Fairview1:



Even in your own family?


Leadership isn't until you are elected into any key political position or pastoral/Imam position. Leadership entails you spearheading even a small group of people/friends.

When you aren't married, people will never take you serious and can never entrust you with anything serious. Reason why our constitution made it clear that before anyone could handle any key political position, you will ensure you married. So leadership is a sign of responsibility, and to he responsible, you must be stay married.

Africa... Which way??

70.

Riele:


An average man has nothing to offer a woman .

Bride price is angry with you right now

OoniOfIfe:
I married at d age of 22, in 1959

Pele vs Messi?? Who is better

Please help us.. You watch them both

Godsonjolly:


Lol � bronze spoon. Well, u correct o. Speechless �

Bronze spoon naa, even though your family is not rich at least you have someone in the family that is willing to support you.

arthorjnr:
True.
Life has always been that way in the beginning.
But there is a value to that paper.
Its a bond of law.
My two cents though.
Goodnight good sir.
I wish you happiness in life sir.

bro, before you leave, let me clarify that, in this day and age, you can be a common law couple without being married, and still have all the perks/advantages and traps of marriage. the only difference would be that common law spouse can get up and leave (whenever they desire) while married ones are in bondage and must 1st get a divorce before being able to break that bond.
have a great evening and all the blessings to you too.

McAausim:
My ticket cut at the age of 18yrs in year 2001... Now am bless wit 4 lovely kids

If i may ask, how old was your wife then?

MrBrownJay1:


bro... so you actually believe that the reason i dont believe in marriage is because i have never been in love?!?!?!?!? come on na!



it seem my post is hurting you in some way.... abeg go drink some tea, i heard it was doing wonder for stress related ailments.
this is NL, where each and everyone can share their opinion on any subject, if you have nothing to write on the subject at hand, just waka and be merry.



nah, i am saying i dont "need" to...



if we all look at marriage with an open mind, we must accept that the minute you sign on that dotted line, is when people are actually putting obstacles in their happy relationship. the majority take marriage for granted, and use that piece of paper as an excuse to not focus any longer on their partner; an excuse to not being sexy and attractive to your partner any longer; an excuse to become lazy. i dont want anybody to settle for a cheap version of myself, as i would never settle for a cheap low grade version of my woman.... she MUST always be on top of her game and understand that if she aint, then i have no interest being with her.

imagine a couple that met one another and did all these fun things together, cared for one another and cherish one another, had interest for each other and wanted to always get involved in doing things together.... til they fell in love and decided to get married... then they say "i do" and suddenly everything changes.... even 419 cant compare with such a scam. lol!

I agree with you..

Your point should challenge all married folks..

It cannot deter marriage tho.. Reasonable people should be wary of complacency in marriage..

I like Marriage, but for a guy it is always complicated!!!

Judybash93:


Hey bro!!! It's nice to meet you here, I'm a deist too

Become an Ifa Worshiper today..
Babe dey plenty for that side!!!

Correct wife materials oo...

vicben27:
it's being 3 years of sending pocket money and maintenance fee to my fiancee', soo that l don't hear stories that touches the heart.she Don graduate over the weekend. it's not easy! l have learned how to be responsible over this time. dating a student ain't easy is like being married which comes with a lot of responsibilities

Marrying from a poor family get serious consequences. That money should have been spent on your own self improvement, a business or your financial advancement.

Ay04z:
I like dis girl

Trouble dey sleep, Ay04z go wake am up..
Wetin he dey find? palava he dey find..

Palava he go geti o ooooooo

32 is the perfect age for me, but
I might marry at 31

The day you start to copy paste a white man fashion.

MrBrownJay1:
NEVER WILL.... there is nothing valuable that marriage can bring to my life. you certainly dont need to be married to "live happily ever after".

I Happily SECONDED

eduman365:


I was about to like your comment until I saw the "olosho" part.

Settling down at 35 is no big deal and many ambitious guys prefer that age due to the financial maturity. Just don't give yourself HIV before you clock 35. Learn to discipline your sex drive before it destroys you.

