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Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by lolybaby(f): 11:11am On Dec 26, 2019
Hmmm people from that side get angry quickly,they do read meaning to what ever you say or do,it takes the help of God to cope with them,so if you can't fight every day or keep quiet and play along with her please let her go because hot is not good..
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by BitCraftman: 11:16am On Dec 26, 2019
Starz825:
I mean no offense oo...i just can't have a relationship with a lady from ondo ...anger and curse in that their mouth (definitely not all of them) is wat I will never stand for or endure in a relationship....
Don't just mess up with them when u date them...no say I no wan u ooo...
...some of them are faithful partners but na this anger and curse be their issue..may God help them..
I have to agree with the bold from my own experience with them.

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Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by ZaOzaRoom(m): 11:16am On Dec 26, 2019
Guy, blank that girl and get someone else.
You love her so much. Does she even love you?
Don't allow a woman manipulate you.
The konji may be tough on you but you will eventually survive it.
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Lekside442: 11:25am On Dec 26, 2019
jaxxy:


I’m sorry I don’t have genuine advice to give u.

She a stupid gal and such gals on act right or get sense from manipulation by from bad boys.

Good guys like u can’t handle her, she will frustrate ur life. A bad boy will manipulate her senses till she will be crying and begging him. If u still want her for any ridiculous reason at all then u must learn to act like or be a bad boy and put her in her fvcking place. Stop being too nice to her.

I’m sorry again because this is not the genuine advice I wud love to give people bt it may be necessary advice.
Thanks very much bro I’m really grateful...but this is just the truth...I care for her financially...I sent her almost like 5k..still she’d still want to buy this buy that...she’s tooo materialistic...
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Ishilove: 11:30am On Dec 26, 2019
Lekside442:


So we planned to meet today again. Though we’ve being meeting before. She came all the way from ondo to Akure. So when she got there, she called and I told her she just have to wait for me because it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas.

She was then patient, so when I finally got there, she said she has being waiting in the sun since. I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time, she then said okay.

Immediately we got there, I got Something for her, a cold stone, after sometimes, she was then going through my phone, she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday and her mood just changed and she asked me to get my phone away from her.

I asked her what’s wrong? She didn’t respond. She then said she’s going back to Ondo. I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it, saying all sort of things.
I then just have to leave her to go. She embarrassed me there and saying abusing words and that’s how I left her to go.

Pease Nairalanders, what do you think I can do about this shit? I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time. We've being dating and it’s almost 4 months now.

Genuine advice please. I’d be very grateful...

Thanks.
She's possessed. Marine spirit dey worry am. If i were you I will find someone else wey no get that kain baggage.
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by jaxxy(m): 11:36am On Dec 26, 2019
Lekside442:
Thanks very much bro I’m really grateful...but this is just the truth...I care for her financially...I sent her almost like 5k..still she’d still want to buy this buy that...she’s tooo materialistic...

I said u have to be a bad boy. Bad boys don’t spend unless its necessary and will yield maximum return now or soonest, feel free to disappoint when she asks u for Smtn or even to hangout. Act like u don’t like her smtmes. Let her start thinking if Ure ok in the head or twisted. Then u show her sm love. Lol

Giving her money she doesn’t deserve Ure only doing Father Christmas or mugu. Be wise

If U can’t be a bad guy leave her alone cus she will show u pepper. The way Ure treating her is the way u treat well mannered or good gals bt she’s not well mannered. Change ur approach.

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Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Onuhgabriel(m): 11:40am On Dec 26, 2019
[quote author=Lekside442 post=85212472]Good evening Nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all. No insults please and don't mind my English.

So we planned to meet today again. Though we've being meeting before. She came all the way from ondo to Akure. So when she got there, she called and I told her she just have to wait for me because it's very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas.

She was then patient, so when I finally got there, she said she has being waiting in the sun since. I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time, she then said okay.

