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Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by ireneidiva(f): 10:39am On Dec 21, 2019 |
livebyday:I read it. It is trash. 3 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by livebyday(m): 10:39am On Dec 21, 2019 |
ireneidiva: Helping someone get a job? Next thing I should lecture and teach nuclear physics ? Is this an academy ? Look I come to a relationship to rest not do more work 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by SmartyPants(m): 10:40am On Dec 21, 2019 |
luminouz: Lavylily this is someone else's article which you have claimed as your own!! 6 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by luminouz(m): 10:40am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Nnemuka: What's this local hen yakking about now? 4 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by livebyday(m): 10:40am On Dec 21, 2019 |
ireneidiva: You are a teenager right ? Don't worry some day you will understand Post You sound idealistic and not realistic My dear I repeat , it is called self development. This mind set you have is why marriages crash . You have two people of different backgrounds with their own baggage coming to a marriage with expectations? A marriage or relationship isn't where you go to fix your issues ! You are an adult fix yourself before getting committed to a relationship. So if you come to me with nothing but culinary skills as your knowledge base then that is entirely your fault I am not here to fix you, it's hard enough fixing me talkless of you This is why I always say, not everyone should be in a relationship or marriage! Some people just have the wrong ideology. Your partner isn't there to fix your issues, this is why alot of relationships in Nigeria feel so stressful and tiring. Because alot of womenhave your mindset and come there with their baggage looking for whom to dump on . If you are old enough to decide move in with him then you are old enough to have figured out what you need to do to fix your life 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Nobody: 10:40am On Dec 21, 2019 |
I don't understand what is the problem of ladies. I met one two weeks ago, though an old friend of mine. We went on a date. Not even up to two weeks, she has started to bill me. 6 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by ireneidiva(f): 10:40am On Dec 21, 2019 |
livebyday:Then date your type. Simple. 3 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by livebyday(m): 10:41am On Dec 21, 2019 |
ireneidiva: I do,and my type have their lives figured out .they don't come to a relationship seeking assistance So it feels natural. Yes we support each other but it's natural Not some one sided chorefest They don't need sympathy nor are they needy They are confident, mature African women That is my type 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by luminouz(m): 10:42am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Or11: Wow...you be real FBI. I knew I read it somewhere before. Lavylilly, see,i was right! 8 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Catchfirez: 10:43am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ginaz: The writing pain am lol. 3 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:43am On Dec 21, 2019 |
ireneidiva:. And is it wise for a lady to be waiting upon a man before she could get up her feet and find something doing at least to sustain herself? 4 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by luminouz(m): 10:43am On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Patojargz: 10:45am On Dec 21, 2019 |
I see a hoe!!! No doubt! |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 10:45am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Thank God you caught your shade Crying like a little Bitch broke boy livebyday: 2 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by ireneidiva(f): 10:46am On Dec 21, 2019 |
livebyday:You just said you support each other. Is it not the point I made? When a husband decides to go back to school and the wife works harder taking care of the home, is that not support? The person going to work everyday that comes back to meet a warm meal at home is not being supported? Think well next time before calling someone's post trash Mr. Adult. Bye 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Brunicekid(m): 10:46am On Dec 21, 2019 |
SIR0:Very correct point. That last paragraph is SOLID!!! 5 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by shestrong(f): 10:46am On Dec 21, 2019 |
lavylilly:Ure not lying bro. |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by midnighter(f): 10:47am On Dec 21, 2019 |
livebyday: Thats exactly what I wanted to tell the lady who challenged OP. That anybody who is old enough to move in with a guy should use her tongue to count her teeth. Are you a baby that somebody needs to tell you to get a job or read a book? BUT the problem is that nobody is perfect. If you claim to love somebody, you love them and their flaws. Your love should spur you on to help them in areas where they are failing. If you cant give somebody a simple suggestion or nudge in the right direction, then you do not love them. Simple. You are actually the one who is being idealistic and not realistic. Do you think the perfect partner, without any preconceived notions, baggage, problems, failures, blind spots, irritating habits, irrationalities and idiosyncracies is going to fall into your lap, just like that By the way "fix yourself before you get into a relationship" is not feasible. Fix yourself how Some people need to improve their organisational skills. Some people need to lose weight. Some people need to improve their cooking. Some people need to be less prone to anger. So how do you know which of those characteristics will be the straw that breaks the camels back in your next relationship? If what youre saying were true, then no high-powered career men and women would divorce. No pastors would divorce either. Because being a classy lady or a successful man is all that matters right? What if youve read all the books in the world, can speak 10 languages but are useless in the kitchen? And the man doesnt tell you he hates your food until he breaks up with you After how many years....thats rubbish my dear! You shouldnt be making this about LADIES only because anybody starting out with a partner should enter expecting to help that person to be better. How can you claim to love somebody if you arent ready to do that 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by ireneidiva(f): 10:47am On Dec 21, 2019 |
