Good evening Nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all. No insults please and don’t mind my English.

So we planned to meet today again. Though we’ve being meeting before. She came all the way from ondo to Akure. So when she got there, she called and I told her she just have to wait for me because it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas.

She was then patient, so when I finally got there, she said she has being waiting in the sun since. I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time, she then said okay.

Immediately we got there, I got Something for her, a cold stone, after sometimes, she was then going through my phone, she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday and her mood just changed and she asked me to get my phone away from her.

I asked her what’s wrong? She didn’t respond. She then said she’s going back to Ondo. I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it, saying all sort of things.
I then just have to leave her to go. She embarrassed me there and saying abusing words and that’s how I left her to go.

Pease Nairalanders, what do you think I can do about this shit? I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time. We've being dating and it’s almost 4 months now.

Genuine advice please. I’d be very grateful...

Thanks.

How old is she?

Mraphel:
How old is she?

shes just 20

Lekside442:
Good evening nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all..no insults please..and don’t mind my English....so we planned to meet today again..though we’ve being meeting before..she comes all the way from ondo to akure..so when she gets there..she called and I told her..she just have to wait for me..cuz it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas...she was then patient..so when I finally get there she said she has being waiting in the sun since..I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time....she then said okay..immediately we get there I get Something for her,a cold stone..after sometimes..she was then going through my phone....she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday...and her mood just changed..and she ask me to get my phone away from her...asked her what’s wrongshe didn’t respond..She then said she’s going back to ondo...I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it..saying all sort of things...I then just have to leave her to go..embarrassed me there and saying abusing words...and that’s how I leave her to go...please nairalanders what do you think I can do about this shit...I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time.we've being dating and it’s almost 4months now...genuine advice please..I’d be very grateful...Thanks.

What's In the pics you showed her?

Lekside442:
shes just 20

Aha!
Guys, should we tell him?

Jewessgratitude:


What's In the pics you showed her?

i didn’t show her any pics..it was my pics that was there..she just saw it and asked when did I snapped this pics and I showed her the info..which was upper last week Thursday...and her mood just changed and gets angry unnecessarily...I don’t just understand.

emeijeh:

Aha!
Guys, should we tell him?

Your advice would be highly appreciated bro...

Lekside442:
shes just 20

She doesn't have sense then, or you are not saying the real truth. She would have pretended and be observant about what is going on till she leaves

I mean no offense oo...i just can't have a relationship with a lady from ondo ...anger and curse in that their mouth (definitely not all of them) is wat I will never stand for or endure in a relationship....
Don't just mess up with them when u date them...no say I no wan u ooo...
...Most of them are faithful partners but na this anger and curse be their issue..some of them want to stop but they still find their selves in that circle... may God help them..

She is seeing somebody else in Akure. After enjoying herself... she calls you....most likely to see what you have to offer her....or she sees you first... then off to see the other guy. Do you expect her to tell you all this?... she must find an excuse to pretend to be angry and leave. But if you love her verrrrry much...... keep on inviting her and hope one day the leopard would change its spots

Lekside442:
i didn’t show her any pics..it was my pics that was there..she just saw it and asked when did I snapped this pics and I showed her the info..which was upper last week Thursday...and her mood just changed and gets angry unnecessarily...I don’t just understand.

Oh... Ok. Ok tot it was a pics you took with another girl.

My advice, it you dont find joy in the relationship, end it.

Jewessgratitude:


What's In the pics you showed her?

Pertinent question.

Lekside442:
shes just 20

Oga, you have a very big work on your hands. If you are not going to be patiently patient, please let her go in order to preserve your self esteem. She needs to learn humility the hard way. You can't help her

Lekside442:
i didn’t show her any pics..it was my pics that was there..she just saw it and asked when did I snapped this pics and I showed her the info..which was upper last week Thursday...and her mood just changed and gets angry unnecessarily...I don’t just understand.

What does the picture background looks like?. You can't snapped picture in native doctor shrine and expect the lady to feel good about it.

