OoniOfIfe:
I married at d age of 22, in 1959

saasala:


She will promise heaven and earth she wont misbehave. Las las she go misbehave. There is 99% chance she will.

Okay, even if the 1% chance allows her not to misbehave, she still isnt ideal for you. She is freaking 20 year old. She will spend 4 years in school, serve for one year and wait like one more year to find a job bla bla bla. She wont be ready for marriage in like 5 years. Do you think your distant relationship of 5 years with her will stand the test of time?

MrBrownJay1:


if this woman is indeed good, and we have a great r/ship. why would you think that marriage is gonna improve anything?! in the contrary, marriage would RUIN more than it would improve. both of you need to be on the edge and understand that you need to woo, care, love and cherish one another for the rest of your natural life.... aka water that flower. sadly, marriage tend to make people become emotionally LAZY, sexually REDUNDANT... aka disregard that flower because you now own it.

there is only ONE way to keep a flame alive, and thats to never marry that person. marriage is like chains that would have people who dont love/like you (any longer) stay with your sorry aaass because of that bondage called marriage. if love fades away then you guys need to part ways....sadly married people would stay together because of that piece of paper. i certainly do NOT want anyone to stay with me out of pity (aka marriage) as i certainly wouldnt.

Saintly01:

Stay without a girlfriend until you are ready bfor marriage, relationship nowadays is something else.

airminem:
Its okay having loosed NUTs .lol

prizlezzlalasky:



Oya uncle come and explain this fantasy life here. Ayam interested in this discussion........

luminouz:

You!!!

Or because you're on NL,you feel you are all grown up and independent now?

Be a good geh,get me my dinner and maybe,just maybe I will add 100 naira to ur lunch money tomorrow.

Freehuman:
"Musa our children will be fine, Musa I will love you forever." Na so Musa take read Amina wedding invitation for toll gate. Walahi , Musa faint for gate.

Na me be Musa. Wetin my eye don see heavy for mouth to talk. I don leave gateman work make I go become something for this life. Men with Benz don carry my heartthrob oooo. Amina ,I love you scatter. I won't marry no other girl than Amina. I won't marry.
Money do me something for this life. Abeg young men abeg make una try become something for this life, work hard, shun Yahoo, focus and help your Papa, Mama and siblings. Na only them love you.
Abeg guys make the tie you go knot be tie wey you go knot on top clean suit enter your Air Conditioned office siddon. Make e be tie wey you go knot go join President and Governors for front seat. Abeg
Cries an ocean

CsRockefeller:


Sincerely speaking, this is my biggest worry.

The message may get lost in translation and her values can well change with time.

Chiiamaka:


Biko help me ask them cause I am seeing 35 etc.... Na una girlfriend go wait till that time ?

healthserve:




Guy make money make we hear word. Marriage is a scam bla bla bla. Keep your antimarriage crusade to your hateful sef. Yeye boy. How much you get wey a nice woman wan scam sef. Yeye


That Argentina sun wey dey knack your brain Don knack sense comot for ya head. Look how you dey rant on top wetin. Fvck off with your nonsensical bull rap boy

Kennedyiheme:
i dont intend on getting married either but you dont see to understand love.... there are 3 aspects of live... infatuation ( this usually happens the first 2 years then it fades) at least for men... the second is responsibility, even though there's no love at first sight anymore, you still feel responsible to take care of your wife or lover.. number 3 is patience... sadly I'm not ready to bear all this..

Joystark:

Na wa o.
Wahala dey.
Ma 2cents, you should probably lean towards open marriage... if all the above listed are your fears.

Chiiamaka:


Biko help me ask them cause I am seeing 35 etc.... Na una girlfriend go wait till that time ?

saasala:




It doesn't matter. It is a one day thing. There will never be another one. She is a pastor's daughter and the wishes of her parents is that they do a white wedding for their sweet daughter. It is you against so many people. It doesnt cost you anything. That wedding day could be the last day you will set your feet in a church.



Bla bla bla bla. These are just normal disagreements between intending couples na. You two will come to a compromise las las.

You have no problems bro. Goan marry.

ufotty2001:
At 36yrs... Life is different don't compare urself with others.. I am ashame of myself I make my first N1m at age 35yrs..

MrBrownJay1:


... but you can get all 3 of the above without being married



dont mistake my idea with fear, but instead compare it with being real.
an open marriage would have me disrespect my woman by seeking for other women while being married...which is certainly not what i am saying nor a solution to the issue at hand.... my views are very simple: if/when we love and care for one another then great, and the minute we dont love one another any longer (or not making any effort to woo each other again etc), then there is NO reason why we should be together. too many people are miserable in life because they want to hang on to that marriage at any cost, even though they are rightfully MISERABLE

open marriages are even worst than marriage, because now you are not even pretending to be happy with that person, yet you both openly seek for other people to satisfy you.... what would be the point of staying married then?!

CsRockefeller:
I said 27 and seems the stars are already aligning for me, if it doesn't happen next year, then definitely 2021 when I'm 28.



Quick question guys.

Between a lady within the ages of 24 to 26 not employed and a young girl of 20 in school, which is best suited for a guy of 27 to plan his life with?

Let's assume the factors of character and love is positive.

ValCon888:
Marriage is not compulsory.
There's nothing better than waking up in the morning knowing you have all the house to yourself. Watch your movies and football, no woman dragging remote with you to watch BBN or Telemundo.
Go out and come back whenever you want and with whoever you want.

Marriage is a scam created by women to put real men in chains.

bigpriik:
I don't know about you but from the llol of things and predictions I will tie the knot at age 32.it doesn't even matter if I made money now am 27 I prefer that age.

What about you at what age will you settle down.

Grupo:

Oya, come and marry me.

Victorex001:


Lmao. Thanks Boss.

I really do love the girl and she’s not lazy nor a liability and a diamond.

Trust, first if I am to advise anyone getting a good girl, try finding a girl who’s from a decent home not necessarily Dangote/Otedola daughter but a girl her family can afford 3 square meal comfortable and afford funding her education and basic needs comfortable, most Girls from such background reason fine.

Jobless Girls from a very poor family are big time liabilities except if you’re financially capable and up to the task even if you have all the money but for sanity sake, because they end up turning bad most times, I guess it’s desperation or so.

Goodluck on your search.

ValCon888:
Marriage is not compulsory.
There's nothing better than waking up in the morning knowing you have all the house to yourself. Watch your movies and football, no woman dragging remote with you to watch BBN or Telemundo.
Go out and come back whenever you want and with whoever you want.

Marriage is a scam created by women to put real men in chains.

shestrong:


Are u searching now?

IAmStrange:


When all your mountains have fallen and you're approaching menopause right?

Continue!