seanwilliam:
Alexistaiwo is a scam.. he run away with money meant for 100 people on football thread.. for your own sake, dont do anything concerning money with him.cc donpikko, lhimeet, 2019prophets

Ardar:
What are you still doing in that marriage? Is it when he finally kills you that you'll understand that your horseband and is gradually turning into a beast.

I don't know when women in abusive marriages will get sense, the day any man lays his finger on me especially when unprovoked will be the end of the peace and sanity in that marriage.

We will fight to our last breath, it's either he kills me or I kill him or we kill each other, but if we both survive he won't try such rubbish again.

healthserve:




Here they come single ladies trying to seduce married women out of their marriages to join the leagues of pseudo-independent but frustrated women.

healthserve:




Here they come single ladies trying to seduce married women out of their marriages to join the leagues of pseudo-independent but frustrated women.

Ardar:


I have seen how abusive marriages mess up wives and most especially the children.

People like you advise women to stay and die but tell men the complete opposite because due to your upbringing, you see it as normal and thus anyone saying or doing other wise is single and frustrated.

Marriage is not a do or die affair, I'd rather spend the rest of my days single and in peace than stay in a house where a bitter man will take out his frustration on me in front of my growing kids because what people will stay. It's these same people that will shed fake tears and eat jollof rice on my funeral.

healthserve:



I don't advice women to stay. Continous applies as a excessive situation. She said second time in six years. This doesn't imply as a case where marriage should be thrown out the window. First thing when counselling is to probe the cause and fix it. What if its spiritual and there's confusion thrown at them with the aim of breaking the marriage, should she give into that agenda so sheepishly? Let's not start another gender war, I refuse to buy the story here. Even my Bible says curse don't come cause less. There's no fire without smoke. If all that transpired here is the true account of what happened I advice her and her husband to go for deliverance as background problems are in the marriage working to destroy it.


Zeb04

Ardar:


I am not a religious preson so I don't believe in all that.

Let's wait till it becomes excessive before something is done.

Maybe the next beating will be in another six years since it's now every six years that her horseband beats her and who knows that beating might damage one of her body parts but hey it's every six years so it's not excessive.

Enwhen:



[s]The issue maybe before the preparation for your hubby's friend birthday, go and meet him now , beg him that u are sorry in other to resolve two possible reasons for his behaviour, first stage depression( maybe due to what he is facing in his place of work) or the fact that u know he doesn't have much dress like yourself , yet u were speaking like a novice.... Go beg him , he may not answer u immediately, keep crying while begging, it's a serious issue disturbing your husband, it may even be that he has been 'jaz' to just hate u for no reason ,... Go meet him now ,the earlier the better ...I suspect depression ...[/s]

Mrsprissy:
Good evening my brothers and sisters in the house. First , I am not a troll . I've been a member on NL since 2008 and am very active, but I prefer using a new account for my story to seek advice and also learn from other experienced people in this great group. On christmas day hubby and I were invited to attend a special dinner at his friend's house and I picked a nice outfit for him to wear on the day, he wore another outfit a t shirt and jeans his every day clothes so I asked him politely to go and change, he got angry at me and told me to keep quiet and he went inside.

He was in our room for an hour while the kids and I were still waiting for him , I even sent the kids in their room to play , he later came out he only changed his top but didnt changed the trousers and trainers , I have decided not to say anything for peace to reign , so as we were leaving , I asked him if we could take a family picture, he just snapped and slapped me and started beating me up so badly, he only stopped because my children were screaming and crying for him to stop.
I am so pained because before the incident happened, we were fine , no quarrel at all , I just dont understand his reasons for beating me like this and I swear to God , I didnt say something to make him this angry, he left me there and went out , his friend later called to know if we were still coming because he couldn't reached hubby on the phone , I told him we are coming.
I cleaned myself ,change my clothes and I left with the kids to.his friend house , to my surprised he was already there , we acted like everything was normal and I tried hard to stop tears coming because I was in pained.

For the past 3 days he has been acting as if I did wronged him, he doesn't talk to me, he doesn't eat my foods and he left the room and he is now sleeping in our son room. I just don't know what to do again

daddytime:
Hmmm


All these many seeking for advice for here don tire person.

Op, where are you guys based?

crackhaus:
1. I asked him politely to go and change, he got angry at me and told me to keep quiet and he went inside.

2. I asked him if we could take a family picture, he just snapped and slapped me and started beating me up so badly.

After giving you the benefit of a doubt and assuming this is exactly how it happened - then your husband has definitely gone mad to react to absolutely nothing.
Please [b]politely ask him if there is madness running in his family, make sure you ask him from a safe distance because he will surely use the nearest furniture to kill you.

