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Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by thatthing111(m): 6:47pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Lol! Last week I saw this little 3 year old girl crying her eye balls out while one woman held her down and the other braided her hair. I wondered how long she would have to go through that. I felt for the little one. 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Sterope(f): 6:47pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Judgement call to put their children through unnecessary pain because of their own idea of beauty? Does that make sense to you? You could as well tell then to kills their children because they are the parents. tot: 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 6:47pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Surrey2Bimshire: Can you guys even read?! 1 Like
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Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by tot(f): 6:47pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
ireneidiva: Your hair type must be 4xyz in that case I am yet to see a hair type that would be hard after it's well moisturized. 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Godhatesodomy: 6:47pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Wow Wake up out your slumber |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by 1Sharon(f): 6:48pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: So you don't have to do alot for these styles: 1 Like
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Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by fairygeh(f): 6:48pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
I agree with you,Some callous mothers subject even a two month old baby girl to the agony of hair weaving,braids,or Kiko style,chai,I hated that style even as a young girl in Secondary School,I literally lost my sleep for three nights consecutively anytime I did it then. The annoying part is those braided styles do not fit the little girls after all the hurdles ,what is best is kids is their natural hair packed in bits or just bonded with a natural looking afro,or better still,cut the hair,not too low though,till she reaches the age she can atleast bear the pain.abeg,I cannot come and put my lovely daughter in pains. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Surrey2Bimshire: 6:48pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
doitforyou: I was about to type the same thing . 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by tot(f): 6:48pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Sterope: As long as you are not the parent, it's not your business. Sorry. If you applied the sense you claim to have, you would know what is considered unnecessary pain is completely subjective. How does the comment relate to killing a child? What does that have to do with the point made? 8 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 6:49pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
computergeek: I remember that year when a little girl of less than 5 got home from the salon with very mother and started running high fever. The little angel passed on before they could get her to a hospital. Eventually it turned out that the hair/braid that was done for her caused unbearable pain for the little girl because it was too tight. True life story. 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by 1Sharon(f): 6:51pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
tot: See them. I'm sure you and your child have alopecia. Nigerian women want long hair but don't even know how to achieve it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Surrey2Bimshire: 6:53pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
PeacenLove2: With proper hair conditioner for your hair type and good moisturizer combing your hair will be like a walk in the park. Remember to divide your hair in sections and comb from tip to scalp . |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by tot(f): 6:53pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon: How is it your business what others do with their hair? Ever nosy Nigerians. Is it your alopecia? ITK 6 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by fairygeh(f): 6:54pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
FrLukas:Just imagine,very sad.I totally believe because even as an adult,there are some hairstyles that one does and just feel like taking it off immediately,due to the tightness and the fact tha it makes one very uncomfortable,even to sleep na wahala,not to talk of kids.very unnecessary. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ladycewhy(f): 6:54pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon:If you have to do it every morning for a child before school,its alot of stress. 8 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Melovia: 6:54pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Dem go gree hear word? |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Sterope(f): 6:54pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
It might be you derive joy in watching parents hurt their kids. We don't! It is their children they can do and undo. If they can hurt them for their own satisfaction and teach them to enjoy pain for other people's satisfaction, they can as well kill them. tot: 4 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by midnighter(f): 6:55pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
There's nothing wrong with braiding a child's hair, as long as care is taken not to make it too tight. It can be uncomfortable but not necessarily painful. Or it may be mildly painful for a couple of days. Experiencing pain is not going to kill the child. Everybody experiences pain, especially en route to achieving something meaningful. You can't shield children from pain forever just to prove a point. This is unrealistic. Children should be taught resilience and not shielded and coddled all the time. The end result is comfort enough for the pain endured. Putting somebody's hair in a bun every day for school is not feasible; little children mess their hair up a lot and natural hair can get tangled if a comb is not run through it often enough. Then when you want to comb it it will still be war. I think a reasonable cornrow style with or without attachments is okay for a schoolgirl. And it will also teach them from an early age about neatness. The bun is okay as well once in a while but people who braid their kids hair shouldn't be condemned. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 6:55pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon: And when you try to teach them, they give you excuses to why your hair is different 4 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Oxb90: 6:55pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
computergeek:thanks, you actually understood this write up 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Surrey2Bimshire: 6:55pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
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Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by victorian(f): 6:56pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
computergeek: God bless you my dear I wonder too! Honestly I wonder what mothers gain seeing their kids cry endlessly over one useless awkward style that has no meaning. At the end the child looks like one lil masquerade. When I was lil, I had low cut till I was done with ssce, that's when I started growing hair and plaiting with thread, then with weaves. And there is one other thing I notice as well. You see mothers wearing seductive dresses like jumpsuit, halter neck tops, short tight knickers on their kids, especially robust kids. And I wonder what do this kind of mother want for her baby girl? I know of a three years old girl,who is so robust with fine face, she wore jumpsuit, figure hugging jumpsuit. Come and see the assz shaking , like to water assz in ladies, because she has extra large bum bum for her age. And I'm like if someone rapes her daughter now, she will be crying foul and asking for compensation. For God sakes! Why wear female kids seductive dresses? Why? Instead of protecting the female child, the mother is exposing her to predators out there. Are they stylishly waiting for men to rape the lil girls, so they can cry crocodile tears? And ask for compensation @the police station? For God sakes, protect your girl child!! Don't expose her to all sorts out there. It's annoying! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by tot(f): 6:57pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Sterope: Logical thinking is clearly a struggle for you. Cos I don't understand how choosing to plait a child's hair = hurting them for your satisfaction. Find someone else to quote / engage with abeg, I can't be wasting my time. 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by 1Sharon(f): 6:57pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
tot: Lol when you see ppl with long hair now you get envious You need to love ur hair dear |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by SURElee(f): 6:58pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
I hate the stress of putting a child through pain just to make hair. Low cut all the way, till that girl child is old enough to go to the saloon herself without me coercing her to make the hair and loosen the hair for a new hair style. Kai! My friend's daughter at age 2/3, even 6people couldn't keep her in place in the salon just to make her hair, the struggle, punches, cries nko? In fact the male salon owner hear am. No be by force mbok. The earrings already shows she is female abeg 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by 1Sharon(f): 6:58pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: All you have to do is tie it |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 6:59pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Surrey2Bimshire: I didn't what? I stated very clearly earlier that I do not care, if the child's hair is braided or in a bun. I'm very aware of the fact that natural hair is time consuming, since mine is as well. However, I do have a problem with the pain are lot of kids have to go through just in the name of 'fashion'. Let kids be kids and educate yourself on afros instead of just Brazilian wigs |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by tot(f): 7:00pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fieryy: It's not your place to teach anyone what they should do with their child's hair. You are free to have an opinion but you CANNOT teach someone else, it's not your business. 6 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 7:00pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
tot: Kuku kill the child nau. Shebi it's yours 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Surrey2Bimshire: 7:00pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
eyinjuege: What type of hair product do you use for your 4c hair ? |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by tot(f): 7:02pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon: I have medium length healthy natural hair which I am happy with. My point is let people do what works for them. We are not in a nanny state. 5 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by pocohantas(f): 7:02pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
SURElee: Them go come add am mumu bead. Bead go full everywhere. I dey wonder how those kids place their heads to sleep. You know the struggle after braiding hair newly na 3 Likes |
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