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Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Izigha(m): 9:27pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
adekS1:guys, if someone do something you dnt like tell the person wife or co-worker, slapping or beating the person is no longer acceptable in civilization. If Anthony Joshua is the husband friend and did something that annoy him, do you think he will slap Joshua?? he will not cos he will know that he will be lucky to wake up in the hospital. so he slap her cos he know he is physically stronger. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by YelloweWest: 9:28pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
chrisj2:Change of shirt and picture is pushing things to far!!! How?? And yes, money can solve the problem! She should dump him and move on! There a lot of good men who would love fashion tips and enjoy a picture of his family!!! That man is bull shìt, straight up mad! Enough said! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by bukhety(f): 9:32pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Mrsprissy:I suspect bipolar disorder. This disease could make one who is very nice at one time to behave irrationally at other times with no valid explanation. Its a form of mental illness. I will advice he sees a psychiatrist. But it is when we admit we have a problem that we can seek for solution. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by midnighter(f): 9:36pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Graxie: Wait, but I dont understand the connection you guys are making between the beating and the party. Somebody said its "an intricacy of marriage" that I couldnt possibly understand, well I am ready to learn. What is wrong in what she did? Where is the lack of self-respect there? |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by stonedigital: 9:38pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
bukatyne: Good question.... A man can forgive and allow you to stay in his house but he can never forget. You must have hurt him one way or the other and whenever he remembers, he feels depressed. Depression will lead to anger and outburst |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Nobody: 9:42pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Chai ma! Hope you have not become a suspect? For me keep a distance from the family you people went to visit, something is fishy dear. . Relax, perform your roles for him and the kids...he will regret his actions when the really truth comes out. . Sorry ma for the insult but there's a secret you don't know which you need to unravel with WISDOM. |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by StoneColdBiceps(m): 9:47pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Mrsprissy: You bruised his ego. Nothing more nothing less. Never put any other person (Man) before your husband even if he's in rags as the case may be. His friend May be loaded (rich) more than him, and you're going he shouldn't go and disgrace you attitude. So it may involve around him, you and his friend. His friend called you and bla bla bla. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Nobody: 9:49pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Bbbwings: Shut up ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by SmellingAnus(m): 9:50pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
midnighter:If she leaves that man may even accuse her of adultery wether she is innocent or not... Lol ... My dear marriages these days na scam... Marriages turn sane people to mad people... 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by midnighter(f): 9:59pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
SmellingAnus: She should leave to one of their family members if possible...I personally dont believe she is safe in that house if he could be so bitter as to beat her up and leave her on the ground. Does she even lock the bedroom when she's sleeping ![]() Whatever he accuses her of is his business...at least accusation is better than beating! 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by WIZGUY69(m): 10:07pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Ardar [s:[/s] Shut Up! Mufu ![]() Always claiming Boss on social media, but in reality they are a nobody. |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by greggng: 10:07pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Mrsprissy: You know the problem but you came here to pretend. Only a mad person gets angry without provocation. Be smart and tell us the reason....That man has suddenly discovered a secret you 've been hiding ....search your self very well...,nobody here can help you with this.... 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by SmellingAnus(m): 10:14pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
midnighter:I don't think she is safe either... The man is definitely going through stuffs that his wife is unaware of... If I have 10 friends at least 8 or 9 are married, it's either their wives complain about them to me or they complain about their wives... There is hardly a happy marriage amongst them is just that some of them still look beyond their differences and still make out fun time pending when the fire and brimstone era sets in... The way we see marriages as singles is as good as fantasies... |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by delpee(f): 10:14pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Beating for the second time... This time it’s worse... You really need to understand what is at root of his anger to avoid a third time which could be more devastating. He probably has a problem. :- 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Brainboxfid(f): 10:19pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
crackhaus:hahahahaha you're not serious oo.. epic advice |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Ruicosta10(m): 10:20pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Guy man stupidity: |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by richie240: 10:32pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
xtivin2:Same here, I'm also sure u've smoked ur Igbo again. Pls don't carry ds fuuulish stereotypes into 2020, biko.
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Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by richie240: 10:38pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by richie240: 10:42pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Greatfullheart: 10:46pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Because Of Too Much Thinking or maybe He Has A New Catch. God Help I Know I'll Never Lay Finger On My Wife, i Rather Home Angry and Go Somewhere to Clear My Head. And Later Figure Things Out 1 Like
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Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by midnighter(f): 10:51pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
SmellingAnus: Lol, I think you need to make some new friends! You dont know one of us must still arrange better date for one Saturday with you? ![]() |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Macgreat(m): 10:52pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
He beat you up to remind you he is the MAN in that marriage. You don't tell a man what to wear when he already picked what he liked... his Friend's house not some presidential or black tie event.. You made him feel like he is nothing and don't know what he is doing. |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Overlordrichy(m): 10:56pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
It may be the way you told him to go and change his clothes (it may be that you told him to go and change his clothes the way you always tell your kids to go and change their clothes when there dressing is not right) You said he went inside for like an hour (may be he is thinking about the way you talked to him...) So he later kept your offense inside warmer for you � So when you are now abt to leave, the way you told him to snap the family picture is not cool again that's when he now opened the warmer and beat the offense you have been offending him out of you. Sorry abt all the story... It may be that the way you always tell your hubby to do something is disrespectful, please check the way you always talk to him (not everyone doesn't care about respect) 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by richie240: 11:06pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Greatfullheart:All dt na story biko. U never jam woman who will lock d door, throw the key out of d window and lock ur shirt, shouting ''u will kee me today". When u jam Jezebel's great granddaughter, u will regret coming across 'woman' in ur life! Just pray God gives u ur own missing bone. Nowadays, wife (and by extension - husband) materials are extremely scarce. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by dROC1: 11:16pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
It's abominable to beat your wife, it's even worse beating your wife in front of the kids. That's a terrible low, just go and commit suicide. That's scarring the kids for life and imprinting an indelible image in their minds, for which you will forever be remembered for. I still cannot comprehend why women stay with men who beat them, perhaps that's why I'm still single in my old age. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Adufeamos: 12:01am On Dec 30, 2019 |
So confusing info...or not ordinary cos it makes no sense. |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Angrymode: 12:05am On Dec 30, 2019 |
From my point of view, I think ur hubby snapped because he feels fed up with u always trying to control him n av it ur way. Geez!! How can u tell a grown ass man to go n change like he was ur kid? To make matter worse, when he refused to do as u wanted, u asked him to snap a pic to c himself ![]() OP, stop trying to control that ur man because he is fed up with it or more slaps r on their way o! |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Angrymode: 12:08am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Overlordrichy: U said it like it is. Women these days don't know d meaning of respect. I don't blame them because men these days don't demand respect. |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Bbbwings: 12:10am On Dec 30, 2019 |
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Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by SmellingAnus(m): 12:10am On Dec 30, 2019 |
midnighter:hahaha better date with you? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by samson07(m): 1:08am On Dec 30, 2019 |
your hubby might be having a hard time in his place of work. i think you and hubby aint communicating like u used to. it happens to every men, when they having issues at work, they prefer being left alone to be able to think, but your hubby didnt act well. u guys need to talk things out if not more beating awaits u. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Shokoloko(f): 1:28am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Once a beater, always a beater. You can manage the hurts and pains of a violent marriage. You can stay. But it will not get better. It was 6 years ago, after this it will be 3 years later until it gets to every month. Root cause is a lack of self control. There were a thousand a one ways he could have dealt with an erring wife but he decided to lose control. He will lose control again and again but if you can persevere then go ahead. I hope you do not have a son because a lesson in marital violence has just been initiated. 2 Likes |
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