| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Jabioro: 7:58pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Iniate your route and close your eyes to any other lane..I have nothing to advise you about her after all she is not wood..eerh bleep her. So tan abi oku.. |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by fairygeh(f): 8:42pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
OP,you are one very confused homosapien.Truth is you want to sleep with the girl ,imagine what you are saying,you once had the opportunity to sleep in the same room,yet you did romance her,if you really see her as a sister,you would not have created that kind of opportunity to be alone with her.
I know sooner or later,you will have sex with the girl because what you feel is jealousy that she slept with another guy.
I always tell married men who claim to have a close relationship (not sexual) with single ladies,it cannot work,I repeat,it cannot work,it is pure deceit.if you really love your family as you claim,stay away from her now before it's too late.
,......That is if you will listen |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Jokerman(m): 9:35pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Wetin concern you with another girl life... Werey  |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by stanisbaratheon: 9:48pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
What are you doing with a 19 year old for God sake?? A married man.
If your wife don't already know about you and her you have cheated on her already. So forget all these holier than thou wey you dey form. |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Taywon: 10:01pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
The devil is closer to u than u think.....
Can a man put fire in his bossom and not be burn....
Bekiaful..... |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by AfroKnight: 11:40pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
E say no abusive language please  Guy, you know you deserve insult because you put hot coals on your lap, it burned you but you’re still hoping it won’t burn you too much. Shebi you’ve had slight romance with her? Why not go the whole 9 yards? Complete your mission and touch down and let us hear word. Nonsense. All these fake mentors forming innocent big brother with sexually lose and active girls. Like farmer feeding the big turkey he will eat at Christmas. I wonder if your wife knows that you have been giving this girl money. You can fool us but you cannot foôl yourself. If you love your wife, you will remove this unnecessary temptation from your life, straight! 1 Like |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Stanweezy(m): 11:49pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
What did I just read now, Oga what kind of advice do u want? better free that babe and concentrate on ur wife |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by lovat(m): 12:09am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Romanoff:
Uncle, you are a useless man.
Is your wife not capable of being your best friend?
Look at the young girl you're creating post for.
Leave that girl yo enjoy her ho phase, focus on your marriage Mr mentor, mentor yourself first.
Awon oniranu lo kun forum yi sha. Don't you need to insult him before posting your reaction? Plz grow up |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Coded2(m): 12:13am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Merrymen1:
Dear All,
I have been a member of NL for sometime now, though I have to create this new account for this purpose.
Am happily married with 3 kids (2boys ,1 girl) for 9 years now, equally work as an Engineer in one of the Oil and Gas companies.
I met this Young lady, 2 months ago (Oct 2019), she is 19 yrs (except she tells you, you will doubt it with the last drop of your blood that she is 19 because she looks bigger than her age), though she works with one of our contractors as a causal staff in same company. We started getting along .I was Frank to open up to her that I am married because I don't want issues on the long run in my marriage, she said no issues. Actually ,reason for knowing her, was not for anything trust me, I just wanted someone I would always chat with it or something. I love my wife / kids so dearly that I wouldn't wish anything to cause issues in my home. I have been faithful to my wife ever since we got married.
To fast forward. So at a point, the girl stated telling me that she is having issues with her BF, she sent me screenshot of argument she had with him , how the guy insulted her, calling her names, that she always cheat on him. So I called her and she explained , of a truth, she cheated on him because he wasn't taking care of her. She said the guy stays in other State, while she is in other state. Feeling remorse, she did everything to see the guy each time he comes to town, but he wouldn't want to see her.So I advised her to pls make up with him, it could be he doesn't have the money or something. For the fact he doesn't take care of you, does not mean you should sleep around. I told her the implication of premarital sex, that God frowns at it, and that if she needs anything , she should talk to me than sleeping around, she accepted, and promised not to do it again, and ever since then, I have been there for her financially, but haven't slept with her. I told her she's more of a sister to me than a friend, I do want I do not because of sex but to see her grow as responsible girl with Bright future because she just got admission into higher institution. We've had the opportunity of being all alone in a room, I didn't sleep with her, even though we had a slight romance, I was so conscious. I always tell her I wish to see her grow as a responsible girl with Bright future.
