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Re: I Hit My Wife by crackhaus: 6:07pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
midnighter:Like I mentioned to the chic I had some back & forth with here, screaming in someone's face or even raising one's voice to express displeasure, is asking for it. No one likes it, no one...not even the goddamn superheroes here who pretend to see absolutely nothing wrong with it. Everyone's stress level is different, you can't continuously provoke another person and still determine how they must respond. 9 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 11:02pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Dupalmer: And then the relative or friend whose only desire and purpose in life is to marry ![]() ![]() Then you both would rub the marriage in her face? Talk about delusions with calm/finality! (I don’t blame you shaa, finally ![]() But just know your post resides in that town called “outsidenorm”, where near impossible things happen because deviant stuff exist to make us appreciate creation I guess. Your neighbours would be females who sleep with their relatives’ husbands and aborts babies with them, that odd man or woman who sleeps with their cats or wall geckos, all those kind of neighbours, you get? SMH 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 11:09pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dupalmer: 12:37am On Dec 18, 2019 |
merahki:The relatives and friends would definitely say yes they always do and believe me they'd improve on her failure. The one that walked away from her marriage because of ego and irrational mindset is the real loser. She'd be the one to sleep with her mom, brother, cats and geckos |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Trueyarn(m): 3:30am On Dec 18, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Will you keep quite ![]() Couples quarrel all the time and making up is a bond building process, the wife needs to be more mature and forgiving. How dare you involve your family in an issue that concerns you and your husband? The man already apologized. If I was the one, she would stay at her parent's till she is tired and returns on her own. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by madridguy(m): 6:33am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Good morning Vicky and hope you're fine. First, let me start by the Urhobo man, i must commend the man and he's indeed a role model for every man. As for the case of your late brother, i pray God comfort you and the entire family he left behind. Amen. Mind you, i will still say you shouldn't have give up easily on him. Since you know the girl in question is a destiny destroyer, you should have go extra miles to separate them. Imagine after 3 days at the hospital, she waka leave him and left him to his fate and you people. victorian: |
Re: I Hit My Wife by victorian(f): 9:22am On Dec 18, 2019 |
madridguy: The Urhobo man truly earn my respect for the swift action he took. I can imagine how he will feel being locked out from his own home, he paid money to hustle and buy, then a lady he married with his own money, not on credit and brought to the US, immediately after wedding, had strong mind to lock me out? She get mind. If I were a successful young man I won't take such rubbish. Pertaining to my brother, thanks for understanding. The only thing I could do afterwards was pray for him. That was the first and only time, he has ever threatened me in his life. I was so shocked and heartbroken, I just stay my lane but was praying for him. Maybe that's why I got an awful feeling about something bad about to happen to him. But he still didn't listen One can take a horse to the river but I can't force it to drink. And remember I'm a lady, I don't have strength for violence or fight. I see him in my dreams following me to places. At least if I can't him in real life, I can still see him and talk to him in dreams.. Its well, pls let's leave this topic. Im feeling so emotional and teary eyes again, sighs. It's well jare. God knows best. Thanks I appreciate , smiles. Need to get to work. Have a great day. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Ekene161829: 5:14pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Thank you for all your comments and advice and suggestions. This morning she called me and I was very surprised. We talked for hours and eventually she ended up crying about how silly and unnecessary the fight was, she forgave me but she wouldn't come back home yet . She is not ready. I just prayed for things to go back to how they used to be. 7 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by peacefulhome(f): 7:12pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Ekene161829: Haha . I love this. Who knows if she is a Nairalander . Congrats on this positive turn out. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 5:41am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Jesse25: You guys leaves in utopian world but i leave in this reality.. you guys come to sm to claim perfect, i didn't wanna reply.. We men are human and also emotional on things though we hide it.. even in court if a person was on alcohol and u get in a fight wit him, anytin he does in under the infuence of alcohol. Were in that post did he say he has been beating his wife? beside he says he apologies immediately on realising what he just did.. Continue living in utopian world of social network and forget reality. i hv seen when a boy n gf got quarrel on the road and the girl shout thief & b4 2min the guy was killed b4 the girl can open mouth to stop them.. leave in your perfect world biko 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Nobody: 6:38am On Dec 22, 2019 |
