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Re: I Hit My Wife by midnighter(f): 12:12am On Dec 17, 2019 |
godbless120: Lol you will call the home with the husband's knowledge so that he can beat her up more abi! Please dont come here to tell us when you kill your daughter o! You obviously dont understand how domestic abuse works. If somebody is truly in danger the last thing you should do is alert their spouse of your presence before he/she gets even more angry and finishes the person. The fact that its the first time is more reason why they jumped up...next time they would know that she is not serious. Responsible parent like you would leave their daughter in the hands of an abuser just to prove a point or what ![]() If I called my parents and mentioned anything "beating" they would even grow wings and fly to wherever I am to pick me, which is the more reason why I would never open my mouth to yarn this kind of story because I know that I would just be wasting everybodys time. Last reply indeed! Uru ese! 5 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 12:21am On Dec 17, 2019 |
midnighter: If i knew you were a female i would hv argue with you. Chelsea female coach on sunday blame liverpool for their female team home stadium for being so poor when infact the stadium is a leangue one team stadium which is higher in football pyramid than the female league in standard. Loud. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by midnighter(f): 12:26am On Dec 17, 2019 |
godbless120: Hahaha please dont argue with me o! Just leave me to my problem Responsible parent! I guess you can leave your child in the presence of those 2 wild cats they killed yesterday as far as they dont scratch her too much smh And I cant understand the analogy you have written there o, anything football is wasted on me ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 12:37am On Dec 17, 2019 |
midnighter: Continue claiming feminist on social network and suffer.. The people that mostly suffer from domestic violence rarely speaks out in public and rarely let their parent know, but this one call her mother who pick her son for war in alaska... why? the world women is that men are always wrong when its come to issues with a woman. I have seen when a girl shouted thief on her bf and the folish guys that response beat the guy before she realize the guy was already been set on fire. Abusive man is abusive man. while dating you were suppose to know the person in and out and not sex upon sex. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by midnighter(f): 12:44am On Dec 17, 2019 |
godbless120: Hahahaha now I know you are totally lost! Wetin consign feminism wey pesin wan beat me scatter ![]() So according to you, because domestic violence victims "mostly" refuse to speak out in public, they should ALL zip up until theyre totally finished so that you can feel better? i dont understand what youre typing oooo Youre just writing irrelevancies. Somebody don marry since youre talking of dating. Of what use is that observation now if somebody is truly about to die? So you can actually leave your daughter where shes screaming and call her husband to confirm that he beat her up before you intervene? You are a terrible fellow 3 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Caseless: 12:45am On Dec 17, 2019 |
speed99:Ekene161829 , listen to this guy. There are better ways to resolve this, but the action of the family shows she's not from a responsible home. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 12:52am On Dec 17, 2019 |
midnighter: You didn't read what i wrote.. i said i will summon her and the husband over to heared from both but if the husband refuse then i will be right up there... while you were dating what was the reason? if he was abusive then n u still marry him then u are suffering from your mistake which i can try to correct.. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by midnighter(f): 12:59am On Dec 17, 2019 |
godbless120: Lol I am just laughing into my pillow...what are you summoning ![]() Somebody is potentially being beaten to a pulp and you're in your house talking about summoning. Do you know what the woman cried and cried on the phone to the parents to make them act that way? This must be the same attitude that allowed that Onicha market to burn down when Anambra state has a fire service because I truly dont understand what on earth you are writing. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by magicfingers009: 4:13am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Dear OP, I empathize with you. I'm sure you might not even be productive at work cos different thoughts would run through your mind. See ehn, women's decisions are based on calculated, premeditated thoughts. She probably has reported you to her family long before the fight and you think all is well. For her to pack her belongings call her brother and mother all in less than 4 hours, she has given "going back to Daddy's house" several thoughts. There could be things she misses, probably the vacations, pocket money, being pampered by everyone. I strongly disagree with you hitting her but when a woman is bent on frustrating you, only God can deliver you from that situation. Next time, if you are gonna come home very late and you know madam would create a scene, it's better you don't go home at all. Come up with a story on how you got lock up at the police station by a drunken policeman and watch how things turn out for your good. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by blank(f): 4:31am On Dec 17, 2019 |
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Re: I Hit My Wife by danot1030: 4:46am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Plead: Since you says that to your father i take no offense. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 6:05am On Dec 17, 2019 |
midnighter: So if a man just lost his tempter a slap a girl makes the man being abusive? if that your point and you are my daughter then that is where u gonna... you brought a man to me telling me he want 2 marry, before that is done you might hv known the type of person he is.. So in ur useless world a girl can break bottle on a man, insult the man parent, slap the man n if the man just lost his cool, he is suddenly abusive.. Girl you are just from your pa doing that to your ma.. People like u are most likely to be abuse daily. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by shestrong(f): 6:54am On Dec 17, 2019 |
lol |
Re: I Hit My Wife by shestrong(f): 6:56am On Dec 17, 2019 |
oops |
Re: I Hit My Wife by shestrong(f): 6:58am On Dec 17, 2019 |
nah |
Re: I Hit My Wife by midnighter(f): 7:06am On Dec 17, 2019 |
godbless120: Are you okay? I dont get it, you dont understand English or what ![]() I keep asking you; how do you know the girl told them exactly what happened? When we can clearly see from the OP that the woman is totally irrational? How do you know what the parents think until they call OP to confront him? |
Re: I Hit My Wife by ABOVEDELAW: 7:10am On Dec 17, 2019 |
STOP SOWING APPLE OF DISCORD, ALWAYS OPT FOR PEACE. PEOPLE LIKE YOU SHOULD BELONG TO ANOTHER PLANET. LilMissFavvy: |
Re: I Hit My Wife by YelloweWest: 7:35am On Dec 17, 2019 |
coldFLARES1:Interference in absolutely necessary once violence has been introduced. Especially by the erring husband! |
