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Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by fairygeh(f): 7:02pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
EMMNIG:So it is a 5 year old child that should be exposed to what labour looks like, Are you listening to yourself at allwhat happened to teenage years 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by ireneidiva(f): 7:03pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
tot:Some of us do o. So its just better to braid to prevent it from breaking and pain. 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by 1Sharon(f): 7:03pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fieryy: This is so true. I've been accused of being mixed race, Some says it's the climate im from. Excuses |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by tot(f): 7:03pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fieryy: What does kill have to do with haircare? 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by 1Sharon(f): 7:04pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
tot: Pulling hair does not work |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ladycewhy(f): 7:04pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon:again ,not all hair texture will cooperate, before they return from school the hair will look like the child went to a war zone. The hair stretching every morning is not worth it. 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by tot(f): 7:05pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
ireneidiva: I can imagine Hair types are so varied to be honest. 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 7:06pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon: I get this every single time after a 'Is this all your hair? '. I'm not doing anything special, I just know what to do 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by blesoh(f): 7:07pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
doitforyou:You are right, my daughter can't stand the pains immediately I try to comb she starts crying the best thing is to plait it, hair textures are not the same 7 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 7:07pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
EMMNIG:Just imagine. In almost 2020. |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by ireneidiva(f): 7:08pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon:Without combing? 4 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by lonelydora: 7:08pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
computergeek: My daughter is actually going through one now. She has been crying since |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by gracechellar(f): 7:09pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
computergeek:This annoys me to the marrow. The selfish and wicked nature of some mothers. 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 7:09pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Godhatesodomy: Your god must be confused. Exodus 25: 18-22, God commanded Moses to make bronze images of angels, Cherubs over the Ark of the Covenant. Numbers 21: 8-9 God commanded Moses to make serpent of bronze and raise on a pole so that any Israelite that looked upon that SERPENT will be SAVED! 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by gracechellar(f): 7:09pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fairygeh:You dey answer am. 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by blesoh(f): 7:09pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fieryy:Some kids can't stand the pains of styling everyday 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 7:09pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fairygeh: Very true. |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by gracechellar(f): 7:10pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
tck2000:We all like it. But not at the expense of the sanity of the child. |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by midnighter(f): 7:11pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Exactly. Those lovely pictures are of when the child is sitting still and behaving. What about after 5 hours of play and yab At least braids are robust enough to let the child be free with herself 5 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by 1Sharon(f): 7:13pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
ireneidiva: Yes ! |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by 1Sharon(f): 7:14pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
EMMNIG: Hahaaa..what a joker I don't even want to ask what culture you're from 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by 1Sharon(f): 7:15pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fieryy: So true we are just more informed |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Godhatesodomy: 7:16pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
FrLukas: Yet not of God. Wake up out your slumber |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ladycewhy(f): 7:17pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
midnighter:Thats the point ,how durable and sustainable are buns? Just give the child 30 mins to play and all the hair will be over the place plus not everyone has the time to style hair every morning before school imagine if you have two daughters or more. 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Amsickindahead: 7:17pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
This op must be sick in da head 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by PerseDew(f): 7:18pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1. Most stylists don't know how to care for our hair type. 2. In turn a lot the styles damages the edges over time. 3. We should learn how to take care of our hair ourselves. 4. If you must go to a salon, don't let them plait your dry hair. Spray water and some moisturizer on it to make it less painful. 5. Because of bad hair care and coily nature of the 4c hair, getting the 4c hair into buns is not easy or it has not even reached and so must be plaited (corn rows) to avoid bigger problems. 6. We should learn to accept our hair. Its true nature most times is that kinky old look. Changing hair every 2 weeks because "it is not neat" should be discouraged. 4c type hair is not for such frequent pulling and tugging. That said mothers should let school authorities know that their kids can't go through pain cos of weekly hairstyle and so the child can just do 2 or 4 cornrows. 7. After accepting our hair, we should stop applying relaxers (active ingredient: sodium hydroxide). Googling about side effects of relaxers will help you understand better. 8. OP, I get your point but pls those pics you put up there are not realistic without relaxers that even has damaging effects on humans. I forgot to add the bun style does not pass one day in most cases like most have said. Also, even buns are not recommended for any hair type because it is just about combing, pulling and tugging. Which will weaken the hair and lead to hair loss in the front and back. 5 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by snowblaq(f): 7:18pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
It's a personal matter of choice.. Live and let live.. ..do to your kids and allow another to do to theirs.. ...its better I braid my kids hair once in 3 weeks than combing daily in the name of styling and making a bun.. ..thats more tedious on both the kids and mother and it isn't sustainable anyways.. I'd rather make the hair once in 3 weeks.. ..not anything too painful but pain is a subjective matter.. .a lot of kids would cry anyway you comb their hair.. .that doesn't mean we should scrape it skin cut or leave it unattended to.. . The kids crying doesn't in anyway make the mum a wicked person please.. ..most women are just being mothers in the best way they know how to and with the best intentions.. .. 4 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:20pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon: I have to ask, are you Nigerian? For you to think all kids hair will look like that, especially pure African, cos the picture used looks like a child of mixed parents 5 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Image123(m): 7:20pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Hian. Is it not no pain no gain? Let everything be done moderately. You cannot or should not shield your children from all pain. No good parent does that, even God. 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by midnighter(f): 7:21pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Totally. Who has time in the morning to be manipulating all the curls and sprigs Just for it to get messed up after a couple of minutes or, even worse, the girl doesn't feel comfortable playing and goofing around with her friends because "I don't want to scatter this hair". Very impractical. This is why braids were developed in the first place! 4 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by tot(f): 7:22pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
snowblaq: Thank you, well said. Exactly my point. It's a very subjective issue depending on so many factors. You can't use one instance to judge all others. 6 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by PeacenLove2: 7:22pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Surrey2Bimshire: So moms can do this every morning before taking their kids to school and then go to work. Okay, mommies. Well done. 2 Likes |
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