Madness does not have a cure, but it can be managed.
Arrange to have him put in chains and get him on medications till everything returns to normal[/b].

healthserve:



I'm. Cracked up. This doesn't add up. Another one on the loose seeking validations to create problems in the house. It's outright lunacy on the husband's side or the OP is telling the tale to appear completely innocent

ayanbaba2:


you well so?

Ardar:
What are you still doing in that marriage? Is it when he finally kills you that you'll understand that your horseband is gradually turning into a beast.

I don't know when women in abusive marriages will get sense, the day any man lays his finger on me especially when unprovoked will be the end of the peace and sanity in that marriage.

We will fight to our last breath, it's either he kills me or I kill him or we kill each other, but if we both survive he won't try such rubbish again.

midnighter:
We dont have all the details but according to what youve said, youd better escape with your children to your parents or siblings. Or his own parents, if you get on well with them.

I mean you should do it before New Year. Without any announcement.

The guy is already in another galaxy; I guess you wouldnt want him to take you with him.

SBL28:
Maybe there is a side chick in the picture, that is when you see some men getting angry for no reason, the woman can suddenly do nothing right in his eyes.

Dear OP, you need to report him to his family members, don't let any man kill you for your children o.

My neighbor was beaten by her husband on Christmas day too, she has something planned, e go shock am!

Ardar:


I am not a religious preson so I don't believe in all that.

Let's wait till it becomes excessive before something is done.

Maybe the next beating will be in another six years since it's now every six years that her horseband beats her and who knows that beating might damage one of her body parts but hey it's every six years so it's not excessive.

DavidEsq:

Abeg jist us wetin she plan na.

SBL28:


Lol, the walls have ears. The man likes JuJu, let her carry it out first, I will bring jist later.

DavidEsq:

Be like say all the crase ppl for NL gather for this thread o.

midnighter:


A crazy story demands a crazy response..just imagine! Na so pesin go chop beating for Christmas

Some people are just spectacularly mad sha

SBL28:
Maybe there is a side chick in the picture, that is when you see some men getting angry for no reason, the woman can suddenly do nothing right in his eyes.

Dear OP, you need to report him to his family members, don't let any man kill you for your children o.

My neighbor was beaten by her husband on Christmas day too, she has something planned, e go shock am!

thorpido:
That must be his own way of celebrating Christmas with you.

[/quote][quote author=crackhaus post=85298020]1. I asked him politely to go and change, he got angry at me and told me to keep quiet and he went inside.

2. I asked him if we could take a family picture, he just snapped and slapped me and started beating me up so badly.

After giving you the benefit of a doubt and assuming this is exactly how it happened - then your husband has definitely gone mad to react to absolutely nothing.
Please politely ask him if there is madness running in his family, make sure you ask him from a safe distance because he will surely use the nearest furniture to kill you.

Madness does not have a cure, but it can be managed.
Arrange to have him put in chains and get him on medications till everything returns to normal.

Mrsprissy:
Thank you so much everyone for your advice . Like I said earlier nothing actually happened between us before Christmas , everything was okey , on Monday December 23rd we went out shopping for Christmas after we took the kids out to the playgrounds and we ended the day with a nice dinner at the restaurant. On Christmas morning we woke up fine no arguments, he left the house and went to get his hair cut, I picked up his clothes and left it on the bed by the time he get back so he can wear them, he came back very normal on a good mood , the only time he got angry was when I asked him to go and change , I didn’t raise my voice , I only told him the clothes doesn’t look nice for the special occasion that was when he told me to keep quiet and I did. He took 1 hour just to change the T-shirt to a shirt and I wasn’t not happy but I didn’t say anything because he wasn’t in the right mood. Yes He beat me just because I have asked him to take a family picture , I swear to God I’m telling the truth and if I’m not lying because it won’t put any money to my bank account. This is the 2nd beating after 6 years of marriage , but this is one was worse than the first one. Something did happened back in October ( his fault) but we have already settle everything and went back to normal. I know it doesn’t make sense to some of you , even myself I just don’t understand why did he beat me with so much hatred when I did nothing wrong

midnighter:
We dont have all the details but according to what youve said, youd better escape with your children to your parents or siblings. Or his own parents, if you get on well with them.

I mean you should do it before New Year. Without any announcement.

The guy is already in another galaxy; I guess you wouldnt want him to take you with him.

DavidEsq:

Be like say all the crase ppl for NL gather for this thread o.