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Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Dameland: 7:21pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
healthserve: She should give him a few days to calm down and go and make peace.This matter is not good enough reason to end her marriage as She has not decribed her husband as a perpetual wife beater 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by abbey621(m): 7:22pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
If you haven't left anything out and this is truly the only thing that happened then get a DIVORCE or insist he gets help for his anger issue before you settle! He obviously has anger issues and might seriously injure you or worse the next time. All these fools telling you to go apologize and so on are mentally ill, if you apologize now believe me you'll keep apologizing forever. Your worth in the marriage is your ability to maintain the respect your husband has for you and your husband's ability to maintain yours, once either party does not respect the other then it is FINISHED! Heed my advice only if you haven't left anything out and you've not been abusive towards him in the past, heed my advice only if you are financially able to stand on your own or you have people that can support you. Finally heed my advice, if you believe it was not a mistake and he is prone to doing this again in the future! |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by healthserve(m): 7:23pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Dameland: I agree this has been my position throughout the thread but the ladies here have accused me of supporting a wife beater because I made this same statement earlier. She needs to dig to the root of the issue to avoid future/further occurrence. I maintain my stance that someone somewhere wants her place and wants the marriage broken 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Adams12345: 7:27pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
You are a good wife, just be silent don't border yourself about him, behave as if he is not around only greet him and relax, when some kind of men behave like women keeping malice its look childish, he will come to you when he is tire of keep malice, leave him alone simple. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Bbbwings: 7:34pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
MariaAngeles:Fixed Some women just like some men could deserve a slap o |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Bbbwings: 7:39pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Plead:As usual, you don't get the point. Don't go around insulting people. Some day it might just be someone crazier than you. You hold up the west as if freak thing's do not happen there 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by weslineo: 7:40pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Sorry about that,but sometimes men have many things on their mind and the wife should always observe the wife mood. His first reaction should tell you to keep quite and just follow him till his head comes down. You asking to take picture s when he his agry shows you are not sensitive enough. Some men do have this mood swinbg at times better you watch it. I guess he his the only one providing for the family. There must be something bordering him |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by weslineo: 7:41pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Sorry about that,but sometimes men have many things on their mind and the wife should always observe the husband mood. His first reaction should tell you to keep quite and just follow him till his head comes down. You asking to take picture s when he his angry shows you are not sensitive enough. Some men do have this mood swings at times better you watch it. I guess he his the only one providing for the family. There must be something bordering him |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by funshint(m): 7:46pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
This story seems incomplete but I don't support women battering of any type. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by bukatyne(f): 7:47pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
healthserve: True. However, most of these entrapment work because the husband has stepped out in the first place. |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by healthserve(m): 7:50pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
bukatyne: Not necessarily. You've not updated your Os. The way it's going on in the world now is much more complex. Don't be surprised even the woman would/or has also fell under the get-angry-react and leave voodoo as well. Thesedays people need to place value on what they have and protect it. Whatever is left unguarded will be tested. Remember the scripture where the Bible talks about a people leaving in peace with no fears of any external attacks until a day came. Thesedays business, marriage, relationships needs to be guarded. And it doesn't need sidestepping for vile people to be angry. Trust me your smile/happiness alone would irk them to do their usual evil. It's naija. She should go pray with her pastor for the Lord to put light to the mystery and unmask the puppeteer On this particular thread I consulted my innerman and I'm 90%certain of my position on this issue 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by emonis88: 7:54pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
doitforyou:From ur words I know u r not married. So ur advice in this situation il be like a primary school pupil answering a question from a university exam. U go fail woofully so just observe and learn from those with experience. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Primenet(m): 7:55pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Woman, speak the truth. How can he just snapped and slapped you just like that? Hidden part of the issue please... |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by chrisj2(m): 7:55pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Bbbwings: Maybe she is not from the USA where cursing the police can get you killed. Even cursing others including your husband or wife can get you killed because guns are easily available. Why do we smack our children sometimes? If it were that easy to always reason with other people then life will be so much easier. And how easy is it to just walk away? He must have told his wife before not to tell him what to do... She says the clothes he is wearing is not that good for the special occasion - according to HER! He saw the clothes laid out and he still decided to wear something else to his friend's house (not even to the wife's family house). He took 1 hour to cool off and she was still not happy that all he did was change his shirt (he even tried self to change his shirt) - we are supposed to believe that she said nothing - NA! And then can we take photos - WTF? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by bossinblack: 7:57pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Mrsprissy: This is so sad. How grown are your children please? |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Blakjewelry(m): 8:02pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
