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Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:52am On Dec 20, 2019 |
From what he wrote, the issue is fixable, they can work things out. A new lady may come with a new baggage, if he can fix his present relationship, better. DaddyMorenike: |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by franklingud(m): 6:02am On Dec 20, 2019 |
Bro don't allow that proud and selfish girl to ruin your happiness. Find another humble girl ASAP. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by Cossybob(m): 6:03am On Dec 20, 2019 |
Just like a comment reads "The best solution now is for you to start being a bad boy. Let your yes be yes and your no be no. She will surely realise that you are not a coward" And my guy, start placing your opinion on the table with hers and if she doesn't agree then just know marriage is a No no 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by pauladonis(m): 6:06am On Dec 20, 2019 |
grossintel: Na damaged goods she be. She'll always demand your full attention because of her apparent selfish behavior. You can put up with her for the short term but if you intend to keep her long term, it would be a mistake. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by femi4: 6:07am On Dec 20, 2019 |
grossintel:See you....you never see anything. When you start having children, you ll start watching cartoon network etc 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by SenecaTheYonger: 6:14am On Dec 20, 2019 |
Try to be a man |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by hakeemhakeem(m): 6:29am On Dec 20, 2019 |
grossintel: Guy thank God you said you felt what your dad went through if you must be a real man you get to make sacrifices she also have places to go but she is sitting down with you at home.you can earn money alone you can spend it alone.two people can be the same even twins learns to tolerate her excesses and reckless 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by EM123: 6:44am On Dec 20, 2019 |
My brother married is not a thing of happiness , u have to endure ur wife, b happy that dis ur girlfriend is not someone that pretend , some girls will pretend to b good , imidiately u marry her and she give birth to 2 children u will run out of that house , a friend of mine once told me that women as different stage , wen she is pregnate , another behaviour will come in , wen she give birth another behaviour will come in , in the aspect of d money u gave to her , i think she is the best woman i have ever seen , assuming she is a bad woman , wen u ask her for money she will tell u dat she don't have even wen she is carring central bank of nigeria in her waist , but she told u to take 1k from her purse , please hold that woman thight b4 u loose her and regret ur action later . 6 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by daben1(m): 6:48am On Dec 20, 2019 |
ericlove4all:is it truly worth it with a girlfriend? 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by daben1(m): 6:50am On Dec 20, 2019 |
shortgun:men will always be the one to sacrifice, in his own house o, can't she sacrifice? 7 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by daben1(m): 6:53am On Dec 20, 2019 |
ucheHapers:don't mind dem jare, how long will he keep tolerating her? I'm even happy the guy is not the sissy type |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by EM123: 6:58am On Dec 20, 2019 |
There will b a stage in ur marriage anytime u go outside she will accuse u of going to visit ur girlfriend or anytime u come back from work late she will accuse of sleeping with the staffs in ur office , please just bear in mind dat marrage is different from girlfriend , unless u didn't grow up with ur parent quarrelling because of little thing, assuming u grew up with ur parent u will know what marrage is all about . a married woman once said she thought men doesn't cry , until she cameback home unanounced and meet her husband crying and begging GOD To provide work for his wife so that she can support the family , the man has never complained to the wife dat he is tired of providing for the family , but he was nursing the pain , please my brother stick to that woman dat u have , because good women her hard to see now adays . 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by MZrapper(f): 7:00am On Dec 20, 2019 |
Moderators should please take this to literature section. Nigga is telling a boring story, he even described his TV and laid emphasis on what's got nothing to do with his stories. This one na attention seeker. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by Simplecity(m): 7:59am On Dec 20, 2019 |
bro this looks like a case of stubborn girlfriend una never even marry she don dey claim place for your house(village people) ...you seem like a rich guy which makes matters worst cause as her eyes don see am she no go wan leave you ..i go advise tou to pull out....next time you dey find babe find a girl whos got bags their mentality is on another level |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by Simplecity(m): 7:59am On Dec 20, 2019 |
MZrapper:flex what you have ..... |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by ucheHapers(m): 8:06am On Dec 20, 2019 |
Yes, I'm married and most of the attitudes I dislike are still there. Infact we've had big fights cos of them. I married her cos at the end of the day, her good side OVERCOMPENSATE for the bad. She completes and compliments me in ways I cant even imagine and she gives me peace. The question is can you tolerate your girl's bad side? I can live with my wife's own, can you manage your girl's own? Do her good part exceed the bad part? grossintel: 5 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by waletext1: 8:20am On Dec 20, 2019 |
I was once in your shoes , but I dealed with it with maturity , u need to know dat your woman own the house and any of your property, u need to be playing your PS4 whenever your woman is busy or sleeping but concerning her cooking skill and getting foodstuff , it's your duty to work on it , tell her what u want and how you want it , don't let your woman see you as an ATM machine 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by Nobody: 8:32am On Dec 20, 2019 |
