seunfly:


@bolded, the husband can only do so much, most of the time the husband has talk and talk and he is tired.
Most of the fight btw husband and wife are sometime because of maltreatment of househelp, most women tends to act like this no matter what they say in public or online, their true colour comes out in their private home.
If you talk too much as husband, she starts telling u that you like the house help more than her or you are sleeping with house help or you value house help more than your family and she will start emotional black mail.
The worst thing is that her hatred for the house help will increase if you dare challenge her.

Most mrn will simply ignore it to have rest of mind.

Ladycewhy:
Its just sad,honestly. I am even more concerned about how this imprints on the psyche of her kids. They either turn out just as brutal or end up being a people pleaser .

Ladycewhy:
wicked and heartless more than men? Lol you mean the same men that are raping even babies? Or the same men raping and killing women? You mean the same men butchering a human being and selling the parts for 1k each? Which of the men ? .Don't get me started lol .



I have seen both worlds ,the one that takes care of the child as if he is hers and another that treats the dog better than the child. The only conclusion i can draw is i personally cannot raise another person's child. Not because i cant treat them right, but because no matter how much you try to integrate them into your family,you will never be accorded that parental love. Punishment you will normally give to your kids will be seen as maltreatment you will hear things like "its because they are not my parents".And in their adult stage they leave your house and forget all you did for them.


This particular video is actually very annoying,seeing that her child is almost grown like the maid.why even have a maid when your kids can do what the maid is doing. This particular woman is wicked just like my neighbor who was maltreating her late brothers two children that was staying with her.


In conclusion, which ever way ,i dont favor kids going to stay with people, except both parents are dead.

pocohantas:


The men don't beat them, they rape them. So, yes, they are all wicked people. Dîckhead!



Another perspective. Some people will still argue. They will even watch their wives kill a child and claim to be a good person.

Ladycewhy:
send the help away ,simple.I am sure the kids can do what the help is doing. I personally feel having a help makes the kids spoilt and lazy.

Ladycewhy:
I am just curious how women turn their maids to sex objects that is where i want you to explain.

AmuDimpka:
Thanks be to God Almighty the wicked woman have been arrested look at the girl oh my God

seunfly:


Well I don't tolerates house help in my house, we do everything together to avoid excuse to need house help, besides my wife hates child abuse because she was abused when she was young.
However many family can't cope without househrlp especially if their kids are very young and both of them don't have enough spare time like me.

The best thing is that people should fear God in everything they do, funny thing is that those women are the most religious set of people.

I know a friend who has almost become nanny because of house maid, he gets house maids and his wife's actions keeps sending the house maid away, yet the wife is not ready to do the work of housemaid and somebody had to do it. This is affecting the husband's business seriously because he could not meet up with office obligations.

Ladycewhy:
I am more concerned about prevention than the cure, people should stop giving out their kids to people when they are not dead. Only orphans should be taken in,well that is just my opinion.


Children are shaped based on what they see around them,the odds of her kids turning out to grow into adults who lack empathy,feel they can get away with anything and feel they can treat people with utter disregard is very high.

EzeULU:


If you watch the video from the beginning... It seems that the door of the car open and hit her child who unfortunately fell down.. and the maid was in that seat and I think that got her furious.

To those asking where it happen, it happen in Onitsha.

godbless120:



So you are telling me you have not seen nor heard how women go village demand for parent to let them take their kids to help them promising to train them either via school or handwork and at the end what those little will receive is to sleep with mens or they are not given food in a far away til they succum.
My point is women will create awareness and hashtag just to oppose and be equall men in the society but once it is madam and housemaid/help and other issues, it will be received with no much attention.

Ladycewhy:
then get proper age maids,child labor has no excuse. I am sure she will watch how she treats an advanced maid or better still hire a nanny.

pocohantas:


Ednut, this is a very silly reason, but definitely not as silly as people who think the man who witnesses such go on- shouldn't be found culpable. It is a case of two wicked people and if you check it well, you will see it is true.

pocohantas:
I do wonder how the head of the house watches an evil wife inflict such pain on a child. If the wife has decided to be useless, can't the husband step in?

This whole house help thing needs to be looked into. Children shouldn't be slaves. If you want to help a child; it is not until they come serve your household that you will help. Gosh!

pocohantas:


-Put stringent laws in place.
-Let there be a token for people who report cases of child abuse/labour. Money motivates people.
-When confirmed, arrest the parents of the child or whoever gave him/her out, arrest the family that took her in too.
-Try them.
-Keep looking for other scape goats.

seunfly:


Do u read my comment at all, i don't tolerates any firm of nanny in my house, we do things together to avoid any needs for nanny.

Why do I need to get any help when I can help my wife to do things at home.

Ladycewhy:
I also know of men are the ones sleeping with these minors ,which is why there is a word called accomplice. Many cases of men who have molested their maida,but the women turned a blind eye or sent the maids away to save their marriage, the word again is called accomplice. Go check it out.

madgoat:


Story... Nothing will happen to the woman.
Children of now a days are too stubborn. Na iron hand fit them

godbless120:


I am not disputing the fact and i hv seen and heard about it..
My point is, in such situation, some women will and always justify and support the wife for taking such action rather than creating awareness to help the maid who might hv been play and use by the lady husband since we didn't knw what the husband might hv said to the maid to succum to him.. we all knw the pressure young girls face from men.
I hv even seen men sleeping with their daughter and the wife cover it up or agree to such.. If women can stand up to such issues, i believe it will be possible to breach the gap between inequality

ednut1:
if this was my wife i would certainly return the child back sha. Just sad that's what many are going thru

Offpoint:

Poco I asked for your help and you totally ignored me... that ain't cool.

APOPTOSIS:

Not Just LADIES but Female Creatures..

Female LION does most hunting.
Female DOG (BITCHES) are Ruthless.
Female Anopheles carries Malaria Parasite.
Female BEE kills MALE during Mating.

pocohantas:






I don't know where they all are currently. Probably packed somewhere.

Ladycewhy:
we are saying the same thing ,men can be accomplices and women too. There is no gender favoured to be more decent than the other here. There are wicked people irrespective of gender.