You cld hv decided 2 sleep in a hotel and not goin home dat night n lie abt wht happen and every1 wld b fine, i hv seen men and women tell their wife/husband they are goin on a busines trip while they are with another lover in a hotel and everyfin is ok with the marriage. We hv seen dat u guys hate a truthful guy, a guy dat wil stil go bck 2 his family no matter d condition he put or found himself in. I hv seen u guys hv make up.. congrat, my advice is just as they came & took her, let them bring her bck and also apologies for their action. If u take her bck as she return, it wil surely happen again because the precedent has already been set n accepted n 2moro u won't knw if their action wil put ur head in a casket.. An elderly man once told me that if you make a mistake that a woman interfer in ur family issues, fight against ur family that it is ur downfall. Remember dat once beaten twice shy. You were wrong to slap her & you apologies immediately but her/mother/bro action must be handle so it won't repeat. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by jakandeola(m): 1:32pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Pearl05:complement of d season pearl.each time I try to mentioned u I got a ban.how is ur hubby and baby.I wish u a merry Christmas and a happy new year 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Pearl05(f): 1:52pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
jakandeola: Compliments of the season to you and yours. May unspeakable joy fill your heart and home. Amen. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by MrCodeSolo: 12:45am On Dec 24, 2019 |
emeijeh:she did the right thing informing her people, bcuz if she kept it to herself, perhaps at the slightest provocation she may get another hot swollen-face slap or black and blue beating from her hubby next time...once a man has gone that route, trust me the cycle of abuse is repeated over and over...and very likely with over-apology from the one with a short fuse... 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by kikuyu1(m): 11:30pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
emeijeh: Nigga,what!? If only there was a program that prevented gays,fools and KitKat beggars from posting on public forums! She was TOLD TO REFRAIN from noise! She only added volume;dah fuq! I can see her mother failed to teach her her true role and you've reinforced this false teaching by begging like a byatch totally destroying the bedrock of your authority. I doubt you can recover it now. Your in-laws will further reinforce her ego and you'll be lucky if she only sits on your face when she's moody. Rethink your marriage, harsh as that may sound. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Ekene161829: 12:28am On Dec 27, 2019 |
Thanks once again, we got back together she came back on the 22nd of dec , and I was really happy, so was she. We agreed to talk things out instead of yelling and fighting. I look forward to living the rest of my life with her. We are still young and still learning. It was hard to gain the little trust I lost in the incident, but I thank God for everything. Merry Christmas everyone 10 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by opomulero(m): 12:35am On Dec 27, 2019 |
Ekene161829: ..........EKENE AND WIFE WILL NOW LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER............................. ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by importnobl: 7:31am On Dec 28, 2019 |
@ Ekene, thank you for the giving the conclusion of what happened, may you and you family enjoy longlasting peace. Be a good man, okay. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by ghettochild4u(m): 5:17pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Am sure u married an igbo lady Anyways when they are tired.. They will tell her to come back home.. Ordinary backhand slap o what if she had provoked u to the level of beating her black and blue? Make dem go marry their daughter na... Oga u r human in as much as ur wife pushed u to the edge.... I'll suggest u don't beg her again.. When she's ready to come home... She will come ooo Just focus on ur job Go home cook and sleep and lock the door when u Wan sleep o.. No worry yourself If ur in laws were responsible, they'd have come to settle and not take their daughter |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Lilusm: 10:16pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Promise you don’t do this again and everything will work out fine for you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Joyincrease(f): 3:27pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Doktajay5:Na ur mama be idiot. Useless tin...birds of a feather. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Wife by brodalikeme(m): 10:30pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
If woman pack from house, so be it. She’s own her own. If she calls her parents into issues and they can find a way to sitter things, then so be it. They can go with their daughter. |
Re: I Hit My Wife by Dbrawllm0098(f): 8:50am On Dec 10, 2021 |
You need to get into anger management and therapy. Honestly your marriage may be broken beyond repair. Regardless of whether your wife will seek to end the marriage or not, you need to work in your issues. |
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