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Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by cococandy(f): 2:42pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Anywhere belle face 6 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by MedicH: 3:01pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Saintmary: Does it matter what "they" want? |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by CHoccolaTE: 3:04pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
You people have come again OP Let me go and open thread asking women to not marry broke guys insults go plenty for the thread no be small. Yet some confused entitled hypocrites want a wife who isn't broke, who is obedient and submissive, who also pays bills at home and yada yada yada Entitled selfish pricks They will never agree that men must be domesticated before marriage but they want women who are breadwinners and hustlers 11 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Saintmary(f): 3:10pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
MedicH:To them, it does To me, their noise about what they want is what matters |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by zmpp(f): 3:26pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ardar: Talk to me about that after obtaining a PhD in engineering and when you become a millionaire in US dollar. |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by bukatyne(f): 3:33pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ardar: What is degrading in submission? |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Nobody: 3:43pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
zmpp: Having a PhD doesn't stop you from having an outdated mind set. 7 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Nobody: 3:54pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
bukatyne: For me, someone who submits is obedient, passive, slavish, timid, meek and docile. I just sum it up as not having a mind of your own or giving up all your choices as an adult to someone else cuz a 2000 year old book written by men said so. 6 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Fabuloski(m): 8:49pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ardar:Feminism is about having a right to choice... she made a choice to be submissive and you are attacking her. What a way to go for someone like you that claims to be a feminist... If you don't want to be submissive, fine, all you have to do is make a choice, it's your right. However, never again question other people's choice, it's their right. 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Sundayjoko: 8:51pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
cerpvad: You sir are one of the problems we are discussing 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by ManuelMount(m): 9:18pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
ednut1: O wise one Teach me to be like you |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Nobody: 9:48pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Fabuloski: Emmm I don't remember telling you that i was a feminist did i? You men what to eat your cake and have it but it won't work. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Fabuloski(m): 10:20pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ardar:This is not about any cake, okay?.... Even, if you are not a feminist, let the lady make her choice, it's her right. You can make yours too, it's your right and nobody will question you. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by emmaodet: 1:17am On Dec 22, 2019 |
cerpvad:Marry up, marry up.... Marry up.. The question now is that if the number of men up are not that much to go round for all the ladies down, then what happen? See bro, life is constantly changing and there are some rules or popular opinions that are now obsolete. They are no more sustainable. The era of marry up stopped when women are been sent to school and also been empowered with jobs, loans, finance and business. If you want us to go back to the traditional settings then all women will have to be sacked also from all jobs to give the traditional providers the avenue to carry out there duties. We all can eat our cakes and have it. For every woman you see in a work place or job or office e.g public and civil servants, banks, mobil, chevron etc there is an equal amount of men(real providers) displaced from such posts. So what do you want the displaced men to do? Become magicians and create jobs from thin air? The marriage settings as been distorted immediately women were empowered. At that moment, there exist no more provider or receiver. Everybody became Equal both in finance and duties at home. Of course, we will still be having the traditional set up but it will be reducing more and more as time goes on because it's not sustainable anymore. Ubunja Martinez39 Pansophist Franchasng 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by cococandy(f): 4:40am On Dec 22, 2019 |
I love this post. I agree with it. A feminist can be anything SHE WANTS to be. Submissive included. I surely hope you will be as sincere and tolerant when the woman CHOOSES not to submit. Fabuloski: 7 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by cerpvad(m): 8:12am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Explain clearly why you think so Sundayjoko: |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by cerpvad(m): 8:41am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Your position is well understood. But the bottom line is that every woman, either broke or financially successful, deserves to be loved cared for by a man. A real man does not say if she is broke, I won't marry her, because a real man does not expect augmentation from his wife's resources to carry out his responsibility in the home. Although, in the new trends in modern marriage, both man and woman are seen as equal parties, they are far from being equal in sharing duties and responsibilities. This because, in our clime, you will hear women saying 'my money is my money and his money is for the family' Meaning, many financial women have tendency of spending their money on themselves and when they spend to support the family, they are fond of blowing the trumpet for the whole world to know. And when they have altercations with their husbands, they go to the extent of blackmailing. That is when you will hear them say ' I bought this, I bought that for you and the children' I am still of the view that men should as much as possible, marry down. This will go a long way to contain power struggles and competition which have destroyed many a marriage. emmaodet: 1 Like |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Fabuloski(m): 8:44am On Dec 22, 2019 |
cococandy:I am.... I am a huge believer of individual rights sha |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by nanauju(f): 11:00pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
ednut1: When I was encouraging women to work for their money to earn respect, all the men that commented attacked me for saying women should work, earn money and respect. Now look at this op's topic. I don't understand Nigerian men 1 Like |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Nobody: 11:21am On Dec 23, 2019 |
Geminita1: Nonsense. |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by seanblaise(m): 4:23pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
nanauju:Its not about "earning respect ". Women should compliment their men financially. Its true that most women tend to be arrogant once they begin to earn money, men should learn to leave this category of women and go for women who earn a living and are also willing to be wifed the right way!!! 1 Like |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Ryan03(f): 7:48pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
zmpp:lol, see this animal forming submissive and successful o. Abeg post your acc balance. Broke bitches forming porch on nl |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by freecocoahubby(m): 8:05pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Ardar: Then go and die! 5 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Mobree: 7:43am On Dec 31, 2019 |
seanblaise: I disagree. Most men want their wives to be teachers because they dont want to do any house chores or provide child care. Later they will come and say the woman is not contributing financially or she's lazy yen yen yen...elo ni salary e? 1 Like |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Mobree: 7:44am On Dec 31, 2019 |
cerpvad: Really? 1 Like |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by Nobody: 9:24am On Dec 31, 2019 |
freecocoahubby: Who this one? Are you on your mensuration? |
Re: Dear Men, Please Don't Date Or Marry A Broke Woman. by nlPoster: 6:34pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
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