The ideal lady does not marry the already made man. She works hard and - together - they climb the ladder of success.

I like you

What if only rich men are the ones coming her way? You need to expand your theory.

kweensheba:
The ideal lady does not marry the already made man. She works hard and - together - they climb the ladder of success.

The resident nairaland feminist sisters and their "money for hand back for ground" counterparts will come here and unleash their frustration on you.

Run ooo...dem dey come 4 u.

Nonsense and Buhari....Stay there and continue deceiving yourself....After building with him, he will still leave you to marry someone that will match his new acquired status...

Wouldn't advise my daughter this way. Times have changed. When men get to the top they upgrade to a higher level mate.

But I would tell guys to search for a lady who wants to "build" so you exploit the hell out of her. Then dump her. And upgrade. Nothing personal. Pure business.

ubunja:
Wouldn't advice my daughter this way. Times have changed. When men get to the top they upgrade to a higher level mate.

But I would tell guys to search for a lady who wants to "build" so you exploit the hell out of her. Then dump her. And upgrade. Nothing personal. Pure business.

my brother they are coming for your head wait and see

It's not about an ideal woman marrying the poor/average/rich guy but obeying the marriage principles. Many ideal women get married to the poor or average or rich guys, it is a choice.

Question: can the ideal woman be submissive as a feminine role to a poor/average man she decided to marry?

Study the science and theory behind the balance equation. Then, balance your message very well. Hence, it may have feminist backing in your message.

ubunja:
Wouldn't advise my daughter this way. Times have changed. When men get to the top they upgrade to a higher level mate.

But I would tell guys to search for a lady who wants to "build" so you exploit the hell out of her. Then dump her. And upgrade. Nothing personal. Pure business.

When your daughter becomes baby mama to 6 kids from 6 fathers that will be Karna at your doorstep.

Wolgrace:
It's not about an ideal woman marrying the poor/average/rich guy but obeying the marriage principles. Many ideal women get married to the poor or average or rich guys, it is a choice.

Question: can the ideal woman be submissive as a feminine role to a poor/average man she decided to marry?

Study the science and theory behind the balance equation. Then, balance your message very well. Hence, it may have feminist backing in your message.

"can the ideal woman be submissive?"

Well she wouldn't be ideal if she wasn't submissive.

kweensheba:
The ideal lady does not marry the already made man. She works hard and - together - they climb the ladder of success.

the spirit of pickmesha in you is strong

That happened in the 1980's.Next!

Not all ideal women are submissive. To be submissive as an ideal woman is a choice. Also, not to marry a rich guy as an ideal woman is still a choice.

Reason I countered at first is that many ideal women are feminist, who dont want to be controlled by a rich guy. Poor guy cant control an ideal woman who is a feminist. It's their motives that matters...

ubunja:
"can the ideal woman be submissive?"

Well she wouldn't be ideal if she wasn't submissive.

Wolgrace:
Not all ideal women are submissive. To be submissive as an ideal woman is a choice. Also, not to marry a rich guy as an ideal woman is still a choice.

Reason I countered at first is that many ideal women are feminist, who dont want to be controlled by a rich guy. Poor guy cant control an ideal woman who is a feminist. It's their motives that matters...

what does Ideal even mean then??

Desirable or perfect in mental picture but not likely to be a reality. It only exists in the imagination...

Many ideal women can fake their idealities but the real ones will be known and praised by their virtuous and praiseworthy qualities.

ubunja:
what does Ideal even mean then??

Wolgrace:
Desirable or perfect in mental picture but not likely to be a reality. It only exists in the imagination...

Many ideal women can fake their idealities but the real ones will be known and praised by their virtuous and praiseworthy qualities.

ideal to mean she's an idea?

I took it you meant there's a girl who has ticked all the boxes already standing in front of you. My bad.

Genset:
Nonsense and Buhari....Stay there and continue deceiving yourself....After building with him, he will still leave you to marry someone that will match his new acquired status...

And who is that person, You?
Some ladies and their mentality is so soooo terrible

kweensheba:
The ideal lady does not marry the already made man. She works hard and - together - they climb the ladder of success.

A woman must not be so materialistic. Toil with him first. Later, enjoy with him.

Theories of 'ideal' are not usually realistic.

An ideal lady should become independent. Her class/type of husband will find her.

All this get poor, get money, hustle, die together shit don't work. Both get the life you want and meet your partner halfway.

Whether you are marrying rich or poor, as an ideal lady, please be independent. Story do change but life goes on.

Ideal is subjective. It is not universal in acceptance.

Ideal or not, what will be will be.