My pains, recently , something happened, I was questioning her, her told me she slept with a guy just last month, I was pissed off, I told her is this how you wish to appreciate what I've been doing for you? you promised me provided I will be there for you financially, you won't sleep around again. Am not pained that I didn't sleep with her, never, afterall, it's not my intention to have it with her , mind you , I love my wife,;rather am pained that she seems not to listen to all I have been telling her about living a good life, sticking to her Bf if at all and quitting such life style.
Though she appologized for her actions, but then I am yet to respond to her. Though she is getting on with her Bf.
Please I need your candid advice on what to do. No abusive language pls. bros it takes grace to stand in for a lady of that age meanwhile u try to even dey together with her without sex I will urge u to keep on advising her with time she will learn meanwhile I need help ooo 3025665067 first bank for my hospital bill |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by TeafahScents(f): 12:28am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Merrymen1:
Dear All,
I have been a member of NL for sometime now, though I have to create this new account for this purpose.
Am happily married with 3 kids (2boys ,1 girl) for 9 years now, equally work as an Engineer in one of the Oil and Gas companies.
I met this Young lady, 2 months ago (Oct 2019), she is 19 yrs (except she tells you, you will doubt it with the last drop of your blood that she is 19 because she looks bigger than her age), though she works with one of our contractors as a causal staff in same company. We started getting along .I was Frank to open up to her that I am married because I don't want issues on the long run in my marriage, she said no issues. Actually ,reason for knowing her, was not for anything trust me, I just wanted someone I would always chat with it or something. I love my wife / kids so dearly that I wouldn't wish anything to cause issues in my home. I have been faithful to my wife ever since we got married.
To fast forward. So at a point, the girl stated telling me that she is having issues with her BF, she sent me screenshot of argument she had with him , how the guy insulted her, calling her names, that she always cheat on him. So I called her and she explained , of a truth, she cheated on him because he wasn't taking care of her. She said the guy stays in other State, while she is in other state. Feeling remorse, she did everything to see the guy each time he comes to town, but he wouldn't want to see her.So I advised her to pls make up with him, it could be he doesn't have the money or something. For the fact he doesn't take care of you, does not mean you should sleep around. I told her the implication of premarital sex, that God frowns at it, and that if she needs anything , she should talk to me than sleeping around, she accepted, and promised not to do it again, and ever since then, I have been there for her financially, but haven't slept with her. I told her she's more of a sister to me than a friend, I do want I do not because of sex but to see her grow as responsible girl with Bright future because she just got admission into higher institution. We've had the opportunity of being all alone in a room, I didn't sleep with her, even though we had a slight romance, I was so conscious. I always tell her I wish to see her grow as a responsible girl with Bright future.
My pains, recently , something happened, I was questioning her, her told me she slept with a guy just last month, I was pissed off, I told her is this how you wish to appreciate what I've been doing for you? you promised me provided I will be there for you financially, you won't sleep around again. Am not pained that I didn't sleep with her, never, afterall, it's not my intention to have it with her , mind you , I love my wife,;rather am pained that she seems not to listen to all I have been telling her about living a good life, sticking to her Bf if at all and quitting such life style.
Though she appolized for her actions, but then I am yet to respond to her. Though she is getting on with her Bf.
Please I need your candid advice on what to do. No abusive language pls. Eskis sir just buy nice fragrance perfume oil from @teafah_scents for your wife and create an unforgettable bond with your wife, leave that hoeloshi alone and focus on your marriage, don’t mentor her again biko save your marriage |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Chy116: 2:07am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Merrymen1:
Dear All,
I have been a member of NL for sometime now, though I have to create this new account for this purpose.
