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Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by crackhaus: 4:35pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
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Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by crackhaus: 4:39pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
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Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by wunmi590(m): 4:40pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
![]() Sorry, I can feel your pain, I can see depression setting in. But most importantly, Nigeria can make somebody behave like that. I pray you find help 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by Theflint1(m): 4:56pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Logobenz: How many times have you come to Nairaland crying that you want to kill yourself? BROKE ASS ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by sisisioge: 5:36pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
It is well...you have to keep searching for your peace for if you look close enough, you would see that there's so much to be happy about on this our planet. Pele. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by nabegibeg: 5:41pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Miarose: All you could do is to link a star sign to this problem? Dont blame star signs for what your acts and actions It is a dumb excuse 4 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by nuelyoyo(m): 6:13pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
If only people knew the OP is trolling. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by havilla(f): 6:28pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:am a bit like you especially the part about carrying scars and pain, am very sensitive. This may sound silly but what is your birthday day I mean is it 10th, 12th e.g, I researched the day I was born and I was in shock, I discovered a lot about myself and how to work on myself, maybe you should give it a go. |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
jakandeola: If relationships were the remedy to mental health problems, no married person would suffer from depression or any other mental health issue but the truth is that even married people commit suicide so you have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
nuelyoyo: Maybe. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:21pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Logobenz:. I no get issue if na for that side. I'm doing well for myself. Money isn't comfort, everytime. |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:24pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: I got one last month, but I hardly feed it and give it attention. |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:25pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Unfortunately, yes. |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:27pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
nuelyoyo: I am not. |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:28pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Theflint1: Lol. Are you minding him? He's here acting all superficial. |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:30pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
nabegibeg: What she said is true, mostly. Trust me. |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:31pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
sisisioge: Thanks, sisisioge. ![]() |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:32pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
wunmi590: Thank you so much. |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:33pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
crackhaus: Mtcheww. |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:34pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
sweetonugbu: Sex is not everything. |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by crackhaus: 8:39pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: *Hissing* in demisexual accent 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by SirMichael1: 8:52pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
havilla: I hate to break it to you but you read wrongly. There's no such thing as personalities attached to date of birth. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by wunmi590(m): 8:57pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: My pleasure |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by havilla(f): 8:59pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
SirMichael1:you are free to believe what you want to believe, am not forcing anyone. |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:02pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
I can still recall the first time I stumbled on an astrology book in my dad's room. Being a bookworm, I took the book, and read. I was shocked to see that my attributes/characteristics were well described under my month of birth, it was unbelievable. If you are a Capricorn, Virgo, etc, then it's not surprising, because people born under some star signs are melancholy, over serious, afflicted with deep depression, mood swings, etc. They also have great positive characteristics as well and are unique/ great individuals. It's left for you to work on yourself. I worked on myself because I fall under one of the affected star sign. Luckily for me, I am very much lovable by both genders despite the fact that I am always withdrawn, wear a serious face, etc. I accept friends when they come, so begin to accept friendships. I know the world is bad, I have faced betrayals, but we still have good people, with wisdom you can chose the right friends. This December I am fully prepared to call up over 20friends to wish them Merry Christmas ![]() I am going to the beach, hanging with friends, etc. I know most nija men are bad, they are cheats and claim to be polygamous in nature but you could be lucky, accept dates and make a choice. Be considerate because In one of your posts I stumbled on, I saw the conditions you listed, they were okay, but what's if the man who would love you with his life does not have some of the things you listed? Especially the foreign citizenship stuff? Losen up my dear, life is very very beautiful. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by nabegibeg: 10:10pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: I hear you |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by armyofone(m): 11:47pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
The photo with written text is funny ![]() sweetonugbu: Op, also try changing your meals. Less carbs more protein/vegetarian diet...More fish less meat. Weight lifting and HIIT. Exercise really do help to uplift your mood- you just have to keep doing it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by meobizy(f): 2:41am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Somebody is practicing her writing style. I told you to pass me your digits and you're here complaining of unhappiness. My friend, nobody in life is ever satisfied. No matter all the wealth, fame and whatsoever people possess they always have times when they feel down. Accept it, you are breathing. One can't stay happy forever. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by ashatoda: 7:22am On Dec 21, 2019 |
feminism is not your problem and sex is not though you will be so good in fantasizing about sex and if you get married or in a relationship you are willing to have sex wella. you will like to read and also moved by words especially of knowledge like you said about poem and any genre of music you fall in love with you tend to be swayed by the lyrics which should be deep. you look at people and just by hearing them talk for minutes you can easily predict what they will be and can do you are easily pissed by someone who lacks knowledge and infact it's one of your yardstick in determining who to date and if you are married to someone who is not that brilliant he go hear winnn. you know and easily identify business opportunities but the will to take action is not there cos you are looking for the perfect scenario abeg make I stop talking about you but give the advice wet I get. how do I know this much because I suffer from the same problem so how do I go about it. I believe humans will always be humans it is only God that is perfect definitely I tend to keep people at arm's length I still have 1 or 2 people I open up to actually not all my problems I share but still fairly open up and whenever I am interacting with people I only share what I know if they expose I won't feel so down. I have come to accept my wife for who she is but before na real war the secret sincerely is Jesus. I let Him lead me on and I tend to study the scripture more and He has been able to help me so I will advise that you also need Him and more importantly meditate on the word and try to mirror your life according to the word meanwhile be careful not to make yourself a slave of pastor you need a church where the word in the real sense of it is shared where you will be free but still responsible to God by living a holy life try this and most importantly study and try to improve yourself on wherever you take note you are weak then no prob you are also not perfect accept who you are after all God sef accept you as you are 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by Rhema14(m): 7:46am On Dec 21, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: I have had exactly the same experience you shared in the past....I prolonged for a long time before I finally break free. Now it's a thing of the past for me..I am excited and motivated everyday. Contact me on 07066232575 to share tips on how I break free |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by oboy81: 7:46am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Try and help people. give for the love of giving, give without expecting anything in return. you seem smart enough, so be honest to yourself, be discerning and help ppl who really need help. This is Your own little way of Improving humanity. There is real satisafaction and happiness in Giving. ![]() Also "stop causing Controversies" oh you hear, lol it's all vanity #mytwocents Merry Christmas to you 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by Rhema14(m): 7:56am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Just as OP said in her post My past experience with depression sterm from trying to find meaning in Life. I remember this popular song: Everyone is looking for something, something that makes it all complete You find it in different places, places u never knew it could be Some find it in the face of their loved ones, some find it in their lovers eyes YOU CAN DENY THE JOY IT BRINGS WHEN YOU FIND THE SPECIAL THING...YOU FLYING WITHOUT WINGS I found my meaning in life...and everyday ever, I am motivated and busting in excitement despite the odds of life. |
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