op, there is no issue here at all. Carry the tv in the sitting room and move to the guest room or your room, bring the 32inch tv to the sitting room. Let her have there connect your HDMI and blast your ps4 in your room without interruptions no big deal case solved. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by EM123: 8:51am On Dec 20, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:all women are like that , wen u are in ur period how do u behave ? When u are pregnat how do u behave ? Please ask people around u b4 u answer me |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by dave4rella(m): 9:14am On Dec 20, 2019 |
When it comes to marriage, you should understand that the woman owns the house and everything in it, don't even argue with her. My wife can wake up one morning and decide to move the bed to another corner, or rearrange the sitting room, I won't utter a word, even when I'm not comfortable with it, reason :because it's her territory! Provided she keeps the house neat, and give me a small place to sleep. I know this woman has good sides, if it's bigger than her bad sides, then tolerate her. I chose mine because of her financial management Her ability to dialogue instead of nagg each time there is an issue She knows how to manage my anger issues (though I'm working on it personally) She's a keeper etc And the bad sides like giving flimsy excuses for something that is inexcusable etc To live with a woman is not easy, sometimes she will treat you like a king, and when you're gragra too much, she will seat your ass down like a kid and caution you Women are wonderful creatures 7 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by Nobody: 9:17am On Dec 20, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:Then maybe the once that are not like that are pretending. I say this because I know she's 100% real at this point, she's past that pretending stage. She doesn't know we're not yet married and her real attitude scares me, I'm not thinking of breaking up with her, I'm just trying to understand if I'm alone or is this something I have to live with when we're married. From most comment here, this is just the beginning and it's only going to get worse. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by Nobody: 9:21am On Dec 20, 2019 |
MZrapper:What's paining you here, I described TV and so? Wait till you have a place you call home, and the same person you love starts spreading her territory and push you inside the toilet as your private space. |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by MizzPhoney(f): 9:30am On Dec 20, 2019 |
Sorry dear friend, I'll be blunt with you. It is obvious to me that all you two have been doing while she was just visiting was having sex. You haven't taken out time to know each other at all. By now, you should have seen her selfishness, hoarding and all these things you are complaining about. She loves herself more than she loves you. The two of you haven't learnt how to compromise for the other person's happiness. You can do this shah, sit her down, discuss what you want, she too should tell you her expectations. If it doesn't work, walk the walk. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by daben1(m): 9:34am On Dec 20, 2019 |
MizzPhoney:bless you my sister |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by daben1(m): 9:35am On Dec 20, 2019 |
grossintel:i wanted to reply her but I chose to ignore her, you should have done same, it's not every mention you reply 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by Nobody: 9:38am On Dec 20, 2019 |
ucheHapers:There are some I can live with and others I just can't. Infact the only way to switch her good mode on is by letting her do the things she wants, the moment you interfere she'll serve you burnt offering for Dinner, or spice it with too much pepper. For example she recently started going crazy for natural hair, I'll come home and see Coconut, Pear, Aloe Vera in the bathroom. She'll do that the whole day in there and when she's done mixing what she's mixing late at night she'll leave the bathroom messed up like that, and when I complain she'll plead I should give her tomorrow morning. I have to pee in the guest bathroom when I wake up at night because I can't use mine. It's almost like she's drawing a big circle and claiming all my space. She's good when she wants to be and something else when you scold her. From the comments here, it's sounds like this is only the beginning. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by IamMetallic: 9:41am On Dec 20, 2019 |
That your friend telling you to hit her is outta his mind. Bro, be careful how you seek advice from a third party concerning your home because people will tell you to do what they can't even try themselves. The key point you need is communication and patience 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by lekani4real(m): 9:47am On Dec 20, 2019 |
grossintel: You have to compromise bro...you have noyhing to worry about as long as she is not cheating on you.my 2 cents tho. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by MZrapper(f): 9:49am On Dec 20, 2019 |
grossintel: What made you think I don't have a better home? And that I'm not a landlady sef?? |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by freethinker01: 10:18am On Dec 20, 2019 |
DrayZee:You shouldn't be surprised, lots of them just jump into conclusion like diving into pool. Brain dead |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by Nobody: 10:25am On Dec 20, 2019 |
MizzPhoney:I totally agree, we've not really gotten to know ourselves until now. What I expected her to say when I sat her down was baby okay let's do it like this, you watch your show/games from this time till this time then you let me watch mine. Okay, mention the things you don't like that I do, then I'll mention the things I don't like that you do then we'll trash it out. But she sounds like we can't dialogue over it "don't you know I'm a woman! You shouldn't drag everything with me" those are her exact words. So just because we live together I automatically have no say or freedom like I used to? It's just crazy, and the people saying you have to sacrifice the questions is for how long? Because this seems to be a woman problem. Even if I build my own house and plan for extra space and sitting room it looks like she'll drag that with me too. I like watching YouTube before I go to bed, but she'll drag my phone with me and insist I cuddle her to sleep what's all these now Her good side surely outweighs her bad side and that's why we're still together. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by LadySarah: 10:47am On Dec 20, 2019 |
sinaj: If he develops interest in hers then maybe she will develop interest in his. when kids come its even the worst. |
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