That picture is questionable if na english people.....

Bola146:


She doesn't have sense then, or you are not saying the real truth. She would have pretended and be observant about what is going on till she leaves

but I’m saying the truth..she gets angry on unnecessary stuffs...I don’t just understand....just wondering if it’s not ordinary...she sees a picture of me and she was mad as hell...what for?just my pics...I don’t just understand anymore..

Lonestar124:
What does the picture background looks like?. You can't snapped picture in native doctor shrine and expect the lady to feel good about it.

That picture is questionable if na english people.....

jts just a normal picture I snapped at home...there’s nothing to be angry about that..it’s just funny and makes me mad at the same time...she was even telling me she’s gonna tear the money if I give it to her or the bikeman.

Lekside442:
but I’m saying the truth..she gets angry on unnecessary stuffs...I don’t just understand....just wondering if it’s not ordinary...she sees a picture of me and she was mad as hell...what for?just my pics...I don’t just understand anymore..

Oya post the picture let us see....oga tell us the truth here....

Lekside442:
but I’m saying the truth..she gets angry on unnecessary stuffs...I don’t just understand....just wondering if it’s not ordinary...she sees a picture of me and she was mad as hell...what for?just my pics...I don’t just understand anymore..

Then go on your knees for prayers... Maybe her village people do not want her to get married

Lekside442:
Good evening nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all..no insults please..and don’t mind my English....so we planned to meet today again..though we’ve being meeting before..she comes all the way from ondo to akure..so when she gets there..she called and I told her..she just have to wait for me..cuz it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas...she was then patient..so when I finally get there she said she has being waiting in the sun since..I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time....she then said okay..immediately we get there I get Something for her,a cold stone..after sometimes..she was then going through my phone....she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday...and her mood just changed..and she ask me to get my phone away from her...asked her what’s wrongshe didn’t respond..She then said she’s going back to ondo...I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it..saying all sort of things...I then just have to leave her to go..embarrassed me there and saying abusing words...and that’s how I leave her to go...please nairalanders what do you think I can do about this shit...I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time.we've being dating and it’s almost 4months now...genuine advice please..I’d be very grateful...Thanks.

She's possessed. People don't just pick offense over any little thing without probable cause. She will frustrate your life, just look for someone else to date

Lonestar124:
Oya post the picture let us see....oga tell us the truth here....

my brother I for agree with you on this, but from my experience with women I can tell you from what the Op wrote that this young lady is a manipulator...her reaction is one of their trade signs...she wasn't satisfied with what the Op offered...the kele get other options

it is true some ladies anger is actually from the pit of hell.....i once ended a 1 month relationship due to anger....she'll get so angry over nothing and afterward she'll calm down apologise and tell me to be praying for her, that ske knows she has anger issues....my peoplpeople I left without blinking , relationships are meant to be a source of joy not sorrow......i dislike people who get angry easily.. ..they are poisons, they'll destroy people around b4 they finally destroy themselves....

Lekside442:
Good evening nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all..no insults please..and don’t mind my English....so we planned to meet today again..though we’ve being meeting before..she comes all the way from ondo to akure..so when she gets there..she called and I told her..she just have to wait for me..cuz it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas...she was then patient..so when I finally get there she said she has being waiting in the sun since..I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time....she then said okay..immediately we get there I get Something for her,a cold stone..after sometimes..she was then going through my phone....she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday...and her mood just changed..and she ask me to get my phone away from her...asked her what’s wrongshe didn’t respond..She then said she’s going back to ondo...I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it..saying all sort of things...I then just have to leave her to go..embarrassed me there and saying abusing words...and that’s how I leave her to go...please nairalanders what do you think I can do about this shit...I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time.we've being dating and it’s almost 4months now...genuine advice please..I’d be very grateful...Thanks.

u are not as fake as she xpt u to be.

