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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by Nobody: 9:13am On Dec 23, 2019 |
chriskosherbal: Bros you've said it all nothing remains.... I pray make he see this your advice READ OO. Wait, are you relationship counsellor?! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by maikalaf(m): 9:16am On Dec 23, 2019 |
tellsblinks:I tire o! Baba dey find excuse to give. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by Nobody: 9:20am On Dec 23, 2019 |
AntiWailer 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by maasoap(m): 9:24am On Dec 23, 2019 |
AntiWailer: All these just to have free access to what is already his? Very unnecessary. He should just have a frank (and heated) discussion with her to find out what is really wrong. This is not about two people dating one another. |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by eyinjuege: 9:27am On Dec 23, 2019 |
bishopkay: If he's a 2 minutes man, he needs to work on himself and not wait for his wife to spike his drink. That's wrong on all levels, putting things in people's food for drinks without their consent. What if he has an allergic reaction to it, or he had taken something else that shouldn't be used with whatever you spike his drink with? Secondly, no man likes to hear he is a 2minute man, especially from the woman he is dating or married to. If an ex says that, it may be painful, but we can always say its because it's a pained/ scorned lover. No matter how much you love him, never tell him that. That will damage his psyche more than refusing him sex, and he won't want the sex ever again. He will remain insecure for life. At least, now everyone can fault the woman as you're all doing now, and we all still remain oblivious of why she refuses him Imagine if OP had posted here that his wife told him he is a 2 minute man. What wouldn't we have heard on this thread, and what wouldn't have been said about the woman. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by maasoap(m): 9:27am On Dec 23, 2019 |
Katier00: This statement is selfish |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by maasoap(m): 9:28am On Dec 23, 2019 |
bukatyne: God bless you for your wisdom and understanding. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by promofleetmc: 9:29am On Dec 23, 2019 |
Ladies can prove me wrong.One of this 3 things attracts a lady to a man.Good looks,Rich,Humour and same with guys.The moment she has opportunity to be with Ramsey Noah or a more handsome guy when u not around she falls for him,if she is is opportune to dine with the likes of Dangote,Otedola who are richer.U will have to fight hard to retain her.I she meets an humorous guy with vast intelligence than u,my brother Na Gobe be that and sex is also part of the intelligence cos there are some skills and mood monitoring techniques that shud be adopted.In other to remain the man,look at what attracted u to her which she much have either jokingly told u when the going was good.Try to do 3X of that to retain her.Never result to quarrel or fights.It doesn’t pay. |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by maasoap(m): 9:31am On Dec 23, 2019 |
bukatyne: So, the punishment and suffering continue? May be divorce will be better if the issue is not resolved |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by maasoap(m): 9:34am On Dec 23, 2019 |
marvel2011: Hun, poor man has accepted his fate and carried his burden in silence. Long live man. But I think you deserve better than employing this kind of coping mechanism. Are you happy? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by Nobody: 9:35am On Dec 23, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Come ma test your buwwww may be I feee real ORGASM with my 45 minutes lasting Gbola No insult just ask of my address or drop yours. I love easy going Mamas, 10k for TP |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by AntiWailer: 9:35am On Dec 23, 2019 |
maasoap: Nothing is his. Dnt make that mistake because of African Man Ego. You will end up just sleeping with her while they help u make love to her outside This generation is different from that our Mother's generation. There are boys who are ready to Bleep Ur pregnant wife while u do abomination. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by AntiWailer: 9:38am On Dec 23, 2019 |
Sparro: Woman is not too preciouse to lose but as long as you dnt consider losing them, making them feel loved is compulsory. They are not our mothers' generation, these ones will response to love wherever it comes from. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by maasoap(m): 9:38am On Dec 23, 2019 |
Lordswazz: I concur. Frustration kills faster. Wives denying husbands sex is not good at all most especially if the husband is a responsible one. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by Christmasdon(m): 9:39am On Dec 23, 2019 |
AFTER THEY WILL TELL US SEX AFTER MARRIAGE. GOD PUNISH DEVIL. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by Nobody: 9:46am On Dec 23, 2019 |
God no allow me see any women wey sabi pass my level oo |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by maasoap(m): 9:47am On Dec 23, 2019 |
AntiWailer: I don't know what you're driving at my man. If we were joined together as husband and wife and I'm playing my roles as much as I could. And if my wife still thinks that I'm lacking in some aspects, I deserved to be told and I will decide if I can put in extra efforts instead of her denying me what I deserve. But you on the other hand came up with a lot of lists of things for the husbands not considering his schedule, work hours, work nature and others. I think that the best way to go about this is to ask his wife what is missing instead of going about it blindly with trial and error tactics. If I can't have free access to my wife body after doing my part in the relationship, I think separation or divorce will be better for us. Call it African mentality or whatever 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by bukatyne(f): 9:54am On Dec 23, 2019 |