Immediately we got there, I got Something for her, a cold stone, after sometimes, she was then going through my phone, she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday and her mood just changed and she asked me to get my phone away from her.

you knw what? You caused it. did u knw why?
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Lekside442: 11:56am On Dec 26, 2019
[quote author=Onuhgabriel post=85229455][/quote]not at all..I don’t know the reason why..but why??
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by skywalker240(m): 11:57am On Dec 26, 2019
Martinez39:
Hehe. You need to love her more and accept her sh!t. Worship her and apologise even when you are wrong. If she gets angry, insults you, and freaks out on you in public, don't set her straight or break the relationship, don't set standards in your relationship instead, you endure and apologise. Isn't that the price to pay for love? You still don't know what to do? Well, apologise even when you are wrong and accept her unnecessary anger and insults after all, you love her. Don't you? Endure, tolerate, and always be at her beck and call and always have the mindset that no matter what, her nastiness is your fault and there is something fundamentally wrong with you that you must change and be the man she wants. Oshisco.
when i read what u just typed, i was about to conclude that u're among those awon "ubunja is talking shit" crew. then i scrolled up again to see the moniker of the so-called idiot (or so i tot grin ) and den i told myself i knw sarcasm wen i see one grin

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Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Ghokes(m): 11:57am On Dec 26, 2019
Your writing is very poor
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by adabaraabdul: 12:01pm On Dec 26, 2019
If you have the stomach for all of her troubles then ride on but nothing like a peaceful calm relationship where both of you can put your energies on progressive stuffs.
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Odination: 12:04pm On Dec 26, 2019
jaxxy:


I said u have to be a bad boy. Bad boys don’t spend unless its necessary and will yield maximum return now or soonest, feel free to disappoint when she asks u for Smtn or even to hangout. Act like u don’t like her smtmes. Let her start thinking if Ure ok in the head or twisted. Then u show her sm love. Lol

Giving her money she doesn’t deserve Ure only doing Father Christmas or mugu. Be wise

If U can’t be a bad guy leave her alone cus she will show u pepper. The way Ure treating her is the way u treat well mannered or good gals bt she’s not well mannered. Change ur approach.
see my kind of guy, lol, this move works like magic. Get this kind of ladies confuse by becoming up today, down tomorrow, it makes u more interesting to them, u are jus a pussle they are trying to figure out but the more they try the more confused they get, trust me after sometime they will start treating u like a precious egg.

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Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by may320: 12:09pm On Dec 26, 2019
Livecamp09:
Ibadan girls?.. Don't be stupid bro, ask anybody around, Ibadan people are the most humble though we have our own flaws but not unnecessary pride a d snapping or nagging
Your defence is understandable because you're from Ibadan.....but dear, what the guy said was just the truth about Ibadan ladies!
Ibadan indigenes in general can ABUSE people ehnnn! They have bad mouth and can bad-mouth anyone at the slightest thing. They also have anger issues.
I can never support my brother to even have them as gf talkless of marrying them.
Even their well exposed men used to run away from marrying them.

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Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Frankicent(m): 12:12pm On Dec 26, 2019
Livecamp09:



Ibadan girls?.. Don't be stupid bro, ask anybody around, Ibadan people are the most humble though we have our own flaws but not unnecessary pride a d snapping or nagging


$hut the f*ck bro D*mb @ss.. Don't tell me sh*t have dealt with Ibadan girls... Very local, brag a lot and pretend...
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Intrepid01(m): 12:13pm On Dec 26, 2019
luminouzzzzzz:


One month?
You tried o...I ended just a week. She had anger and booze issues. Ironically, she is from ondo too

Lol....so i tried, okay o....anytime I see her in church afterward, I avoid her like a plague....but this one isn't Yoruba tho!
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by zoezoelogistics(m): 12:20pm On Dec 26, 2019
Lekside442:
shes just 20

Ooh no wonder. Na small pikin dey worry am.

Leave her when she becomes an evening newspaper no one will tell her.

Immaturity of the highest level.
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Fantazy(m): 12:27pm On Dec 26, 2019
Kennyprince:
she must be a Yoruba girl. They can act werey sometimes

No, I think she is from Fulani but a native of Ondo

I don't no if its by force to comment
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by solonubinho(m): 12:32pm On Dec 26, 2019
Lekside442:
well I do everything to satisfy her both spiritually and materially.

