Blitz888:


Bro, take some time out to let out some steam... Guess that's what you're already doing but quit self pity and self defeating tendencies..

Get busy with your life, focus on your dreams and smash all the records/obstacles before you and watch how she will come calling.

You're giving it too much time and energy hence your troubled state.

[s]Such girls are drawn to successful men... [/s] Respect her wish, give her some space and become such a success that no right thinking person can ignore and watch the cosmos and it's elements Favour your cause.

Man up young man!

CAPSLOCKED:



THIS IS RIDICULOUS. DON'T BE SILLY.
SHE'S NOT A GOD. SHE'S NOT AN ANGEL. SHE'S NOT SPECIAL, JUST ANOTHER GIRL.
WHY ARE YOU BEING UNBALANCED OVER WHAT WAS NEVER YOURS?

THIS IS HOW WE MAKE MISTAKES. WE SHOW OUR DESPERATION AND ALLOW PEOPLE TAKE ADVANTAGE AND EXPLOIT US. PLEASE KILL YOURSELF OVER NOTHING IF YOU WILL, BUT JUST KNOW THAT THERE'S NOTHING ABOUT THIS PERSON THAT IS NOT OBTAINABLE ELSEWHERE.

LoveElfrida:


Thanks bro!

I actually got them chasing after me, but I'm not interested in them, 'cos I know what they want. Good things most times need a lot of work to get.

LoveElfrida:




Guys I'm not sir abeg, is any of you highly grounded in server-side and client-side scripting?

If yes, which language/s are you proficient with their respect?

To you guys mocking me, y'all don't really know how I feel. I'm really heartbroken guys. A woman of my dream is slipping away from my fingers, I thought that I'd find help here on how to possibly change her mind, I want to build my future with her.

LoveElfrida:
I once told her that I could kidnap her and take her to my utopia, she laughed, thought that I was kidding, but now I wished I had.

She's a lovable girl, black, bold, and beautiful, with the gaze of eternals, she's a goddess. A goddess of beauty. On our 4th date after three(3) weeks of knowing her, I made my intention known to her, she asked for a time to process everything. Alas! She came back with the big N-O, citing her career pursuit as the reason.

This is the first woman I've ever truly loved, but I was rejected. She isn't like the most ladies out there I've seen, and she isn't even driven by money or materials thing.

I've deleted all her memories- her pictures, our chats, her contact, and even our pictures, we truly bonded well. But I can't erase her memory in my head, she's already got me in her grip, I'm psychologically unbalanced ATM.

Ariza:
You guys will look for anything to paint women bad.So a woman choosing to build her life and career over relationship did so to get rich man right? Both op and the lady graduated few days ago, op has a business and a project of his own already the lady has none.But you consider it a crime for her to have and build her future. Bros did she go to school to be in relationship?If to say you be her papa now, I for say nah bride price dey hungry you.


BTW at bolded, poor man mentality! Who them no fit ignore for this life? Power and money get levels, the rich cry too.

Cutehector:
She is a wise girl. Else you would have gotten her pregnant and left her to her fate

Blitz888:


Jumping in on every comment doesn't really come off as smart... Your comprehension is obviously defective and thus may need you do a double tracking before putting your foot forward next time...

Where in all of my treatise did i use the word 'rich'
What makes you think i equate Success to riches
Your world view definition of success is being rich?
Always seek to understand before commenting!
Your senile and parochial mindset did not let you know that i am entitled to holding an opinion on any matter as i dim fit your fragile ego/richman mentality notwithstanding.

Say your own and quit being the teacher you're not!

LoveElfrida:


Thank you sir. I've already closed my mind on her, I'm just pained, that's all!

I already deleted everything about her from my physical life, apart from the one in my head, I even blocked all our channels of communication, 'cos the more I hear her voice, the more I crazier becomes. She calls and text me almost everyday.

Ariza:
Let me be a student then, please Sir what do you equate success to in this scenario?


Your deflective measure stinks to high heaven, you may be gone now!

Cutehector:
I really laughed when I read this..


You know we still have unsettled scores

Cutehector:
She is a wise girl. Else you would have gotten her pregnant and left her to her fate

LoveElfrida:




Guys I'm not sir abeg, is any of you highly grounded in server-side and client-side scripting?

If yes, which language/s are you proficient with their respect?

To you guys mocking me, y'all don't really know how I feel. I'm really heartbroken guys. A woman of my dream is slipping away from my fingers, I thought that I'd find help here on how to possibly change her mind, I want to build my future with her.

xendra:
I honestly didn't know, what scores?

LoveElfrida:


Thanks ma'am! You sure do understand this better. I don't even talk to girls before I get them, they come to me, this is utterly different, she ain't rich, but she's in a class of her own, and highly focused lady.

