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Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by Graxie(f): 9:18am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Why will your wife slap you? Is she mad? Anyway, this is your version of the story, we are yet to get her own side. Nobody deserves abusive spouse, if she is so hot tempered, tell her to leave. Don't develop hbp because of untrained adult. Her foundation is faulty, I am sure you are trying not to be like the normal nairaland husband that would have given her several knocks on the head just to prove that they are men. You did well from your narrative, but you need a breathing space from that woman. I hate people who hardly forgive or abusive. Allow her to see that you are not her punching bag, be wise. For those claiming maybe he has cheated, and so? Is that a yardstick for slapping? If she cannot cope with a cheater let her leave. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by Ajibade123(m): 9:29am On Dec 18, 2019 |
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Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by cococandy(f): 10:31am On Dec 18, 2019 |
After the slap kwa. Mbanu. She should apologize first. But that’s just my opinion. mumumugu: 2 Likes |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by cococandy(f): 10:32am On Dec 18, 2019 |
limsycutey: I wonder why though |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by Nobody: 11:09am On Dec 18, 2019 |
descartes400:ahhhhhh.. You wan kill the wife? Dont fight women, only cum inside them and watch it flow out like a boss.. 1 Like |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by Orlaoluwayimika(m): 11:41am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Success02: Walking away is golden but sir I don't really know what oda issues u maybe having but her hitting u is very wrong and to correct this or in oda to ensure it doesn't reoccur abeg warn her sternly that u understand this may be a mistake, but nxt time it happens, she shld expect ur retaliation create this fear so it doesn't reoccur cos if u don't, such would happen again and again. One of my dear uncle dey chop steady beating from his' wife but we still dey pretend like we don't know and I know it is becos he is acting like a gentle man 2 Likes |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by babyfaceafrica: 1:05pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Romanoff: Hope you will say the same thing when a man beats his wife? 2 Likes |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by Gettreadyy(m): 3:03pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
eazzzy1:OP take this advice, I will do the same to make it very clear to her in a calm manner that if she tries it again somebody will die. Tell the mother or father they will seriously warn their daughter. I applaud you for not retaliating instantly. |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by Success02(m): 4:26pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Gettreadyy: Okay |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by midnighter(f): 5:44pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Success02: This woman is suspecting you. And thank you for not doing anything, chai! Ka ooo Call her and ask her why she slapped you first. Then warn her never to try it again or you will involve her parents. Hian. Is it season of Yuletide or season of slaps |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by midnighter(f): 5:57pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
eazzzy1: Since this is a first-time occurrence, they should sort it out and resolve it themselves. He doesn't need to involve her parents yet. Just the threat of doing that is enough for now. Reporting her to her parents is overkill |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Each time some people discuss a topic extensively, several threads related to this topic will pop up. Interesting. Anyway. It may sound funny to some but I wish you would have called the police and had her removed from the house temporarily until she apologizes and undergoes counseling. And even then you are not required to give her a second chance. Since you haven't, I would like to know what the situation is like now. How long has it been since? How have you been relating to each other? What was your reaction after the initial shock? 1 Like |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by addictiv(m): 7:14pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
What happened to turning the other cheek as instructed by the holy book |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by eazzzy1(m): 8:13pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
midnighter: I do not see it as an overkill because if it happens again and he retaliates, she will get her parents involved and they won’t believe she slapped first. It doesn’t have to be her parents, maybe her sibling, but it’s good to have a trusted third party bear witness. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by midnighter(f): 8:27pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
eazzzy1: I can see where you're coming from anyway; you are trying to be practical. But I still think you should give your spouse the benefit of the doubt, if they are remorseful and not an obvious manipulator. I don't see how you would slap somebody and then run to your parents unless something is wrong with you. It's a major step to take to report to a 3rd party so I don't think it should be done on a first-time occurrence. It's a private matter |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by jakandeola(m): 9:06pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
my wife cant try DAT she know me . not in dis life or next can try DAT. any man DAT let his wife slap him is not a man.op u are not a man just go buy menstral pad as u don turn woman finish 1 Like |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by Bestinstinct(m): 9:33pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Na man you be o. I was once slapped by my GF when she caught me cheating. My own na market square sef, i just walked away jejely. So, OP find a way to communicate with your wife. You know her better. Best of luck 1 Like |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:06pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Your wife don see you finish to even get mind slap you. As in for her to even conceive it shows that you are not the husband of your home. For her to double the slap was to clear your doubt that you have no level before her face. And for you to bring it to Nairaland shows that she is right about you! You have no balls Success02: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:13pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Success02:You should have returned the FIRST slap with greater slap. Nothing would have happened! Bros, you are a weak man, and it is the reason she even slapped you twice. Trust me, she will slap you again and even in public if you refuse to man up. 1 Like |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:17pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Success02: BTW Stop taking advice from women in matters like this. No woman wants a weak man like YOU, a weak man is unattractive to women- your wife inclusive. Being weak is not romantic, it is repulsive! Women want MEN not women in men's skin! You are NOT A MAN! For her to even think of raising her hand shows that you are not a MAN before her! 1 Like |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:22pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
descartes400:Perfect Descartes! The guy is a weak man. His wife has zero regard for him! In local parlance, she don see am finish He even run to Nairaland to report .. 1 Like |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:24pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
cococandy:Apologise abi? But if reverse was the case you and your feminist crew will tell her to report the abusive man to the police and divorce him. Feminists are comedians 3 Likes |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:27pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
aro1:If woman for house see you finish, even the vijay she won't give you talkless of allowing you cum inside. Addressing her madness should have been most appropriate to let her know who the boss is. |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by cococandy(f): 10:28pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: Actually he’s justified to leave her and I would support him if he wanted to. I’m sure you don’t follow my posts on domestic violence. You’re just commenting for commenting sake. 2 Likes |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:30pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Orlaoluwayimika:Kai! Too many women in men's skin! What manner of nonsense gentleman? That one is MUMU² |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:33pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
cococandy:I pointed that to you because I know your position when it is about women Meanwhile, he is a weak man and deserves more slaps |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Jesus said to turn the other cheek |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by babyfaceafrica: 10:36pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:I hope you will say the same when a man slaps his wife |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:38pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Bestinstinct:Baba in your case the slap is justified but sha you for hold her hand, give her serious warning say make she no ever reason am for her life no matter what. 1 Like |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:The lord said turn d other cheek. But the woman acted way outta line though. I wonder what marriages are turning into these days. |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by sholay2011(m): 11:08pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
mumumugu:Who were the unrealistic people that liked this post? |
Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by ctleurocollege: 11:17pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Success02: You're the man bro, your self restraint shows you're a man of steel. I throwey salute Boss man 2 Likes |
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