Good. Now does she do the same to you? Especially spiritually? Bro relationships are a two way street o. I want you to sit down, switch off your TV, put your phone aside and really look deeply in an objective manner and list out what she contributes to your life.

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Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by guru90: 12:33pm On Dec 26, 2019
godfrey01:


Dating a girl in her 20's, you will be apologising for the rest of your life till she mature...

SIMPLE TRUTH !!!
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by jaxxy(m): 12:41pm On Dec 26, 2019
Lekside442:
Thanks very much bro I’m really grateful...but this is just the truth...I care for her financially...I sent her almost like 5k..still she’d still want to buy this buy that...she’s tooo materialistic...

She’s playing a materialistic game with u. U have no idea. I know this based on the combination with her bad attitude.
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by sharone21(f): 12:48pm On Dec 26, 2019
Starz825:
I mean no offense oo...i just can't have a relationship with a lady from ondo ...anger and curse in that their mouth (definitely not all of them) is wat I will never stand for or endure in a relationship....
Don't just mess up with them when u date them...no say I no wan u ooo...
...Most of them are faithful partners but na this anger and curse be their issue..some of them want to stop but they still find their selves in that circle... may God help them..

OK o, for the enlightenment....I think say na Kogites get this attitude of anger and aggressiveness....one Kogite confirm this to me.
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by frozen70(f): 1:09pm On Dec 26, 2019
Lekside442:
Good evening Nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all. No insults please and don’t mind my English.

So we planned to meet today again. Though we’ve being meeting before. She came all the way from ondo to Akure. So when she got there, she called and I told her she just have to wait for me because it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas.

She was then patient, so when I finally got there, she said she has being waiting in the sun since. I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time, she then said okay.

Immediately we got there, I got Something for her, a cold stone, after sometimes, she was then going through my phone, she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday and her mood just changed and she asked me to get my phone away from her.

I asked her what’s wrong? She didn’t respond. She then said she’s going back to Ondo. I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it, saying all sort of things.
I then just have to leave her to go. She embarrassed me there and saying abusing words and that’s how I left her to go.

Pease Nairalanders, what do you think I can do about this shit? I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time. We've being dating and it’s almost 4 months now.

Genuine advice please. I’d be very grateful...

Thanks.

It's time to give her a breathing space
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by jwax: 1:33pm On Dec 26, 2019
The hardest set of girls to date are the ones from 18 to 23yrs. They are very difficult to handle and many of them seem do not know what they want. They are not thinking marriage, majority of their friends are in the same age group so they still have alot of friends to hang out with and as they go they see guys wooing them so they take you for a ride.

From 24 upwards the circle starts to shrink because of their friends getting married then sense dawns on them and they want to get serious with one and settle down.

Bros, I am in your shoe but the difference between us is that mine knows what she wants and has her parents backing of us so I understand your plight.

Exercise patience. If the relationship survives the next two years then you have yourself a wife because she will learn to be logical in her reasoning.

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Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by MrDoGood(m): 1:41pm On Dec 26, 2019
Lekside442:
shes just 20

Boss you go manage her till she get better sense oh... But just be ready for plenty of headache � and different dramas, stunts, witch behavior and everything negative that you can't even imagine.

But above all, tolerate her and make her see the beautiful part of life. Be ready to sit her down and advise her more than 11 times a month. But above all, patience is key.

You sure need to do the above if you truly wants to spend the rest of your life with her. Else, you will only end up building a better woman for another man.
Don't be too soft of........... If you're so sure she loves you, the moment she wants to start giving those small small boys that are lying to her attention, don't go about begging for long. Just look for one chick (close friend) a very beautiful one to calm her head down. Act as if you are dating her. If she truly loves you, she would change and be very calm. From there, pilot your relationship to final destination.
I was once in your shoe bro. I had to read a lot of articles online and I can tell you it helped a lot.

All the best man.

