Varlfott:
Before you ladies respond to this, I'll like to say that most of you are simply cowards. Why waste time making subtle gestures towards a guy you like in hopes that he will read your gestures as greenlights when you can simply just walk up to him and tell him you like him? A lot of us would appreciate you more if you did this. Most guys can't even interpret your green lights and most of you in attempt to show these green lights end up giving mixed signals.

What's the point of giving green lights even? You fear rejection but yet you expect men to overcome their own fear of rejection and approach you?

Why would you have a crush on a guy but expect him to be the one to text or call you first? Why don't you be the first to text or call?

So in leiu or all this, please tell us guys how you indicate that you are attracted to is and explain how you expect us to proceed. How do you show your greenlights? What are those subtle behaviors we guys should look out for?

vickydankal:


I thought as much. You won't believe after we came together, he said he thought I was just be nice. Can you imagine after all my efforts.

Quality20:
I'm a man not a lady sha, but I'm still gonna share an experience I had at lectures long long time a go. A lady sitting next to me at d lectures started scratching her head so intensely and at a point I felt like maybe she was trying to get my attention but I still didn't do anything sha, even a lady opposite us just kind of looked at both of us sharply as if we both involved in d drama. Was dat a green light or was she genuinely disturbed? Who knows?

Ariza:
I don't give greenlight, attraction most times is mutual.When it's not, I kill it and that has happened only once. Guess I've been lucky.

Kenneygirl:
Wow same here

vickydankal:


Before him I did, but later found out he was not born again. Then I off the gen supplying the light lol.

Ariza:
I don't give greenlight, attraction most times is mutual.When it's not, I kill it and that has happened only once. Guess I've been lucky.

Kenneygirl:
Wow same here

Jodha:


I'm not married...but I sure will be married by then...

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies don't ever try it you'll be consider cheap and they would use you to count score.......Nigerian men don't understand the EASY they value it when they hustle to get you.....

biddostandard:
some naija babe will give you greenlight and still be acting funny

niaralandtopuser:
you know some of us can wait patiently just for the sex? a guy who want to will value you even if he gets you easily. too much yanga will even make me want to just get the hole and move

Thegeneralqueen:
Nah it depends on the kind of hole when you jam hole wey dey juicy and knock you off you go sell your papa house go pay her bride price

Abcdefghij10000:

Lieu
I push him to the wall and kiss him, that does the trick most times

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies don't ever try it you'll be consider cheap and they would use you to count score.......Nigerian men don't understand the word EASY they value it when they hustle to get you.....

MrBrownJay1:
- some people are shy
- some people are not outgoing
- some people are old-fashioned
- some people dont believe n making the 1st move
- some people dont believe in women approaching men

... and thats ok, to each their own.

biddostandard:
some naija babe will give you greenlight and still be acting funny

superfitsez:


Jw right,,,

niaralandtopuser:
i started seeing hole since a very early age. I will only pay bride price to avoid loneliness later in life not because of love of any hole

Jodha:
My attention is hard to get.....
If I give him enough attention and he still doesn't get...

I move....No time ..

Thegeneralqueen:
Lie lie lie

niaralandtopuser:
dea there na. I am still waiting for that special hole that will take away all my worries in life

donbachi:
Most guys are dat blind....they wont even notice d greenlight.

Thegeneralqueen:
k pray it comes your way

niaralandtopuser:
will never come. the brain always go back to normal factory settings after that white thick stuff comes out. I will be like, so na this thing I dea die for since?

Thegeneralqueen:
Not all thin are the same