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Re: I Hit My Wife by midnighter(f): 5:55pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
victorian: I agree. Anyway when they both calm down I expect them to work through the issue having taken responsibility for their own wrongdoings |
Re: I Hit My Wife by DJInfluence: 6:00pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
I do not support domestic violence but you have done all you could to reassure her (that is if this was the first time it happened). give her an ultimatum…… come home lets work out our marriage or stay away and don´t bother to come back. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by armadeo(m): 6:07pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
kulobyno: Real man here. The marriage is still young hence the shakara. P.s one prof those days said toh can slap your wife once but no backhand. If you give reverse slap you are a wicked man. To the koko tour wife probably thinks it's a side chick issue particularly when you roll with your boys. Baby is still young and probably stressing her out so shes angry that you arent there for her. Do you pamper her, spoil her small, take her out. You should do these things once once see as marriage go dey shack her. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Osyxcel(m): 6:08pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
ImaIma1: I agree you with you. I hope the OP genuinely regrets what he did. The woman should give him the benefit of doubt. If it then happens again, then the woman would be absolutely right to leave him. I do not support domestic violence. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by madridguy(m): 6:11pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
First, sorry to hear about the death of your brother. I'm not trying to refresh your memory but how come you didn't help your brother in sending away the dragon? I'm sure the nagging GF is alive now probably settled with another man enjoying life. You should have act as a mother and send the beasts away. Once again, sorry for the loss. victorian: |
Re: I Hit My Wife by armadeo(m): 6:13pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
loveliveshere: He suppose show with barbecue fish and chips.... some men sef no sabi, spoil am she go mellow. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by danot1030: 6:26pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Plead: Marriage is not for the kids |
Re: I Hit My Wife by ogawisdom(m): 6:28pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Hedonisco: The girl acted childish if it was the first time but then again it may have happened severally n she can't deal with it anymore. Whichever way if he desires settlement then he must go n apologize to the already involved in laws for his wrongs |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Pussywar(f): 6:28pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer:You deserved the insult. You're a toxic man and a misogynist. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by dochenaj: 6:30pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Another Nollywood story again. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 6:37pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ladycewhy:he will feel remorse after seeing the results of what he has done. a wife beater will only apologize if he see the threat of the wife leaving him but according to op he started apologizing immediately after he slapped her. only people with conscience apologize immediately after wronging you. she will come back. all she needs is time and for op to reassure her it won't happen again. he has to contact her and reason with her before apologizing to her parents when he is sure she is ready to come back. no one will leave marriage because of one mistake unless she is just her mother puppet. I have seen a situation where a lady sneak back to her husband house without her parents knowledge even when her mom wants divorce 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by SwagPower: 6:42pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
They've given you every kinda advice imaginable..Me I say just want to tell u ..u aint got a wife yet boss..One altercation and she called her people to come scatter your house..I would av told u how to handle this situation..bt I no fit waste my ink abeg..cos las las we know u will go no and beg dt woman...Men dey fall hand sha.. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 6:45pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Bros to be frank let her go and it was their plan and they only use that slap to carry it out. if she was from a good home no parent would hv gone to their inlaw home and withdraw their daughter from her husband home. Give her time and if they don't bring her back and apologies as neccessary get a divorce and even God will bear you witness. Every understanding between a man and wife should be settle between them first and if it prolong then that is when either parents be involve to give out advice. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 6:45pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
victorian:now this is a reasonable woman. some women can nag you to death. my primary school headmaster back then almost lost his life to a nagging wife. the man left home in anger after the nagging was too much. few minutes later he was in the hospital battling for his life while his car was in the bush. our house was a few building away but I remember hearing her voice almost all the time 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by fatymore(f): 6:49pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
crackhaus: I meant all what I said. ![]() |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Hedonisco: 6:50pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
