MedicH:
Aged 20. H.mmm wrong period to date a girl. She is at that stage in her lifetime where she wants to be like her friends. Not friends in the traditional sense of the word but competitors. She wants to put on the gown Sandra wore last week or the shoe Jane wore yesterday or buy the bag jennifer is saving money to buy. As a result, this is her whoring stage and she is ready to do anything to get what she wants. If you cant afford to yield to all these demands you have no means of playing. It's tantrum upon tantrum untill show is over. Let her go. Tell her you can't continue and let her go you cant change her at this stage. I want to believe she went through ur phone and so nothing indicting or incriminating to hold hands and lay out the cards for you and out of the disappointment of not seeing anything she threw a tantrum. Let her go.

Yes bro....cuz I don’t understand why she’s mad all because of seeing my pics....though when I called her yesterday...she said she wouldn’t be able to wait till like 2 or 3 I asked why she said nothing that she just wanna go back and don’t wanna stay long....just like I’m forcing her.

Lekside442:
Thanks very much bro...y’all just sounding really well and intelligent...thanks very much!!!!kudos to you all.

u can only call to confirm if shes bak home!!! Dont say a tin ti her

Roroapple:
Bro another man is in her life trust me on this

i think so bro....cuz I see she hardly posts my pics...and I do post her well...it just like I’m a fool to her.

aminusodiq:
u can only call to confirm if shes bak home!!! Dont say a tin ti her

i didn’t even call to ask that....she was the one disturbing me with calls and voice messages bro.

Lekside442:
i didn’t even call to ask that....she was the one disturbing me with calls and voice messages bro.

and she’d always wanna be on the point that she’s on her right...she’ll always want to turn all the fault on me and let me end up apologizing...

Lekside442:
i didn’t even call to ask that....she was the one disturbing me with calls and voice messages bro.

ok ask her why she acted dah way... Let her knw ur stand abt her atitude nd b firm abt it!! B a man... Somtimes dey need somone to shout it to dia face bfor dem coupl

Lekside442:
and she’d always wanna be on the point that she’s on her right...she’ll always want to turn all the fault on me and let me end up apologizing...

never apologize!!! Stand firm on dis... Nd shell knw u don gain ur sense bk... Only apologize wen u ar guilty if everything

Starz825:
I mean no offense oo...i just can't have a relationship with a lady from ondo ...anger and curse in that their mouth (definitely not all of them) is wat I will never stand for or endure in a relationship....
Don't just mess up with them when u date them...no say I no wan u ooo...
...some of them are faithful partners but na this anger and curse be their issue..may God help them..

You are right 99%, same with ekiti girls. I dated one, very loyal, sincere and straight forward but the day i saw her para for her older sister ehn i was speechless. I jejely end the relationship after she did the same thing to me but we are still friends sha.

Lekside442:
and she’d always wanna be on the point that she’s on her right...she’ll always want to turn all the fault on me and let me end up apologizing...

All these from one girl? Okay now let's weigh this thing logically. OP what does this girl contribute to your life? Let me guess nothing asides pussy. What does she cost you? Your happiness, your peace of mind your manhood, your hard earned money, your ability to focus on your goals. So if the only thing she offers is her presence and pussy, it is safe to say that these two things she brings to the table do not equate all she costs you. Also, pussy so is easily replaceable. So OP, we can conclude that her existence in your life is not economically viable.

I hope I have been able to convince you and not to confuse you that her presence in your life does more damage than good.

Ogbanje women are so dicey, shes gonna come back begging e sure me die

aminusodiq:
never apologize!!! Stand firm on dis... Nd shell knw u don gain ur sense bk... Only apologize wen u ar guilty if everything

well I’m not apologizing and I haven’t planned to..have decided to ignore her for days....if she refuse to believe she’s the one at fault I’m gonna let her go....her beauty is deceiving her though...she believes immediately one guys leaves her that she’d definitely see another.

solonubinho:


All these from one girl? Okay now let's weigh this thing logically. OP what does this girl contribute to your life? Let me guess nothing asides pussy. What does she cost you? Your happiness, your peace of mind your manhood, your hard earned money, your ability to focus on your goals. So if the only thing she offers is her presence and pussy, it is safe to say that these two things she brings to the table do not equate all she costs you. Also, pussy so is easily replaceable. So OP, we can conclude that her existence in your life is not economically viable.

I hope I have been able to convince you and not to confuse you that her presence in your life does more damage than good.

well I do everything to satisfy her both spiritually and materially.

aminusodiq:
ok ask her why she acted dah way... Let her knw ur stand abt her atitude nd b firm abt it!! B a man... Somtimes dey need somone to shout it to dia face bfor dem coupl

lol if i shout at this one she’s gonna shout out back at me...she’d never admit she’s wrong....she’d always take her stand that she’s on her right...whereby she isn’t at all...

It’s obvious you really do love her but you need to control it and love yourself more,you deserve to be treated better, she is obviously seeing someone else and comparing it with what you have to offer,it’s difficult but make your happiness top priority when in a relationship....I advice you to let her go cause I don’t think the love is mutual on her end.