luminouz:You raise local hens or what? 4 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Nobody: 10:47am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Only broke men would like that. Since I believe it is my job to provide for my family, now and in future after I'm gone; I prefer my wife to stay at home, beautify herself for me, and provide me with slutty sex when I want it; and take care of our children while I'm hustling. That's what I married for. Of course being human and not a sex doll that can be kept in the cupboard when not in use, she can work and hustle for herself in her spare time if that's what keeps her from getting bored, or she can take up knitting or flower arranging or boxing or figure skating or telemundo watching; as long as she makes sure that she doesn't cheat, her activities don't affect our sex life, and our children's welfare is not compromised, I don't really care. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by livebyday(m): 10:48am On Dec 21, 2019 |
ireneidiva: You confuse supporting each other with adopting a child in the name.of your girl friend. Fix your own damn life, I am here and have my responsibilities too, I have got sibblings, cousins and other extended family , sick family members but you also want me to add drawing up a life plan for you to all that? Don't forget work, I have so much work load and because I can't help you plan how to fix your life it makes me a bad person ? Because I realize you are too lazy to fix your own life and I want to move on then I am a bad man? Go figure 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by luminouz(m): 10:49am On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by ireneidiva(f): 10:49am On Dec 21, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:Where did i say it is wise? Why should anyone date such a girl in the first place? 3 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Korllami007: 10:49am On Dec 21, 2019 |
livebyday: Because you have been fixed before entering marriage or relationship, that means you can never have fault then need to be fixed again while in marriage or relationship. Let's assume you have fixed yourself before marriage and then after some years in marriage, you have fault and need to be fixed. I'm pretty sure you will divorce so that you can fix yourself because marriage is not a place to fix issues. Are you going to be divorcing every time you have fault because marriage is not a place to fix issues? 6 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by luminouz(m): 10:50am On Dec 21, 2019 |
livebyday: Lol...you really have time sha. Me,i just wanna troll to my heart's content. 1 Like |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by samdavjustin(m): 10:50am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Midas01: Look who is talking, she is pained because this her second comment condemning the op. So because you have sex with a woman then u must marry her. Did anybody put a gun to her face to stay with him. People who reason like you are nothing but male apologist. 3 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by missimelda01(f): 10:50am On Dec 21, 2019 |
With all due respect there's nothing wrong in selling shoes and bag online, so if you want to chase clout think of something smart and stop demeaning people's Hustle. Davash222: 17 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Nobody: 10:51am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ginaz: I don't know why this write up is paining u so much. This is not a generalisation. Some ladies are like this and need to read messages like this. You are also right about ladies that hustle, even in relationships. There are quite a lot. When u see messages like these don't get pissed off. Just keep in mind that it's not for everyone. That u hustle or someone u know hustles doesn't mean all ladies are hardworking. No one piece of advice fits everyone in life cos people have different problems ok...so chill 4 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by ireneidiva(f): 10:51am On Dec 21, 2019 |
luminouz:I don't understand this post please. You have to live with local hens or be one to know how they behave. Are you or your sisters and future or present daughters hens? What is a local hen? Do we have foreign hens? 6 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by livebyday(m): 10:52am On Dec 21, 2019 |
midnighter:This is my issue with Nigerian women ! A partner is not your life coach or career mentor ! Find those on LinkedIn! I need mentoring , I need career coaching too.. Small wonder Nigerian relationship and marriage are in crisis. Imagine two people both in need of coaching and mentoring in a boat angry at each other because the other isnt coaching or mentoring the other ? This is the case with alot of Nigerians marriages and relationships today. Listen ladies fix your own lives ! Take some time off following the Kardashians or make up Instagram videos and focus .. Take two minutes to write out a life plan ! Geez 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Nobody: 10:52am On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ginaz: Lol, the way ladies twist a write up to their favour. I think every Nigerian girl is a gifted lawyer, very good in twisting stories. I fear una. 3 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by DeeMain(m): 10:52am On Dec 21, 2019 |
lavylilly: It's a shame you plagiarized this beautiful article verbatim and still had the gall to go defensive when called out by luminouz. Shame dey catch me on your behalf. 9 Likes |
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