Philspace:
Hello my Nlanders, I sincerely need your advice.
My ignore my typo's.

So there was this lady I met (3) years ago during her course of registration, then I used to operate a small cyber cafe in school. As time went on, we became friends, after a while we both started developing some feelings for each other but as a real-G I was just waiting for her to make moves first but to no avail, so I decided to ask her out.

She told me she loves me but we can't date because she already has a boyfriend whom she intends to get married to, that we can only be friends and wish I should respect her decision, the guy in question lives abroad.

9 months passed we were still friends until one fateful day one thing led to another and we both had sex, after everything she said hope I've succeeded in getting what I want and went as far as saying I shouldn't call her line and never come to her apartment again, that she doesn't want to ever see or have anything to do with me again then she left.

The next day I wanted to call but fear could not allow me, I later took up the challenge and called but she didn't pick my calls. Later that evening I decided to pay her a visit and behold immediately I got to her apartment she smiled and said "I thought i'll never come" that she's now convinced that I truly love her, finally she accepted and we start dating.

Everything was going on smooth until some time last year, I started noticing some things about her, she no longer frequent my house anymore, doesn't call, always on tight schedule. I'll ask her what's her problem but she'll wave it, meanwhile this lady was busy frustrating my efforts of loving her but I never gave-up. Locked her up in the room and told her to tell me whats wrong with her or she isn't going out, she said her guy is back though she still loves me but she doesn't want to double date, that she doesn't know how to put it to me that's why she has been acting-up, that she wants to settle down, I was so heartbroken but as a man i packaged myself and bid her farewell.

Last month she came back to beg for my forgiveness, and is still begging till date, I love this lady so much that i can't stand her tears.

Please i'm so confused, what should i do??

midolian:
You dey fvck another man woman, You come write like say na the girl wrong you. What if na the man dey sponsor the girl education?

If a woman can tell you she is in a relationship with someone else even though she loves you, it could mean she loves that person more than she loves you.

She told you she was dating him when you had sex with her. If she leaves you for him, she is not to blame..Yes, cos she told you.

Since you accepted to date her despite knowing she has a man, what I would expect you do is try winning her heart so much that you would become her first and last option... and not sound so entitled like you have sounded up there

midolian:
You dey fvck another man woman, You come write like say na the girl wrong you. What if na the man dey sponsor the girl education?

If a woman can tell you she is in a relationship with someone else even though she loves you, it could mean she loves that person more than she loves you.

She told you she was dating him when you had sex with her. If she leaves you for him, she is not to blame..Yes, cos she told you.

Since you accepted to date her despite knowing she has a man, what I would expect you do is try winning her heart so much that you would become her first and last option... and not sound so entitled like you have sounded up there

franchasng:
So you are the unfocused guys that stay back in Nigeria lurking around, looking for ladies engaged to guys living abroad to fvck for free ba Kontinu.....karma will soon catch you, magun laced with okokobioko will gum you and one babe soon, I de here de wait to read your story with picture of you crying like a baby




...and to ladies who will have a fiance' laboring in one country day and night thinking he has a reliable woman he would strive to make happy, while she is in Nigeria fucking NFA boys who fry their hair with sagged boxers and ten packs they use to deceive you ladies of easy virtue, karma will deal with you all, what nonsense is this!!

Iloveu2:


and the chase resulted in her spreading her legs wide open for him despite having told him she already had a boy friend. WAS SHE DRUNK?!

And then after opening her legs for him she turned around to make it seem as if she was doing him a favour, or that he was just being selfish, after her puss'y. It's all manipulation by women. Infact this lady is old in the game of manipulating men. She came back again begging, begging for what?! PLAYING TWO GUYS AT THE SAME TIME

Well, She understands how to make a guy desperate for more by keeping him on hold, telling him that he has gotten the sex that he wants so that he would have to prove 'otherwise'.

It is the same tactics used in a thread in which to a lady says she wants something deeper in a lesbian affair. She for the first time had lesbian sex with her boyfriend's elder sister who told her it won't happen again, which automatically resulted in her hungry for more.

Beosten:
From your words, you need to read some books so that woman won't play football on your emotion in this life.

wizflame:
keep her as side chick fvck her good but have your main woman at the other hand so that anytime the bitch want to screw with you due to the fact that the other guy is back just let her go and if she comes back the cycle continues

aurevoir

ednut1:
abroad guys are one of the most silly people alive. they wont marry babes in their abode. them go dey find 9ja babe wey another guy dey tear her toto

xcommando:


Pls recommend one, i feel pity(emotional) for people easily and is affecting me negatively

Chibukings111:
You took her virginity i guess, it hard for women to forget a man that first opened their door pls forgive and accept her back

franchasng:
So you are the unfocused guys that stay back in Nigeria lurking around, looking for ladies engaged to guys living abroad to fvck for free ba Kontinu.....karma will soon catch you, magun laced with okokobioko will gum you and one babe soon, I de here de wait to read your story with picture of you crying like a baby




...and to ladies who will have a fiance' laboring in one country day and night thinking he has a reliable woman he would strive to make happy, while she is in Nigeria fucking NFA boys who fry their hair with sagged boxers and ten packs they use to deceive you ladies of easy virtue, karma will deal with you all, what nonsense is this!!

franchasng:
So you are the unfocused guys that stay back in Nigeria lurking around, looking for ladies engaged to guys living abroad to fvck for free ba Kontinu.....karma will soon catch you, magun laced with okokobioko will gum you and one babe soon, I de here de wait to read your story with picture of you crying like a baby




...and to ladies who will have a fiance' laboring in one country day and night thinking he has a reliable woman he would strive to make happy, while she is in Nigeria fucking NFA boys who fry their hair with sagged boxers and ten packs they use to deceive you ladies of easy virtue, karma will deal with you all, what nonsense is this!!

biggy26:

Bro, this your last paragraph get as e be. How did that happen?