babyfaceafrica:


If she can't wait, she Can Bounce

Like it's so easy to meet a soul mate

MrBrownJay1:


if this woman is indeed good, and we have a great r/ship. why would you think that marriage is gonna improve anything?! in the contrary, marriage would RUIN more than it would improve. both of you need to be on the edge and understand that you need to woo, care, love and cherish one another for the rest of your natural life.... aka water that flower. sadly, marriage tend to make people become emotionally LAZY, sexually REDUNDANT... aka disregard that flower because you now own it.

there is only ONE way to keep a flame alive, and thats to never marry that person. marriage is like chains that would have people who dont love/like you (any longer) stay with your sorry aaass because of that bondage called marriage. if love fades away then you guys need to part ways....sadly married people would stay together because of that piece of paper. i certainly do NOT want anyone to stay with me out of pity (aka marriage) as i certainly wouldnt.

Are you an introvert?

And how old are you!?

Chiiamaka:


Biko help me ask them cause I am seeing 35 etc.... Na una girlfriend go wait till that time ?

True love suppose wait.

Zeinymira:


Like it's so easy to meet a soul mate

Marriage is not by force ma... IF soul mate come, good, if not we move on... There is more to life than marriags

Pidginwhisper:
Never!!!

They won't see this one to tag him bitter .

But if it's a lady , you'll see them crawling out of their hole to tag her bitter feminist .

bonnyhope:


Marriage is not a guaranteed for happiness

But if you see good woman marry her

i've been searching for the 'good woman' and the response i do get is '404' or 'not found'.

MrBrownJay1:


if this woman is indeed good, and we have a great r/ship. why would you think that marriage is gonna improve anything?! in the contrary, marriage would RUIN more than it would improve. both of you need to be on the edge and understand that you need to woo, care, love and cherish one another for the rest of your natural life.... aka water that flower. sadly, marriage tend to make people become emotionally LAZY, sexually REDUNDANT... aka disregard that flower because you now own it.

there is only ONE way to keep a flame alive, and thats to never marry that person. marriage is like chains that would have people who dont love/like you (any longer) stay with your sorry aaass because of that bondage called marriage. if love fades away then you guys need to part ways....sadly married people would stay together because of that piece of paper. i certainly do NOT want anyone to stay with me out of pity (aka marriage) as i certainly wouldnt.

Honestly, your comment is true in a way.

Powersurge:
I feel from 22-30 is ideal if you have the money. But for me 35 is what on my mind. The street is not smiling.


I don't want one woman to come and give me high BP because of some financial needs.

Whenever you feel you have a stable financial stance, you should go for it.

Meanwhile, I don't even have girlfriend now. If e hold me too much, I order for olosho. I don't want to say Nigerian girls are liabilities. Because I am sure there are still few ones with brains. Until then, olosho will do.

I was about to like your comment until I saw the "olosho" part.

Settling down at 35 is no big deal and many ambitious guys prefer that age due to the financial maturity. Just don't give yourself HIV before you clock 35. Learn to discipline your sex drive before it destroys you.

CsRockefeller:
I said 27 and seems the stars are already aligning for me, if it doesn't happen next year, then definitely 2021 when I'm 28.



Quick question guys.

Between a lady within the ages of 24 to 26 not employed and a young girl of 20 in school, which is best suited for a guy of 27 to plan his life with.

Let's assume the factors of character and love is positive.

As a guy, if you fall in love with a student I pity your life, I am in exactly this same university school girl relationship shit. My eye don see something, no jokes.

I planned to marry at 25 years old now I am 28 years old no reason girl and I am broke.
The new target now is 30
But I don’t mind finding a baby baby next year

By 27, insha Allah

dominique come and help me to answer this question

Fact is increasingly many people will not be husband or wife material. There's too much selfishness and impatience around.

For those genuinely ready to marry, 26 to 32 is ideal for a guy. But please ensure you are economically making progress. No modern wife likes economic struggle in marriage. Money is first cause of marital agro.

Biglittlelois:



Honestly, your comment is true in a way.

Don't fall for this. It's not an ideal way to think. People who eschew marriage are grossly lazy, irresponsible and can never made a good leader.

UyaiIncomparabl:
25.

I dey use one eye dey look you.

