pocohantas:


I wonder what these children even do for them. Pikin wey no fit bathe herself. Anyone that goes for a child doesn't have noble intentions.



Don't mind him. Didn't we see the one that her head was broken. The one they used iron on. The man doesn't need to be home to see those scars. The fear and sadness in the eyes of the child is enough to tell anyone something is wrong.

.. Until both men and women realize that maltreating any child that is not their biological child is a big offence,then this rubbish will never stop.Even my nanny that is over 50 yrs,I still come back and ask her how things are going on between she and my wife even to the extent of telling her to be free to let me know if she is not happy with the job.We are humans and showing a little love and compassion to the less privileged will not make us less a person.

DrAdebolariwa:
Chei!!! Imagine how she threw this child on the ground like football. She deserves punishment. But my wey film this, u did a good job oo bt u were jus interestin in filming not saving the child. U watched her throw d lil girl like on d ground n u were still filming. Y didn u position d phone n rush to save the child.


Chei!! This woman shaa. Na God go visit u

Talk like somebody wey get brain and not like a village mumu

Korllami007:



In this situation, what are you going to do? Because the last person that reacted by scolding his wife for maltreating their maid was accused for sleeping with the maid, not only that but also his wife stopped cooking for him. He shared the story on nairaland and some were advising him to go and apologized to his wife for over reacting.
Again, in this situation, how are you going to do it so that you won't be called paedophile?

..Such scenario can't happen in my house because my wife knows the kind of person I'm.But let's assume it does happen that she starts accussing me of such,I will still stand my ground and let her bring on the beef. I won't even talk to her or try to beg her,I will inform her parents about it so she can explain to them how my being good to a maid whom we entrusted our kids to amount to sleeping with her. God help her she comes out to apologize if not,nwanne,that marriage na she go tire.

The height of wickedness !!!

Really sad. In the first place it is wrong to get a child as a house help.
Years ago though I must
tell. I actually released one or two blows on my house help. A 22 years old house help. My son then was 2 years old and I saw 5 impression of "abara" ie 5 fingers imprinted on his face. I was younger then as this was 14 years ago

This is so unfair

If she use the same energy to exercise, she would have lost all these fat and regain her pre pregnancy stature..

Here she is behaving like a devil incarnate..

Nonsense!!!

Child abuser should be treated like any domestic violence assailant!!!

Wicked hypocrite!!!

nedekid:
Really sad. In the first place it is wrong to get a child as a house help.
Years ago though I must
tell. I actually released one or two blows on my house help. A 22 years old house help. My son then was 2 years old and I saw 5 impression of "abara" ie 5 fingers imprinted on his face. I was younger then as this was 14 years ago

..

These are the kinds of women that will provoke her husband to slap her and will be the one shouting men are beast !

I saw this video on Facebook. Horrible .

It’s heartbreaking. I hope she’s already locked up now.

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!! Did u guys watch that video?

What if the girl neck bin break ni? That's death straight o
Chai See the small girl sef.

I don't even know what to say sef.... This woman should be arrested asap. She's capable of murder. She even neglected her little baby on the floor to fight a child....

Its nice u videoed this for the world to c,but let me tell u if dat girl had lost her life right there while she was been beaten by dat evil lady ,her blood is partly on your head ,I wonder how u could stand dat girls cry and kept on videoing for 7 horrible mins and you couldn't go out there and scold d lady and save dat little girl from more pains ...only God knows wat will happen when they get home ...I pray this your video helps locate dat woman so dis little girl can get justice ...so pathetic

she will soon reap what she sowed..

seborrhic:

So your dad wants the woman to be killed for hitting the girl and smacking her on the ground?
Something she graciously survived.
I can bet anything your dad would do worse.
The most hypocritical people are the ones that advocate extreme,disproportionate punishment for crimes;but behind they are the worst child abusers,womanizers and perverts.
The simple,lawful thing is for any sane person to call for her apprehension.
All these hypocrisy of kill her,sentence her to life imprisonment,confine her to an asylum for ever,are marks of hypocrites trying to appear better than her but do worse and are simply lucky not to have been caught on camera.

Ha
Now I understand that Nigerians deserve Buhari. WTF!!!

pocohantas:


No part of my post said it is a man's fault. I asked why can't the husband step in, same question I asked when a man molested a help and the wife was very aware!

It is nice logic that evil thrives when supposed good people do nothing. So, tone down your delusion of persecution and think!!

i get your point but if he steps in the wife may accuse him of sleeping with her. Most times men let ladies run the house. Men are usually passive to those stuffs
Imagine if he steps in and he leaves for work,wouldnt she triple maltreatment on her because the husband steps in?

