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Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by uninspired07: 8:07pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
johnkey: This is rather harsh. They can be limited to one child. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
johnkey: Although, I do understand where you're coming from this is rather harsh. They have the right to have kids as anybody else also. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
People should be giving birth to kids they are capable of taking care of. And by 'taking care', I do not only mean being financially capable, but also being able to be emotionally there for them. And condoms should be free 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by uninspired07: 8:37pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
fieryy: At least we agree on something. Kudos. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by ayanbaba2(m): 9:08pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
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Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by johnkey: 11:07pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
fieryy:wow your shape is fiery 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by dominique(f): 11:51pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
The high birth rate amongst the lower income earners is not as annoying as them urging others to have more kids. You that should be advising others on why they shouldn't be breeding like rats, instead you will be encouraging to overpopulate the already overpopulated country. Misery really do love company. Sometimes I wonder what people want to do with so many kids, do they get some thrills watching them grow up and turn into nuisances in the society? Middle/upper class people shouldn't have more than 3 kids while lower class should stop at 2. How I wish the government can put this into law. 29 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by armyofone(m): 12:03am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Misery loves company. I guess it makes them comfortable seeing you suffering too. It is so sad and makes no sense ...i mean how can a very hungry looking man still fu..ck! Only professional working men and women with regular income should have kids. A jobless woman should not. A jobless man should not have kids. I wish too that the Nigerian government would set rules too just as China did. dominique: 13 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by Dereformer(m): 5:38am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Put differently, shouldnt the poor be entitled to bleeps? 1 Like |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by uninspired07: 6:06am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Dereformer: Why not? They should. But they should be educated about contraceptives & family planning methods to prevent pregnancy & space child birth. The problem is that some people don’t just fear poverty. There’s nothing I fear more than being poor. If I don’t have disposable income, I am not always comfortable. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by razible5384(m): 8:43am On Dec 29, 2019 |
James39:weird mindset of this nature is what is caging this country in economical crossroads 21 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by frozen70(f): 9:27am On Dec 29, 2019 |
uninspired07: The educated rich one's, cather for the future of their children They can have one or two kids and that's all They make sure they struggle to give them the best of life Because of the way they struggle to meet upto the standard they created, sex for procreation to them is not an idea When they think of vacation cost, their sex urge goes down, all they think and plan of is to maintain their stand They are not comfortable releasing their children to people to avoid polluting them Then the poor ones doesn't think beyond their private part They have no hope and can't kill themselves Sex is the only cheap thing that comes their way and they engage into it to comfort themselves They don't have any standards to keep, once their children can finish secondary schools, that's the height for them They are ever willing to give out their children for house help 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by razible5384(m): 9:33am On Dec 29, 2019 |
johnkey: Poverty is still legal nah.. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by dominique(f): 9:52am On Dec 29, 2019 |
armyofone: @bolded. Sadly they're the ones that procreate the most. The upper class people can afford to go on date nights, vacations or spend their leisure time doing a variety of fun things. The poor ones on the other hand can't afford that kind of luxury, the only thing they can do during their leisure time is to screw themselves behind closed doors thereby getting pregnant over and over again. It upsets me so much seeing people who can hardly cater for the kids they already have getting pregnant again. It's so unfair bringing kids into that kind of uncertainty, very few of them scale through. The people in government should be looking into population control but they won't since the large population especially amongst the poor masses favours them 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by zed7: 11:17am On Dec 29, 2019 |
The reason is that most people are satisfied with the basics. Take them to school, give them food, throw clothing on them and that's that. Not many care about their kids going to music classes, art classes, learning specialized trade and IT in addition to their education. Most don't believe in planning to send their kids to ivy league schools to increase their chances in the world. Most don't care about the kids learning and gaining exposure through holiday vacations outside their country. A lot don't believe in bonding with their kids, all they care about is they have kids. Anyway, give birth to a whole nation if you want, just don't bother the next man with your problems. 31 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by zed7: 11:25am On Dec 29, 2019 |
dominique:Screwing for leisure is no crime. A lot of rich people do so also. What we should be wondering is why they don't do family planning. Family planning is cheap and even free in some clinics. It still baffles me how people don't understand that they don't have to have kids just because they are having sex. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by djoe21(m): 11:35am On Dec 29, 2019 |
uninspired07: Yes, it is. |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by uninspired07: 12:55pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
zed7: My exact sentiment. Safe family planning methods & procedures then you can have all the sex in the world as a couple. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by OgbanjeProphet: 12:56pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
How or why? |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by Sterope(f): 12:57pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
If he doesn't exist, he doesn't exist. What is there to be grateful for? James39: 7 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by Nobody: 12:58pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
that is common in the north, they need soldiers and voters nothing else matter! 14 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by permit(m): 12:58pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Op you are right to some extent, but let me say this that the average Fulani or hausa don't think of this as an issue hence it is their powerful political tools, while you are trying to make your life easier and for rest of us with your idea of family planning, other's are busy reproducing like rats there by making your life you planned a miserable one.. Nigeria is never over populated but the bad leadership is.. If we all have the same ability to reproduce just like the northern part of Nigeria, we can change and shape the pattern of leadership, so you don't need to view our little population as a threat to our individual life's.... Even mosquitos have their importance . 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by Nawtygrrlsecret(f): 12:59pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
We are just 2 of us and I would love to have 2 and adopt a few but not here � 1 Like |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by hustla(m): 1:00pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
ezugegere: 6 children isn't by mistake o 5 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by basty: 1:00pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Op is actually, morally, reasonably and right in all sense. I think same way and what the future holds for a brutish clime called Nigeria. 9 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by comsirheed: 1:00pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
we believe its God that takes care of the children.having one n't necessarily we can take care of 1.everything na God hand e dey.my personal opinion though |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by Nigerianboi1960(m): 1:01pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
uninspired07:Truth be told, most Nigerian are stupid and inconsiderate people. You'll see some one who's eating less than 50k a month with 5 children. Then you'll hear them say things like, children are a gift from God. WTF The funny thing is that these children will now be passed on to uncles and aunts and older siblings to train, as though they are their responsibilities. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by Heffalump(m): 1:01pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
"How do average Nigerian couples have more than two children?" Op, I can recall answering this question in my final year WASCE exam in the early 70's. Answer: The couples just enter an enclosed space, which could be a room or similar to a room to settle their differences. Both leaves themselves uncladded for the period of activity as they work in very close proximity. What amazes most is the bemoaning of pleasurable sounds and shuddering that accompanies this action. The result certificate is usually evident in about Nine months. This is how average Nigerian couples have more than two children. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by uninspired07: 1:01pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Sterope: Abi oooo, like I have to give thanks to my parents for being born. This issue a lot of Nigerians don’t just fear Nigeria. I fear this current Nigeria a lot & I wouldn’t want to bring many children into this hellhole. 10 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by Grandlord: 1:01pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
I'd be so selfish, inconsiderate and heartless, if I raised kids in this country. Those kids deserve better. 11 Likes |
Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by Harddiskng(m): 1:01pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
johnkey: Bro this is my stance, couple struggling to eat one good meal a day having no business with having children. 5 Likes |
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