Heyyounotyou:
Lol .. Yea it is !

Heyyounotyou:
I know he’ll see this but Idc .. na love I love I nor kill person
Met this guy sometime ago.. we started on a good note..
Texting and chatting... Video calling and all that ..
Said he was interested in me, but I had my doubts.. I shared it with him and asked if this relationship thing was going to work .. He assured me and said if two comes together and agree on something it will definitely work ..
He clearly stated that afterall people that are close also have relationship issues ..

I believed him and we continued the charade .

He came to my state of residence inside this month .. I went to see him ..we were both happy to see eachother.. There was no sexual activity involved just kissing ..

So when he went back.. we were chatting and he said he didn’t think about this whole distance relationship thing properly and that don’t I have doubts.. I then told him I had but he has cleared it by assuring me that we will make it work !

He said it wasn’t going to work .. I was like why lead me through all this .. This’s someone I’ve already started seeing our future together and praying for his betterment cause he was always complaining of his financial and family predicament..

I was ready to keep myself and hold on to him !! But he just came up with this long distance relationship ..
He could’ve thought about it from the onset nau.. why put me in my feelings??

I feel hurt and don’t even want to hear about LDR no more .. I’ve blocked and unblocked him on all social platforms but he’s always in my mind.. I’ll move on tho .. Na only time e go take !

Any thoughts about LDR or he just doesn’t like me again ?

bindukwe:



It could be anything, all possibilities are valid.

You can barely have a serious relationships with LDR.
It requires so much resources to sustain. Points you make with one physical embrace would require tons of video calls and text to match.

Physical relationships last more. I guess that's an obvious statistic.

He probably saw that he couldn't carry on with his promise.
It would be a good time to ask if you want to be with someone who breaks promises?

And his actions as described by you seems inconsiderate.
He should have provided a soft landing.

You can't start something and not finish it well even if the original plan fails.

If you ask me, I'd suggest you move on.

BlitzNG:




To me, I feel he is not wrong and at the same wrong. Reason is that he told you his mind at a stage where you can easily move on with a decision to be with someone you see daily PR weekly because if it gets to that point of meeting your parents or family members and then back out, it could be devastating.
On the other hand, he should have known from the outset what he wanted and how he wants it to be. He should define his purpose and goals in a relationship. Does he like long distance or not? Think it twice before leading the other party on and abandon him/her along the line.

BlitzNG:




To me, I feel he is not wrong and at the same wrong. Reason is that he told you his mind at a stage where you can easily move on with a decision to be with someone you see daily PR weekly because if it gets to that point of meeting your parents or family members and then back out, it could be devastating.
On the other hand, he should have known from the outset what he wanted and how he wants it to be. He should define his purpose and goals in a relationship. Does he like long distance or not? Think it twice before leading the other party on and abandon him/her along the line.

bindukwe:


Which is why i suggest she should move on.

He has doubts that he can't overcome, if he could he wouldn't say it.

Close relationships like this needs affection to thrive.
Distant calls and chats won't suffice.


You'll become disinterested over time and break away without saying anything. Nothing was holding you back.

Its too casual to last unless its temporary.
And temproaraity comes with defining the relationship

What she has with the guy is defined by feelings.
He's still an internet friend she has feelings for.

Heyyounotyou:
He made lots of moves.. But I resisted cause I wasn’t feeling him at that point.. Maybe it was my creator’s way of saving me from more torture and pain ! quote author=dave4rella post=85051708]

We're you the one that didn't allow him to knack?

Or he didn't just make a move?

Heyyounotyou:
He made lots of moves.. But I resisted cause I wasn’t feeling him at that point.. Maybe it was my creator’s way of saving me from more torture and pain !quote author=dave4rella post=85051708]

We're you the one that didn't allow him to knack?

Or he didn't just make a move?

dave4rella:


OK then, maybe he's reacting to that
Just let it slide
Move on

Heyyounotyou:
I guess so ..
If that’s the reason he should’ve told me nau

dave4rella:


You self you dey stingy with toto

You for allowing him fvck
After all the chart and all

dave4rella:


You self you dey stingy with toto

You for allowing him fvck
After all the chart and all

Heyyounotyou:
Lol
Mad o
If he wanted the Toto he should’ve told me and not lie with love thingy ..you wan chop free puna without pay . . Omo he dive rock !
He think say I be mumu

dave4rella:





Wetin toto go cause for this life eh

Heyyounotyou:
Lol .. Funny you ..
He was all over me.. I won’t want to go into details.. Maybe my instincts were right and that was why i didn’t give in to his sexual advances !

Iloveu2:


My dear very many times when a lady keeps denying a guy her gindi, duri, obo, pussi, some other guy or guys are in one corner chopping the thing like kua-kua.

Long distance relationship I laugh. Remembered during youth service, a corp member was chopping this fine babe without him knowing that she is already engaged to another man far away (long distance).

Before the one year program ended, she traveled for her wedding. It caught the guy by surprise. He couldn't believe. THE WORST PART IS THAT, BEFORE SHE CAME BACK, THE GUY HAD STARTED LOOKING FOR SOMEONE ELSE, AND GOT ANOTHER FINE BABE. GUESS WHAT?! WHEN THIS NOW MARRIED LADY CAME BACK?! SEE FIGHT. NASO SHE BEGIN FIGHT D GUY SAY HOW HIM GO DEY RUNS ANOTHER BABE WHILE SHE IS NOW AROUND. SHE STILL WANT D GUY TO D CHOP HER.

Nah dis kind of babes go lie to their engaged guy say dem be virgin only for wedding night she go begin dey talk plenty-plenty tory about how her uncle rape her.
ABEG!!!

fecoleef123:
Hmmmmm

Heyyounotyou:
Lol . Not every girl has the tendency of cheating.. except those wey Toto Dey scratch ... .. what I felt for him was true tho ... maybe he needs his girl and pussy close !