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Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Pro2makx(m): 5:02pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick: Guy stop being insensitive, respect other people's plight and thank God for where you are now. My elder sisters husband. Married her when he was earning 40k. And they were resident at Lagos. They would still send something to my mum no matter how small. Of course he was a graduate, a BSc. Holder but he was not upgraded at work as he got the Job with his NCE certificate. Least I forget, he works with a multi-million naira company. It was like that till this year 2019 when was finally promoted and his salary shot to a little less than 200k. Asides other benefits. Of course my dad knew his salary, yet he gave him his daughter, if he was still alive, till now I am sure he would still be proud he didn't judge him by his state at the time. Even the bible tells us to never despise the days of little beginning. Till now, there are families who leave on less than 200 or 300 naira in Nigeria. Yet they are surviving, working and hoping for a better day 7 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by toye440: 5:02pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:what a man earns should not be the factor, I think u need to consider his character first and his hustling mentality like is he the lazy type or the type that sees profit in every problem. A man can eke in millions and his home is no better than hell. Money should never be a major factor albiet can never be ignored, but sisters learn to tap into the guys dream, don't be carried away by what he's driving at the moment, be interested in what is driving the guy. 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by samuelshosanya(m): 5:03pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Some jobless ladies with Coconut head and fufu brain will be saying they cant marry a guy that earn 30k, Keep waiting ooooooo, even guys are not ready to marry any jobless lady, so better know what you are doing...... 7 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by kennyz247(m): 5:05pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
[quote author=lilwetdick post=85343502]this is just nonsense this what i hate to read, the pity and emotional game, the story that everything can end just in a day. getting rich and going broke is a process, it just not start and end in a day but how can you be earning 30k and be in marriage. i cant allow a man earning 30k to marry my sister..simple as abc[/quote Las Las,na Belle your sister go carry........you tink everything work like dat 3 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by cybriz82(m): 5:06pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick: Are they complaining?? Ow e take effect anybody ![]() |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by texazzpete(m): 5:07pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Thiwalade: You'd be a clown to marry at this point. 2 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Villain7: 5:09pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:If you are enlightened and have vision, you won't say this. Just be appreciative on your current stay whether you are highly connected or otherwise, be thankful to God and nature. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 5:10pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
dangoteinlaw:The true just be say no be everything pesin go put mouth here. I can ignore somethings I see here but there are some I see and I can not ignore if I do, my conscience go dy judge me . Bless you man. Stay strong. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
IyaTola:what is the business of a 30k earner with marriage? Instead of you to think of how you will improve on your earnings you are talking about marriage. E be like say dem use marriage curse una for this country. 3 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by joyandfaith: 5:13pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Mgbadike80: may God bless you.ladies considering marriage should be financially responsible. what if the man working in nnpc dies suddenly? |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Khalidase83(m): 5:14pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Nonsense! An average wedding cost nothing less than #500k unto manage manage, so when ur #30 k go reach that amount. If u gat to eat, cloth, transport, data etc from the #30k, Bros wetin go remain ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:God bless you Sir. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Pro2makx(m): 5:17pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick: This dude is disgusting and almost brainless. I know a Igbo Man in my church, stinkingly rich. Dude almost had a car for everyday of the week. In fact he gave out car gifts. You needed to see his house. Until 2years ago, everything came crumbling. All it took was just one wrong business investment. Of course the particular business in question was making money for a while, but of a sudden terms changed, dude began to struggle, right now he is left with nothing, his family now move around o bike, I have even sighted the guy a few occasions trekking. I still saw him on Sunday, I couldn't believe it was the stinkingly rich man I used to know. All I could do was say a prayer for him in my heart. May you never find your self in such state. It is proud people like you that will easily bail on life (commit suicide at the slightest sight of hardship. Respect people who make genuine source of income, some had to work their a.ss off, just for that 30k don't talk like they are less human. How many men like that have u help out of what you called poverty. I am sure you are some 19year old boy, you know no responsibility yet 13 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by UPANDAN: 5:18pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Mires:Are there no other places in the same PHC that self contain costs 80-100k? Must it be the one of your Landlord? All of you waiting to have millions before you get married, continue waiting oo. The issue of marriage is not what they advice someone. When the time comes, you will wake up to advice yourself even with your 30k salary trust me. All these ones saying it's not possible are probably under the roof of their parents. 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by sladimeji(m): 5:18pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
arinzos:it's your sister's choice...may be unlike you, she sees more than what is in front of her |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by LINTUNE(m): 5:19pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Let's be frank here,this is the 21st century ,how can the idea of getting married be concieved by a guy who earns 30k,common...how can such guy even pay his wife's bride price..its not a most that u earn millions but common,80k, 90k is something u can start life with,not 30!..can u allow ur daughter marry such man,let's stop the hypocrisy ok.. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by uninspired07: 5:21pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Regardless of the attitude of our women, I think a man earning 100k doesn’t have any business with marriage, let alone 30k. If any guy earning 30k comes to my family asking for my sister’s hand in marriage, it’s pepper water I will use to pursue him. Who wan die for Nigerian poverty? Guys should leave Nigerian girls alone & try to seek enjoyment & fulfillment outside women. You can enjoy your life without women in it. When you have enough money, you will realize that the urge for marriage will reduce & it’s women that will be begging you to marry them instead. A man never gets too old for marriage, it’s women that get old. It’s a man’s world after all. There’s no need to rush. 5 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Adurabledamsel(f): 5:21pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
[quote author=Expert17 post=85350496]THE TRUTH IS TINS CAN CHANGE ANY TIME.............. DONT MAKE DECISION BASE ON MONEY BUT NEVER YOU MARRY A LAZY MAN.........[things don't just change, you alone can create the change you want, not even God will change things if you don't work to change things . |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
nakaman: U are not starting anything with 20k pls 2 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by kpotu(m): 5:22pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick: |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by kiifagodofwar: 5:23pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Wow |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by ikept(m): 5:23pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:Chief you're right t to some extent. But on the issue of whether 30k can pay for rent if he saves, the answer is an emphatic yes depending on the type of apartment. He can manage a single room where he pays 3.5k per month, totaling 42k per annum. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by joepepsy(m): 5:26pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Why not lilwetdick: |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by dmahn(m): 5:26pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick: DINDINRIN NIE... YOU ARE A DIDIRIN 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by lebron7(m): 5:28pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:U no get sense oh Oya u how much u dey earn and what degree do u have 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by lexy2014: 5:29pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick: But will u allow your brother to marry a lady earning 30k? 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by danfourtson(m): 5:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
My brother in some cases, those earning 30k monthly takes care of their wife and family in general than so called rich people. I think one should first of all think of happiness in marriage that money.. 2 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by thunderbabs: 5:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Marriage sucks |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Dextre(m): 5:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Mgbadike80: Pls let's leave morals inside bush and be real. 30k is shitty money, the future might be bright o but no woman go marry dat suffer head. How do u raise a family on 30k in 2019/2020. Like that's barely a bag of rice o. Which business you wan start with 30k, see ehn na only if God pick ur call finish,dere is no way around that sufferness 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by DrTims(m): 5:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Wrong. I know a guy who just got a Lecturing job at Federal University Lokoja. No teaching experience at all. He just bagged his PhD at Ahmadu Bello University ![]() lilwetdick: 2 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by OgogoroFreak(m): 5:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
I will be very surprised if someone earning 30k can even feed himself. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Guys, can you marry a girl that earn 30K?? Answer: God forbid!!!! |
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