healthserve:The bottom line is her hubby is a bad dresser. So he reacting simply means he reacting same issue about his bad dress sense which she might tease him back then |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by bukatyne(f): 8:07pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Dameland: Hmmmmm. |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by ImaIma1(f): 8:10pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Someone will still come and say she should try to find out what the husband is going through that made him lash out. Or she should apologize to him for peace to reign. Some husbands take advantage of the "head of the house" title and try to bully their spouses. Everyone, whether husband or wife should be responsible for their actions and apologize when they mess up instead of forming silent treatment to cover their shame. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Izigha(m): 8:13pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
I can t believe folks are telling a woman that was beating on xmas day to apologizes. if you dnt hav a little control of your emotions marriage is not somethin to engage in. going by wht she wrote, i dnt think the husband is cheating. cheating husband are even more likely to dress nicely and act nicely to their wife. I THINK the husband is in big trouble probably financially. Another thing that can make a man lash out like that is information that is very damaging like he just found out he is not the father of his kid or kids. just thinking out loud. in anycase i dnt think its is safe for her to remain in that house until she find out what is bothering her husband 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Nobody: 8:15pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Maybe ur hubby is being so sensitive or the man is frustrated...So my Wife no fit tell me say Cloth no fit me again?! Well,I don't believe this story anyways. Unless the man is mentally ill. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by bayulll011(m): 8:16pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
DavidEsq: Lmao i tell u dem plenty here,been lauging since. @op am an advocate of not laying hand on women but some of you are something else,your story still not adding up only a mad man will beat his wife |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Kereokwu(f): 8:21pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Violence is a no-no and I strongly condemn it. The op obviously is a show off, someone who like to impress people. Op have you thought that maybe your husband does not want you to go to that party, he waisted 1hour just to change shirt, enough indication for sensitive woman to know that something is amiss but no, all she could think of is pictures (obviously to impress friends), even after beating you still went to the party (she must represent)madam nawa. The truth is that those your trying to impress don't really care. It's possible the man is heavily indebted because of your show off life style. Be more sensitive to your husband and family, times are hard. Above all prayer is the key. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Rigel95(m): 8:24pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
safarigirl: Exactly, my point if this equality of sexes of a thing is followed strictly, na women go suffer pass |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by DavidEsq(m): 8:25pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
bayulll011: |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Halimat04(f): 8:40pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
maasoap:it is well |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by doitforyou(f): 8:43pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
emonis88:lol if your idea of marriage is to be pummeled on Christmas Day while your child cries for you, then you can save it for the women in your family that will be their portion. 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by adekS1(m): 8:48pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Madam if you care to listen,i have some observations to make not that am siding your hubby but some things didnt add up to me...let me highlight as follows: My doubts are on: You claim u told him politely to go n change and he was angry.i doubt was u said was actually polite or in a polite manner ...yoruba will say "pele o ni ako o ni abo" -secondly,u told him to lets you guys take family pics and he just started beating u...aunty just like that. Well,l observe u r trying to act as the saint here,its better u try n meet your husband,drop all the talk of l no do anything to him cos u might have unknowingly do something he doesnt like for such misunderstanding.nothing happen without a cause.Ask him wat u did wrong to warrant such action,he will tell u... Finally,ur hubby bleeped up big time to have raise his hands on u.i wont support that.but learn to dialogue with ur hubby without doing self righteousness 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by ststyreal(f): 8:50pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
thorpido:na kolo you be walahiiiii |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Graxie(f): 8:50pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
My anger with her is that she still went for the party. What kind of fake life are you living? Is it that you don't have self worth? You dragged your kids to go to the party after all that happened. Madam you are a shame to motherhood. Don't worry, new year beating will be deadly, go like some people are advising you to ask him what happened? Then he will show you 2020 in view. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by MedicH: 9:01pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
I don't know about everything else but hitting you was wrong and very unacceptable. Be careful there. He can kill you. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by midnighter(f): 9:06pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
baby124: Thank you. If you allow your husband to go outside looking like a joke, do you really love that guy Hm! Make I no talk before dem come beat me for house o since its that serious smh 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by YelloweWest: 9:24pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Originalsly:Just u justified his wrong na! Why is it that when woman retaliates this sentiment will arise? |
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