Am happily married with 3 kids (2boys ,1 girl) for 9 years now, equally work as an Engineer in one of the Oil and Gas companies.
I met this Young lady, 2 months ago (Oct 2019), she is 19 yrs (except she tells you, you will doubt it with the last drop of your blood that she is 19 because she looks bigger than her age), though she works with one of our contractors as a causal staff in same company. We started getting along .I was Frank to open up to her that I am married because I don't want issues on the long run in my marriage, she said no issues. Actually ,reason for knowing her, was not for anything trust me, I just wanted someone I would always chat with it or something. I love my wife / kids so dearly that I wouldn't wish anything to cause issues in my home. I have been faithful to my wife ever since we got married.
To fast forward. So at a point, the girl stated telling me that she is having issues with her BF, she sent me screenshot of argument she had with him , how the guy insulted her, calling her names, that she always cheat on him. So I called her and she explained , of a truth, she cheated on him because he wasn't taking care of her. She said the guy stays in other State, while she is in other state. Feeling remorse, she did everything to see the guy each time he comes to town, but he wouldn't want to see her.So I advised her to pls make up with him, it could be he doesn't have the money or something. For the fact he doesn't take care of you, does not mean you should sleep around. I told her the implication of premarital sex, that God frowns at it, and that if she needs anything , she should talk to me than sleeping around, she accepted, and promised not to do it again, and ever since then, I have been there for her financially, but haven't slept with her. I told her she's more of a sister to me than a friend, I do want I do not because of sex but to see her grow as responsible girl with Bright future because she just got admission into higher institution. We've had the opportunity of being all alone in a room, I didn't sleep with her, even though we had a slight romance, I was so conscious. I always tell her I wish to see her grow as a responsible girl with Bright future.
My pains, recently , something happened, I was questioning her, her told me she slept with a guy just last month, I was pissed off, I told her is this how you wish to appreciate what I've been doing for you? you promised me provided I will be there for you financially, you won't sleep around again. Am not pained that I didn't sleep with her, never, afterall, it's not my intention to have it with her , mind you , I love my wife,;rather am pained that she seems not to listen to all I have been telling her about living a good life, sticking to her Bf if at all and quitting such life style.
Though she appolized for her actions, but then I am yet to respond to her. Though she is getting on with her Bf.
Please I need your candid advice on what to do. No abusive language pls. Guy be sincere to urself then turn the table around....if ur lovely wife do same with. 19yr old boy , including the slight romance, will u like it? |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by YungMillionaire: 2:13am On Dec 31, 2019 |
First of all, why did you give such details about yourself on this post? If your wife is on NL would she not code that it is you since you wrote:
" Am happily married with 3 kids (2boys ,1 girl) for 9 years now, equally work as an Engineer in one of the Oil and Gas companies. "
You have the gender of your kids and how many they are; the length of your marriage; your occupation; and the industry you work in.
If you wife is on NL and she is smart, she would know it is YOU!
Secondly, you are engaging in a secret emotionally/quasi-romantic relationship with a teenage gal. You do all this behind your wife's back. You tried to justify it by convincing yourself that you are just acting like a big brother/spiritual (and career) mentor to the gal. However, I am willing to bet a large sum that you are sexually attracted to her. In fact, you said as much in your opening remarks when you said her body did not look like that of a teenager.
Thirdly, you seem to assume that because you are older than this gal somehow you would know if she is manipulating you or not. You are already giving her money (money that should be meant for your wife and kids). How are you sure that she did not manipulate you to be her maga? Bigger men than you have been manipulated by younger women. Think about it.
