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Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by AdioGunner(m): 11:49am On Dec 28, 2019 |
Hello Nairalanders, I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together . It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore . Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection? Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so . Thanks . 3 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by Jacqueline22(f): 11:53am On Dec 28, 2019 |
Let wait for the elders. 11 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by majamajic(m): 11:58am On Dec 28, 2019 |
just wear dark shade glasses , try again in glasses u will notice that no one is looking at u 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by referandum(m): 12:14pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Guy bone, nobody dey reason your matter. I get this ish before Just try to be comfortable in your own skin, try first by holding her at night, after sometime try doing it somewhere far from where you stay, forget acout people around you focus on her, try looking into her eyes(dont stare) each time you hold her hands or hug her, it will help make you more relaxed. 17 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by donbachi(m): 12:17pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Too many girlfriends everywhere...u are only applying caution. 5 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by AdioGunner(m): 12:22pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
referandum:Not so easy Bro, anytime she calls to Meetup like this ,wahala don come. 2 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by AdioGunner(m): 12:23pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
donbachi:That's not the Issue Bro, if it's that I wouldn't have come out the first place |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by donbachi(m): 12:41pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
AdioGunner:u just owned up to it...u came out and applied caution...caught u. 6 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:51pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
The problem is that you have the illusion that people are watching you. Nobody gives a damn about what you are doing and don't be surprised that nobody even notices you. Now go and have mad fun with your girlfriend. You both deserve it. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by itsme01: 1:26pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Relationship is about compromise face your phobia and watch it disapear... nothing is wrong with you , you just seem like a private person, and if your girl wants public display of affection abeg lock up and show it to her because an happy girl is a blessing to a man . 2 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by Egbetuaaa: 1:27pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
[s] itsme01:[/s] 3 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:29pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Go work on yourself. How will you even be successful in life if you are the shy type? AdioGunner: 2 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by MJBOLT: 1:35pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
i used to be like you,start meeting new people,join group discussions,attend events and dont give a fvck about other people opinions of you 3 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by CopyJoe: 1:40pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
You are not only shy but also afraid of what people might say. If you are old enough to be in a relationship, then, you need to do away with shyness. - Start by doing her hand in less public places. - Conquer your fear, and just do it. Once you start, you'll see that people will even love you guys more. I won't blame her if she decides to quit because of that. If you don't face it now, it will affect your relationship. |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by BigDick70inch(m): 1:42pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Baba.. Nothing do u Oo.. Tell..the babe u no too like public affection as an introvert u are..i guess she's an extrovert.. Make..the babe understand that yo love for her is not to impress the public.. 1 Like |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by Oduduwa707: 2:01pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
OP, ji masun! |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by Techcrunchng(m): 2:01pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
get high, smoke weed 5 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by generationz(f): 2:06pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
AdioGunner: It seems you don't like public display of affection. Nothing wrong with it. Some people outgrow their disdain for it and feel comfortable being affectionate in public. Or are you virgin? |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by Egbetuaaa: 2:10pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
[s] itsme01:[/s] 2 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by Memberclub(m): 2:16pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
She's ugly then 2 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by Egbetuaaa: 2:21pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
[s] Oduduwa707:[/s] 2 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by James39: 2:28pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
I was like you and I finally lost her because of it. Now no girlfriend because of thesame issue. Guy just try harder. AdioGunner: 1 Like |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by Olas00(m): 2:30pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Be yourself |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by Offpoint: 2:37pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Nothing is wrong with you, you're a good lover. Those who show public affection their relationship don't last... check dem oyinbo relationships. The only woman I can hold hands while walking is my mom 5 Likes |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by 21savages: 2:40pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
That's who u are and notin is gonna change it..am jst like u bro |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by AdioGunner(m): 3:31pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Offpoint:Guyyy 1 Like |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by AdioGunner(m): 3:33pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
generationz:I thought something's Wrong with me ,I'm not sure this one will be outgrowned , The issue don tey |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by AdioGunner(m): 3:34pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Techcrunchng:Set Awon weyrey 1 Like |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by AdioGunner(m): 3:35pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
BigDick70inch:Hope she won't take it The wrong way, I'm planning on telling her that .Thanks � |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by AdioGunner(m): 3:38pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
CopyJoe: Thanks for your concern ,I'm very old enough ,the Arugbo Ojo type I'll try that too I think I'm always conscious of the surrounding when I'm with her Next Time i go turn Marlian 1 Like |
Re: Shy Guy In Public With His Girlfriend by AdioGunner(m): 3:39pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
scaramucci:Life's too Short Thanks Guy � 1 Like |
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