tiwiex: Finally, a comment from someone living in the real world naija. It's just ridiculous the kind of responses I'm reading here. Shows many people on this forum are jonzers. So all the heavy men wey full all the hotpots for town till wee hours everyday na ghosts dem be? Lol. Like you said, she got used to him being home early. That's a mortal sin. Never allow women get used to your 'goodness'. It is difficult to break loose later when you eventually receive sense. Responsible married man my foot. Tell that to Elumelu that I saw at Zenbah the other day by past 1am. Or to Davido. Ndi ara. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by malawi14(m): 6:51pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Na dem...one of such ladies! |
Re: I Hit My Wife by midnighter(f): 6:51pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
godbless120: You can't conclude that she's from a bad home; you don't know what she must have been screaming and crying to them over the phone. So if your daughter calls you by 2AM in a state of distress complaining that she has been beaten you won't fly down there and get her ![]() The only thing is that the mother should have called him by now or gone down to the house to enquire on what happened or to set up a meeting. That's if she's a responsible mother oh |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 7:00pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer:Make he kill her first abi..... Nigga Bleep ur self |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 7:02pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
godbless120:Your a woman bitter ....nonsense man like i pity for ur wife |
Re: I Hit My Wife by loveliveshere: 7:14pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
armadeo: Abi now ![]() ![]() Even if she was angry, that would pacifier her. Then apologies can come inbetween |
Re: I Hit My Wife by LivingSage: 7:23pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
How will brother in-law slap the husband. What if there's reprisal from the husband, it'll just entangle everything... Two wrong doesn't make a right LilMissFavvy: 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by crackhaus: 7:26pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
fatymore:That you meant all of it does not make them less comical. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Legendguru: 7:30pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Project |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 7:34pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Pussywar:Attention seeker. Application denied. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 7:36pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
emeijeh:You're crazy. So she should have sucked it up. That's how abuse starts. One slap, then two and then much more beatings. If you were her brother, you won't have said this nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by poik(m): 7:36pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
@op, I want to assume this is the first time you are hitting that woman. That is what the validity of this comment depends on. Guy, you shit for altar. I no go hide mouth. 2am is way too irresponsible. That being said, you have begged and begged. It didn't change. Now that she has left, beg one more time. Be sure to word your apologies right and let it belly your remorse. Beg her, not her family. It is her you married. If she doesn't budge, lock up and watch things unfold. If she left because she wanted to show how intolerant she is of the abuse, she will come around. I am still believing it is the first time and you have no history of tingling digits. You were ready to explain, and apologise, but the fact of wanting to take advantage of your mistake to drive home her point got the better of her. Whoever told these women that yelling in that manner solves anything? In the dead of night, in front of their child? The bitter truth is, the way a woman wants her home to be, that's the way it wil be? Why do you imagine God shouldered her with that responsibility? He put an intrinsic adsorbed in her. This of course is no playing towards op's irresponsible behavior. So, like I said, beg her, in addition to the previous ones. She will rescind and return. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 7:36pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Jesse25:Everyone is not a cheap pussylicking gay like you. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Pussywar(f): 7:37pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Dupalmer:Looool. After replying me. Dense. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:38pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
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Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 7:39pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Pussywar:O yeah wh0res deserve some slacks |
Re: I Hit My Wife by DECENCY3: 7:41pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
That particular time she was talking a one-off I AM SORRY would have solved the matter but you kept mute hence her continued talking, gbooom!! You slapped to calm her down. Very bad. If you are not properly warned and threatened this first time, I but you, you will still repeat it again. There are some families who don't tolerate domestic violence on their children. If you married from such family sorry they will shake you till you regret for life. Don't relent in apologising. Just know that this is now beyond you. Keep apologising. Go to them with a respectable personality and sort things out. Though temper is still high but with time they will reason when they see your remorse. I know of a lady whose husband and his family slap and treat as they like, because of her mother inlaw. The girls mother came fully prepared with one of her sons. She acted like and iron lady ready to fight the whole family. Mother inlaw and father in-law ran into the house and locked the door while the husband ran away. I went in and settled the issue. From that day till today, that lady had peace of mind in her marriage. In you case that's how domestic violence starts from the first mistake to second deliberate act till it becomes a routine. Just believe everything will be sorted out. Also know communication is a key factor in marriage.if you had communicated with her I think it would have solved alit of problems. Her talking was meant for good though not in the right way. I pray you sort things out early and easily |
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