Finally, I have said it severally. Monogamous marriage is NOT for everybody. In fact monogamous marriage is not for MOST people. MOST men are not monogamous by nature. Unfortunately, they convinced themselves otherwise get married going against their true nature and leaving a wake of bitterness/broken promises behind. Monogamy is not superior to polygamy. Polygamy is not superior to monogamy. They are both different ways of existing in this life. However, if you promised you wife before your God that you would only be with her till death and you go against that promise then realize that there could be consequences that could cause you pain if you are not prepared. I am not talking about religious consequences (as I am not so inclined to believe such things) however your wife might not take your violation of your vows lying down. It could destroy your relationship with your kids.
Now here is my advice. It is very clear to me that you are not a monogamous guy. You have two options:
1. Confess to your wife and let her know that nothing sexual happened between you and the teenager. Then look for ways of distracting yourself from your polygamous desires.
2. Follow your polygamous desires but make sure your divorce your wife first. This way you do not sleep around behind her back while pretending to be monogamous with her.
It doesn't really matter which option you choose. Neither one is morally superior to the other. However, each of these options have pros and cons. Each one has its own consequence. Choose the one whose consequences you are prepared to live with.
Goodluck to you. |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by fcdgrand(m): 2:41am On Dec 31, 2019 |
you wan chop your own?, if yes, do am fast! if no, forget her with her private life |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by farady(m): 3:10am On Dec 31, 2019 |
@OP, the devil will just be laughing at you after reading your post  . Bros!!! You are playing with faya! You already have a problem of lust and already cheated on your wife you claim you love. See to help yaself, just tell ya wife like a matter of concern to you because you don't want to fall, then pray together. Thereafter, keep FAR from that girl and love your wife intensely like you're dating her all over, call her more often when at work, have her picture in your office, use her pix as screen saver on your system (if permissable at your work place) and lastly stop giving that girl any form of financial assistance. God help you and stay focus. Always know why you are at work (if don't, try to know) |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by pennywys(m): 6:41am On Dec 31, 2019 |
SimDan95:
what actual advice for u need from us?? cos I seriously can't understand the motive behind ur actions. U don't want to sleep with her but u take care of her financially ( Mr financial helper), the girl got Hot and since u ain't gonna give her the d*ck she sought help outside, Now u are angry.
So u actually thought u could contain and curtail her sexual drive just because u her her financial messiah?? Grow up man and handle that coochie you've been dodging in the guise of being responsible
I don't know the breed of weak men we encounter these days, pls pass her over here if u can't handle a wild cougar like her I'll be glad to tame her. |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by COURVOISier(m): 6:50am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Goat and yam no dey do friend ooo. Oga, if you love your wife as you claim try and forget that girl, I know it is tempting to taste another coochie |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Merrymen1(m): 7:05am On Dec 31, 2019 |
farady:
@OP, the devil will just be laughing at you after reading your post . Bros!!! You are playing with faya! You already have a problem of lust and already cheated on your wife you claim you love. See to help yaself, just tell ya wife like a matter of concern to you because you don't want to fall, then pray together.
Thereafter, keep FAR from that girl and love your wife intensely like you're dating her all over, call her more often when at work, have her picture in your office, use her pix as screen saver on your system (if permissable at your work place) and lastly stop giving that girl any form of financial assistance. God help you and stay focus. Always know why you are at work (if don't, try to know) Thanks alot. Are you suggesting I inform my wife about this? wouldn't it cause more harm than good? Though I have decided to let her go, blocking her on Whatapp, not wanting to see her update status or chat at all. Even though I have not told her officially. |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Merrymen1(m): 7:08am On Dec 31, 2019 |
farady:
@OP, the devil will just be laughing at you after reading your post . Bros!!! You are playing with faya! You already have a problem of lust and already cheated on your wife you claim you love. See to help yaself, just tell ya wife like a matter of concern to you because you don't want to fall, then pray together.
