Designerdollars:
I pity the unfortunate guy that will marry a toxic lady like you.

Riele:


Go and ask a baby mama !

babyfaceafrica:


What if you married the wrong person

UnknownQueen:


Well ure right though, I'll not fault your sense of reasoning, however in my honest opinion if ur reason is due to lack of funds it's understandable, but if its for what I'm thinking, I honestly find it absurd, however, as a person I love living life on my terms, so bro do what ever rocks your boat, I wish u well.

Godsonjolly:
If I may ask, why are people choosing 35yrs. Will ur gfs wait till then or what. Why not 27-30

gowonmaharajah:

lol...ya funny ohhhh.to be honest with you.
what's the assurance or wat guarantees u that the lil girl would equally secure a job as soon as she finishes?
just exercise patient with the older one.she'll soon get a job.
I'm pretty sure she is educated,ryt?

Saintly01:

I am happy for you, your girlfriend has graduated, less worries, especially financial issues. Mine still has a full year to stay in school, I contribute financially, but my biggest cause for worry is Loyalty, I can never be too sure of what she is doing in school. Every action of hers spikes suspicion. I am fed up of this "Monitoring Spirit" kind of lifestyle. When she posts a picture with another guy, Even if there is nothing going on between them, I get all worked up. I am that jealous, this is exactly the cause of our quarrel this evening. This whole thing is driving me nuts.

bizhop01:
The question is for baby mama on the making.

Elbone2:

You can live how you want to my dear...However you never know what to expect or how you will feel in marriage or in years to come being married so always leave the door open to change your minds.
No one ever forces anyone to get married....People do so by choice So no big deal if u start having issues,u can settle ur differences like adults.
Besides Divorce is there for a reason.

Saintly01:

I am happy for you, your girlfriend has graduated, less worries, especially financial issues. Mine still has a full year to stay in school, I contribute financially, but my biggest cause for worry is Loyalty, I can never be too sure of what she is doing in school. Every action of hers spikes suspicion. I am fed up of this "Monitoring Spirit" kind of lifestyle. When she posts a picture with another guy, Even if there is nothing going on between them, I get all worked up. I am that jealous, this is exactly the cause of our quarrel this evening. This whole thing is driving me nuts.

MrBrownJay1:


if this woman is indeed good, and we have a great r/ship. why would you think that marriage is gonna improve anything?! in the contrary, marriage would RUIN more than it would improve. both of you need to be on the edge and understand that you need to woo, care, love and cherish one another for the rest of your natural life.... aka water that flower. sadly, marriage tend to make people become emotionally LAZY, sexually REDUNDANT... aka disregard that flower because you now own it.

there is only ONE way to keep a flame alive, and thats to never marry that person. marriage is like chains that would have people who dont love/like you (any longer) stay with your sorry aaass because of that bondage called marriage. if love fades away then you guys need to part ways....sadly married people would stay together because of that piece of paper. i certainly do NOT want anyone to stay with me out of pity (aka marriage) as i certainly wouldnt.

CsRockefeller:


I would be stupid to try. I know her here quite well, something's are best not said. I'm surprised she's commenting on a thread like this.

Riele:


Which is you ?

Saintly01:

I am happy for you, your girlfriend has graduated, less worries, especially financial issues. Mine still has a full year to stay in school, I contribute financially, but my biggest cause for worry is Loyalty, I can never be too sure of what she is doing in school. Every action of hers spikes suspicion. I am fed up of this "Monitoring Spirit" kind of lifestyle. When she posts a picture with another guy, Even if there is nothing going on between them, I get all worked up. I am that jealous, this is exactly the cause of our quarrel this evening. This whole thing is driving me nuts.

Riele:


Which is you ?

SirMichael1:



You're right bro, I know her offline too. She's nice and sensible. If there's anything I admire her for, it will be her multifaceted personality or should call it multiple personality derangement??

She's got a melancholic temperament and also scatterbrained (Beats me how these goes hand-in-hand.

OnlineMonarch:
All these you are saying are theories, when love hits you hard, you will marry sharp sharp. It easier to sound poetic now.

Elbone2:
Don't get married if you don't want to, nobody is forcing you to.No one actually cares if you do or you don't.

Starz825:
In short..wat u saying rn is u nt getting married

Biglittlelois:
Honestly, your comment is true in a way.

SirMichael1:



You're right bro, I know her offline too. She's nice and sensible. If there's anything I admire her for, it will be her multifaceted personality or should call it multiple personality derangement??

She's got a melancholic temperament and also scatterbrained (Beats me how these goes hand-in-hand.

saasala:
Now 32, will be 33 in few months.

The only thing holding me: No woman to marry.

Every woman who is close to what I want is marred by her religious beliefs. Once I tell them I am non religious or a deist, they zoom off.

Do we have free thinking ladies in this part of the world?

luminouz:

Will you go inside and get me my dinner,you this little cat?

Chochocho...every time like a parrot. You no dey taya?

CsRockefeller:


I would be stupid to try. I know her here quite well, something's are best not said. I'm surprised she's commenting on a thread like this.

ValCon888:
Marriage is not compulsory.
There's nothing better than waking up in the morning knowing you have all the house to yourself. Watch your movies and football, no woman dragging remote with you to watch BBN or Telemundo.
Go out and come back whenever you want and with whoever you want.

Marriage is a scam created by women to put real men in chains.

luminouz:



You need to learn the act of not giving a FUQ!
Otherwise you'll die early.

You sound like you're the B-side in the relationship. A-sides or Alphas dont have time to be monitoring anyone. Their time is best spent on improving themselves to be their best versions.

#luminouznuggets#

MrBrownJay1:


bro... so you actually believe that the reason i dont believe in marriage is because i have never been in love?!?!?!?!? come on na!



it seem my post is hurting you in some way.... abeg go drink some tea, i heard it was doing wonder for stress related ailments.
this is NL, where each and everyone can share their opinion on any subject, if you have nothing to write on the subject at hand, just waka and be merry.



nah, i am saying i dont "need" to...



if we all look at marriage with an open mind, we must accept that the minute you sign on that dotted line, is when people are actually putting obstacles in their happy relationship. the majority take marriage for granted, and use that piece of paper as an excuse to not focus any longer on their partner; an excuse to not being sexy and attractive to your partner any longer; an excuse to become lazy. i dont want anybody to settle for a cheap version of myself, as i would never settle for a cheap low grade version of my woman.... she MUST always be on top of her game and understand that if she aint, then i have no interest being with her.

imagine a couple that met one another and did all these fun things, cared for one another and cherish one another, had interest for each other and wanted to always get involved in doing things together.... til they fell in love and decided to get married... then they say "i do" and suddenly everything changes.... even 419 cant compare with such a scam.

bizhop01:
I'm a man, which is 100% impossible.

I swear I thought I was the only nairalander that noticed her ooo .
That girl nah no go area.
Nah only mumu guys wey no dey street smart fit marry her.

Designerdollars:
that lady is very toxic, don't even bother yourself.

Riele:


Yes !

I don't get tired .

You have a problem with that ?