LoveElfrida:


Hello, I'm not like the regular guys you see on the street that lack morals and values(no disrespect to anyone). I'm also an ambitious young man, we both graduated few days ago in a federal uni, though different faculty entirely.

I already have a biz of mine as an undergraduate, and currently working on a project that's gonna be employed by people all over the world (and, especially Nigeria).

Her reason is very simple, career first, relationship later.

CAPSLOCKED:


THIS IS THE BEST SPORT MOST WOMEN LOVE, PLAYING WITH A MAN'S HEART, EMOTIONS AND LIFE.
WHY WOULD SHE CALL DAILY WHEN SHE SAYS SHE DOESN'T NEED YOU..? CUZ SHE KNOWS HOW YOU FEEL, BUT DOESN'T MIND TO KEEP TORMENTING YOU SO THAT YOU WILL BE FORCED TO BEND OVER TO START GOING OUT OF YOUR WAY FOR HER, FUNDING HER, PROVIDING FOR AND DOING THINGS FOR HER WITH THE EMPTY HOPES OF ONE DAY WINNING HER.

THIS IS THE OLDEST TRICK WOMEN USE TO TIE THEIR ADMIRERS IN THE FRIEND ZONE OF NO ESCAPE. I'M GLAD THAT YOU'VE BLOCKED ALL THE LINKS BETWEEN YOU. FORGET HER. IF YOU EVENTUALLY HAVE HER EITHER SHE'LL BORE YOU AFTER A MINUTE, OR YOU'LL BE THE HANDBAG. FOR ETERNITY.

I'M SURE YOU'RE INNOCENT AND INEXPERIENCED IN THE GAME. TRUST ME. THERE'S NOTHING LEFT FOR ME TO SEE, SO I DRINK

.

LoveElfrida:


Hello, I'm not like the regular guys you see on the street that lack morals and values(no disrespect to anyone). I'm also an ambitious young man, we both graduated few days ago in a federal uni, though different faculty entirely.

I already have a biz of mine as an undergraduate, and currently working on a project that's gonna be employed by people all over the world (and, especially Nigeria).

Her reason is very simple, career first, relationship later.

LoveElfrida:


Hello, I'm not like the regular guys you see on the street that lack morals and values(no disrespect to anyone). I'm also an ambitious young man, we both graduated few days ago in a federal uni, though different faculty entirely.

I already have a biz of mine as an undergraduate, and currently working on a project that's gonna be employed by people all over the world (and, especially Nigeria).

Her reason is very simple, career first, relationship later.

LoveElfrida:
I appreciate you guys honestly, and everybody's contributions.

I'd like to point out some things though, so you guys will get the picture right.

Firstly, I'm not a pushover to any girl, or any person so to say, I'm doing well for my self in all aspect of life, @cutehector, I'm no longer an undergrad, I pointed out in my writings that I graduated few days back.

Secondly, I'm not bad looking, I looks better than average guys(no boasting, I remembered her telling me that I don't look like someone that can't love due to my looks, and I'm even thinking that that's one of the reasons why she said no, she said I'm a ladies man, she thought I'm a playboy on few occasions).

And lastly, I'm a very serious and hardworking dude, I've got few projects of myself getting me income, as well as done few other projects for people. Currently I'm working on would be the biggest one.

So I'm no pushover guys, aside her career excuse, I think she felt I'm way above her(reverse of your thought), and she wouldn't be able to keep up with me. And I've seen many beautiful girls, most times though, beauty isn't everything. No matter how you're beautiful, if you aren't brainy, and productive, we can't roll.

LoveElfrida:
I once told her that I could kidnap her and take her to my utopia, she laughed, thought that I was kidding, but now I wished I had.

She's a lovable girl, black, bold, and beautiful, with the gaze of eternals, she's a goddess. A goddess of beauty. On our 4th date after three(3) weeks of knowing her, I made my intention known to her, she asked for a time to process everything. Alas! She came back with the big N-O, citing her career pursuit as the reason.

This is the first woman I've ever truly loved, but I was rejected. She isn't like the most ladies out there I've seen, and she isn't even driven by money or materials thing.

I've deleted all her memories- her pictures, our chats, her contact, and even our pictures, we truly bonded well. But I can't erase her memory in my head, she's already got me in her grip, I'm psychologically unbalanced ATM.

LoveElfrida:


Thank you sir. I've already closed my mind on her, I'm just pained, that's all!

I already deleted everything about her from my physical life, apart from the one in my head, I even blocked all our channels of communication, 'cos the more I hear her voice, the more I crazier becomes. She calls and text me almost everyday.

seanwilliam:
you've been scammed bros.. it takes a genius to understand the bolded