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Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Kabir5643(m): 8:10pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
With the way the world is evolving. I think flogging should go on My opinion 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by tolu4you: 8:11pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Yes |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by jaxxy(m): 8:12pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Good communication has to come 1st, flogging only comes as a necessary last measure for correction. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by OttHin: 8:13pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
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Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Theomarvelus(m): 8:14pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
what the holy book says about flogging a child; Prov 22:15: “Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child ; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.” Prov 23:13-14: “Withhold not correction from the child : for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell (i.e. death). 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by safarigirl(f): 8:14pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
I've learnt that there is really no hard and fast rule with children I recommend finding the perfect disciplinary method depending on the child. Some kids are receptive to scolding and some others require flogging. Find the disciplinary method perfect for the child, notice what works best for each child, just because they are all kids does not mean the same thing will work across board So, yeah, depending on the kid, caning could work with some, others just a few words and for a select few, a combination of both. It's like people who prefer injection to pills and vice versa 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by don4real: 8:15pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
You are right but sometimes the rod is also use to hit the sheep if going towards the wrong direction socialmediaman: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by ClassicMG(m): 8:15pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Don't ever beat a child no matter what, I nearly lost my self esteem due to my parent floging 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Hantonia(f): 8:16pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Flogging is not the way out to discipline children it would rather make them hardened that no matter what it cane, preferably punishment or talking to a child is d best 1 Like |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by AngelicBeing: 8:16pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Niaja4real:Gbam ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by RuddyFusion(m): 8:16pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
I don't I communicate and build relationship with my little one and it works better than flogging 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Trutherme: 8:17pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
I would have amounted to nothing without the flogging I got from my mum and grandmother The fear of waking me up at 2 am in the morning and giving me a dose of it was the beginning of wisdom for me. Ironically, I grew up to love and admire both of them for making me who I am today. 11 Likes |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by bigstan11787(m): 8:17pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Just bear it in mind that the least form of torture is the physical one.. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by wristbangle: 8:17pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
A Yoruba adage says "Aya omode ni were di si, Egba lo ma yo kuro" It translates that "To train up a child, cane will teach them lesson". Other alternatives of discipline can be starving or tell the child to weed 1 hectare of land, wash very dirty toilet or do 1,000 frog jump. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Odunolumide(m): 8:18pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
There is this girl in my class that I don't beat because once I threaten to beat her she behaves well. In other case ,most of the pupils are very naughty and they dare you by their actions . I am thinking of making a deal with my pupils next term that I won't beat them in exchange for something else but I hope it works. I also plan on using a no-cane sign in my class. |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by spyg1(m): 8:18pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Take it or leave it. African children are like cows, the only language they understand is cane. Pls, spare me "in developed countries they..." |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Beautyaddy: 8:18pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Flogging are for Animals. Any human being who supports his/her child to be flogged is also an Animal. There should be more sane and constructive ways to discipline a child and flogging is not one of them. |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by DexterousOne(m): 8:19pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
vickydankal: More like it Moderation is key 1 Like |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by tchidi066(f): 8:20pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
I don't believe in flogging... There is something called positive and negative reinforcement 1 Like |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by DexterousOne(m): 8:20pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
spyg1: You have a point 1 Like |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Abcdefghij10000(f): 8:22pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Kizzygentle:Honey I am rich and I still flog my kid when he does something naughty, I don't just go copy the whites because I stay among them. You telling me a boy of 10 years get scared of words. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by destinychildolu(m): 8:22pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
eduman365: And they are the Same children that grow to make new discoveries and innovations. With our so called discipline, our children grow up to become fantastically corrupt. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by enemyofprogress: 8:23pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
All i know be sey Jesus flog some people comot for temple to reset their brains 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Nwaonyishi69: 8:24pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
All these are aimed at modifying or shaping the child to be a good child. There is a need for variation of the approaches adopted. So, in some extreme cases, flogging or even using physical beating may be suitable. As is held from the old, if you spare the Cane you will spoil the child. Everything possible should be done to make out the best form of humans from your wards. |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Beautyaddy: 8:25pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Abcdefghij10000: destinychildolu: Thank you! |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Theomarvelus:According to a report by CNN last 2 yrs, isreal is among the countries that banned spanking children. Guess u know the Tora more than them ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Simplyleo: 8:25pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
[s] Abcdefghij10000:[/s] If you like, be staying on planet Mars and be using cutlasses on your kid, that is you and your business. You are not me and I'm not you. I repeat, I don't accept flogging of my child as punishment, educators should seek for an acceptable alternative. If this sounds contradictory to you, then you need to enroll for English classes. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Savagethe21st(m): 8:25pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
My mother flogged me like a beast so I'll just hide frm her the next time...But honest conversations are more effective. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W90ebtj21t4 Hello guys i'm a producer in my teens from lagos NIGERIA chasing my dreams.It would be a huge blessing if someone checked out my beats and subscribe to channel. Comment what you think or corrections.Thanks and Godbless. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by Beautyaddy: 8:26pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
enemyofprogress: Yes, because they were behaving like Animals. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by abbey621(m): 8:26pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Flogging is very effective but it must not be the default or the main form of discipline. Rewarding good behavior with treats/gifts and correcting bad ones with removal of privileges is far more effective. 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by MoIbrahim: 8:27pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
No way! |
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