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Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by UjuJoan2: 6:11pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
crackhaus: What do you want me to say na? My girls already know that fashion is pain. They also know they can have their hair shaved anytime they like, it's up to them. I was on low cut up untill my university days. Even now I still cut my hair from time to time. It's my choice and decision, so I let them decide too. That being said, that snake-like weave they are putting on that little girl in the pix above is just pure torture. Eww! 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by eyinjuege: 6:14pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon: Styling hair can hurt children, unless you are not going to comb it. No matter how much you moisturise the hair to soften it, it will hurt unless it's chemically treated hair. Don't forget children are not adults, and the pain you can bear combing your thick 4c hair will not be borne by the child. Perhaps from the age of 13 years when they know about no pain, no gain and the struggles associated with beauty before the pain of braiding or combing hair will mean nothing. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by 1Sharon(f): 6:18pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
eyinjuege: They might feel some discomfort yes, but they should never feel pain. Speak for yourself, I feel no pain when combing my hair. Pain shows you're doing something wrong. 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by eyinjuege: 6:20pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fieryy: Braided edges always end up falling off. Edges do not need to be braided, from the weight and pressure on it. They are usually fine baby hairs |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by saxby(f): 6:25pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
OK o, we have heard |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Godhatesodomy: 6:25pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Wow |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by kaziblake(f): 6:27pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
That is why I prefer natural hair for kids 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by southsouthking(m): 6:27pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
They won't listen. 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by eyinjuege: 6:28pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon: Yes, I am speaking for myself, as you have spoken for yourself. I don't have chemically treated 4C hair, and neither do my kids. So combing it is always a challenge no matter the amount of conditioner you put before washing, after washing- during steaming (not heated steaming but just put shower cap with your treatment over 30minutes) and even during styling. Its always painful, perhaps a bit exaggerated in some children because just touching the hair with your fingers, without even trying to braid it will make them start shouting. This isn't just my experience, butvalso for many mothers with female children. Comparing shaving a boy's hair to plaiting a girl's hair is a wrong comparison btw OP. You don't pull the scalp while shaving 15 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by kblast: 6:28pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
I totally agree with the post. This should go to some schools in Lagos. I know of some schools in Lagos that actually dictates hairstyles for students every freaking week....kilode!!! Every week new style, na that go make them get distinction? Its too much, such practice that have been in place since the 80s should have been stopped, but governments are focused on more mundane things 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 6:29pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
computergeek:even if you want to cut the hair she will still cry. sometimes both parents have to hold her before the Barber will be able to cut the hair 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by 1Sharon(f): 6:30pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
eyinjuege: You're supposed to use hair moisturizer and leave in conditioner |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by toprealman: 6:30pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Remember the first and last time I tried braiding my hair......when men were boys, had to "undo" the deed first thing in the morning. Night rest was horrible! |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ladycewhy(f): 6:32pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fieryy:i disagree. Not all textures are substianable for daily bun maintenance. The stress of having to style everyday and make it into a bun is more compared to just making it into braids once in a week.So why not braid it once a week insead of going through the trouble every single day to style it? 9 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by EMMNIG: 6:35pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
computergeek:I totally disagree with your u, plaiting of hair at tender age is good for a girl child, because it prepares the child for the challenges that is attached to the future especially pains during labour. In my culture it is assume that a female who cannot bear the pains of plaiting can't as well bear the pain of labour. Thanks 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 6:35pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
eyinjuege: Sorry, that was a typo. Edges should of course not be braided |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Fabric: 6:37pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
So I remember when i was quite young. Mum asked me to go make my hair with her friend because we had an occasion the next day. When I came back, she noticed my forehead was illuminating. I was obviously in pain. She asked me to sit and slowly loosened everything. The next morning, she used gel to style it her way and off we went. If I'm too busy to make my daughters hair, I give the hairdresser specific instructions. I don't want it to hurt her, even if it gets rough sooner than later, I actually wouldn't mind. Don't just hurt the little girl.! 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 6:37pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
My father made my mom loosen the entire braided hair many times .He didnt care about the time and cost. If I had my neck like tolotolo and in tears he made them take it down immediately. Thanks dad 10 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Michelle55: 6:38pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
No daughter of mine will go through such pain all in the name of hair making.. Will braid it myself since I'm a stylist myself ![]() Honestly speaking, even as old as I am, I still feel pains when braiding my hair not to talk of little angels. Mothers should let the cute bunnies grow up and decide what they really want to do with their hair. 10 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 6:39pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
PeacenLove2: Grease is NOT a moisturiser. Besides, the mistake most of you make is you seal on dry hair and expect the non existent moisture to sink in. 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by crackhaus: 6:41pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
UjuJoan2:Lol, na you teach dem that one abi Hope you don't wear body shapers in the name of torturous fashion? ![]() |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by tot(f): 6:41pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Just do what works for you. What is torture for one person is simply an inconvenience for others. We all have different pain tolerance levels. It's up to the parent to make the judgment call. 8 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 6:42pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
EMMNIG: This is very wicked. Why not whip her with koboko periodically to prepare her for pain of childbirth. What a wicked culture that is Ever heard of epidural. This is 21st century 8 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 6:43pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
eyinjuege: You're supposed to add a leave in on damp hair before combing and comb from the ends to the roots to gently remove any knots in the way. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by ireneidiva(f): 6:44pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fieryy:Please speak for yourself. People use that and still have hard hair. 12 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by meobizy(f): 6:44pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
How do fathers permit this? When we were growing up, my dad would personally insist on the hairdresser coming to our place to braid so he could sternly warn her to go easy on our heads. When he saw that we still cried regardless, he had them cut off all our hair grin. We hated it then, but at least the gut-wrenching crying stopped.What concerns fathers in this matter, were they females in their past lives? Females are physically weak. When I grew hair I made sure to tell the hairdresser to tighten those braids so I could feel what women always complain about. Alas she did to the best of her ability and I never experienced headaches and pains of any sort. You want to experience pain? Let your mother comb your kinky hair as a six year old. That is one pain I’m surprised never happens as a grown man. Wait, it does sometimes but is bearable. Another thing I’m sure men can do better is pregnancy. Females make a lot of noise about it. I’m sure if science finds a way for men to carry the child they’ll do it so good women will go green with envy as usual. 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by tot(f): 6:44pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
computergeek: It's not for you to tell others what pain they should go through or what age that should be. That's a personal choice. It's the parents' judgment call. 5 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Sterope(f): 6:45pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Their excuse has always been the poor girl's appreciation for the beauty of the hair. |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by pocohantas(f): 6:45pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Depends on the style, any style that touches the edges is a NOO! Sadly, that is the type they always make these kids. Very mature hair styles! Gosh! I hate it ehn. Anyway, I get doitforyou's argument. A Nigerian mother has a very tight schedule, you don't wanna add daily styling from an uncooperative kid to it. When I have my baby girl (who would definitely look like me) - I will be making her that fulani hairstyle. The one that starts from the center and falls round the head. E no go pass 10, we would count it ![]() 15 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by ireneidiva(f): 6:45pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fieryy:I do all that and my hair is still hard. So speak for only yourself. 8 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Surrey2Bimshire: 6:46pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fieryy: I’m not a 4a or 4c . I do know quit a lot of 4s around me and I see the constant struggle they had to go through in other to put their maine together . Just because you are able to “fix” yours in 5 min(you’re most likely an adult) doesn’t mean a working mother with kids will want to constantly manipulate her kiddos hair everyday . She can decide to let her kids wear Cornrows just to save time . 10 Likes |
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