maasoap: I honestly don't know if divorce/ separation is allowed when one party starved the other of sex. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by bukatyne(f): 9:54am On Dec 23, 2019 |
maasoap: Thanks |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by midnighter(f): 10:00am On Dec 23, 2019 |
bukatyne: No. But experiencing financial difficulty is one thing that can affect a couples sex life if the woman is worried/dissatisfied with her living conditions Its not the only important thing but its still relevant |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by midnighter(f): 10:05am On Dec 23, 2019 |
maasoap: You need to think more laterally. What you suggested is not necessarily wrong but lacks depth. What if you sit her down and talk to her and she says youre not romantic enough? This is not about two people dating one another. Spouses are always dating. Its a relationship and not a (just) business transaction so what he wrote is still applicable in certain cases |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by franchasng: 10:18am On Dec 23, 2019 |
maikalaf:you don't need to spend 2hrs banging a woman for her to cum. Me I don't even have time for sex and my bae knew me well before we walked down the aisle. And she is perfectly fine with it. If you are a busy man you won't be spending all your time and strength on sex to satisfy a woman. So wait until you get married, then u will understand that marathon sex is for jobless boys who have nothing else to worry about aside how to sex a woman to cum ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by midnighter(f): 10:20am On Dec 23, 2019 |
franchasng: Youre just overcompensating. That you dont place emphasis on it in your relationship does not mean that others who do are jobless. What obtains for you does not necessarily hold true for others; there is somebody out there for everybody 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:22am On Dec 23, 2019 |
bukatyne: Kindly explain. |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by AntiWailer: 10:23am On Dec 23, 2019 |
maasoap: She gave up her life , take care of ur kids, cook etc After all that, just come home and say spread Ur legs. You will learn. That wasn't a list. That were possible stuffs to ease her stress and feel loved. It could just be u assisting to bath the kids alone. Access to her body any time u want , this is so hilarious. Shey na borehole ? She won't be wet ? You will just bruise her and stand up after u cum ? Common na Ur type Musa dey help satisfy their woman. We did not pay for a slave when we married. To know the feel, sample females comments on my post. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by dalass(f): 10:24am On Dec 23, 2019 |
AntiWailer: Hillarious! Kuku kee pesin ![]() ![]() ![]() But you're so right ! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by franchasng: 10:29am On Dec 23, 2019 |
midnighter:No busy and successful man waste his time making sure a woman cum. If she cannot cum through normal sex with her boyfriend, she should not agree to marry him simple. Not after marriage she starts to whine about sex when she knew about the guy's sexual prowess before marriage. If she cannot cum through normal sex, she should ask for money to buy a intimacy gadget. Life is simple 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by Femioghay: 10:29am On Dec 23, 2019 |
portune: Maybe she's not meant for u |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by maikalaf(m): 10:34am On Dec 23, 2019 |
maasoap:I think what he's trying to say is that the op should go back to the drawing board, to go back to how things were before getting married. Truth is, a lot of couples forget about what really attracted them to each before the marriage. They stop doing what they were to their partners before the marriage, and when it happens like that, women are the ones the easily notice it, hence, the withdrawal. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by midnighter(f): 10:34am On Dec 23, 2019 |
franchasng: Youre confusing 2 issues. Is it that she didnt explain how much the sex meant to her before the marriage or that people who take sex seriously are jobless? Youre just saying so many things to cover up, thats why I said you should leave others be instead of unnecessary posturing that ends up being meaningless. |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by bukatyne(f): 10:39am On Dec 23, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO: Romans 14: 21 It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or do anything else if it might cause another believer to stumble. Matthew 18:7 “What sorrow awaits the world, because it tempts people to sin. Temptations are inevitable, but what sorrow awaits the person who does the tempting. 1cor 7:1 Now regarding the questions you asked in your letter. Yes, it is good to abstain from sexual relations.[a] 2 But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband. 3 The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs. 4 The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control. If the OP commits adultery, it is a sin. Why did he commit? Because his wife locked shop and he has requested for the key several times through several means. His wife is a stumbling block causing him to fall in this case. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Always by Nobody: 10:42am On Dec 23, 2019 |
AntiWailer:Like I earlier pointed out, your advice to the op is on point.. But I believe the woman is too difficult and she is taking the man for a fool. Just as most commentators here are shooting down the man's write-up because they feel he is not comprehensive enough, I believe the woman think she is a peacock |
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