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Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 11:43am On Dec 27, 2019 |
uninspired07: It will serve you much more than bashing other people. I am happy to have contributed to more clarity in your life. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 11:43am On Dec 27, 2019 |
cococandy: No. You won't be pampered here with validations o. The truth isn't masculine. Deal with it Prove it that anyone has bashed women here 4 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 11:45am On Dec 27, 2019 |
cococandy: What generalizations? That women like the good life & a financially stable man? Am I lying by asserting this female preferences in men? Na wa o. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 11:46am On Dec 27, 2019 |
kunleweb: Please help me ask her ooo. Rather than bash women, this thread has advocated for men to be financially ready to face the hazards of chasing women. It’s not all men that are able to stomach insults from women. I have done my fair share of that while in university, I won’t tolerate it anymore. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 11:48am On Dec 27, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Evidence of the bashing? Common....let’s be objective in our analysis and comments on threads like this. It will help to deescalate the gender wars on NL. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by cococandy(f): 11:59am On Dec 27, 2019 |
Stating you have no politeness to offer any woman, Implying that women do not need courtesy, or respect from men but only money must be high praise where you come from. @OP once I get a hint of disrespect, I’m out. So have fun. 4 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by cococandy(f): 12:04pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
healthserve: Sounds like high praise mr kunleweb. What next? I’m actually astonished y’all can’t tell when you’re insulting women. It’s now second nature to you. Such that you get surprised for being called on it. I don’t engage anyone who won’t take me seriously because they believe I’m a woman hence my judgment must be clouded by illusion or whatever it is you’re thinking at the moment. Sorry if you’re used to continuing in conversations where you say such to women and they laugh it off and still go back and forth with you. 7 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:04pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
cococandy: OMG. I changed it to attention not politeness. I apologize though if you’re hurt. I have nothing to gain from being rude to women because it won’t change anything. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
uninspired07: uninspired07: uninspired07: uninspired07: uninspired07: uninspired07: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by cococandy(f): 12:06pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
healthserve:Smells like praise to me 3 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by cococandy(f): 12:08pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
uninspired07: Apology accepted. And no I’m not hurt. Lol I just felt like I wasted my time. Was envisaging a normal convo until it turned south. 5 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:08pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Mindfulness: If these assertions are what you hold on to to justify your view that I am rude, then I wholeheartedly adopt & hold on to them. Nobody will bully me to change my ideology. It took me many years to arrive at these conclusions & no emotional blackmail will make me abandon my beliefs. Have a profitable rest of the day. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:09pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
cococandy: Same here. Bye. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:10pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
uninspired07: Hold on to them and remain lonely. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by cococandy(f): 12:10pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Well we still think it’s insulting. And you got the proof you asked for. uninspired07: 5 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:11pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:11pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
I own my comments here & on other threads. And I stand by them because I didn’t arrive at those conclusions by coincidence—it took years & tears of observation of the opposite gender. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:13pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
kunleweb: Very naughty. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:16pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
You cannot demand money & devoted attention at the same time. You have to choose a struggle. You can’t eat your cake & have it. If you see an unaccomplished man that is willing to give you all the attention in the world, by all means enjoy the attention. But you can’t blame young men who choose to face their struggle or accuse them of being rude because they hold the opinion that women are still undeserving of their attention & stand by it. Women should please do better in 2020. Men cannot be everywhere at the same time. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
uninspired07: Who wants your attention? You are the one who has been begging for attention. You can't make this up mehn. This one is seriously confused. Go back to romance section boy. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by crackhaus: 12:20pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
This is what happens when people put themselves on a pedestal for no other worthy reason except having pum pums. You don't have the patience to indulge, chase, or beg, it's because you have an ego. You want to have some financial legroom before embarking on relationships because women require it, you have low self-esteem. You speak about the realities as they are, and you're being disrespectful, bashful, & insulting. The princess-complex is as real as it comes. @ uninspired07, I hope you have been able to pick relevant points from both sides regardless. Just understand that there is nothing wrong in wanting to develop your finances, or in lacking patience with women who have no obvious interest in you. The best woman to be with is that one which presents you with the least amount of work/obstacles/roadblocks in winning her over, simply because she is already won over in some small measure of her own accord. Developing yourself should be your ultimate goal in life FOR YOURSELF, not because you need it to be better in the eyes of women. Also, making just any woman or every woman feel good about themselves is not your job - there are already multitudes of men doing that. You only just need to find that ONE woman who has a mutual interest in you, hit it off, and make her the object of all your attention and devotion. What every other one thinks is really not your concern. Cheers. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:22pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Mindfulness: You keep getting things all mixed up. My post was an objective observation not a subjective one. I hear you sha. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:23pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
cococandy: Cococandy abeg, get off the pedestal of trying too hard. You'll need it 2020. The modern woman isn't women, I hope as an intelligent classy woman you'll be able to appreciate the difference 2 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:24pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
BTW I haven't seen Pansophist Franchasng around here |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:27pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
crackhaus: Hahahaha knack me stick already. You can see how these women here are trying so so hard to "emotionally manipulate", too bad, the modern guy's unnaive to these sneaky theatrics 3 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:27pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
crackhaus: Wow, can anybody imagine the objectivity & unbiased quality of this post compared to those of the usual suspects i.e Mindfulness? Bro, I appreciate you for your sincere & heartfelt advice. I sure will pick & imbibe most of it to chart the way forward. I have never been deceived that there’s any other roadmap to this thing, I only needed reassurance. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Biglittlelois(f): 12:27pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
uninspired07: You should stay away from women for a long time, you are not ready to have even a cordial relationship with any woman, your hasty generalisation of the Nigerian women being a certain way, gradually sliding into bashing females here that don't agree with your opinion, asking for proofs of that like its untrue, seeing the proofs of you and healthserve, and then trying to backpedal by standing by your words shows you are very unstable, you have a lot of work to do on your persona, a huge lot. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:30pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
kunleweb: I am flabbergasted at the subtle attempt to manipulate hearts & minds of other reasonable females on NL. My thread was a honest request for opinions on my modus operandi & not an avenue to bash our female compatriots. I thank God we have members who can sniff out stratagems to derail threads into the usual gender wars we have on romance & family sections of NL. It is well. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:31pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Kikiki I can tell. I'm under your skin already, five minutes extra, it's full blown orgasm. Better take it easy on yourself and know for sure, I don't give two hoots irrespective of my stance on pro-healthy relations. #I won't trade off my desire for peace with cowling in to emotional whinings. Nope, never |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Raalsalghul: 12:33pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
bukatyne: 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:34pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
kunleweb: Maybe if the thread is escalated to the front page, they might see it & comment. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:34pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
uninspired07: You think it's a small matter than a man will hear from. GOD directly ( Abraham), but will then go back home to do what his wive wants. Don't be naive to letting women have their way as politeness, it's akin to land grabbing, give these ones on this thread a plot, they'll ask for an acre, give them an acre, they'll take up the city. It's not unimaginable what I satiety can push people to think, do and imagine. Na thier way |
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