Re: I Hit My Wife by ImaIma1(f): 8:09am On Dec 17, 2019 |
danilmo: Does an apology change the fact that he hit her? When the one that is supposed to "love and cherish you" raises his hand to hit you, it is an affront on the woman and a sign or disrespect and disregard; a sign of irresponsibility, lack of control and restraint. Beating doesn't come with marriage as you make it sound. So whether it's the first, second or half time, she has the right to decide a course of action. Because people have died because they decided to keep accepting apologies and staying. A man that hits a woman and thinks it's ok should be watched because he is a danger to people around him and to himself. I don't take domestic abuse lightly whether from a man or woman. If the spouse chooses to leave, it's a decision that should be respected. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by ImaIma1(f): 8:16am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Osyxcel: Yeah. But sometimes that benefit of doubt could be abused and lead to more beatings. There are women that can't stand being beaten. Still, staying or leaving is a personal choice. If my father stopped beating me as I became mature. The person that brought me into this world didn't see it fit to beat me when I offended. Why would a man who I was handed over to by my father with the promise of being loved and cherished beat me? That's my mindset and understanding. Beating should not even be in the equation. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Osyxcel(m): 9:11am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ImaIma1: That's why I said this is the first time, and according to the OP, a mistake. If it happens again, then it's not a mistake. So, giving the benefit of doubt in this instance is in order. We all make mistakes. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 9:43am On Dec 17, 2019 |
godbless120:My dad can never hit my mom they is nothing like first time or the last time no man have the right too hit a woman it just right and it shows how irresponsible such person can be, it a pity you are supporting violence against women knowing well that you have a sister at there.... 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by King44(m): 10:32am On Dec 17, 2019 |
edoman2016:my pop man won't allow her to leave her home and share a room in his house but Sha whether intentional or unintentionally he would receive the warning of his life, seems like she thinks life is a film were at a single provocation you exit your home lol... MR continue begging if she insists let her be and live your life and be happy no be person go tell am make she reason well |
Re: I Hit My Wife by King44(m): 10:33am On Dec 17, 2019 |
midnighter:too much Hollywood nahin dey make some people weigh things before them take decision |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 10:42am On Dec 17, 2019 |
shestrong:You better behave well when you get married so you don't take a decision that will cost you your marriage. There are ladies everywhere willing to take over but there are no husbands everywhere only fvckers. Beware! |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Ogegod87: 10:53am On Dec 17, 2019 |
victorian: Oh my God! Your mum (may God bless her soul) tried. Recently, i read a post on here, where a guy needed advice on whether or not to marry his girlfriend even though the lady nags, insults him and isn't submissive. He said his mum met the lady and told him not to marry her but he claims to love the girl and wants to marry her. I commented and shared a bit of my late brothers story and advised him to take his mothers advice because women are detailed and intuitive in nature. Women can smell trouble 5 miles afar. My mum was also against my brothers marriage to his wife, but he insisted and ended up dying instead. What a world! Thanks @ bolded 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Doktajay5: 11:17am On Dec 17, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: U stink of foolishness. So is now a family war than slight matrimonial issues. Didn't u read where he said this is regrettable and that he hasn't done this B4, and has kept appolosing and repeating himselfall night?. Am sure u r not married, as such knows only theories ur pastor may have taught. Marital issue is not a mechanical issue did you hear me? So shut the Bleep up and use wisdom if u have any. Funny enough plenty Ode are liking this crap u wrote here. That lady and her mother are bent on crashing that marriage. Thisis definitely not the reason a mother will come to where her daughters home and take her away just like that. I mean, why will a small issue a mother and son could step in and caution the man with all seriousness and then settle the matter, be a thing of coming to encourage her to leave her matrimonial home? For a mistake that is happening for the first time. Feminist mentality, u don't encourage sense of responsibility. Mtcheww U r just not serious. I don't even expect u to understand anything. Olodo 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by midnighter(f): 11:20am On Dec 17, 2019 |
King44: Phew! I just cant understand that guy at all |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Emmanuelhector(m): 11:22am On Dec 17, 2019 |
shestrong:Get out to where? Women must always be women.. Most are with lite brain |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Doktajay5: 11:34am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Joyincrease: Another idiot spotted... #smh |
Re: I Hit My Wife by shestrong(f): 11:45am On Dec 17, 2019 |
lol |
Re: I Hit My Wife by victorian(f): 11:47am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Ogegod87: Honestly some women are very intuitive and spiritual in nature, we can see what most men can't see. God has given us that gift already. It's sad my late bro didn't listen to me when I warned him. Even a week before the stroke came, I had a horrible feeling for weeks that some bad wants to happen in my home but I know it's not me, cause I hold God like super glue and I don't joke with my spiritual protection, so I knew If it's not me? It will be my brother. I callled him, sat him down told him about what I'm feeling that something bad is about to strike our home. And he should follow. Me to Church and be closer to God. He laughed at me and said Sister spirikoko, Haba! Now u are feeling something bad want to happen Abi? You this woman u better stop all this your spirit shiiit! And focus on the real world. Before u turn to spirit itself. I shook my head, I talked more he walked out on me. The next week the bad feeling didn't go away. I woke him up again around 1am in the night, cried and begged him please follow me to church, and be close to God, you are the only one I have, Pls!!! He looked at me and said Sister u are worrying yourself for nothing. Nobody can harm me, I am fine. He looked at me again and shrugged then said OK I will follow u to church don't worry. He followed me just one Sunday and didn't continue again I complained he said Haba! It's enough I have followed u, so leave me alone. I sighed sadly, after one week thats when he woke up with stroke, he said a woman shot him in the dream ![]() |
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