypearl: 10:12am On Dec 16, 2019 |
yomi007k:you didn't state the fact he apologized and even left the room for yet she followed him . Put itself in the man's shoes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by nairalanduseles: 10:13am On Dec 16, 2019 |
niaralandtopuser: No excuses ....if u are not matured enough to be in a relationship then dont be......I have never hit any woman even though I have been provoked.....its sad this society is trying to excuse an aggressor |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Talkingoil(m): 10:13am On Dec 16, 2019 |
daddytime:Just imagine, wife I paid bride price for and because of a minor squabble the mother and brother comes to take her home, the way I go take pursue the two ( mother and son) of them comot for my house eh |
Re: I Hit My Wife by kulobyno: 10:13am On Dec 16, 2019 |
shadeyinka:Whatever made you think you are in the position to tell me which of my opinion is mature and which is not. My in laws can't run my home. My wife can't manipulate me if she's ready for marriage then we continue if she isn't then we part for peace. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by luminouz(m): 10:13am On Dec 16, 2019 |
roybanjo100: Good point |
Re: I Hit My Wife by mechanics(m): 10:14am On Dec 16, 2019 |
She had her plans before you slapped her, I believe during courtship you told yourselves not to involve third parties in any dispute, but she has reneged in her marital vow, but you shouldn't have slapped her, you just have to plead with her to come back and promise not to slap her again and avoid late outings. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by nairalanduseles: 10:14am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Sandypearl: I have been in worse situations I never resulted to violence ....if u think the only way to control your anger issues is by hitting people then you should be in jail 5 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Sandypearl: 10:14am On Dec 16, 2019 |
kulobyno:God bless you for this 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 10:15am On Dec 16, 2019 |
What the OP did is against the Law, he should be in jail not here writing epistle. Sticks and stones break lips not words. The mentality of men here scares me. Just 2 years marriage and he is coming home by 2am, and slapping a woman that was up all night because of the man she loves. But he comes home and slaps her. 4 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by bluefilm: 10:15am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Hahahahahaha If na me, na she go dey beg to come back because I no go ever try to call am again... I have zero tolerance for women and their stupid rash behaviors. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 10:15am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Take advantage of this situation to take authority over your home. Well you have done wrong in beating her, but you have already apologised to her which she rejected. Therefore ignore her and her family, and do not apologise to them, when she got tired of her petulance, she will crawl back home; or her family will drive her back to you when they get tired of her presence with them. If you continue to apologise to her for every unavoidable misbehaviour, she will continue to run back to her father's house for you to come begging. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by nairalanduseles: 10:15am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Sukueponmalu: I hope you dont hit the wrong person some day and end up 6 feet 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 10:16am On Dec 16, 2019 |
nairalanduseles:what do you have to say about the nagging? nagging is even more aggressive than a slap |
Re: I Hit My Wife by mechanics(m): 10:16am On Dec 16, 2019 |
kulobyno:Take it easy, she will come back, what you need now is to beg her and pray for her, I don't support couples divorcing. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Finnese001: 10:16am On Dec 16, 2019 |
fatymore: Lift his hands on you or the wife Or are you the wife? |
Re: I Hit My Wife by hush15: 10:16am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ekene161829: Bro, I understand your pain but at this point, you already did and truth be told, you can't be blamed. It happens to the best of us. You have said sorry and said it over and over again and if she refuses to heed, don't overwhelm yourself with sorrow. Let her be and give it time, the truth is she will still comeback if truly she is mother of your child and you haven't done this before. I don't know how to put this but don't push it too much. Just as she decides to leave, in all the worries, let her comeback of her own accord also cos she can't just really comeback cos you were begging, postratin up and down, being rubbished and embarrassed cos you want your family back. Don't get me wrong o cos many will say, I want to scatter family and not that it's not worth all that but her comin back will be based on all that, she will still leave cos she will tie everything to that and at any small mistake, she will leave again and that become her constant threat. When she decides to come back after apologizing severally, don't ever hit your wife again. It's not good, it's not right and it's not the right answer to the problem cos women will always use that against you. The minute she began frustrating you, if you are mobile, you go into your car and sleep if you don't want to drive out again that late or if you can afford it, take Uber to a safe hotel around and sleep or better still, drive to a friend's place who can accommodate you till morning. The best reply to a woman's rant is ignorance. If you have apologized and she is still bent on bring down hell, just ignore if it means lock-in yourself in the room alone. Her battery will run out... I learnt something from women and that's overbeggin. Now, this is my own opinion but am sure millions can relate to it. When you beg a woman too much cos you afraid of loosing her or what you have with her, eventually you end up loosin her or them cos you will enslave yourself in the process. Many may disagree but I have seen this in many relationship including mine both pre and post marriage. I apologize when am wrong and even as many times I get the chance but if as a woman, you insist on doing your thing, enjoy. When you are back to your senses, we can continue from where we stopped and that's if am still available but in a situation like bein married, when you expressed your anger finish and you still feel like been married, we can continue, child or not, afterall, na me know say that kind of thing won't happen again. So bro, you have said sorry and say it when the chance permit you but don't over do it so you have you dignity and respect intact. Beatin a woman doesn't really work in modern time, even for your own good. Just pretend like you not there when she starts to get to you so you can live long. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 10:16am On Dec 16, 2019 |
roybanjo100: Why can't you simply tell more about it. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 10:17am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Pataricatering:So you can't air your views without insulting others. You know what it's your entire household that is stupid. Your stupid ass is the type that manipulates her husband. Pray he's not someone like me. I dedicate your future insults to your parents, husband and children. Idi0t |
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