Thereafter, keep FAR from that girl and love your wife intensely like you're dating her all over, call her more often when at work, have her picture in your office, use her pix as screen saver on your system (if permissable at your work place) and lastly stop giving that girl any form of financial assistance. God help you and stay focus. Always know why you are at work (if don't, try to know) Thanks. |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Merrymen1(m): 7:16am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Chy116:
Guy be sincere to urself then turn the table around....if ur lovely wife do same with. 19yr old boy , including the slight romance, will u like it?
Thanks alot. She is not adent member of NL, not enternet freak. I appreciate all you've said. I will desist. But then , l think it will cause more harm than good if I should let her know about this .My wife so much trust me to a fault, pls I wouldn't want anything to geopardize that. |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by samtol4(m): 7:17am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Is your wife aware all the money and gifts you gave her ? Did she approve it ? If your wife begin to dash guys money will you be happy?be careful you are married ,there should be boundary . If care is not taken you will sleep with her . 1 Like |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Nobody: 8:04am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Merryman1,please,which oil company is that?
I'm currently looking for IT placement
Thank you |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Triniti(m): 8:55am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Come on dude, you have already slept with her in your mind. You don’t need anybody’s validation to do it physically, don’t blame the devil when the troubles come |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by frozen70(f): 9:05am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Merrymen1:
Dear All,
I have been a member of NL for sometime now, though I have to create this new account for this purpose.
Am happily married with 3 kids (2boys ,1 girl) for 9 years now, equally work as an Engineer in one of the Oil and Gas companies.
I met this Young lady, 2 months ago (Oct 2019), she is 19 yrs (except she tells you, you will doubt it with the last drop of your blood that she is 19 because she looks bigger than her age), though she works with one of our contractors as a causal staff in same company. We started getting along .I was Frank to open up to her that I am married because I don't want issues on the long run in my marriage, she said no issues. Actually ,reason for knowing her, was not for anything trust me, I just wanted someone I would always chat with it or something. I love my wife / kids so dearly that I wouldn't wish anything to cause issues in my home. I have been faithful to my wife ever since we got married.
To fast forward. So at a point, the girl stated telling me that she is having issues with her BF, she sent me screenshot of argument she had with him , how the guy insulted her, calling her names, that she always cheat on him. So I called her and she explained , of a truth, she cheated on him because he wasn't taking care of her. She said the guy stays in other State, while she is in other state. Feeling remorse, she did everything to see the guy each time he comes to town, but he wouldn't want to see her.So I advised her to pls make up with him, it could be he doesn't have the money or something. For the fact he doesn't take care of you, does not mean you should sleep around. I told her the implication of premarital sex, that God frowns at it, and that if she needs anything , she should talk to me than sleeping around, she accepted, and promised not to do it again, and ever since then, I have been there for her financially, but haven't slept with her. I told her she's more of a sister to me than a friend, I do want I do not because of sex but to see her grow as responsible girl with Bright future because she just got admission into higher institution. We've had the opportunity of being all alone in a room, I didn't sleep with her, even though we had a slight romance, I was so conscious. I always tell her I wish to see her grow as a responsible girl with Bright future.
My pains, recently , something happened, I was questioning her, her told me she slept with a guy just last month, I was pissed off, I told her is this how you wish to appreciate what I've been doing for you? you promised me provided I will be there for you financially, you won't sleep around again. Am not pained that I didn't sleep with her, never, afterall, it's not my intention to have it with her , mind you , I love my wife,;rather am pained that she seems not to listen to all I have been telling her about living a good life, sticking to her Bf if at all and quitting such life style.
Though she appolized for her actions, but then I am yet to respond to her. Though she is getting on with her Bf.