The best thing is to send the gal away,because coming in will worsen the girl maltreatment and cause arguments between him and his wife.

Besides while will an underage be a househelp? When i think of househelp i doconsider 18+ that may be live in or not that i will pay monthly. Its like a regular 9-5pm job. You come into my house with your uniform by an agreed time,do chores,have a break time,meal may be provided but it aint compulsory(i personally love to give meal though) since you are paying wages.
But most people dont want to employ maids but rather want to save money by getting an underage to work life slaves in exchange for giving them shelter and low quality meal.

I have a houseboy,albeit he is a not live-in houseboy aged 19,he is a just wrote jamb. He comes and stays with me and works for me and leaves. I have never had any reason to complain of him because he is mature enough to do chores as i want or even better and he is energetic (why i chose a male)enough to work for me. A kid will not be able to do what he does.
People shouldnt employ underage


In cases like this

watching dis my system or my phone almost got crashed they should just arrest this woman abeg

lalanice:
I think this is the test women should be put through to know if they have a good heart or not. Because if you can't treat another person's child right, you are not a good person no matter what you do for your own.

And I don't care how much a man or woman smiles, I always look at the least person in their house either their maid, driver or whoever, if the person doesn't look ok I automatically view you as 'not a good person' I don't care how well you can pretend it will show.

Very true!!

HopeSpencer:


Gone are the days when I was in pursuit of cerebral women like yourself. But I concluded that no one, male or female, is wise in the very sense of the word. Marriage should just happen as a phenomenon, because harmony can never be guaranteed. Where there's harmony, thank the stars or God if you believe in Him.

You attract so much negative energies on nairaland that I finally resolved to say one or two things about you. You must, and will get married, believe me, your wisdom won't play the most vital roles.

In my culture, monkey is a symbol of foolishness and it is reknowned for the mastery of tree plays. So, an adage goes thus; "When wisdom succeeds in flying over the tallest trees in the rainforests, it ends its exploits in the natural habitat of monkeys." That means wisdom still can't master the Woody terrain more ingenuously than the pioneer foolish monkeys.

I'm a liberal person, and if a partner or associate breaks that code, I would restart everything from the beginning. I could resign from a job on the 29th of a month and forfeit the salary.

Young woman, the earth will never be a better place. Learn to fight for your immediate needs, and leave the rest for the forces beyond man to handle.

Why am I saying this? I befriended someone who sounds almost like you. We shared very lovely memories, delved into manifold wisdoms of the unseen... We never met in person. Then we agreed that a relationship leading to marriage would not work because we seemed to know so much more than necessary. She vanished into thin air. I married someone who can't boast of 10% of her intelligence, and heaven has not fallen.

Very funny

JONNYSPUTE:
.. There shouldn't be anything like gender war here.I have bailed a friend before because of this kind of issue. The wife was maltreating their maid and unfortunately she fail and got injured. When the matter was reported to the police,he was even the one everybody was blaming.The only question he was asked was "Oga wetin you do when you know say your wife dey always beat am" He could not answer, straight to the cell.They were lucky it wasn't so serious.

Men should marry a lady they can rebuke and vice versa!! !
Some marriage has fundamental problems!!!

lalanice:
haha, until people realise this, some people will keep hating other people/things not realizing that the real problem is actually within. I totally love this very post.

I always say knowing too much is the reason some people will die lonely or never find love but they'd keep saying men/women are bad whereas people marry every Saturday.

How does this correlate with the topic now?

If Government does not act accordingly.then woe onto them.this really gross

Michellekabod2:
i get your point but if he steps in the wife may accuse him of sleeping with her. Most times men let ladies run the house. Men are usually passive to those stuffs
Imagine if he steps in and he leaves for work,wouldnt she triple maltreatment on her because the husband steps in?

The best thing is to send the gal away,because coming in will worsen the girl maltreatment and cause arguments between him and his wife.

Besides while will an underage be a househelp? When i think of househelp i doconsider 18+ that may be live in or not that i will pay monthly. Its like a regular 9-5pm job. You come into my house with your uniform by an agreed time,do chores,have a break time,meal may be provided but it aint compulsory(i personally love to give meal though) since you are paying wages.
But most people dont want to employ maids but rather want to save money by getting an underage to work life slaves in exchange for giving them shelter and low quality meal.

I have a houseboy,albeit he is a not live-in houseboy aged 19,he is a jambite. He comes and stays with me and works for me and leaves. I have never had any reason to complain of him because he is mature enough to do chores as i want or even better and he is energetic (why i chose a male)enough to work for me. A kid will not be able to do what he does.
People shouldnt employ underage


In cases like this

..So because he wants to avoid being termed sleeping with a maid,he should allow her kill somebody's child?.I keep saying it,your wife can only say that if you are weak. Period.I personally will step in,let her say anything she wants to provided I 'm innocent. If I go out and she worsen the maltreatment,I will send the maid back to her parents and put a ban stopping any other maid from coming to that house. Let her do all the choirs since that's what she wants. I don't have time for such rubbish.