It's ok.

Freehuman:
"Musa our children will be fine, Musa I will love you forever." Na so Musa take read Amina wedding invitation for toll gate. Walahi , Musa faint for gate.

Na me be Musa. Wetin my eye don see heavy for mouth to talk. I don leave gateman work make I go become something for this life. Men with Benz don carry my heartthrob oooo. Amina ,I love you scatter. I won't marry no other girl than Amina. I won't marry.
Money do me something for this life. Abeg young men abeg make una try become something for this life, work hard, shun Yahoo, focus and help your Papa, Mama and siblings. Na only them love you.
Cries an ocean

Freehuman:
"Musa our children will be fine, Musa I will love you forever." Na so Musa take read Amina wedding invitation for toll gate. Walahi , Musa faint for gate.

Na me be Musa. Wetin my eye don see heavy for mouth to talk. I don leave gateman work make I go become something for this life. Men with Benz don carry my heartthrob oooo. Amina ,I love you scatter. I won't marry no other girl than Amina. I won't marry.
Money do me something for this life. Abeg young men abeg make una try become something for this life, work hard, shun Yahoo, focus and help your Papa, Mama and siblings. Na only them love you.
Cries an ocean

MrBrownJay1:


if this woman is indeed good, and we have a great r/ship. why would you think that marriage is gonna improve anything?! in the contrary, marriage would RUIN more than it would improve. both of you need to be on the edge and understand that you need to woo, care, love and cherish one another for the rest of your natural life.... aka water that flower. sadly, marriage tend to make people become emotionally LAZY, sexually REDUNDANT... aka disregard that flower because you now own it.

there is only ONE way to keep a flame alive, and thats to never marry that person. marriage is like chains that would have people who dont love/like you (any longer) stay with your sorry aaass because of that bondage called marriage. if love fades away then you guys need to part ways....sadly married people would stay together because of that piece of paper. i certainly do NOT want anyone to stay with me out of pity (aka marriage) as i certainly wouldnt.

In short..wat u saying rn is u nt getting married

Riele:


They won't see this one to tag him bitter .

But if it's a lady , you'll see them crawling out of their hole to tag her bitter feminist .

when a man says he will never marry, the one common reason is because no wife material again. our women are sex objects. nothing to offer in a home. so instead of calling the man bitter, call the women whorees

I want Kids, but I don't want to get married.
There is no other benefit i can get from marriage besides Kids.

Sex, Food, Domestic chores I can always source for with money.

All those talk about Mental Support and all that trash , I don't need from a woman coz I am my own motivator

I can't deal with these Female Drama, nags and all, I want my sanity in check...

The problem is how to get my family people to accept this reality. Besides Kids, I don't see anything to gain...

35

saasala:
Now 32, will be 33 in few months.
The only thing holding me: No woman to marry.

Woman buckle o, shine ya eye bro. Goodluck.

Ebonygirl1:

I share this same belief...but then I start thinking; what if heaven and hell are real and I'm just sinning my way to hell by not making it official

So heaven and hell is not real. Okay o. Continue the slide into fire. Wetin Consign me sef

Fairview1:



Don't fall for this. It's not an ideal way to think. People who eschew marriage are grossly lazy, irresponsible and can never made a good leader.

Not every should become leaders .

Whenever I feel like it.

Saintly01:


As a guy, if you fall in love with a student I pity your life, I am in exactly this same university school girl relationship shit. My eye don see something, no jokes.

Hmmmmm. The student girl/lady has a nice character o. Asides the frequent financial demands, what were the issues u faced?

32 next yr.

UyaiIncomparabl:

Kilode? You're way too young, remember?

Fairview1:



Don't fall for this. It's not an ideal way to think. People who eschew marriage are grossly lazy, irresponsible and can never made a good leader.

I was actually looking at his opinion objectively, and in a way, it make sense, if one wants to be selfish anyway, and if we should look at life generally, it is always all man to himself at the end of the day, even after raising kids and they are all grown, they go out to be on their own and do things for themselves, it's more like going round in circles, so it's better for one to be happy, whether married or single.

No be by force to marry

Zeinymira:


Like it's so easy to meet a soul mate

God bless you. I Don search tire I Don give up. I decided today to bone marriage and face my life