DonJayrome:
Sorry no offense but I find this really strange. Do you mean while getting to 30 years you have never come across this kind of guy you need? Not even in school, nysc, church, your neighborhood, friends birthday parties, work or other places you have been to?

If you haven't been able to meet such a person all this while, I don't see how NL will help dear. Better you reflect back at those guys who have been toasting you and you have been rejecting them because in reality, you can get that exact man you picture in your head but you can turn even a shoe maker to the most perfect gentleman you will have a long lasting beautiful lifetime with.

Searchingforbae:
There is something called circumstances . I have had two long term relationship that ended up wasting my time so sometimes its go you don't go assuming what you don't know about people.


As for your pessimism of me not finding the kind of man here ,i will say that is not for you to decide after all something good actually came out of nazareth ,i am looking or a husband not husbands ,so all it takes is just one man to meet the criteria which i dont think is unrealistic except you mean to tell me only ugly broke and mannerless men litter this forum

DonJayrome:


No I didn't mean it that way. I hope you find that man that suits you. Best of luck dear. Meanwhile which part of Edo state are you from?

Searchingforbae:
OK thanks, Bini

DonJayrome:


OK, dormo, wa koyo ooo

Searchingforbae:
lol

DonJayrome:


Why laughing, I hope I got it right and its not an insult... You know sometimes if I hear people speaking the language its like they are just insulting themselves lol

Searchingforbae:
dormor is for men especially elderly or someone older than you.

DonJayrome:


Ok the reason why they always say epa dormo... I get. Maybe you could teach me Bini language if you don't mind. Do I have to pay for private lessons?

Searchingforbae:
pay ke? Pm me

Searchingforbae:
fortunately for me i am not in your words "wougly".

Deflames01:
May God grant you your heart desires........that is not going to be an easy task

Searchingforbae:
I am 30 years old,
Good looking
Working class
Slim lady
From Edo state
AA genotype


Looking for a man between the ages of 31- 37
Ready to settle down
Not too black like charcoal
Financially comfortable
Not a baby daddy
Never been married.
presentable and sensible
A Christian or atheist is fine .

If you know long distance relationship is not your forte, dont pm me
If you know you are overly religious, dont pm me
If you know your people will prefer you marry a lady from your tribe, don't pm me
If you know you don't like Edo girls ,don't pm me
If you know you cannot afford to raise a family based on your current financial status,dont pm me
If you know you are still not sure of when you want to settle down, maybe you are still waiting on the gods to send you a sign, dont pm me
If you dont fall within the age range ,don't pm me

Jaubdu:
. Lol don't know how to do that, guess am dumb to tech

RonaldoVido:


What is the application deadline ?

Searchingforbae:
I am 30 years old,
Good looking
Working class
Slim lady
From Edo state
AA genotype


Looking for a man between the ages of 31- 37
Ready to settle down
Not too black like charcoal
Financially comfortable
Not a baby daddy
Never been married.
presentable and sensible
A Christian or atheist is fine .

If you know long distance relationship is not your forte, dont pm me
If you know you are overly religious, dont pm me
If you know your people will prefer you marry a lady from your tribe, don't pm me
If you know you don't like Edo girls ,don't pm me
If you know you cannot afford to raise a family based on your current financial status,dont pm me
If you know you are still not sure of when you want to settle down, maybe you are still waiting on the gods to send you a sign, dont pm me
If you dont fall within the age range ,don't pm me

Searchingforbae:
there is nothing unrealistic there na, so i still don't get why its funny or you want me to say with Deep pockets but looking like oshiomole? what if my genes are not strong enough and all my kids end up looking like their father

Searchingforbae:
I am 30 years old,
Good looking
Working class
Slim lady
From Edo state
AA genotype


Looking for a man between the ages of 31- 37
Ready to settle down
Not too black like charcoal
Financially comfortable
Not a baby daddy
Never been married.
presentable and sensible
A Christian or atheist is fine .

If you know long distance relationship is not your forte, dont pm me
If you know you are overly religious, dont pm me
If you know your people will prefer you marry a lady from your tribe, don't pm me
If you know you don't like Edo girls ,don't pm me
If you know you cannot afford to raise a family based on your current financial status,dont pm me
If you know you are still not sure of when you want to settle down, maybe you are still waiting on the gods to send you a sign, dont pm me
If you dont fall within the age range ,don't pm me

Searchingforbae:
I am 30 years old,
Good looking
Working class
Slim lady
From Edo state
AA genotype


Looking for a man between the ages of 31- 37
Ready to settle down
Not too black like charcoal
Financially comfortable
Not a baby daddy
Never been married.
presentable and sensible
A Christian or atheist is fine .

If you know long distance relationship is not your forte, dont pm me
If you know you are overly religious, dont pm me
If you know your people will prefer you marry a lady from your tribe, don't pm me
If you know you don't like Edo girls ,don't pm me
If you know you cannot afford to raise a family based on your current financial status,dont pm me
If you know you are still not sure of when you want to settle down, maybe you are still waiting on the gods to send you a sign, dont pm me
If you dont fall within the age range ,don't pm me

Searchingforbae:
I am 30 years old,
Good looking
Working class
Slim lady
From Edo state
AA genotype


Looking for a man between the ages of 31- 37
Ready to settle down
Not too black like charcoal
Financially comfortable
Not a baby daddy
Never been married.
presentable and sensible
A Christian or atheist is fine .

If you know long distance relationship is not your forte, dont pm me
If you know you are overly religious, dont pm me
If you know your people will prefer you marry a lady from your tribe, don't pm me
If you know you don't like Edo girls ,don't pm me
If you know you cannot afford to raise a family based on your current financial status,dont pm me
If you know you are still not sure of when you want to settle down, maybe you are still waiting on the gods to send you a sign, dont pm me
If you dont fall within the age range ,don't pm me

funmisticqueen:
Don't mind them,they want you to settle for broke riff raff.

Michelle55:
God will bless you with your heart desire but be careful with NL Bleep boys my sister.. They are not smiling

Tonymegabush1:
Why bash the young lady , her preference ain't bad either just the way she wants it so let her be, besides her quest is not for everybody if you got nothing in it just move on..



NB. All the best op, you voicing out shows you really know what you want..

Michellekabod2:
The hate spewed on this romance section towards opposite gender is becoming alarming. Misogynists and misandrists are using this platform to spew bitterness. What's all the shaming for?how hurt can one be to start shaming people based on their gender? The forum was filled with women haters now it seems the men haters are increasing in numbers too....
Everyday I wakeup to women are gold diggers or men are scum posts.
No one can seek get reasonable advice on this forum because all advice given will be based on ones own gender

If you are too bitter towards a male/female kindly avoid dating instead of spoiling the minds of others concerning a gender.

There are good women and men everywhere