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| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by PeacenLove2: 10:41pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Temporarily if it absolutely can't be helped but it's very bad idea. A thankless, 'see-finish' set-up. Nobody wins, everybody comes out losers. He or she will mess up, you will treat him or her like thrash just cos you can. OP, if your In-Law needs a place to stay badly, no use this one judge o. Your situation can make the odds.  1 Like |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Khalidase83(m): 10:41pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
For what nah? Who is pursuing them from their original home  ?4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Bahamas95(m): 10:42pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
TinyHacker:Ode! How my comment take affect you, abi I tell you say your mum nor be the best to you. Na my own I know so swerve 4 Likes
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| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
IyaTola:Iya Tola, waa gba won towo tese no oo  Women of nowadays hate seeing their inlaws like shit. Why! Why!! Why!!!. What goes around also comes around ooo. The law of karma is very wicked, be warned |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by flyingdutchman(m): 10:45pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Why 1 Like |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by midnighter(f): 10:46pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
babythug: I have an aunt who used to come over on ordinary holidays o, and do that to me. As in literally rummage through my stuff and take what she wanted. From a 13 year old. Why are people like this? |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Shemadex(m): 10:47pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
cococandy: 1 Like |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by VickieLove(f): 10:47pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Ko le work  Ko le work |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by midnighter(f): 10:48pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Khalidase83: Masha Allah aleek |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Nobody: 10:49pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Katier00:lol 1 Like |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by HeyHey(f): 10:49pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
When you are married, this is one thing you can not avoid. 1.) I have a friend who lives with her mother in law and grand mother in law. Her husband dey hustle. I no know if its peaceful or not sha, but i do know she like to avoid going home. Before 7 she don comot go her teaching work till night before she go come back. 2.) When you are in industrial cities like lagos, Abuja, Port harcourt, you cannot avoid them. 3.) Some in laws are funny, they want to stay for long and expect to be treated like a guest. "When an in law visits too often, he is asked to fetch fire wood". How can you stay in some one's house for a year...2 years and you cant clean where you sleep. Nobody likes a lazy guest, even a lazy guest does not like a lazy guest when he is the host 4.) Many of them dont mind their business. Eg, I have an in law who used to come very often. All i will hear is "XYZ (my baby then) why cant you talk yet" " which kind of yeye yam did you buy" "I warned you people not to buy second hand fridge (like say he wan give us money for new one)" " see the rubbish apartment you rented" " see the meat you used to cook, its not good bla bla bla. What i learnt from all these is that the way you behave in your house, where you in law is living is different from how you behave in their own house. In your house control your space, especially if you have kids, no let anybody come teach them yeye thing. In their house, mind/behave your self. You can live peaceful with your in laws, but it not likely (though possible) that you will live happily Another one i know sef rented house with his brother in the same compound. Their homes are so porous, that they enter each others bed room. The wives are "mind your business" people, they dont go into each others flat without strong reason. 6 Likes |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by midnighter(f): 10:51pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Isoduwa: Yes! |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Correcto: 10:58pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
In as much as I accept the fact the answer NO, you sound funny and wicked. nextstep: |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by midnighter(f): 10:58pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
AkhereOkaka: But in this case I excuse her because the way she used "vividly" perfectly captured the ridiculousness of this particular scenario. Let nobody vividly come anywhere near my place for more than 2 weeks ooo 4 Likes |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
IyaTola:We do that a lot but it's not actually healthy. Wish we can stop that but it's impossible. 1 Like |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by michealoluwaseyi(m): 10:59pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
midnighter:I don't have problem with the choice of words used either. |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by FuckAllTheMODs: 11:02pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
No, it's not advisable unless the person is a responsible person 1 Like |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by victorian(f): 11:03pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Only my husband's mom, if she's a good woman. I still a mother to relate with. Mine is gone. And his siblings can visit. If they understand what it means to tidy up a home and not mess up the place by the time, I'm back from work. And if our house is spacious? Then can visit. I don't have issues with it. But not stay permanent. Only his Mom can stay permanent if she's good. I have soft spots for old people. Smiles 4 Likes |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by midnighter(f): 11:06pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
sassysure: Oya "As long as everybody understands you, it doesn't matter" brigade where are you? I have ceded one to you people oo  |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Ramos16(m): 11:06pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
bukatyne: Lol, underated comment 2 Likes |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by stagger: 11:12pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
IyaTola: Why should that be the case? |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by AfonjaBoston: 11:18pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
cococandy: Selfish mofo |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Udy4life1122(m): 11:19pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Can't stay together biko 1 Like |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Nobody: 11:21pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
IyaTola: I'd let them stay, but only if it was for a short time like a visit 1 Like |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Thatssobeyonce(f): 11:22pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Yes i will treat them the best way i can I lost my mom at a tender age so I'm dreaming of a motherly love from my mother inlaw 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by 2LESS(m): 11:22pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
I 'vividly' rushed to view her profile, but those oranges "vividly' confused my sight. Ndi vividly.. |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by Nobody: 11:22pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Thatssobeyonce: Sorry man  1 Like |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by gowonmaharajah(m): 11:24pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
bukatyne:Why not correct him instead of laughing at his mistake? 1 Like |
| Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by naturalwaves: 11:26pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
AkhereOkaka:The grammatical blunders in this single post of yours are very disgraceful. The Op's writeup is far better than this rubbish you wrote. I corrected one of them. Go and figure out the other ones. 6 Likes |
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