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Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by TemmyT002(m): 1:50pm On Dec 26, 2019
Starz825:
I mean no offense oo...i just can't have a relationship with a lady from ondo ...anger and curse in that their mouth (definitely not all of them) is wat I will never stand for or endure in a relationship....
Don't just mess up with them when u date them...no say I no wan u ooo...
...Most of them are faithful partners but na this anger and curse be their issue..some of them want to stop but they still find their selves in that circle... may God help them..


I am an Ondo person and I can categorically state that this is true. They are very loyal to the end but they get angrily easily.
To date them successfully, you need utmost patience and love.

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Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Omar09(m): 1:55pm On Dec 26, 2019
skywalker240:

when i read what u just typed, i was about to conclude that u're among those awon "ubunja is talking shit" crew. then i scrolled up again to see the moniker of the so-called idiot (or so i tot grin ) and den i told myself i knw sarcasm wen i see one grin

You had to view the name twice to realize it was sarcasm.

**sarcasm right now: you have failed us! You peasant fool!

grin grin
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Bola146(f): 2:00pm On Dec 26, 2019
boninho:
Please don't involve us, we have no hand in this

grin
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Prakash247(m): 2:10pm On Dec 26, 2019
emeijeh:

Aha!
Guys, should we tell him?
Lols, no, make we never tell am. Experience is the best teacher.
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by NarnieSnyper(m): 2:16pm On Dec 26, 2019
Lekside442:
Thanks very much bro I’m really grateful...but this is just the truth...I care for her financially...I sent her almost like 5k..still she’d still want to buy this buy that...she’s tooo materialistic...

Brother, you ate drunk in infatuation. See as woman cookie hole don turn you to mumu(no offense but your comments have been so so irritating).

I once dated a fóolish girl like yours but I was new to the dating game back then. This girl is so so disrespectful because she's a beauty to behold, and many guys, even men were on her matter. She go vex me, na me go still apologosie because I thought I was in love. This babe still ended up dumping my ass but I am happy she did because I went on to gather enough experience.
Till date, I have been the one doing the dumping, once disrespect starts to set in and she doesn't want to take corrections. I am not trying to brag here but my mumu don do. I have made them cry and beg because I know when they want to start their rubbish manipulative games, then I turn it around and beat them to their game.

Brother, I know it is going to be hard but just zero you mind and stop calling her, if she calls just keep it plain and short. Scold her if she steps outta line, in fact threaten to beat her up if possible but don't do it. And when you dish out the threats be mean and sincere about it(facial expression). Good luck. Go and ahead and have a dîck please.

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Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by captainking(m): 2:23pm On Dec 26, 2019
Lekside442:
Good evening Nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all. No insults please and don’t mind my English.

So we planned to meet today again. Though we’ve being meeting before. She came all the way from ondo to Akure. So when she got there, she called and I told her she just have to wait for me because it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas.

She was then patient, so when I finally got there, she said she has being waiting in the sun since. I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time, she then said okay.

Immediately we got there, I got Something for her, a cold stone, after sometimes, she was then going through my phone, she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday and her mood just changed and she asked me to get my phone away from her.

I asked her what’s wrong? She didn’t respond. She then said she’s going back to Ondo. I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it, saying all sort of things.
I then just have to leave her to go. She embarrassed me there and saying abusing words and that’s how I left her to go.

Pease Nairalanders, what do you think I can do about this shit? I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time. We've being dating and it’s almost 4 months now.

Genuine advice please. I’d be very grateful...

Thanks.
She is just a baby.. Put her in her place.. And don't ever let her talk to you in an unpleasant way anymore..
I suggest you dump her.. Let her keep her bad behavior to herself.
Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Brightgem(f): 2:26pm On Dec 26, 2019
Lekside442:
but I’m saying the truth..she gets angry on unnecessary stuffs...I don’t just understand....just wondering if it’s not ordinary...she sees a picture of me and she was mad as hell...what for?just my pics...I don’t just understand anymore..
The age is a factor. 20? Hmmm... Maturity! Diplomacy! Conflict resolution! Emotional intelligence! She lacks all that. 4months with all these drama? If you are not happy and it's a consistent behavior. Just face ur life. Come, you sef how old are you?

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