Ok.

Victorex001:


I understand this....my girlfriend currently is a Pastor’s daughter we both love each other but I keep letting her know her religion is scam....she treats it as secondary.
The main ish is that we love each other and understand and respect boundaries.
We also have disagreements about white wedding, I intend to do only a court wedding and traditional marriage not interest in a White man’s traditional marriage.

Though she dreams of changing me one day. Lmao.

What is your religion??

saasala:


I dont even mind doing a white wedding if it makes my woman happy.

You can just allow her the white wedding if it makes her happy. It doesnt make you tied to their religion. Sometimes you just have to compromise when you love someone

Go and marry people of your religion. Stop complicating other people's lives.

sprints1:
not your fault old cargo u married when Nigeria was still under British government things were cheap then..girls were cheap and had sense and fear of God

People are very disrespectful here ooooo.. Is that how you talk to your grandpa?? Old cargo

saasala:


Leave her alone bro, except you are very young and just want to play around. But if it is wife you are looking for, let her be.

Always approach love issues from every logical angle. Be rational. Be pragmatic. Dont allow your emotions cloud your judgment.

I know wetin dey do you. Na beauty dey affect your brain. 20 year olds have fresh breasts and smooth skin. They also know how to show love because they are not really experienced. They seem very loving and all. Your eyes go clear soon.

You too like breasts jo
Age and Maturity are not the same tho!!

A 20 year old first born may be more matured and responsible that a 26 years old last born..

Ibroleesky:
plss guys get married when ur John Thomas still av d strength

Marriage is not all about sex!!!
John Thomas ko, Bode Thomas ni

friday2011:


I got married at the age of 29, i am 36 this year, got 3 wonderful kids, ages 5,3,1, we blessed God for provision, we are very very ok, and i married when my monthly pay was 54k, ordinarily as at 2012, it will be insane to think of wedding ceremony on that monthly pay without any additional sources of income, also note that i didnt get any financial support from anybody. All by my seff.

What am i trying to say... At any age above 25 years, if you feel you are mentally ready for marriage, pls go ahead, if you are waiting for plenty money, you no go marry ooo.

Your wife must be a hardworking type... and very understanding!!

A good partner always make you to see reasons for Marriage..

May be your wife is the catalyst here!!

grossintel:
Bro, I'm not in yet but seriously thinking if I really need this. I can't change anything in my house anymore, I can't play my fvcking PS4 on my 60 inch UHD 4K TV! She's always watching that usless Telemondo shiit show, If I insist on changing the channel she'll just angrily leave the sitting room and not come out again which makes me sad. The only way for me is to take my ps4 and goto one of the rooms and play it in a tiny 32 inch poor quality TV while she balance there, drinking Fresh Yogo and watching movie in loud volume. If she leaves on Jan, she go dey her papa house make I think this thing well.

Grupo:


Yes. Send me a DM, let's talk.

I wish you luck!!

MhizBecky1992:
I'm waiting for my man

hi
cud I no more abt u?

MhizBecky1992:
I'm waiting for my man

You re still young..
Just 27

He can offer money and preek

Riele:


An average man has nothing to offer a woman .

Are you even married?

pocohantas:


No dear, they are a whole lot more sensible and mature than the guys here. No one cares the reason you don't wanna marry, just enjoy your singlehood and stop ranting.

Godsonjolly:
If I may ask, why are people choosing 35yrs. Will ur gfs wait till then or what. Why not 27-30

What year did you gain admission into university, what year did you graduate, what year did you get a job. What year were you financially comfortable. If those questions did not matter to you then I suppose, marriage at the age of 27 is too old for you.

29 ain't bad.

healthserve:



Yawns. How much you get wey dem wan scam for marriage. Muron. No go find money to raise family dey there dey dance naked dey yarn okpata. Yeye boy

shut up your dirty mouth, bingo.

OoniOfIfe:
I married at d age of 22, in 1959

Kid...
You must be remembering your grandfather...

After fvcking and gold digging women to my satisfaction!