Please I need your candid advice on what to do. No abusive language pls. There is the tendency that, she will Bleep you if you don't take time She is in her prime and her hormones are pushing her up and down Don't blame her if she tells you that a guy had sex with her Her body is seriously demanding for it because she has abused sex and all she wants is a man By this new year, you can decide to start with drawing gradually, if she makes demands, use your children school fees as excuses You have a good intention for her but she has her own interest too |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by michlins(m): 9:14am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Sir please,if you're in the mood of helping people achieve their life dreams, I am here. Help me achieve mine and I won't bug you with sex requirements |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Merrymen1(m): 9:40am On Dec 31, 2019 |
fairygeh:
OP,you are one very confused homosapien.Truth is you want to sleep with the girl ,imagine what you are saying,you once had the opportunity to sleep in the same room,yet you did romance her,if you really see her as a sister,you would not have created that kind of opportunity to be alone with her.
I know sooner or later,you will have sex with the girl because what you feel is jealousy that she slept with another guy.
I always tell married men who claim to have a close relationship (not sexual) with single ladies,it cannot work,I repeat,it cannot work,it is pure deceit.if you really love your family as you claim,stay away from her now before it's too late.
,......That is if you will listen
I have listened o |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Merrymen1(m): 9:55am On Dec 31, 2019 |
frozen70:
There is the tendency that, she will Bleep you if you don't take time
She is in her prime and her hormones are pushing her up and down
Don't blame her if she tells you that a guy had sex with her
Her body is seriously demanding for it because she has abused sex and all she wants is a man
By this new year, you can decide to start with drawing gradually, if she makes demands, use your children school fees as excuses
You have a good intention for her but she has her own interest too Thanks so very much, you are one person who really seems to understand my position here. I will heed to your kind advice, I have already blocked her on WhatsApp, not wanting to be seeing her update status, and chat , though I hv not told her officially of my intention to call it quite , cos I don't even want to speak with her in the first let alone to chat her up any more. Pls is my approach okay  |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by czarina(f): 10:01am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Merrymen1:
Thanks so very much, you are one person who really seems to understand my position here. I will heed to your kind advice, I have already blocked her on WhatsApp, not wanting to be seeing her update status, and chat , though I hv not told her officially of my intention to call it quite , cos I don't even want to speak with her in the first let alone to chat her up any more. Pls is my approach okay Hahaha Somehow the blame was pushed the girl and now you're happy? "She will bleep you" indeed! Like she's going to tie you up and rape you. Be looking for someone to gloss over your very obvious wrongdoing. Don't own up to your mistakes to make lasting changes. Keep searching for a pity party, you got one in the comment you quoted, hopefully more will come. |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by frozen70(f): 10:39am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Merrymen1:
Thanks so very much, you are one person who really seems to understand my position here. I will heed to your kind advice, I have already blocked her on WhatsApp, not wanting to be seeing her update status, and chat , though I hv not told her officially of my intention to call it quite , cos I don't even want to speak with her in the first let alone to chat her up any more. Pls is my approach okay Yes your approach is normal You don't need to tell her anything, really men don't talk but action If you should tell her she will cry out her life and she will get you back because you are soft on her All you are doing is to help her but the help you are giving her is making her loose You have to protect your family because if your wife should suspect you despite your faithfulness There is nothing you will tell you wife that she will believe And trust is like a sticker once removed can't stick properly again Just block all blockables if she finds out and ask you tell her thus is a new year you want to concentrate on your family That doesn't mean you guys can't exchange greetings |
| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:41am On Dec 31, 2019 |
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| Re: Please I Need A Candid Advice On How To Go About A Lady I Met At My Place O Work by Merrymen1(m): 10:48am On Dec 31, 2019 |
frozen70:
Yes your approach is normal
You don't need to tell her anything, really men don't talk but action
If you should tell her she will cry out her life and she will get you back because you are soft on her
All you are doing is to help her but the help you are giving her is making her loose
You have to protect your family because if your wife should suspect you despite your faithfulness
There is nothing you will tell you wife that she will believe
And trust is like a sticker once removed can't stick properly again
Just block all blockables if she finds out and ask you tell her thus is a new year you want to concentrate on your family
That doesn't mean you guys can't exchange greetings Many thanks, I do appreciate. |
