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Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Babaheekmat: 8:03am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Sirseedorf:who would not want to |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by victorjoe(m): 8:03am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Kylekent59: And to add to this lovely opinion, she is still your niece. Nothing will change that. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by joyandfaith: 8:03am On Dec 30, 2019 |
nanaman: very correct. legal adoption could have solved this headache. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by baby124: 8:03am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Bill him nothing less than 50million Naira to unreject the girl. It’s time to hammer OP. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Burgcudi(m): 8:05am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Slavery... |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by AleksAndria: 8:05am On Dec 30, 2019 |
HenryDion: Exactly. You can't just waltz into people's lives like that. You never cared from the beginning, why care now. Mr OP, simply tell her all truth about her birth and the father. Let her decide if she want's to be with/see him. She fared well without his presence all these years, nothing will change. 8 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by poik(m): 8:05am On Dec 30, 2019 |
GuyWise101: I think I like the sound of this idea. At the end of the day the child must know her father. But then the man must also be punished for the negligence. Good idea. Triple the actual amount and refuse to step down or no deal. 2 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Lamanii22(f): 8:06am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Kylekent59: Right... She has to know the truth regardless.... |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Slynation(m): 8:06am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Alexaonfleek:How do you drag a mAn to bear the financial impact on a pregnancy he and his family rejected right from Adam....?? 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Kenmarine(m): 8:06am On Dec 30, 2019 |
In igbo land, since the guy never paid her bride price and rejected taking care of her from the onset. The child belongs to the girl's family.. The boy can't make a claim especially when it's a girl child.. Giving him her daughter is just out of your own benevolence.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by 9gerian: 8:06am On Dec 30, 2019 |
It’s funny but this sounds good. Every dime for a start and to show their seriousness this time around. I’m also angry on your behalf GuyWise101: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by ednut1(m): 8:08am On Dec 30, 2019 |
baby124:what if he no get nko |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by MoIbrahim: 8:08am On Dec 30, 2019 |
He was and probably still is an irresponsible man. Bill him so hard that he'll have to run away. If the child was wayward or poorly raised he won't have agreed to being the father till the end of time. So bill him hard! 11 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Keemsleek005(m): 8:09am On Dec 30, 2019 |
nanaman: This one of the reason most men avoid single mum, as for the child is not up to 18yrs old age she's still a minor and can't make her own decisions so the decision still fall on the man and actual it's the froster father that looses most in all these and I know how much pain the op is going thru. My question is why sudden change of heart after 16yrs either he as no child or no female child. Like someone said since the child was not adopted legal they just have to bear the pains, accept fate, let the father see his child till she's old enough to determine were she wants to stay. 2 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by daddytime(m): 8:10am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Biafrareform: I'm sure you are mistaking me for the person that started that thread... 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by baby124: 8:10am On Dec 30, 2019 |
ednut1:Let him go and ask all those people he gathered to reject the girl for the money. They get mouth to carry his fight, they must now put their money where their mouth is. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by 9gerian: 8:10am On Dec 30, 2019 |
This makes sense! If this action is taken, most families would be careful disowning children even if the man denies. Searchingforbae: |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Sirseedorf(m): 8:11am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Case close, no need stopping the man from seeing his daughter, the lady family can't do nadar as long as the child too his yearning for her dad . 2 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Keemsleek005(m): 8:13am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Biafrareform: I know it's painful most esp you feel your sister been used but pls for peace to be remember your sister home, let the guy gave have access to her. Then watch as things go when the girl hears the truth story then you have your final answer. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Yankiss(m): 8:13am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Biafrareform:Easier said than done. I am the forgiving type. But I will NOT pardon this one. It doesn't make sense at all. Quickly see a lawyer and perfect the adoption papers. Take the girl to confidence. But there is every chance she would want to see the true parent. Find how you can handle this. First talk it over with the mum. It's saddening. Deeply. I wont pardon, I repeat!! 6 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Nobody: 8:13am On Dec 30, 2019 |
It is easy to judge the man and not the circumstances leading to the pregnancy. Anyway let the child know her father, most times the families won't say the real truth, no man normally would deny his kid if he is truly sure it is kid, except of course they are doubt's. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Nobody: 8:14am On Dec 30, 2019 |
9gerian:of course it does. If it was done legally her new husband would have been able it adopt the child with no hassle. Over the years men have been rejecting pregnancies only to show up from nowhere, well its only sensible that you make him put it in writing that he doesn't want anything to the do with the child. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by bhella10: 8:14am On Dec 30, 2019 |
dawnomike:Na man you be 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by OlujobaSamuel: 8:14am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Another tales by moonlight... Kontinu oooo |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by AuroraB(f): 8:15am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Don't cause that child to go through psychological trauma! This is what guys do. Knowing they'll get the child whenever they come back for him or her. You, giving the child back to him would be you encouraging this villainous attitude My uncle did it and he can't lay claim to a child that looks exactly like him. The guy is a graduate already and has nothing to do with him. How do you explain to the man who married his Mum in pregnancy, that the guy's 'father' is here for him 7 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Nobody: 8:15am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Biafrareform:Let the mother tell her daughter the truth about how her real father and family rejected her, then let her decide for herself. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Randy100: 8:16am On Dec 30, 2019 |
victorian:Look at the rubbish you just typed. I hope your father is raping you. Nonsense. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by eyinjuege: 8:17am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Custody may not apply in this case, as the child is 16 already, and can be allowed to choose who to stay with. What does the sister's husband say about this whole thing? The truth has to be told as it is to the child. She deserves to know her biological father, and also needs to know how he rejected her pregnancy, her childhood and all. No need to sugarcoat anything. She may have questions from him as to why he abandoned her and never wanted her. If she decides to forgive him, no wahala. If she also decides she doesn't want him in her life, still no wahala as she has successfully managed without him all these years ( of course thanks to her mother's family) 10 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by GloShare(m): 8:17am On Dec 30, 2019 |
theButterfly: It's not just meeting with him behind closed doors. It should be a meeting with him and his entire family members who denied the child. Let them come back and swallow their words. 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by ericadianas(f): 8:18am On Dec 30, 2019 |
I actually am a very similar case. When my dad came back I was about 17 and my mum actually told me the whole story and gave me the option to deciding what I wanted. It wasn't easy, it was a lot of emotional trauma but I had to forgive and accept my dad because honestly, life is too short to keep carrying over mistakes. I honestly feel loads better by letting all the negative energy melt away. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by babamadiba(m): 8:19am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Apination:Nice one. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by MariaAngeles: 8:19am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Biafrareform: This is a really tough situation. |
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