Lekside442:
Good evening nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all..no insults please..and don’t mind my English....so we planned to meet today again..though we’ve being meeting before..she comes all the way from ondo to akure..so when she gets there..she called and I told her..she just have to wait for me..cuz it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas...she was then patient..so when I finally get there she said she has being waiting in the sun since..I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time....she then said okay..immediately we get there I get Something for her,a cold stone..after sometimes..she was then going through my phone....she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday...and her mood just changed..and she ask me to get my phone away from her...asked her what’s wrongshe didn’t respond..She then said she’s going back to ondo...I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it..saying all sort of things...I then just have to leave her to go..embarrassed me there and saying abusing words...and that’s how I leave her to go...please nairalanders what do you think I can do about this shit...I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time.we've being dating and it’s almost 4months now...genuine advice please..I’d be very grateful...Thanks.

Sandyxandy1:
It’s obvious you really do love her but you need to control it and love yourself more,you deserve to be treated better, she is obviously seeing someone else and comparing it with what you have to offer,it’s difficult but make your happiness top priority when in a relationship....I advice you to let her go cause I don’t think the love is mutual on her end.

Thanks very much for your advice bro.

Kennyprince:
she must be a Yoruba girl. They can act werey sometimes

Like your mother at home is acting like werey abi?

Tribal bigot with myopic mind...

Livecamp09:


Like your mother at home is acting like werey abi?

Tribal bigot with myopic mind...

smiles it hasn’t gotten to that now...don't get mad about that...sorry.

Frankicent:
ondo girls and Ibadan girls in general are very local and weird. They'll just create un necessary beef with you... Very st*pid beef that will shock you.
They can insult and swear for you eh. it as if they created with it..

You might even play with then.. na beef..

I don't know what's bad taking pix with another girl.... bros lock that girl jawe she will just give you HPB...

It pained her that she even threaten to tear your money..


Jealous woman can kill you.

Ibadan girls?.. Don't be stupid bro, ask anybody around, Ibadan people are the most humble though we have our own flaws but not unnecessary pride a d snapping or nagging

Lekside442:
smiles it hasn’t gotten to that now...don't get mad about that...sorry.

It's OK bro.. I'm sorry too

Starz825:
I mean no offense oo...i just can't have a relationship with a lady from ondo ...anger and curse in that their mouth (definitely not all of them) is wat I will never stand for or endure in a relationship....
Don't just mess up with them when u date them...no say I no wan u ooo...
...some of them are faithful partners but na this anger and curse be their issue..may God help them..

I swear the thing dey their blood. Ondo and Ekiti people ehn, their anger can boil stone till it softens up.

Heard about a girl that literally has to drink snail water mixed with palm oil to calm her anger.

I'm always thinking like what the f*ck can make a group of people that angry?

pauladonis:



I swear the thing dey their blood. Ondo and Ekiti people ehn, their anger can boil stone till it softens up.

Heard about a girl that literally has to drink snail water mixed with palm oil to calm her anger.

I'm always thinking like what the f*ck can make a group of people that angry?

This my girl gets angry too on unnecessary issue..she’d have say alot of shits before she come back to herself...and I’m just doing everything to make her comfortable...and happy...but it seems she’s taking me for granted.

Lekside442:
This my girl gets angry too on unnecessary issue..she’d have say alot of shits before she come back to herself...and I’m just doing everything to make her comfortable...and happy...but it seems she’s taking me for granted.

Like they say, a picture speaks a thousand words.

She could have spotted something out of place in the picture which you didn't take note of or there was a mismatch of what you told her on the day you snapped the picture.

Or like original said, she might have a 2nd pre-arranged date in Akure

ProtectMyMoney:


Like they say, a picture speaks a thousand words.

She could have spotted something out of place in the picture which you didn't take note of or there was a mismatch of what you told her on the day you snapped the picture.

Or like original said, she might have a 2nd pre-arranged date in Akure

There’s nothing in the picture that’s offensive at all...just my picture standing by the gate..I don’t understand what’s worth getting angry about that...I’m still surprised about it....

Lekside442:
shes just 20

No wonder she is still immature.

Lekside442:
lol if i shout at this one she’s gonna shout out back at me...she’d never admit she’s wrong....she’d always take her stand that she’s on her right...whereby she isn’t at all...

now u decide ur fate!!! /if dats someone u spend ur residual life with!!!

Mood swing is a mental disorder

emeijeh:

Aha!
Guys, should we tell him?

Please do us the honor, go ahead.

Lekside442:
shes just 20

How old are you? What are you doing with a 20-year old girl?

Lekside442:
Good evening Nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all. No insults please and don’t mind my English.

So we planned to meet today again. Though we’ve being meeting before. She came all the way from ondo to Akure. So when she got there, she called and I told her she just have to wait for me because it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas.

She was then patient, so when I finally got there, she said she has being waiting in the sun since. I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time, she then said okay.

Immediately we got there, I got Something for her, a cold stone, after sometimes, she was then going through my phone, she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday and her mood just changed and she asked me to get my phone away from her.

I asked her what’s wrong? She didn’t respond. She then said she’s going back to Ondo. I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it, saying all sort of things.
I then just have to leave her to go. She embarrassed me there and saying abusing words and that’s how I left her to go.

Pease Nairalanders, what do you think I can do about this shit? I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time. We've being dating and it’s almost 4 months now.

Genuine advice please. I’d be very grateful...

Thanks.

Nah by force to date her.......... Abi den put handcuff for una hands..........

Lekside442:
shes just 20

No wonder.
No worry yourself bruh!

Lekside442:
shes just 20

20 be just these days

Jewessgratitude:

Oh... Ok. Ok tot it was a pics you took with another girl.
My advice, it you dont find joy in the relationship, end it.

Compliment of the season.
Kindly check your mail, and do call me Thank you.