JONNYSPUTE:
..Such scenario can't happen in my house because my wife knows the kind of person I'm.But let's assume it does happen that she starts accussing me of such,I will still stand my ground and let her bring on the beef. I won't even talk to her or try to beg her,I will inform her parents about it so she can explain to them how my being good to a maid whom we entrusted our kids to amount to sleeping with her. God help her she comes out to apologize if not,nwanne,that marriage na she go tire.

It's not every man that will be like you and if both wife and husband are both stubborn, the marriage will lead to divorce. In the case of the man that shared his own story yesterday. He has started feeling guilty after his wife has started emotional blackmail trick on him and that's why he added this Please house let me know if I overreacted


Some of this men that their wives are maltreating their maids are helpless because their wives have clipped their wings with emotional blackmail. This can be seen in the case of yesterday's op. He started doubting his reaction towards his wife maltreating the little girl after his wife started pulling emotional trick on him and playing victim card.
I'm pretty sure you know there are weak men everywhere. You have seen cases on nairaland how a guy will open a thread that his girlfriend is cheating on him and he doesn't know what to do. If the same guy he's in this same situation where his wife maltreating the maid and his wife started pulling emotional blackmailing stunt and victim card trick after she got scolded by him. What do you think will happen? He will be helpless.

In this kind of situation, some of this men have been relegated by the wives using emotional blackmail. Just imagine your wife telling you are sleeping with an under age maid because you reacted towards the way she maltreated the girl. Jeez!!

A woman that could be inhumane towards a child and you think restraining or keeping her under control will be that easy?

Sir, not all men is as strong as you. Some men will escape the first emotional trick, but the second emotional trick from their wife will clip their wings. Your friends that was arrested, shey you know wetin the wife don use his eyes see?

Sis, I no care their reason o and I maintain my stand. A man would slap and batter his wife for running her mouth without fear of being called an abuser. Yet they can watch a CHILD get abused for reasons as flimsy as being tagged a paedophile by the abusive wife. I call it flimsy because the evidence of her abuse would be all over that child's body and any sane human would be aware of such emotional blackmail from women like her.

What if the child dies? What will he tell Nigerian Police?

He should step in by taking the child back, since they were both stupid to bring a child in the first place. It is the price he has to pay for marrying a beast and indulging her in such wickedness.

I agree with the rest of your post. It should be a full time job for adults.

Michellekabod2:
i get your point but if he steps in the wife may accuse him of sleeping with her. Most times men let ladies run the house. Men are usually passive to those stuffs
Imagine if he steps in and he leaves for work,wouldnt she triple maltreatment on her because the husband steps in?

The best thing is to send the gal away,because coming in will worsen the girl maltreatment and cause arguments between him and his wife.

Besides while will an underage be a househelp? When i think of househelp i doconsider 18+ that may be live in or not that i will pay monthly. Its like a regular 9-5pm job. You come into my house with your uniform by an agreed time,do chores,have a break time,meal may be provided but it aint compulsory(i personally love to give meal though) since you are paying wages.
But most people dont want to employ maids but rather want to save money by getting an underage to work life slaves in exchange for giving them shelter and low quality meal.

I have a houseboy,albeit he is a not live-in houseboy aged 19,he is a jambite. He comes and stays with me and works for me and leaves. I have never had any reason to complain of him because he is mature enough to do chores as i want or even better and he is energetic (why i chose a male)enough to work for me. A kid will not be able to do what he does.
People shouldnt employ underage


In cases like this

Seriously, we need to find this woman and get her arrested

ideatoprince18:
..... If this was my wife ehn .... I would make sure I give her a taste of her medicine .... I would lift her up and heat her on the floor with violent force same way she did to the maid

You will carry that fat woman??

If she die n ko??

Joystark:
Damn.

Some people are just demons.

Including the camera man.

If the camera man did not record this, how would appropriate bodies become aware of this evil??

The man even said this is child abuse.. He wants the woman to be punished appropriately!!!

If the man confront the woman, he would be insulted by the woman..

The woman will call him names such as Lazy man, Aproko, weak etc. You don't know bad women sha!!!

Korllami007:


Will you be home every time to monitor a maid?

You don't need to be home to monitor anything. Just ask the maid questions

Look at the way she dresses

Look out for any new injuries

Look at her grooming and health