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Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by midnighter(f): 7:48pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Lol your own must be bad at least you can empathise with all the little princesses out there. Yes, I think that's more of a wider cultural point about the way we see things. Parents are sometimes unable to engage with a child's individual quirks because they think it means they must be "spoiling" them. Its the same reason parents indiscriminately beat their children when some kids respond better to a stern warning or explanation than flogging. 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by MrCork: 7:49pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fieryy: how much ? |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 7:49pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Ryan03:Pepper body... Why you so upset, little boy? 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Surrey2Bimshire: 7:49pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
midnighter: I totally agree with you , everyone’s discovering themselves differently . |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by ykalhaji(m): 7:49pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Virtue signaling... Police your own family and the ones that depend on you and afterwards mind your own freaking business. Who gave Op the right to be the judge of responsible parenting. Until someone craze for una finish with real physical repercussions before una stop to dey try to force una ideas onto people, before na so so a real man is not bla bla bla, come you be man ? How do you know what a man is let alone a real man. That your papa wey dey seat down monitor hairdresser sef, he really get as e be. 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ryan03(f): 7:49pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
pocohantas:poco, you think that one is "painless" abi? Obviously not |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by amp01(m): 7:50pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Na was. My daughter just finish her now and the time is 7:40pm. I nor fix talk ooo,women and their wahala. Christmas na one day. |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ryan03(f): 7:51pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
computergeek:little girl that knows nothing about being a mother trying to force mothers to do things her way. Go born your own 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by nextstep(m): 7:52pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
computergeek: Fully agree with your post. However, even these buns will need daily combing... which isn't exactly pain-free. Better than the headache-inducing braids, etc. but ideally short cut would be best, then only daily ude and a small comb needed. 5 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ladycewhy(f): 7:52pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
midnighter:Its that bad,lol ,me and my tender scalp. The bottom line is mothers should know the temperament level of their kids. I have seen mothers say "that is how she always cries when making her hair" well may that child is probably like me with tender scalp. Cut it off simple. |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ryan03(f): 7:53pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
computergeek:this one is obviously an illiterate who don't know what an insult is. I will quote you and nairaland won't shut down so sit down and be humble 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ryan03(f): 7:53pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon:are you sure you are Nigerian? 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 7:55pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon:Nigerian women will never stop that. Over their dead body |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by jakandeola(m): 7:56pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon:d girls are beautiful but I think u are wrong. dose girls are not Africans I think dey are Americans. oyibo weather make thier hair to be very soft weda black or white cos of thier cold.most naija and African girl got short hairs |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ryan03(f): 7:57pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon:lemme ask you, did the mother of this child just comb and park this child's hair till it got to this length? And that hair base looks treated 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by midnighter(f): 7:57pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Yes o, if it would give them relief and not affect their self-esteem. |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by jakandeola(m): 7:58pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Ryan03:dis is woman topic so be guided.say ur mind and get lost instead of insulting pple |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:58pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
1Sharon: Who is talking about hard? We are talking about the process, making buns is stressful for natural kids hair, the process of combing tough hair, to tie the hair into two buns will also be a lot of pain for the kid, talk more of doing it everyday, so what is the difference with braids? Or dont you see how tight the edges is? Won't the child feel discomfort and pains at first? What has braiding got to do with having a chance in life 3 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ryan03(f): 7:58pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
tot:lwkmd |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by nextstep(m): 7:59pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
ykalhaji: Erm... I think it's everyone's business to decide whether it's OK to inflict pain on a child for some reason. Permit me some examples: Some individuals pointed out that painfully scarring a child's face with identification marks was not the best thing. Most people thought it was OK at some point in the past, but it's people like the OP who can cause change. Same with twins being left to die in the forest. As society we still cause boys pain when we circumcise... but society feels the benefits (easier cleaning, apart from the religious reasons) still outweighs the temporary discomfort that most boys don't even remember. However, female genital mutilation is being seen as a bad thing (which I agree). People used to think nothing of beating a child with plank because of "spare the rod, spoil the child...", yet we are gradually understanding that there are better ways to discipline a child, and the only thing you teach a child by beating is that violence is an OK way to solve problems. I'm reaching, and going to extremes to prove a point, but please don't think I'm equating facial scarification with braiding hair in terms of permanence, damage, pain, etc, or equating death of twins with circumcision. Just don't lose my message that it's the voice of people like OP that can cause people to rethink why we do things, and change if we feel that the ends do not justify the means. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 7:59pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Ryan03:I didn't know you can't read. If you had read my post completely you wouldn't have made this comment. Na why your mates dey hustle you dey here dey talk about girls' hair on NL. Because you can't read a short post completely. Shame. 4 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by deebrain(m): 7:59pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Taraj01: Hahahaha 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by midnighter(f): 8:00pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
jakandeola: Lol what? It's cold weather that damages hair the most. People here have short hair because of styles and techniques that damage their hair and bad maintenance. That's not to talk of nutrition. How will the hair grow on insufficient nutrients or bad diet? |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Ladycewhy:The pain is out of this world. U need to see these children crying. All in the name of beauty. Kudos to them |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by midnighter(f): 8:02pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
jakandeola: It's not a "woman's" topic. Anybody interested can have a say, don't talk out of ignorance. It's good to see a man interested in the grooming habits of his daughter and plus that guy is a hairdresser 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ryan03(f): 8:02pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
tot:that Lady is not normal 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Surrey2Bimshire: 8:03pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
PeacenLove2: Very well then “ |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Ryan03(f): 8:03pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
fieryy:abeg shut up and find somewhere hide 1 Like |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by BlackPantherCri: 8:03pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
computergeek: Aunty. Schools in naija pick weaving hair styles for kids. Pack bun to school and they will speak grammar for you. We all went thru d pain, we survive am. It's generational abeg. They will get over it 2 Likes |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
jakandeola:Oyibo weather makes hair soft? When I thought I have seen it all 4 Likes
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Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by jakandeola(m): 8:06pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
midnighter:hahaha I think u are wrong u cant compare our weather to oyibo own. did u know d sun most times melt our hair? cold weather can Neva damage d air thier weather is not even cold but fresh.so u are saying most Africans dont eat well or not.are all oyibo rich yet dey got long hair.both black and white.have u seen any black person abroad witout long hair.forget style.na only oyibo sabi maintain hair.? |
Re: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by Sterope(f): 8:07pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
It doesn't have to be those particular hairstyles. They can even cut the hair of it comes to that. Cold does not make hair softer, if at all, it makes it drier. jakandeola: 3 Likes |
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