Intrepid01:
it is true some ladies anger is actually from the pit of hell.....i once ended a 1 month relationship due to anger....she'll get so angry over nothing and afterward she'll calm down apologise and tell me to be praying for her, that ske knows she has anger issues....my peoplpeople I left without blinking , relationships are meant to be a source of joy not sorrow......i dislike people who get angry easily.. ..they are poisons, they'll destroy people around b4 they finally destroy themselves....

Thanks very much bro...I’m really grateful for this your advice...thanks alot bro....you talk alot of sense bro.

Apination:

She's possessed. People don't just pick offense over any little thing without probable cause. She's will frustrate your life, just look for someone else to date

Thanks alot bro..you really talk alot of sense...but I really love her soo much..but this only sickness she got about getting angry on unnecessary issue..and she’d always act like she’s on the right...she’d be at fault and she’d want me to be the one plead...imagine that bro.

Originalsly:
She is seeing somebody else in Akure. After enjoying herself... she calls you....most likely to see what you have to offer her....or she sees you first... then off to see the other guy. Do you expect her to tell you all this?... she must find an excuse to pretend to be angry and leave. But if you love her verrrrry much...... keep on inviting her and hope one day the leopard would change its spots

Thanks alot brother...I’m really grateful for this advice bro.

Lekside442:
Good evening nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all..no insults please..and don’t mind my English....so we planned to meet today again..though we’ve being meeting before..she comes all the way from ondo to akure..so when she gets there..she called and I told her..she just have to wait for me..cuz it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas...she was then patient..so when I finally get there she said she has being waiting in the sun since..I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time....she then said okay..immediately we get there I get Something for her,a cold stone..after sometimes..she was then going through my phone....she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday...and her mood just changed..and she ask me to get my phone away from her...asked her what’s wrongshe didn’t respond..She then said she’s going back to ondo...I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it..saying all sort of things...I then just have to leave her to go..embarrassed me there and saying abusing words...and that’s how I leave her to go...please nairalanders what do you think I can do about this shit...I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time.we've being dating and it’s almost 4months now...genuine advice please..I’d be very grateful...Thanks.

she must be a Yoruba girl. They can act werey sometimes

Lekside442:
shes just 20

She has anger issues....she's immature and not ready for a serious relationship. If you need something serious, call it quits with her.

Lekside442:
Good evening nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all..no insults please..and don’t mind my English....so we planned to meet today again..though we’ve being meeting before..she comes all the way from ondo to akure..so when she gets there..she called and I told her..she just have to wait for me..cuz it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas...she was then patient..so when I finally get there she said she has being waiting in the sun since..I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time....she then said okay..immediately we get there I get Something for her,a cold stone..after sometimes..she was then going through my phone....she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday...and her mood just changed..and she ask me to get my phone away from her...asked her what’s wrongshe didn’t respond..She then said she’s going back to ondo...I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it..saying all sort of things...I then just have to leave her to go..embarrassed me there and saying abusing words...and that’s how I leave her to go...please nairalanders what do you think I can do about this shit...I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time.we've being dating and it’s almost 4months now...genuine advice please..I’d be very grateful...Thanks.

Hehe. You need to love her more and accept her sh!t. Worship her and apologise even when you are wrong. If she gets angry, insults you, and freaks out on you in public, don't set her straight or break the relationship, don't set standards in your relationship instead, you endure and apologise. Isn't that the price to pay for love? You still don't know what to do? Well, apologise even when you are wrong and accept her unnecessary anger and insults after all, you love her. Don't you? Endure, tolerate, and always be at her beck and call and always have the mindset that no matter what, her nastiness is your fault and there is something fundamentally wrong with you that you must change and be the man she wants. Oshisco.

Maybe you are emotionally attached to her, yeah... I have been there and I know how hard it is to let go. However, Don't you think she isn't the right one for you? What will you lose if you decide to break up with her?

Stop spending your money on her.

emeijeh:

Aha!
Guys, should we tell him?

Nah don't. Let him hurt some more

emeijeh:

Aha!
Guys, should we tell him?

Dating a girl in her 20's, you will be apologising for the rest of your life till she mature...